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ok so my bf and i r going out and i went to his house yesterday we started making out and one thing lead to another and he took off my shirt and bra.we continued making out but i eventually put my clothes back on after like 3 minutes. I'm only 14 and a female and i feel like I'm a slut because we've only been going out for 3 weeks. he said that he loved me and he always talks about the future in like years but i don't know what to think. am i slut? (link)
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Oh Sweetie,
you aren't a slut your only expirementing and that's fine just remember dont go TO far and have sex with the no matter what until yor alot older. And dont fall for anything he's trying to conviince to do by saying he loves you because at this age he really probably doesnt. So remember use your brain and stay safe, you are NOT at slut.
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Im gonna try to keep this as shortt as possible. Basically, recently when i smoke weed, i experience some crazy stuff. Its just the weirdest scariest feeling to me and its the same feeling everytime and i hate it. It doesnt happen to anyone else im ever with when i smoke, and i know its not hat the weed is laced or anything because its the same exact feeling no matter what weed i smoke. Everytime i have a n opportunity to smoke, i convince myself that it wont happen this time, that its just all in my head and i cant think about it. But no, it happens everytime. I thijk tonight might be my last night getting high if i cant figure out the reasoning for this. I wanna be able to feel good when i smoke, not like a strobe light, paranoid, tingly, and like im dying..
The best way i can describe the feeling is that i get very confused and woozy suddenly and everything starts spinnibg. Then it kind of feels like im trapped in my body and half of me has no clue where i am or what im doing but then at the same time i know exactly whats going on. My whole entire body tingles and sometimes i cant feel myself and it feels like my fingers kind of go through everything i touch. Everymove i make feels delayed or like chopped, i cant really explain it but im praying someone knows what im talking about or someone has gone through this because i need to know that the same exact feeling happened or happens to someone else
could this be what they call "the strobe light effect?"
if so, how can i stop it from happening when i smoke?
Im not on any medications and i dont have any wierd health problems.
If its not the strobe light effect then what could it be? I want to know whats causing my body to react that way tk weed and it cant be that im alergic to thc because ive smoked for a year with no problems before it started happening
Thank you very much:) (link)
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Well first of all you shouldn't be smoking at all. And second you should quit because I have heard of this happening I dont now what it's called though. Anyway, If this happens when you smoke then it will happen every time you smoke it's your body's way of reacting to the marijuana. So if it doesnt feel good then just stop drugs all together please because they are horrible,nasty,disgusting things that are ruining you life all together.
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I'm a 14 year old female and my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 weeks. We were making out and he started taking off my shirt and bra i didn't mind that much so i let him continue and we made out for like 2-3 minutes with my clothes off. I feel like I'm a slut for going that far. He says I'm not but I know he would say that because he wants it to happen again. Am i a slut? (link)
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Oh honey,
You are definatley not a slut your just experimenting. At that age sure it's okay to expirement just remember to wait a few years to have sex (technically that wasn't sex even if you clothes were off) But you are NOT a slut your only experimenting don't worry about it!
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16/f me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months today. we have planned on haveing sex weve talked about it. he says the girls supose to be on top but i beg to differ i mean theres alot of possions i no that but like idk. also im very uncomfterble with my body i mean im not fat and im not skinny and i have huge boobs 34dd and a huge ass. but im scarred to go on top because my boobs are large and kinda sag abit and im really uncomfterble about it. do you think he would care... :/
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Of course he should care. Talk to him and if he doesnt care then obviously he's not the "one" to take your virginity. If your uncomfortable you don't have to be on top. Especially since it's your first time then you shouldn't do anything you don't want to and remember to be protected
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Is masterbating and having an orgasm yourself comsinderd having sex? And can a gyna-pussy doctor tell if you have ever had an orgasm? (link)
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No it doesnt count as having sex and yes I think you gynacologist ( I know thats spelled wrong) can tell but Im not totally sure
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how to kill your self with out pain
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Killing yourself definatley IS NOT the answer trust me if eve if you dont think so ther are people in your life that care about you more than you can imagine even if you dont think so or it doesnt seem like it please dont do this it's not the answer.
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