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Ok There is this boy Zac and I Like him A LOT! And my friend Emmie thinks he likes me. I'm just going to say what happened to me when I hung out with him last( I haven't before this was the first time ). Well I was just standing in a corner at a basketball game and he came up to me and said, " Who are you? " and I simply replied my name and then he said " Oh okay I know you " and he walked away to play his basketball game( it was at half time ). When it was over he came over to me and said "Is your screen name g-o-i-n space.." and I just said yeah. Then he kept like sitting next to me. It was really funny watching him though because he was like kind of dancing lol. But anyways he kept coming over and sitting next to me and I was talking to him and he was looking at me this whole time. And whenever I looked over he didn't look away he just smilied. Well then I went outside and he I guess was talking about me because he pointed to me and said something to one of his friends. Well then he couldn't find me I guess but he came outside and started talking to me. I was acting stupid...for some reason I do that around cute guys lol...Anyways he was making fun of me for being stupid. And then he went inside the gym and so did I and he was just looking at me the whole time. < Thats what happened...he goes to a different school soo I don't know if his personality is just like that or anything. But I talk to him on AOL and stuff soo yeah. Well I asked a few people if he was really flirtish and they all said yeah...but thats A LOT of flirting he did right? Okay Well I need your opinions does he like me? I rate high and give comments! ^_^
I can pretty much say FOR SURE he likes you. Even if he was naturally flirty, he flirted ALOT with you, beyond the normal "flirt" level. Keep talking to him on AOL! It sounds like there could be a "thing" between the two of you. I reccomend arranging a time for the 2 of you to hang out. If you can, try to find out some stuff about him (does he have a girlfriend, etc) & don't be afraid to be flirty back =] Good luck sweetie!
i'm having trouble getting my parents used to the fact that me and my boyfriend have a 3 years difference in age. he's 16 and i'm 13. my mom likes him but my dad gets a little to protective about it and they won't let me drive around anywhere with him. he's a really sweet guy and i trust him with my life but my parents don't see my side to this. what could i do to get them to trust me and him together in a car and get them used to the age difference?
Parents are naturally overprotective, especially when the three "D" words come into effect: daughter, date, difference. And since this seems to have to do with driving too, the best way to convince your parents is to show them. You & your boyfriend should coordinate a day where you can take your parents to lunch... with him driving. Take them to a restaurant that you know they like. On the way there, they'll be able to see how your boyfriend drives & how sweet he is. Good luck hun! ♥
ok.. so i have a pretty good guy friend and like a few months ago.. we started to like each other and stuff you know.. all that. and then he like wanted to wait cuz he was still getting over his ex and stuff and so i waited on him for a while and i got tired of it so it didnt work out.. and i still like him.. i cant help it.. but his friends all tell me that they think he does and stuff but now hes going out with this girl thats a year younger than us and shes like really ditsy and stuff and he just barely met her and asked her out.. and it was never like that for us.. like he just liked her so easily so yeah i was pretty upset about it but i didnt wanna show it cuz he thinks i dont like him anymore but i just wish we could actually go out and stuff.. what should i do? should i tell him that i like him again or.. what? help! (( ill rate ))
Sadly, he's probably using this girl as a replacement so he feels better about you moving on. Like us, guys have feelings that affect their lovelife. The only way to really fix things is to be honest with him. Tell him that you like him. I know it may be hard but as of right now, him not knowing you have feelings for him is just making him repel even more. Good luck hun! ♥ If you need anymore advice, feel free to drop one in my inbox.
Me and my best friend have been best friends for ages.but now i feel she is going off with another girl.If i talk to her about it she goes your my best friend not her,but yet she still goes off with her.
what shall i do?
Unforunately, talking isn't all that should be done. When you talk to her, don't just talk but TELL her. TELL her how you feel. TELL is the key word here, hon because then she'll know. Say, if I'm your BEST FRIEND then why do you always run off with her? Be nice but firm & let her know you're hurt by this. It's better if she's aware & can talk to you about it. Good luck hun! =)
how do i scrunch my hair?
When your hair is wet, take some gel (LA Looks makes really strong gel so I reccomend it) & put alot throughout your hair. Then take your hands and start "squeezing" clumps of your hair while working the gel through. Good luck!
I used to be so outgoing, I would just totally be me, and go crazy and everyone loved me for that. But now I'm like constantly tryin to be popular and I'm to afraid of what people will think if I go back to my outgoing *personatlity* Any tips on how to go back to being the true me? I'Ll rate Lots
I think you should definitely be outgoing again. You know you've been trying too hard when you can't figure out how to be yourself again. I have a guide to "being popular" that is located in my advice column. It'll help you be yourself & climb the social ladder! It's located in the 'FAQ' section of my 'About Me' column. Hope it helps you out hon! ♥
ok so yesterday i was supposed to pick up my boyfriend to go to the movies with some friends. But my mom was being a bitch and didn't pick him up. So i felt bad throughout the whole movie because i couldnt get ahold of him at his house and i guess he was just waiting at his house. So i bought him skittles and im making him a big card but what could i do to make it up to him? i want to bring him somewhere or something. i rate 5's for good answers.
Material items are great but just be genuinely sorry to him. Even come crying if you could about how upset you were. Guys like to feel loved & needed because they are very sensitive. Give him a kiss & sit in his arms for a while so HE ends up making YOU feel better. Basically, you're turning it around so he's not mad, just worried about you. Good luck! =]
ok i just got a horse. she is a liver chestnut mare. i want to know what colors would look good on her (like saddle pads and stuff)....i was thinkin blue but my favorite color is pink lol. and i have always had geldings and now that i finally have a girl i can actually dress her up like one! lol any suggestions? thanks!
My favorite color saddle on a chestnut would be white. It's a sleak look & I don't know if you ride for show or recreation but it will definitely look clean. Just don't get pink even though it's cute on mares because it won't go on well with the chestnut.
As for saddle pads, just avoid colors like purple, pink & red. Whites, blues & greens will be fine. Have fun! =]
okay ready i like this boy and he kinda likes me...we talk alot everyday and we talk about everything and i was talkin to my friend brian and he said to ask him out before i loose him forever...But i dont kno if i want to ask him out i want him to ask me out...Wat should i do..
I rate!! good advice..
xo Confused Gurl xo
I'm in a similar situation. I suggest that if you want to keep things old fashion, flirt as much as possible & give BIG hints. However, if you want to be bold, ask him out. Especially if you see other girls checking him out or trying to make a move, you'll want to ask before they do. If not, just keep on trying to hint him so he feels confident that you'll say yes. Good luck hon!
How can I be more popular at school?
Here's a guide to being popular (posted in response to another question as well), maybe it will help you out. I'll also add this to my advice column so others can make the most out of it. =]
-Confidence
This has GOT to be the most important factor of everything. Ever seen Mean Girls? That's not the only movie but one that really shows you an in depth look at "high school royalty". The girls who are looked up to as "popular" are extremely confident. They don't even have to be that pretty, just assured & know that they are the best.
-Social
Some people think that to be popular, you have to be mean to everyone. THAT'S a lie. If you look up the definition of popular it tells you that it's the act of being well liked by the majority. How do you expect to be well liked if you're nasty to everyone? The key is to be nice & befriend everyone. Along with confidence, it'll make you UNSTOPPABLE.
-Fashion Sense/Beauty
I combined the 2 of these because they kind of work hand in hand. Being popular has alot to do with the way you look, whether it's the clothes you're wearing, the makeup on your face or how you do your hair. People admire you on a multitude of levels & overall attraction helps. I'm not telling anyone to go out & get plastic surgery, just keep yourself looking your best =].
Good luck! Hopefully this guide will help you out & if you follow the steps, you'll be climbing up the social ladder in no time! ♥
I WANT SOME RECIPES FOR ME TO COOK...
please give me a or a few recipes you like to eat.
i am having a very important guest come over and i want a very tasty recipe.
THANKZ
Signed,
MICHAELA
You can pretty much count me as the worst cook in the world, however, there is a site with tons of delicious recipes that I can share with you. It's theredkitchen.net & it has a fabulous variety of recipes. It's very organized & easy to navigate. It is written by a variety of different cooks, professional & at-home. Also contains links to other sites. Enjoy! =]
do you have to be rich in order to be popular?
im just wondering if it gives you an advantige.
CAN ANYBODY GIVE ME SOME STORY'S ABOUT YOUR SCHOOL AND THE POPULAR KIDS. THANKS.
ILL RATE HIGH... SIGNED,
Michaela
You in no way have to be rich to be popular! Being popular is about being liked by everyone & I'll admit people are attracted to rich kids but only because they think they're gonna get some of that cash which in reality they aren't. Sure, you could say it gives you an advantage but popularity comes from a mixture of things. For examples, beauty, grades, friends, & personality count for alot. If you're really confident & social then you have a good chance of becoming popular.
At my school, there aren't really "popular" kids but there is a clique of girls that alot of girls want to hang with. I'm kind of in the group & kind of not since I have a lot of friends who aren't.
Basically, here's a guide to being popular, maybe it will help you out. I'll also add this to my advice column so others can make the most out of it. =]
-Confidence
This has GOT to be the most important factor of everything. Ever seen Mean Girls? That's not the only movie but one that really shows you an in depth look at "high school royalty". The girls who are looked up to as "popular" are extremely confident. They don't even have to be that pretty, just assured & know that they are the best.
-Social
Some people think that to be popular, you have to be mean to everyone. THAT'S a lie. If you look up the definition of popular it tells you that it's the act of being well liked by the majority. How do you expect to be well liked if you're nasty to everyone? The key is to be nice & befriend everyone. Along with confidence, it'll make you UNSTOPPABLE.
-Fashion Sense/Beauty
I combined the 2 of these because they kind of work hand in hand. Being popular has alot to do with the way you look, whether it's the clothes you're wearing, the makeup on your face or how you do your hair. People admire you on a multitude of levels & overall attraction helps. I'm not telling anyone to go out & get plastic surgery, just keep yourself looking your best =].
Good luck! Hopefully this guide will help you out & if you follow the steps, you'll be climbing up the social ladder in no time! ♥
does anyone know any downloading softwears that are free sorry about the spelling
Kazaa & Limewire are free. Also, I've heard alot about a new P2P sharing program called BearWare. Check it out =] There is also Ares which is great & it comes in 2 versions: Lite & Regular.
The free ones are great but if you ever have some extra cash, I reccomend getting one that you pay a flat monthly fee for such as AOL's MusicNet. It's legal & I know for sure all my downloads are virus-free.
Ok so today is my sleepover little gathering for m bday. Only three of my bff are coming, what are soem things we can do?!All girls'
13/f
Here are some of my favorite sleepover activities & maybe you'll like them too:
-Makeovers
This has GOT to be the best one. Take turns pampering eachother: makeup, clothes, etc. Then take a camera (prefferably digital) & have a mock fashion shoot. Take pictures of eachother (crazy ones, cute ones, chic ones) then upload them to your computer. You can make up fun captions for each one, share them with your friends or make a collage to give each girl as a party favor.
-Charades (to the extreme)
To give your party a playful edge, play a giant game of charades. Take out a bunch of crazy jewelry, makeup, clothes etc & have each girl break up into a different room (bathroom, bedroom, closet even). Have them choose a movie & get dressed similar to a character in that movie. Then have a blast guessing which one each girl is from.
-Truth Or Dare (the NEW version)
Truth or Dare is of course a very cliche`d slumber party game. But YOU can go the extra mile & make it CRAZY. If all your friends have their cell phones on them then it will be EXTRA fun. Play around with the game making it dares only, team dares, truths only, etc. One of my favorite dares is to have one girl sign onto AIM & tell all of her buddies on her list something crazy like call them a "sexy burrito" & see what their reaction is.
-Karaoke
Bring out those CD's because once it starts, it won't stop. Play around with good, ol' fashion karaoke & host a "Sleepover Idol". Who'll end up as the best singer of the night? & who should never try to hit a note again?
-Goss Toss
Probably my favorite of all sleepover games, make up gossip about the people you know. Such as "Bob marries Cindy & they have triplets". You won't believe the stuff you'll come up with by the end of the night.
-Communication With The Dead
Sit in your bathroom (in a circle) with the door shut & all the lights out. Do this prefferably around midnight to make it extra creepy. Make up chilling chants & attempt to talk to the dead. This is pretty much a "play along" concept & should be used only if you're friends are good sports.
-Scary Movie
On the topic of frights at night, rent the scariest movie you can find at Blockbuster & watch it really late at night with the lights off & door shut. It'll be a spooky good time.
I know some of these games are a little silly but hey, I'm 13 too & I still have a fabulous time with my friends goofing off. Have fun & happy birthday!
I'm 13, 5'6, and 121 pounds. My friends all say I'm skinny, but I don't see a skinny person when I look in the mirror. Are my friends just being nice and saying I'm skinny or am I and not realizing it. Does this lead to eatind disorders? What are some symptoms?
Hey hon! Here's a very useful tool to see whether you are at the correct weight for your height or not: http://www.arachnoid.com/lutusp/weight.html
By the sound of it, you ARE skinny. Alot of people don't feel skinny. That doesn't necessarily mean you're on the way for an eating disorder but of course, there's always a chance. There aren't always "symptoms", just the desperate need to be extremely skinny so you make a choice to be unhealthy. As you know, eating disorders are being more & more common amoung teens because of the large influence we get from TV, magazines, music etc. Just be happy with yourself & if you start to get the overwhelming need to loose weight, do it the healthy way. Good luck! ♥
does anybody know the music code for alabama by cross canadian ragweed?? thanks, ill rate
I don't know the exact code but I'm sure you could find it here: http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=NuMbA1_MuSiC_sOuRcE
It's the ULTIMATE music code site that works for all sorts of journal hosts. It lists all the best sites for music & breaks them down by genre for easy finding.
♥ Montana
Limewire doesnt work for me!! I downloaded it and everything, but everytime i try to download something, even erally poplulor songs, nothing comes up! What do i do?
I suggest uninstalling it, restarting your computer & then reinstalling it. I've heard talk that LimeWire is having some major problems right now & that you should try BearShare.
ok i just bought Curling shampoo and i think most of you have seen the commercials...and well it said leave like 5 min and stuff like that so i followed all the direction but still i have no curls in my hair. is it just my hair or is the product just plain sucks?
and is there product that works? to curl my hair. other than perms and curling irons and hair rollers. i mean like curling hair spray ?? do they really work??
Curling products don't really work unless you get a perm which I don't reccomend because it really fries your hair. If you have really silky, straight hair then it will be harder for you to curl it. I have naturally curly hair & I really don't like it so let me say, you are one lucky girl!
Irons & rollers are the best ways. "Products" really aren't successful in changing hair texture. Gel, however, will give your hair a wavy, beach-like style if you scrunch it up. There are also shampoo's & conditioners to give your hair more volume & bounce but they don't really "curl".
does anyone know where i can get free music downloads? thanks!
Limewire is great & has less adware then Kazaa. Just a warning though, my friend did get caught for Peer-2-Peer sharing & had to pay a fine. AOL has a great music downloading program that's $10 a month but gives you unlimited downloads. Just a suggestion but other than that, have fun =]
Okay, for everyone or anyone who answers this, I really want a good answer. So here it goes.. My best best best friend is moving..because her divorsed parents are getting back together. and she seems fine with it. Our town (i dont want to sound posh about this one..) is a pretty rich town, homes go up to 1.1 million. and so her mom doesn't want to pay that kind of money for a house. Its so scary, because we are so close, I don't know what to do!
signed,
best friends for n/ever?
I know what you're going through. When I lived in California, I had to move cross country to Florida & leave my best friend in the whole world. It was hard & I knew that I would have a difficult time adjusting. It's natural to feel sad or worried about things changing. Changes are scary. I suggest spending as much time as possible with her. Also, try to plan something to celebrate the change. Make a vow to stay in touch & maybe even give eachother a little something so that you can think of eachother often. It's the little things that count. Good luck & if you ever need anymore help, feel free to let me know. ♥