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wat types of things that guys do are concidered cute or sweet by girls? (link)
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haha.. you MUST be a boy :-) anyway.. Flowers are always nice, unless they're alergic or not really that romantic, I do know girls who don't like flowers. Just being urself is also most usually a verrry sweet thing to do, but if ur a jerk, don't do it :-D hehe sorry about that.. Ahem.. You can bring a girl out to dinner, dress nice, "whisper sweet nothings in her ear" :-) always nice.. There are LOTS of things u can do. But don't make a list because that's a bit overkill ^_^ I'm sorry for messing with u, but please take my advice and tell me wat happens!
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*Mayya
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theres this kid i really like and he likes me too so he asked me out last night and i said yes. then today hes like i like yoo more as a friend so want to be just that so im like sure , but i dont know how to act towards him now, do i be friendly or ignore him, i dont know what to do. (link)
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If u really want to still be friends with this seems to be a jerk.. Just act as u did b4 he asked u out, just simply be his friend. Otherwise, tell him that wat he did hurt u and it wasn't fair and try to work things out. Wat won't help ur situation is ignoring him, cuz it will be on ur concience forever.
Tell me how things go!
*Mayya
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I have dark hair around my bellybutton and when I wear a two piece swimsuit, you can sorta see it, and it bothers me! I don't want to shave it! I dunno why I have hair THERE... any advice would be greatly appreciated! (link)
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I do too, but I'm not ashamed of it. But if u really want to get rid of it, you can use a wax. but that can HURT! so be careful! O, and DON'T shave it, I guarantee it will get worse.
*Mayya
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hey i had already told my friend that i like him and he had liked me but he lost interest in me becuase i am insecure and he said theres a 50 50 chance of him liking me in the future i really like him and i want him to really like me agian and i was wondering what i can do for him to like me again i have been secure lately and i feel theres some other reason why he dont like me but he aint telling me it (link)
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Now I believe this fully that he is NOT worth ur time. U may think he is, but it's very childish and player--ish to say a 50/50 chance! What bull! However, if u REALLY think he is worth the hardship of changing, or working harder to catch his eye.. By all means, do go ahead and just show him ur true self all over again! Maybe he'll have decency and start to like u again, but I beg u NOT to let him hurt u.. I hope he doesn't again!
*Mayya
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Has anyone in here ever tried smoking pot and their not a complete pt head? I want to try it cause it looks and sounds fun.. but I don't want to become a pot-head. I just want to know what its like ur first time.
I want to be able to smoke with my boyfriend.. and not like caugh and stuff.. but not like have to rely on pot to have fun.
Can anyone tell me what its like to try it for the first time?? (link)
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Pot is a very dangerous and addicting substance, and ur boyfriend is hurting himself by smoking or doing drugs, as would u if u are or are thinking of starting. My advice is short and quick: you don't want to know, because u will most likely get used to it.
*Mayya
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hey yall i met this guy and i really like him but i don't think he like me.
i think the reason is that i am kinda chubby. but i really like him and he is sweet and we have a lot of things in common.please tell me what to do. (link)
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Show him JUST how great you r.. If the reason is b/c u're a bit chubby, he will get over it once he sees how sweet, nice, and smart you really are! The guys that are shallow aren't really as good as u think they are, remember that, and live by it ^_^ But DON'T change for him. U could hurt urself that way.=, both physically, and emotionally.
Tell me wat happens
*Mayya
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ok, im a 17 yr old female, and i have been "seeing" this guy. not really dating, because he doesnt think he's "boyfriend material" i dont understand this, but i know he cares about me the same way i care about him.
i wrote him a 3 page long letter telling him how i felt. he told me he liked it and he reads it often.
we hang out alot (many times for 10 or more hours or untill like 1 am!) and every time, we hold hands and cuddle and hold each other close the whole time, even around our parents. my family loves him and his family thinks i am just the sweetest thing to walk the planet.
but...alwayz a but...he and i have dated before. and he ask me out both times. so now i think it is my turn to ask him out, to show him how much i care. but, i dont want to scare him off.
so i ask you guyz, does a girl askign a guy out kind of freak him out, or do they like it? and i also would like to know if anyone has any ideas what he meant by "i dont think i'm boyfriend material". please help me out! (link)
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That's so pretty.. I'm sorry, I had a moment.. yeah, my avice to u is to definitly ask him! Prior to the year 2000, it was considered rude to ask a guy out, now is understandable and very popular! Besides, yes, most boyd do like it if u don't ask them out of no where, that may scare them.. They're shy creatures ;-) haha
O, and about the "I'm not boyfriend material" thing, he thinks u are too good for him, or he might hurt you cuz he's not COMPLETELY sure of how he feels, maybe things could go wrong? But I assure u they won't. So here's my insight for the day: Don't push things, let love thrive, and it will stand strong if you were meant to be.
Tell how things go! :-)
*Mayya
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hey i like my 2nd best friend hes also my best friends ex b/f should i like him or should i froget about him she says its ok but is she really ok with it (link)
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WOW! that's weird.. that same situation happened with me and one of my good friends.. but ur story was her's... Bad thing was.. She asked me and I lied.. even though she should have noticed that I still liked him.. grr.. anyway.. first of all.. it's an unwritten rule NOT to go out with ur friend's exes.. I stand by it. However, if u reeaally like this guy, and can't just move on, if ur friend says she doesn't, and she'll confirm it over and over, go for him! Maybe he's worth it ^_^
Tell me how things go!
*Mayya
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Me n my friend have been best friends for a few years now but then she met this girl and shes a really bad influence on her-drinking smoking and cutting herself. now me n my friend arent really best friends nemore and shes lost a lot of her friends because no1 really likes the other girl and she's really mean to me. My friend's been cutting herself fer about a year and i don't know what to do to get her to stop but she's going to start drinking too cuz she thinks it will help and she wont really listen to anyone. she told me she's turning into a person she never wanted to be-doing the things she does and ruining her life b4 she's even 13 but she still doesnt stop. theres a lot of crap going on in her life right now but still.. i dont know what to do anymore please help me! (link)
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Hmm.. VERYY familiar. She needs a councilor. I know u'll prolly be scared to tell an adult or ur school councilor, or even another friend that may be able to help.. you may think she'll get mad and start to hate you... but she can kill herself, or worse, lose every loving person she has. Don't let her do that to herself. She will end up thanking you. Trust me, it's happened to my best friend b4, but I'm sooo proud of u not backing down. Keep on being a good friend, and send me news on wat happened!
*Mayya
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Okay, I have only had my period twice now, well 2 weeks of it. I don`t think that made since, but ok. I`m only use pad because i`m scared to use a tampon. Do they hurt? How does it feel when you stick it in. lol sorry that sounded sooo wrong. =/ (link)
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It would probably hurt a little, but if u masturbate (yes, I said masturbate) or aren't a virgin, they don't hurt at all and prove to be good protection.
*Mayya
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i started my period a few months ago...and my mom gave me pads....i want tampons soo i can go swimming etc....soo i decided to ask her...i cant get the guts up to ask her...how should i ask her? (link)
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Ha! I've had this problem before.. My mom said no though.. hehe.. anyway.. What I did was just go up to her while she was sitting down watching TV, and simply said, "Mom, can I use tampons?" and she said no. yeah, nice strategy, but, it was the most direct and I got the answer I needed. If you don't want to do this, then you can play stupid with her and the next time u see a box of tampons at the store, u can ask if they work and the conversation could carry on to asking if you can have them from there.. I hope u can! It's so much more convenient..
Tell me wat happens!!
*Mayya
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Im a 16 year old girl and ive been dating this girl for 3 months I want to make a move but dont know how, what do I do? (link)
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I'm new to same gender dating, but I'll try to help! I believe you should talk to ur girlfriend about wat u want to do. Don't spring it on her because she may not be ready.. And you want watever you do to be special together, right? I hope so. Anyway.. If you can't just sit down and talk about things with her, then I would say don't make the move at all yet because you're not ready either. If you like this better however, you can ask her over to ur house maybe while no one's home, have a nice dinner together, and try to get closer to her, maybe she's ready.. You won't know until u've tried! Tell me wat happens!
*Mayya
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i have a bf but i'm not sure if he is really into me nemore we use 2 tlak bout everything bout now we barely talk.I call him sometimes n he doesn't really seem lyk he wants to talk he never calls me n he is always busy n cna never do nething. i talk to his brother on the IM n ask him but he doesn't really kno wut am i suppose 2 do...how do i find out if he really lykes me or not? plz help! (link)
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Best thing to do is ask him straight out. Boys are stupid and have no sense of "beating around the bush" if u know wat I mean.. You must ask him directly for the answer you're looking for. He could be cheating on you *gasp* You should definitly confront him b4 he hurts u.
*Mayya
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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else? (link)
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Have u ever seen those movies were the nerds always turn out to be rich sexii millionaires? Well.. That barely ever happens.. However, if u truely like this guy, u wouldn't think twice about wat others would think of him, and just stand up for yourself. I think that you should give him a try.. and who knows? Maybe you'll find out what friends are really true.. and what people aren't worth impressing. Tell me what happens!!
*Mayya
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