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Ok, I'm Nadia. I enjoy showing cattle and graphic design art. I work at McDonalds but am somewhat intellectual. I am studying Social Work at university and it's really not as great as you may think. I used to suffer with depression and have been in and out of it since I was 14. I'm a believer in Jesus Christ and I follow Him the best I can but I am open to all religions and will not force mine upon you. :)
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God says that he refuses to prove himself, because that would deny faith, and without faith he is nothing, so if someone were to find proof, then by gods own reasoning he couldnt exist-is this plausible (link)
yes, i think that IS true, all though.
if God says this, which i believe He did, He wouldnt let any man find evidence would He?
Nadia.


whats your favorite song??

this question is so we can all learn new and different songs just for the fun of it. (link)
i really like sad, or depressing songs...so these are my faves:

Be My Escape - Relient K
It's Cool, We Can Still Be Friends - Bright Eyes
She's Falling Apart - Lisa Loeb
Alone I Break - KoRn
The End - The Doors
Fade To Black - Metallica
Hold On - Good Charlotte
I'm A Fake - The Used
On My Own - The Used
Welcome To My Life - Simple Plan
Last Resort - Papa Roach

~*NaDs*~


I just met this girl in pottery and she is really cool.( we are both Freshman) We were just talking and she said she used to cut herself and do drugs but not anymore.She said in the summer of 2009 (when we graduate) her and her friends from a different school are going to burn down there old school and then stand across from each other and shoot themselves because they all want to die at the same time.I dont know if I should tell anybody.She sounds really serious about it and I dont kno what I should do.I dont think I can tell a consouler because they will confront her and she will know it was me because i was the only person she told.Ill rate high (link)
mmm, any suicide threat should definatley be taken seriously. even if people are just joking, and i even know it, i always say, "you ARE joking right?".
you should definately tell someone. you can talk to a counsellor without mentioning any names and just ask them for advice. or ask a counsellor who doesnt know her.
you have a lot of options, just write all your options down and think about what would happen if you did each one. then work from that which is that best descision.
goodluck.
~*NaDs*~


tomorrows my last day of summer and the whole days going to be spent getting work done on my mouth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i have to get one of my brackets taken off at 12:30pm, then i have to get my tooth taken out and another one pulled down at 2:00. Its my last day of summer. im going to cry! O and tonite, my cousin who i dont like is sleeping over so shes going to b here in the morning. this is the worst. im so sad!! wut can i do? (link)
hey, poor you! i had to have braces and an adult tooth out! i'll be perfectly honest and say i cried the whole time getting my tooth out, but yeah. it doesnt hurt, i think i was just heaps scared!
as for your cousin, well i dont like being mean but you could say something like, well atleast my teeth are going to be better than yours!
haha, oh well, hope i helped
~*NaDs*~


Where can i punblish my poems online that doesn't cost me money? dont say xanga or any online journals
thanks (link)
www.poems-and-quotes.com
that is where i put all of mine anyway. they also have competitions and stuff, tis good.
~*NaDs*~


Okay haha this might be an older song, I dont know but it goes like "I was sitting by the window .. when you pulled into the driveway .. .. do do do do do do do do .. or something .. anyone know the song ? plzz help me out itz driving me and my friend crazyyy. lol (link)
just write the lyrics into a google search. i do that a lot with songs that i hear on the radio.
hope it works
~*NaDs*~


I dont feel like my life is important to anyone and that I should die. I feel dead most of the time anyway. I feel ugly and am always depressed and stressed. I need help. I want help. What can I do to help me feel better? (link)
hey...i dont know if what i'm about to say is going to help. maybe someone elses advice will help more but when i read your question i understood you a lot.
i have had depression for most of my life and in the past 2 years i have felt the same as you feel now. i have come to understand that life IS worth living. you just need to fight the bad times and not take your good times for granted. for a long time i lived only for the people around me. i did not want to be alive but so many people around me weren't letting me go. they didnt understand why i wanted to die, there was no reason for me to live.
but slowly i have realised that life is worth living. think of all those people out there who have cancer for example, they are fighting for their lives because they WANT to be alive. they have been so close to death that they want to live because they realise that life is a gift. they would do anything not to die. i suppose until we have been through something like that we will take life for granted.
please think about this.


Hi. I'm a 16 year old girl and I have a huge problem. I often times wonder about God. I'm sure that I believe in him but at times I have doubts...is that normal? And also, is it true that God has a plan for everyone and some people are bound to go to hell? (link)
i have been told that it's absolutley normal to have doubts. in the end it will bring you closer to God, not further away.
if you feel you are having doubts then pray about it. in the end God is the most powerful and sometimes the only one who can help you.
God's plans NEVER include going to hell. He does not want any of His children going to that horrible place. all believers, aslong as they truly believe and ask for forgivness will always go to heaven with their Father.


What is the differnece between Catholic, Lutheren and Christian religions? I want to know about the differences befor i pick one. (link)
well what i've been told is that they interperate things in the Bible differently. my family background is catholic but i go to a luthern church as i find it more comfortable. i have been to a catholic church and it seems they are more strict with their beliefs.


me and my friend used to be the best of friends and then like all of sudden we stopped talking then lil bit after that we passed notes =p and talked alot and then this year we did stuff together but we used to tell eachother everything and now I dont even know who shes crushing on!!!! its very confusing i mean shes soo nice and she rele cares and well i just wanna be bffs again (link)
its heaps sad when best friends start to drift. having a best friend is something really special and should not be let go for anything.
my bestie started going out with my ex and i hated her so much for that but we went and saw the school chaplain and sorted out everything without it turning into a yelling argument.
so that is one option. but there are heaps of things you can do. just walk up to her and say can we talk or write her a letter or get another friend to talk to her if you dont want to. there are heaps of options out there, just find one that you are most comfortable with.
but i will admit that talking will work things out best. without communication, and trust, a friendship is nothing.
hope it helped.
~*Nadia*~


ok well im 14 and i have been a cutter since i was 12. im also anorexic. i have been since i was like 10. i also have trouble eating infront of people, when i have to eat. i just get nervous and very self concious when i eat around other people. even my parents. im 4'10" and i currently weigh 94 lb. i want to get over my cutting and eating disorder SO BAD! i have tryed forever but just run back to them. i think about suicide a lot, espically after this year. this year i lost a lot of friends. 2 died in a car accident on the same day and 4 killed themselves. it has affected me badly.
now i am addicted to cutting. i cant feel the pain anymore. no matter how much or how deep i cut. ive tryed the rubber band thing but it doesnt work. if you have any ideas on how to stop then please answer. i rate high. (link)
i can understand you. i dont have anorexia but i have been through the cutting thing. so i will give you my opinon on that.
i started cutting in yr8. but i was able to stop for 2 years. then about 6 months ago i started doing it really bad and got heaps addicted. i wont say that i am totally over it, but i am getting there.
i can't say that there is any trick to stopping or any miracle. but everytime you feel tempted there are so many things you can do. i have an email of 151 things to do instead of SI so i can send you that if u would like, and anyone else too.
you havta be strong and really rely on friends to be a support. i have one friend who i can ring at 3am if i feel tempted.
think about it, what i cutting going to do? make you feel better for a few minutes when there are other options that can make you feel better for long terms. and as you go on and dont cut for longer periods of time you start to feel a lot better within yourself too. days can turn into weeks, and weeks months etc etc. and each day and each week makes you feel even better.
i hope this helped...if not i'm letting you know you're not alone, k?!
~*Nadia*~




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