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Is the saying "Slow poke" or "Slow coach"? cause my friends usually say slowpoke but my boyfriend says it's slow coach,..so which is it? Slow coach makes sense but slow poke sounds much cuter and betetr ^^ (link)
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slowpoke :D
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is it possible to get an abortion without your parents knowing in any wayy? and what are the side effects of getting an abortion? thanks so much. (link)
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i highly doubt it cause abortions cost money... not only that, but why would you want to kill a harmless baby because of YOUR stupid actions...? no offense, but thats cowardly and evil. nothing is worse then killing a baby no matter how tiny it is. its murder. you need to take some serious responsibilities for your actions. seriously. you need to face your problems as well as reality.
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ahhhhh so I'm verrryy good friends with this boy right (15/f hes 16). I have a suspicion that he likes mee. The thing is, he has a girlfriend. But this isn't like the other questions, because I DON't like himm! Just as a friend, and so I think he's breaking up with her for me, because that's what one of his friends said. I don't want that because I just wanna stay friends with him, nothing more then that, like im not attracted to him! So what should I do, because I really don't want him breaking up with her, and I especially don't want him hitting on me if they do berak up
Also, we chill a lot. Like outside of school. So he might not be interested in dating me, so I'm pretty sure he won't ask me out, but he could try to hook up with me, and rejection is preeetty badd. So I have noooo ideaa what to do! (link)
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ask him if he likes you. if he is really breaking up with her for you, he should tell you the truth right? if he says yes, then tell him the truth. tell him you want to stay friends and thats it.
good luck. hope i helped
Mistress Slipknot
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I've been cutting for a couple years now but lately it has been getting worse. I told a teacher, who is my friends mom on terms that she wouldn't report me or tell anyone because she isn't a teacher 24/7 so I was talking to her as my friend's mom. Well that was fine but I told her I would try to stop and if it got worse we could get me help. So I was wondering how your mom / dad or parent reacted when they found out. Or what happens when you go to a school consulor. Thanks. (link)
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its HIGHLY important to tell your parents. im 18, and if i had a kid who was doing that, i would be concerned. i wouldnt be mad, but i would want them to stop. tell a school consulor if its too hard. maybe they could do it for you and school consulors are better in a way cause they can give you the help you need and they are very supportive. so get help, please!
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yeah, so valentines day is tomorrow.
and me and my boyfriend have been going out for a week, and day.
i don't think he's getting me anything.
so i guess i'm not getting him anything either.
but its fine, i guess because we haven't been together long, at all.
so what can i do? to make valentines day cute for us? =/
urgent (link)
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well, you guys can go to the movies, and then go out for a picnic or something and then curl up in a blanket to look at the stars or something like that. its difficult to say because i do not know whether or not your parents would allow that.
good luck, hope i helped
Mistress Slipknot
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does baby fat exist? or are ppl just trying to be nice about the flab on your face/body? (link)
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personally, i think that its just a term used by people to say youre not fat, but youre just chunky, but in a nice way. to me, theres a huge difference between fat and chubby. hope i helped.
Mistress Slipknot
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mints give you a cooling sensation but they dont really make you less hot on a hot summer's day do they? (link)
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uh, not really :)
but they sure do make your mouth moist and cool! im sure you know that the heat can dry your mouth up, but mints and gum can help a lot. especially wintergreen and spearmint
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k so ive been talking to this guy online for quite sometime, and we're never really online anymore to talk so he gave me his number to text or call. he lives in a diferent state sorda far away. would it be stupid of me to text him. i know he isnt some old creep because ive saw other people he actually knows in person talk to him online.
dont be rude. just give me opinions and reasons why. (link)
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no, i dont see anything wrong with texting or calling. just dont give away any personal information. and just because frineds of yours or people you know talking to him doesnt mean that hes not "some old creep" :D
so be careful who you talk to online and all of that. ok?
Good luck!
Mistress Slipknot
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I told my best friend that I am bi sexual and has feelings for her she said she doesn’t feel the same way. I try my best to get over her but its different cult. When class started in my j.r. college I thought to myself this is a good time to get my head straight and be busy to not think of her. But she asks me what time I have my one hour English class and I said at 3 to 430. She has a car and I don’t so she was being kind of enough to take me. (she has class at 530) But I saw her at school waiting for me when I get off the city bus. We talk and hang out and have fun before I go in to class. (I arrive an hour early for class because of the bus schedule.) I see her every Monday and Wednesday, I ask her why she is here early and she said “so I can spend time with you.” when I go in to class I can’t focus I think of her and wonder what to talk about after my class. I try to pay attention but she’s distracting me. So what should I do? I want to get over her and see her as a friend because I don’t want to still like someone who doesn’t feel the same way.
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its ok. this happens alot. i once felt the same way about this guy named Allan. he was constantly on my mind, and there was little i could do to stop myself. i know its difficult, but im not sure how to answer you question, because these things take time, for me it took me two years, but not everyone is the same. its not your fault for liking/loving someone that doesnt like you the same way back. you cant help who you fall for. i know i didnt really answer your question, but i hoped i helped even if it was a little bit. good luck
Mistress Slipknot
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Hello...I am 14 and a guy... and I don’t know what to do...I haven’t had a girlfriend yet...which sucks...well I kind of did but we broke up like in a day...when we never really went out...but I'm not one of the most popular guys in school...but I guarantee that 99% of the people in my grade know my name...and I am kind of popular with the "not-so popular" girls...like I sit with 4 of them at lunch and they laugh at my jokes and sometimes I cant figure out what to say...so I just smile and nod but all of them are really close friends...I even think I talk to them more then I talk to my guy friends...and it would be weird asking one of my friends out...plus it took me like a month to ask that "not real" girlfriend I talked about earlier...and it turned out to be a joke...but like I cant go up to a girl and ask them out...I AM TERRIBLY SHY around girls and even if I did ask them out...I wouldn't know where to ask them to...what to get...what to do...what to say...I need to know what to do to get me to ask a girl and actually know what to do on the date...and if you’ve read this whole thing, I really appreciate it...thank you (link)
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well, if this helps at all, i think its really sweet. if you want to ask a girl, you have to be confident (i would say most girls love confidence, but i like it when a guy is shy i cant explain why though). i would say it is more likely that a guy would ask a girl out that he knows and is close with rather than someone he just sees around and maybe talks to sometimes. i was asked out by one of my bestest friends so that backs up what im saying by a little
but i guess asking a girl what she wants to do for a date depends a little on what shes like or what her interests. same goes for yours too. but heres some i can think of:
*movies
*picnics
*for a walk
*have her come over your house
*go out to lunch (doesnt matter where)
*roller skating/ice skating
*play a game like monoply or twister or even a video game (i know it sounds boring but its a very easy way to socialize and be yourself)
*go shopping at the mall (women love to shop so this could work)
thats all i can think of. but theres way more. just look on google if you want more. type in "inexpensive dates" or something along those lines.
as for what to say:
*be yourself.
*talk about things going on in your life
*ask her if you guys can do something the next day or later that week
*ask her if shes having a good time (always make sure you make her happy, thats what counts but you too derserve to have a good time and be happy)
*tell her youre having a good time and that there isnt anyone else you'd rather spend time with or be with (only if you mean it though)
*talk about your common intrests. that always helps. like your favorite tv show which is also hers or if you like the same music group talk about that as well.
as for what to do:
*always compliment your girl. most girls are very sensitive or self-concious about the way they look.
*chivalry is dead, so pull out a chair for her, open doors for her, be polite and respectful, just the usual.
*be yourself.
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so i like this guy alot. i only told my one guy friend whose friends with him and he said i should ask him out. even though he has a girlfriend. but the thing is there not really together. i know its weird but idk. i really want to spend more time with him and get to know him better and my friend said he will introduce us more tomorrow but the thing is im really shy and i dont know what i would say.
im not sure what im asking here. advice maybe? or just things to tell me?? idk please help!
ps: im clueless (if i dated him he would be my first bf) (link)
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well, just ask what he likes to do and what his favorite tv shows, etc. are and if you have any of the same intrests, and start another conversation when he says something you like. like say he likes rock music, and so do you. you ask him what are his favorite rock bands and he replies and if he says a band you like tell him that you like it and ask which song is his favorite, etc, etc. sorry if its sloppy and not too comprehendable. im horrible at explaining things at times.
good luck
Mistress Slipknot
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hey well you prob remember me with the guy alex who i loved but i asked him out, and he said no, and i moved on, but my friend told me that not being able to text me ruined his day...so i moved on and am always flirting with chris, but the thing is alex knows i like chris. We have always been really close and whenever he sees me flirting with chris he just looks away and looks like hes about to cry. And in school it was formal day and he told me i looked beautiful! not many guys say that to me. Well i think he really likes me, but i think im starting to like him again, but i like chris but idk if he likes me or my bff bc he told her that he liked her but he denies it and my friend always had a thing for chris. Does alex like me? Is chris lieing or is my bff? Who should i take a chance with? Thanks, 14/f (link)
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well, its possible that youre friend is probably lying since she likes Chris(dont know if i got the right idea but even if i didnt, i still wouldnt put myself at risk my bff could try to steal my boyfriend from me (if you ever were to go out. then im sure your friendship would probably go downhill if that happened). just ask if your bff likes chris, and then ask Chris who he likes. some people you can just tell are liars. just dont ask in front of each other. honestly, alex seems more outspoken with his feelings toward you. you dont want a guy who is unsure of what he wants, feels, or just wants to play games. i dont know alex, but it seems to me that he actually cares and wants to be with you. just ask him, but where just the two of you can talk, where not much people go so that he is more likely to tell you the truth. Personally, i would try to get alex. if i was you anyway. and he probably realized he made a mistake and acts like he wants to be with you now. not only that, but if a guy gets sad if youre flirting with someone else, thats obvious that he adores you. (happened to me and we went out lol so im sure he likes you)
good luck!
Mistress Slipknot
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Okay, back when I was in 6 and 7th grade, I was very popular. But, when I started going through puberty I guess I changed. I just went down the hill. Im still pretty popular, I guess. But, I just not sure what happened.Yeah, this is pretty confusing. But, please give advice about what I can do/should do to get back up to the top.
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no offense, but that sounds stupid. it doesnt matter how much youre liked. trust me, ive learned from personal experience that it doesnt matter. i was popular around that time too, but then everything changed when i got into seventh. as i was getting nicer everyone else was getting meaner. then as i started learing the truth about being popular. most people are only popular because theyre snotty, mean and plain nasty. im telling straight so that you dont fall into the same mess i fell into. just be yourself, and everything should fall into place. never please anyone, i guess is my answer. dont be a poser always do your own thing and be your own person. good luck, hope i helped
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