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I have a friend who is a cutter. She has been for as long as I can remember. Lately, we have become best friends and I felt like cutting, too. Not because I have a bad home life or because I have stress in my life or anything like that because I don't, but I think it's because I am best friends with her now. I did cut my legs up pretty bad just 2 weeks ago, but then I never did it again and now they are healed. I keep getting the urges to cut, and then I tell myself not to. But I still can't help but feel so influenced by her to cut myself. A long time ago I used to cut because I liked it, but that didn't last long and wasn't as obsessed with it as I am now. I love this girl with all my heart. She really is a GREAT friend that I had since pre-school, but I need help with trying to stop thinking about the whole idea of cutting all together. I must admitt that I did REALLY like it, but I know that it is unhealthy. But I STILL get those urges and they keep getting bigger and bigger .. HELP !* signed., helpless soul (link)
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i had kinda the same problem but i never did cut cause of how stupid it is. it doesn't take away no pain it just is like digging a kinife in to your skin which is pointless. i think you shoudl stop cutting it sounds liek you have a pretty good life and by cutting you could really hurt urself and your life and thats a shame concerning how good you have it. the other fact is your loosing blood everytime and many times can go wrong when you loose your blood. and you have such a good life i mean atleast you have legs to cut when theres other people who dont even have legs!! so i would think about how good i have it and how much im hurting myself and if that still doesnt work get help and fast and im talking about professional help
ps.take your friend with you before you both end up in a hospital ;]
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I didnt know where to place this question. So I just placed it anywhere.. anyway.. my question is.. When you shave down there... What can you use to not have it itch afterwards :/ Hell I dont even like shaving it! I'm gonna do a little at a time.. :/ Wow... Do I feel stupid (link)
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well what kind of shaving stuff r you using? its a good idea to do it when your hair is wet and use shaving gel, it wont make it itch
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I'm not a very good kisser at all. On my last date, I could tell my boyfriend didn't want to say anything. I think it's because I'm not experienced enough to really know what I'm doing. Are there any tips (not just URLs that tell you the importance of good breath etc.) that anyone would like to share? Thanks so much!
xO* jAMiE (link)
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ok well when i hook up with guys and i hooked up with plenty. well first you always just want to turn your head right and then slowy place your tongue in their and you just keep moving it .. NEVER keep it still. make a circle with it..write your name..whatever and just make sure you do it slowy never go fast and then its a good idea to wait till he backs away. but if your not sure you guys r gonna hook up then its a good idea to do light kisses then if you feel its right and gently try and move into a hook up by moving your tongue on his lips. hope this helps!!
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can somebody please help me with ideas how to ask a girl out. (link)
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well the best way is online or on the phone. if your the real shy type and you arent sure if the girl likes you then i would ask online. and if your the kinda out there guy and more than 70% the girl will say yes i would ask on the phone. Ive been ask out by penty of guys and i rather on the phone cause it makes the girl feel more comforable and kno you really like her when on the internet it gives her that shy feeling and all.
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Hi, im 15/f and ive never made out or been sexually active in any way whatsoever! Uhm the thing is that im scared to do anything that involved being sexually active because the hair down there(dont give me any hair removal method, il breakout in red bumps and i have no money to buy anything or get it waved) is really sparse and grows beyond my underwear, and my inner lips hang out noticebly longer than in outer lips. i think this might really freak a guy out because this is really ugly. Plus, im hardly a small A-cup. My 'breasts' are no bigger than a guys, seriosly, and even really small breast people are bigger than me, ive seen their boobs. i really want to get sexually active cuz everyone is always like ooh makeout with him but i dont know how. im not sure what to do and i feel really bad because i guess noone else i knows has this problem and i dont wanna tell neone, its pretty embarasing. wut should i do?! (link)
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ok well with your hair everyone partically stated that and i wouldnt get sexually actice yet. but making out thats ok but really u dont need to worry about people going up or down anything cuz just hand their hands while you are and if they begin to move away then stop and tell them your not ready to go any further. even a quick hook up isnt bad
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i am seriuosly way overWEIGHT i am like 350 and i am in the 8th grade...pple make fun of me....alot...what should i do????
From a BIGG SUE (link)
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i can relate to this question ALOT, not because i'm fat because my brother sister were a lil overweight and went right into dieting and now are the right weight. the first thing you wanna do is go out and buy some diet books ( the alkins diet, south beach diet, the abs diet, even start l.a weight loss) then just read through the books and get an idea of how to set your meals and how much to excerise. after done that join a gym. go about 4 times a week and make sure u run alot. the fat in your stomach is from lack of excerise and running will get right rid of it. eat the right foods, stay away from junk foods and most of the diets tell you to eat 6 times a day but healty 6 times cause it is proven that most americans will not eat half the day then stuff theirselves at the end thinking its a good idea. but mostly you want to excerise. hope this helps
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I'm like a hugeeee tomboy. Like I wear long shorts and football jerseys. Im 14 and going into highschool, never had a boyfriend. Will i ever get a boyfriend. I mean, i dont wear makeup, and im big bulky and muscular. I want a bf, but i think maybe they are intimidated by me. Changing the way i am is NOT an option, i like who i am. PLEASE HELP. (link)
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well everyone is telling you to look on the MTV made and the difference is that girl wanted change into a girly girl .. you dont. And the only way you are going to get a boyfriend is really if you do. You dont have to change much, just ur clothes hair and wear some makeup , you will still be yourself inside but just guys will find you more attracted
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I dont have exact proof...but my friend told me she thinks he likes her. She doesn't like him though, he's dropping hits like smiling --- hitting on her! And i even saw them. It's ridiculous -- what do I do to get over it? PLEASE ANSWER --- Will r8 high!!! (link)
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Okay well really you should talk to your friend and ask her to tell him that she isnt into him and see what he saids like if he saids no but i like you alot to her then you should dump him, dont even waste your time talking to him if he likes her more then you cause you cant change love. and if he tells ur friend he was never hitting on her and he loves you then ur safe.
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well it this me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 1 year and i asked her is i could kiss her and she said no but she likes to take it slow and i said ok and that was about 2 mounths ago should i kiss her yet or wait and if we kiss should i use tounge and is there a special way to use tounge
please help i need it in the next few days
-rockfan23 (link)
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well, it has been long and i think u should ask her again and if she still saids no ask her when she will finally be ready. but if she does say yes u should just start off gently kissing on the lips then you make the first move and try to work in a french kiss.
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I like this kid named lets say bryan and i think he likes me back. I mean i think i know this because out of all my friends we asked him who he would go out with and he picked me. Does this mean he likes me? I want a relationship but don't want to be the one to ask him out. What should i do? (link)
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i think you should live for the moment and take the chance of this moment and ask him out. Cause from what you said he must like you alot and if you like him go for it and if he saids no then so what .. theres plenty other guys
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