I give my friends a lot of advice on a variety of different things and while I'm at work, I tend to be quite bored and don't have much to do so I was surfing the net and found this site and thought it might be interesting. I've been through a lot...so I think I can help some people out...
...hablo espanol
...je parle francais
Gender: Female
Location: Currently South FL (also have lived in CA, NJ and Spain)
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Age: 26
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OK Well, I am depressed, like i know i am... my mom does too (which is who i live with) and i dunno if i should be put on meds, because i heard that they can make u randomly want to kill yourself and stuff like that. and i've been seeing counslers all my life, and as a matter of fact they are more wacked out than me, its totall crap, i mean they get me to answer questions, which i can't do without crying, because its yearss and yearsss of crap in my life, i mean most of the tim ei just say i don't remebr what happened and stuff, because i start crying and i hate that because then they are like oh i ahve to keep another appt. and so i leave. i mean its not my choice to be there its part of the court order, frum the my parents divorce and stuff. I mean one counsler i saw actually started crying, after tlaking with me...but i sleep way to much, i mean i don't see the harm in that really, its just its gotten so bad that i can't sleep at night and i sit there for 2 hours looking at the ceiling. I mean i questioning everything, io don't really care what happens to me really. what do u do whne u realize your friends and most people are fake. So what the hell should I do. So many people go on meds for being depressed, honestly i can't see how my mind would just change about everything. I mean i am depressed but i don't think i am wrong bout things, I just finally came to the realaity bout people, and life, and how things freakin suck. (link)
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Do not go on Meds...especially ZOLOFT!!! Stay away from them. Drugs do more harm than good. If your mom is depressed you need to be away from her as much as possible. Depression is contagious. If you have friends who are happy and optimistic hang out with them. Or make new friends who are more optimistic. I've been through a lot in my life...parents divorce, father died, step family, moving, death death death...etc...Everything gets better in the end. Get involved in something. It sounds cheesy but join some clubs. I always found that movies cheered me up...I watched so many until I nearly went blind. Yes most people are fake, just laugh at them and try to find the real ones. I don't know how old you are, but from what i can infer you're still pretty young. You have a lot ahead of you, start looking forward to what you can do and don't worry about the past. Find some positive people...even if you would never be around them before, happy people really rub off. Take time to do stuff and not worry about anything...everything gets better...TRUST ME!!! STAY AWAY FROM THE MEDS!!!!
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has anyone here become pregnant at a young age? please tell me ur story, im 15 and 3 weeks pregnant, n i dont know if i should get an abortion. what did ur parents say and do? (link)
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Never been pregnant...my advice...Get an Abortion. Seen it happen to many other girls...your life will be more difficult than it should and you'll miss out on a lot...plus you might cause harm to baby's life in the process. You'll miss out on your whole life if you have a child early. Sorry. I'm blunt...i can't help it.
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I want to start taking double courses and graduate very early because in a weird way i cant stand high school. I need to go to a different place and begin something new. My Question: Does anybody know of any reallly good schools in New York State, Pennsylvania area? PLEASE help me here .lol thank you so much!
*-Janine (link)
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A friend of mine did the same thing. The problem with going to a regular university is that you'll be dumped in with the older crowd and be excluded most likely. My friend ended up going to a school called Simon's Rock, its in Great Barrington...Massachusets I wanna say. Its for gifted students or whatever, but also a college so people of all ages go there. She loved it and finished college a year early and went on to an Ivy League school after there. High school sucks...yes...I wish I had left early too. :)
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do u people think its weird if ur a girl and tell a gurl u luv dem like when they are about 2 get offline? cuz my friend online who is lez said dat 2 me and i said it bak cuz i have known her 4 a while and she is like 1 of my best friends. is there sumthin wrong with that?cuz now that i think about it it kinda seems weird i juss said it witout thinkin.
much luv people!!
holla
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I tell all my friends, guys girls whatever, that I love them. No big deal.
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I like this guy named Matt and we just recently started talking but ive known him for about 2 mounths in 5th period we always talk to eachother over the internet ( the class is keyboarding) and he always says stuff like I love you and Will U marry me and stuff like that Im trying to figure out what this means
Also in 1st and 3rd he sits accross the room and he stares at me alot PLEASE dont delete this I am really confused! (link)
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Does he ever talk to you besides on the internet??? I love you and will you marry me??? Ahh...one of two things, either the boy is seriously twisted in the head and actually believes these things...or he is just messing with you. Pay no attention to him. If he writes anything again on the Internet, tell him if that's true then he can say it to your face and otherwise ignore him. Boys are idiots, no matter what age. :)
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What should you do if you keep on babysitting and they always say they will pay you but never do, and you are too nervous to ask them to pay you? (link)
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Don't babysit there anymore. They're not your kids, not your responsibility. Or if you were referred to them by a mutual friend, or parent or something tell them instead.
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i meen i really want a boyfriend but i guess im can be picky about who i like , some of my friends will go out with sum 1 that they have very little feelings for but i want to go out with some i really lik e but i dont liek anyone in my shcool and theres jsut no one thats i liek yet i jsut wish i would find him is this ok should i look harder be less picky or will i find him (link)
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Be picky!!! IT'll be well worth your wait!!! If you have high standards it means you are intelligent and by no means should you settle for someone below par. :) Eventually you'll realize that people aren't perfect and you do have to put some things aside, but until you figure out what is insignificant don't change your standards. If you're still in High school or below...no worries...life changes after high school and those guys before, won't even matter. I didn't date in high school because my standards were high and I knew I had no intentions of staying local afterwards, so I lived up the time with my friends. It was a lot less stressful and I was able to concentrate on school. When I got to college I went wild though and have been enjoying it ever since and dating guys up to my standards. They exist, trust me. Good luck
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Okay, so I'm 14 and a female. My boyfriend broke up with me a couple weeks ago because he 'wanted to stop dating for awhile'. I pretended not to care and all this. My friends ended up getting all up in it and now he knows I still love him and he said he loved me, but I think he was lying. I still haven't directly told him I still love him because he said he didn't want to go out with anyone for awhile and I totally respect his wishes. My friends just don't get this. What should I do? Because I mean, I'd do anything to get my boyfriend back, I just don't think he's really in to me anymore. (link)
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You are 14 years old!!! No no no. Its good you broke up. YOu are way too young to get in such a serious relationship. Trust me, go out and date date date. Meet lots of guys, don't commit. Guys are a waste of time until you're ready for a SERIOUS commitment. Get through college and then decide. :) I'm 22 and I've fallen into relationships over the years and the best thing I did was to END THEM. Have fun. Don't stress. You'll meet others. :)
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I'm 14 i have bluish green eyes, long dark hair, and tan skin. although i have been told by guys that i am pretty, they all say they could never date me because of my body. i am 5'8 130 LBs (a size two pants) with a size B cup. i have never met a guy who liked tall girls. i am starting to get selfsonscience. HELP! (link)
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At 14 the majority of the guys you are meeting are most likely too immature anyways. I'll tell you something too, I'm 5'9, not exactly 130 lbs (quite a few more, but I'm no beast) and through high school and such I was given a problem about my height, I took it personally. Then as I got older I realized that guys are just fools at that age, well some never get over being a fool. Also, I have been told by many of my guy friends who are shorter than me, that I am extremely intimidating, not only because of my strong personality but my height as well. I even spent a year in Spain, where people are considerably shorter and had to deal with it there. Many times I went out on dates and the guy would say well you know You're too tall. SO I'd just tell him that he was wrong and he was too short. GUys that give you a problem about your height are insecure about themselves and probably trying to make up for their own shortcomings, if you get what I mean. Don't stress, at 14 its not that big of a deal. And trust me there are plenty of guys out there who like tall girls. NO worries. :)
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