Name is Megan, I'm 20 years old. I've gone through a lot in my life, and got through so much on my own. It sucked, and I wish I had someone to go to for advice. I like to help others who are in need of advice. I don't think anyone should ever feel alone. I hope to help some of you with the answer's I've giving. I try my hardest.
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Age: 20
Member Since: May 2, 2010
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I recently started the pill(almost two months ago), so I'm still spotting.
However, last night I had sex with my boyfriend without a condom (we're both clean when it comes to STDs and so on; both been tested) and I'm slightly worried whether the pill is still effective, even if you're spotting?
Thanks! (link)
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When on the pill, the pill is most effective a month after starting. If you have been taking the pill correctly. You said almost 2 months ago, so you should be fine. The spotting is normal. I'm not sure what pill you are on? But just wait it out, I'd say if its a everyday thing for another month or 2, Go back to the doctors and see if they will switch your birth control. But then after switching, I'm sure you know it'll take another month to become full effective.
Good luck!
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How does a woman knowns when she is having a orgasm or in other words coming. (link)
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Well, it's just in intense pleasure feeling.
I can't explain how someone knows its coming, you just know. :)
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what does trippin balls mean? (link)
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Your freaking out.
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I feel like this boy is kinda liking me and I heard that if you think you like someone, your usually right. We have one period together in school and we usually talk in that period but we don't talk a lot. I was working out in the hall with my group for a project, he was in the room, working with his group. His group consisted of, the smartest kid in the class, him and my best friend (whose a boy) so I went into the room and asked my best friend when this one battle ocurred and he looked up at me and didn't answer, maybe because he was thinking but they boy I like answered and I said "are you suuuure?" and he said "noope, just a total guess" and he did that cute, crooked smile. Then, my best friend found it in his notes and told me the date and the boy was right so of course, he rubbed it in my face. I also borrowed my friends notes and took them in the hall with me because they had two sets and he came out to get them, to tell me that my friend needed them. I thought that was weird, why did he come out and not my friend? Usually, every time we talk, he has me laughing. However, he is a funny kid, so it's not like he only makes me laugh. My friend said once in a while he glances at me in class when I'm not paying attention to him. He had a bonfire but I wasn't invited which made me sad and made me really believe he didn't like me, however my friend said this to my other friend "You don't see how he looks at her? How can you tell he likes her without seeing how he looks at her and how she laughs at everything he says and how she always smiles when she's around him." Every time we talk, we look right into each others eyes. What do you think? Is he diggin me? Now, if you think he likes me then how do I talk to him more? Thanks! (link)
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Sounds like he could be, or he could just be friendly.
I'd say have a friend ask him what he thinks of you.. Find out that way, unless your brave and tell him you like him. :)
Just talk to him. He's not a stranger. :)
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Ali lohan wore a pair of knee high black gladiator sandals recently.
Does anyone know who made them, or have any pictures of them?
She wore them while out with lindsay partying.
Thanks !
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something like this?
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=190318121529&rvr_id=&crlp=1_263602_263622&UA=%3F*F%3F&GUID=f1f8ce8c1250a0b584563e26ff44d572&itemid=190318121529&ff4=263602_263622
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I saw this video on youtube of this girl who was making a bracelet and when she was making it she was bring really precise and she wasn't rushing like most youtuber's do. Then she said she was taking her time because she was making it for a store. How does that happen? I would like to do that. To make things for a store would be so cool. How do you think she went about doing that? Thanks! (link)
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I've seen stuff sold as my local food market and stuff. Go up to a local place,(nothing big like walmart or anything) but something local, and show them what you got. Usually you would have to give them like 25% or even more depending on how much your selling stuff for. :)
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So last year I had my first serious boyfriend, I fell head over hills, lost my virginity, and after a year I realized he wasn't the guy for me and I had made a mistake. I was forced into a lot of things with him. Not physically as much as mentally. He'd guilt trip me, get angry and ignore me, fight with me, say I didn't love him if I didn't do things with him. One time at his friends house he locked me in the bathroom with him until I did stuff with him. I started crying so he let me out but refused to talk to me the rest of the night. So, I broke up with him a few months ago. I recently started dating this guy, he's been my best friend since eighth grade. I'm a junior he's a senior. I really like him and he respects me and treats me right. He doesn't force me into doing things I don't wanna do.
If I feel uncomfortable he won't make me do things.
So anyway. I have been dating him since March we have done somethings but not sex. Well recently I've been thinking about maybe in the distant future having sex with him. I thought about it for a while. I started crying, I feel so traumatized I feel like if I have sex he's going to end up like my ex. I feel afraid to do it again, I'm scared that things will end badly and that I'll end up regretting it because things were so terrible, I felt obligated and guilty in my last relationship. My boyfriend says I shouldn't feel like I have to do anything I don't want to. But, I don't know, why do I feel so traumatized from this? Is this normal? Like I feel so depressed about it, I feel traumatized and I don't want to effect what happened in my last relationship to effect what happens in my new one. I really like him and I don't know what I should do really, what should I do? Should I tell him? Is there anyway I can get rid of this feeling? (link)
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Yes it is normal!
You were abused mentally and it seems like physically from that last guy. The feelings you are feeling right now are NORMAL.
Take your time. Have sex when YOU are physically and mentally ready. Your boyfriend now seems like a good guy, and doesn't seem like he's trying to push anything.
You can't really get rid of the feeling. It will ease in time though. Go on with your life, don't even think about sex, when the right time comes around, you'll know.
As of, telling your boyfriend now. I mean, You can, and it might help him understand more, or you don't have too. Is he asking you to have sex or wanting to? If not, then you don't have to tell him, but if you think it might help you feel better about all this you should.
Good luck!
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i wanted to edit videos i made on my macbook with imovie, but my files are in .mpg so they cannot play. apple says i can buy the add on for $20 but i prefer to not pay.....(the add on is - QuickTime MPEG-2 Playback Component for Mac OS X)
is there anywhere i can get the download for free? i googled "QuickTime MPEG-2 Playback Component for Mac OS X free download" and i couldn't find on that was free because they all redirected me to the apple store page. please help! i need this for a school project! (link)
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I don't know if this is it.. but
http://mac.rbytes.net/search/quicktime-mpeg-2-playback-component/
or
http://www.softlow.com/mac-os-x/graphics/video/free/apple-quicktime-6-mpeg-2-playback.html
:/ thats mostly what I could find.
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I really want a good friendship status but nothing too cheesy or direct like Best friends will never be forgotten. haha something simple. thanks! (link)
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http://mcdreamyxquotes.xanga.com/571167562/friendship-quotes/ There are some on there.
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I have this vaginal discharge that looks like cottage cheese and is rubbery, and it smells like tuna, and has a purple tint do you know what could be causing this, should i see a doctor? Ive had it for about 5 months. Is it parts from a fetus that i could have had inside me? (I had a miscarriage!) Please answer ASAP! (link)
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Could be a yeast infection infection.. but for 5 months thats just wrong, I don't get why you haven't gone to the doctor yet?
Also, If you had a miscarriage, didn't you get a D&C after?! You should have.
Make an appointment and go see a doctor ASAP!
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19f.
i'm still a virgin and the thing that scares me the most about sex is it hurting like hell the first couple of times. within the past month i've had two exams where i've basically had to have that annoying silver clamp open up my vagina so they could swab to make sure i didn't have any infections. well the first time it was fine - didn't hurt when it went in or anything. well today when the silver clamp was going in it hurt sooo unbelieveably bad and the doctor could tell i was tense so she was like here i'll rub one finger a sec it usually helps people ease up, but that still kind of hurt. i've never been fingered or anything so now that just having that hurt i couldn't imagine what its going to be like the first time. is there anything that could help me maybe loosen up a little bit? thanks!! :) (link)
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Actually, no one knows how your first time will be.
That person is unfortunately wrong who answered this. :/ It may or may not hurt.
It didn't hurt my first time, nor did I bleed.
Well the best thing to do is buy a vibrator. It's not exactly the same, but basically the same. Just a simple one would be just fine, unless you want other pleasure along with it. But buy one, and try that out, get a feel at what YOU like. Sex is better when you know what your doing. It will not take your virginity away or anything so don't worry about that.
Make sure you foreplay before sex too (Or vibrator) So you are wet. Or buy Lube.
Don't be scared, if your tense it don't help anything. :)
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Whats my future?
20 yearl old female Dorothy (link)
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That depends..
Your future is however YOU want it to be.
We can't decide on your future. Make the best out of it, we only live once!
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I was talking to my friend in a chat room and she
decides to randomly ask me if i have mental issues
because i act childlish sometimes i guess from what i type and she also said because of my age which is 19 after she said that i felt hurt on the verge of tears like i was going to cry am i overreacting? I'm thinking she didn't think before she typed she apologized and said she didn't mean to be rude but it still hurt
Was what she said a immature comment? How should i
handle this...she's younger then me age 14 after she said that to me i was thinking how could you say that to someone...what should i do? (link)
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I don't know?
How do you act when you talk to her?
I suppose there's a point where acting like a child, and acting like your age has a line there.
She don't know you in person does she?
Because you can't really tell how a person is online. You may talk to them, but being with them IN person is a different story.
I'd say, start talking to her more maturely then, or not at all if she is like that.
You said she apologized thats nice, I'd ask her why she even mentioned it to begin with. I mean, is she REALLY sorry? Why'd she say it in the first place then?
But she's 14, and your 19, so your the older one. Just I guess don't talk to her the same way you use to.. Be a little more mature I suppose.
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how do i get a bigger butt (link)
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Either butt implants.. Or http://www.lovemybubbles.com/
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What tampon is the best? I've been having all sorts of issues with tampons leaking and it's so annoying. I'd also like to be able to leave it in for as long as possible. I get fairly light periods and I'm pretty thin. Thanks! (link)
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I use U. by kotex, and Pearl.
Try to use Super or Extra Super tampons.
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hii. i was just wondering if wearing two condoms is better than one ?
thanks
kaitlyn (link)
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Nope don't do that!
It's not recommend for preventing pregnancy, because the friction between the two condoms can make it rip and tear, and then your left with a big mess.
Just get the right sized condom, and put it on properly. You'll be fine.
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i just cant get over this guy. im at a new school since last summer & he started talking to me. we where like best friends after talking just for 2 days & it was love at first sight for me. we always hung out after school etc & i thought he has feelings for me as well so i told him how i feel. well since then we dont talk anymore cause he 'doesnt know how to deal with the situation'. now we talk again but not a lot maybe every second day, but only cause he thinks that i dont like him anymore. but i dooo and its been almosta year and i cant get over him. i mean all i think about is him and i STILL cry myself to sleep. & its just horrible. i drink loads of alcohol now just to forget it cause it hurts so much. the whole thing is scaring me. my feelings for him are soo strong. & i tried to find someone else but i cant bausye everytime i see him it just comes back. help? I'm 17/f (link)
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Well one..
Don't drink loads of alcohol over this guy. That right there can kill you, and you are underage.
Two. I know it's hard when you have strong feelings for someone yet, they don't have the same back for you. And it's understandable that you haven't found someone that you felt the same about him with. But eventually you will have to get over him, or just drink your life away. You are YOUNG, and you WILL find someone someday, you have a lifetime ahead of you, so just because this one guy isn't interested, doesn't mean that there isn't anyone else, and doesn't mean you wont ever have feelings for someone else, even though it might feel that way.
You need to keep your head up, and stop drinking, because that will not solve anything, it'll just make you wake up with a hangover, and still feeling the same as before you got wasted.
There are better ways to deal with this, like how you are now. Ask for advice, talk to someone about it, get your feelings out in the open, don't hid them inside.
I really hope the best for you, and hope you don't take this drinking thing too serious, I've seen what it can do. But please do remember you are young, your life isn't over because this one guy. :/
xo
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Okay i am a female of 17 years. for about a year now i have trouble sleeping, either i cant get to sleep or i wake up 2-3 times a night. The only time I sleep throught the night is when my boyfriend stays with me, but i wake up early. Its not very often that he does. Do i have insomnia or could this be something else (link)
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I know the feeling, I am the same way.
I use to take sleeping pills till it had to become and everyday thing for me, and I didn't want it to become unhealthy for my body, which it was.
Try taking melatonin, it's a sleeping pill but also a vitamin, it wont harm you, but it simply helps you. And trust me, it will help you sleep. Make sure you take it when you are able to get 8 hours of sleep, it works usually within 20 min.
Don't worry it's nothing else. Sometimes people have a hard time sleeping. It happens. I do suggest you get that, like I said it's healthy and wont harm you. You can research it online if you'd like, and are able to find it at basically any drug store.
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I've been waiting for the summer to come for a while now and it's coming closer and closer. I've been also expecting to spend a lot of time with my girlfriend this summer. I was thinking that this summer would be great; she and i on the beach watching the sunset together. I already knew that for three weeks of the summer, she will be studying at college because where she is going, it is required. Then last night I find out that she will be spending another two weeks with her cousin up north. Her mom just bought her ticket. So that leaves time for she and I at about 2-3 weeks or not even that because we will be getting ready for college. There's barely any time for us this summer and while she's studying or having a blast with her cousin, I'm going to be all alone at home missing her. That just ruins everything I hoped for and on top of that, her mother would probably make it worse by not letting her go places with me or by not letting her spend much time with me by making excuses for her daughter that she has work that needs to be done. I can already picture her doing this. We are both eighteen now so I think her daughter can make her own decisions. [By the way, I'm also a girl]. I can see that my summer will be very depressing. Also we are both going to different colleges. Maybe this is a sign that it's the end of the road for us; we're not going anywhere together. Even now, we don't have much time for eachother. Because she's in school and after she's working while I'm at home all alone or trying to get a job ehich has been very hard for me. I've been rejected for employment over 50 times. There's barely any us time and this summer when I thought the majority we would be spending together, it will just be only me. I'm not happy with this arrangement and I feel in the future, history will just repeat itself. Maybe it's time for me to find someone to love that can share time with me. I don't really know what to do but feel upset about this. (link)
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It's up to you honestly on what you want to do.
I understand that there is a lot going on, but if you two are together still, then there is obviously something still there.
She is 18, so her mom can't tell her what to really do, as in she can't spend time with you. If she wants to, she can.
Talk it over with her, see how she feels. You never know, she might be going away for college, but in the same time, you two might be able to make it work. Long distant relationships take A LOT of work, and they are VERY hard, but if you both love eachother and have the will power to do it, I'm sure you both will be fine.
I wish you luck with all this!
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my friend said im a deep person when it comes to emotion, but i dont really say anything about how i feel and stuff what does that mean? (link)
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Your a serious person, who thinks a lot. Has a lot of thoughts when it comes to emotions.
Like, if you were to pour your heart out to me, I'd say "yeah that was deep."
Something along those lines, it can and cannot be bad. Just depends the way it's giving, and at what I suppose.
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