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E-mail: gabishkellies@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Here
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Age: 14
AIM: xoxogabzy
Member Since: March 13, 2004
Answers: 103
Last Update: October 4, 2005
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i have a horse and i really love her but shes getting to much for me to handle my mum says i shold sell her and choose another career and she wont let me have another horse if we sell this one and there doesn't seem to be anyone to help me (link)
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Don't sell your horsey. I don't know about you but I would NEVER sell my pet unless my life seriously depended on it. I love my dog, dont you love your horse?
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My friend thinks that she is addicted to smoking, but she has only been smoking for about a week. Could she really be addicted or is she being stupid!!? (link)
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Well you have to talk to your friend or give him/her a candy siggarett instead
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i have a bf who is cheating on me and wat shold i do (link)
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uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh... Buh Bye!
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im almost 12 and i am tall 4 my age but i weigh like 115. I no thats bad! (link)
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Thats good! Its bad to be fatt.
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In our school, we have teams that everyone is seperated on each year. We dont usually associate with the other teams. This year my best friend and I were put together...but next year, we won't be. I know everyone says that I will make new friends, but it is the hardest thing in the world, because I will never see the person that means the most to me! What can I do? I feel really empty inside...I can't live without seeing her everyday! We won't be in the same hallway or anything, not even the same classes! Now what? (link)
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I'm sorry, I had the same problem with my friend. We were in da same class for 5 years and now we barely see each other. Well i dont really wanna make you feel bad but make the best of it. See her when you can.
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I have a boyfriend whom I love very much. We have been together for over two and a half years. This spring I graduate from college, and this summer I'm going to move several hours away and get started on landing my dream job. There's no telling what my work schedule will be like, so I probably won't get to see him very often. But that's not even the real problem.
My boyfriend has never been in college, even though he has always wanted to go, due to poor grades in high school and lack of financial resources. He works the graveyard shift at a local grocery store. He used to complain that he hated his job, now he says it's not that bad, and that eventually he'll do something better. He talks about all his plans for the future, but he doesn't do much to put the plans in action. He did buy a few SAT guides and has studied them a bit, but has yet to take the SAT even once, as he says "It costs money" and "I don't know where it is." (Two problems that are easily solved if you ask me -- if he didn't buy video games so often, he'd easily have enough money to take them, and finding out where to take the SAT is as easy as looking it up.) He doesn't have his license or a car, and I don't have a car quite yet either, so it's difficult for him to get around to places, and he refuses to ask people for rides or just take the bus or a taxi, for some reason. He's talked numerous times about saving money in order to get into school or get a car (to make life easier) or whatever, but something always comes up. Once he spent several hundred dollars on a computer, saying he "needed" it to look up schools, but all he's done with it is play games and surf the Internet and download songs. Another time he spent 150 bucks on a PS2, when he had been saving that money up for school. Other times, he's told me that he is waiting to see where I wind up career-wise, then he'll move there and go to school wherever I am! He originally planned to move in with me this summer, but something in my gut told me that was not a good idea just yet, so I told him I'd like to wait on that.
I have held several discussions with him about this before. Every time, I let him know that if he didn't really want to go to school, or was having trouble trying to figure out where to get started with it all, I would help him out as best I could. I mean, I'm very lucky to come from a family that could afford to send me to school, and to have had a lot of guidance early on about colleges and things of that sort. He's doing this all on his own, and I've always been very eager to try and help him out as much as I could. But he's put off all offers of my help, and sometimes, it's like he's just waiting on me to tell him what he needs to do. I have my own job and schoolwork and life to worry about at the moment, and he's got to meet me halfway. I can tell him where to go to register for the SAT or who to talk to at my own college about career and college guidance, but he always insists that I go with him. One time I told him about a minorities program that would help him out a lot financially (he's Puerto Rican), but he put off going to see the advisor and well, he just never did it. Another time I was telling him about how a friend of mine pays for school by being a resident advisor, and he instantly turned down that idea flat without even looking into it, saying "Nah, that's just not for me."
He often says things like, "You've got to have faith in me, because if you don't trust me, how can we have a relationship?" Well, I do trust him, but how can I have faith in him when he doesn't do anything?
We've been friends for 8 years and I love him with my whole heart, and I want him to be there in the future when I'm ready to get married and buy a house and settle down. He knows this, and he's always said he wants the same things, and I believe he does. But the last thing I want is to marry someone who can't even pay his share of the bills! Let me make it clear that I pay for plenty of things myself in this relationship. I'm not the kind of girl who wants a guy based on how much money he has. If I see something nice that I want, I buy it for myself, most of the time. So I'm not asking for the world here. I can make my own dreams come true! But I would like to see him live out all his dreams, and I'd like to see him live the nice comfortable life he says he wants to live. These are all things he's brought up on his own, not words I put in his mouth. It's not as if I'm trying to force him to want the same things I want.
These days, he spends most of his time (when he's not sleeping or working) playing video or computer games or watching basketball games, or hanging out with me. When I encourage him to do stuff or make suggestions or offer some help, he tells me he's working on it and seems eager to change the subject. So, I take that to mean that I've nagged too much in the past and he's grown tired of hearing it, and so in the past few months I haven't really brought it up at all. The last thing I want is to be a huge nag and drive him crazy.
I've been in lots of relationships and this is easily the best one. He is extremely kind, generous, fun, very talented and creative, and best of all, he loves ME exactly the way I am! He has never tried to change a single thing about me (well, except the fact that I am a big slob, haha). So I feel bad that I'm being a hypocrite of sorts by trying to change him. But it's not so much that, as that he says he's going to do things with his life, and then he doesn't do them. Even my family and friends have noticed that he's not really going anywhere. I hate when my family asks me questions about the progress he's making with school (because they're excited for him wanting to get into school, not because they're trying to be snotty or nosy), because I have nothing new to share with them. If he would just be upfront and honest and say "I don't want to go to school" that would be fine. But he says he does want to go, he's always said that, before we ever got romantic.
I feel I also have to mention that this is not the only thing he has been slow about. He hasn't seen his family, who live in Texas, in close to three years. My mother looked up some discount plane tickets for him several times that he could have easily afforded, but he wouldn't go, even though he is always talking about how much he misses them, and emailing them and calling them! My mother was very confused about that. I was, too! Other times he'll say he's going to go see his fam in a few months, but a few months later, it's obvious it's not going to happen!
I don't want to let him go, but I wonder. Am I justified in worrying that I'm going to be hanging on forever waiting for him to DO something? Am I doing something wrong in the way I try to talk to him, since I wind up hitting a brick wall every single time? Am I being a huge bitchy snob who needs to stop trying to make her boyfriend be just like her? Everything's perfect in our relationship, to a tee, except this. Maybe I should let him find someone who is better than me. (link)
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Hello, you're givin me sumtin to read here. anyway, I didnt read the whole thing, sorry but here is a few suggestions on i guess some questions i've read. Your boyfriend here, maybe he should study hard and take a few courses. It's never to late and if he and you are concerned about the future he should really consider the thought. You and him could make a great couple, you're in love and if he doesn't know much he could learn alot off you. well, thats just a few suggestions, good luck to both of you!
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Hello,
well i am really good at singing and i really want to be a singer when i grow up. Could someone tell me how i would get a cd out or any websites that have like a singing contest???!?!!? I really really love singing and i think i could do it so please answer back. (link)
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OK, if I knew how to get out there I'd be there but I'm takin a nice guess for you... make a demo nd send it out to an agency or sumtin. Maybe some thing that you can find online...
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how do i ask a girl out on line (link)
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I'm guessin google run a search on match making, date hotline, and i think you can figure it out. Or find some matchmaking site or a date hotline site.
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O.K there is this boy that likes me. I don't like him but I feel bad... Like how do I say no without hurting his feelings? I had already told him no but he keeps asking me out... I need help! (link)
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Either use the old fasion way and say lets just be friends, or go out with him and break up after a while and make him hate you, or just tell him you don't like him. Not to take it personal but he's not your type or something
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Ok I can not stand this girl at my school she is a total b****!She thinks that she is popular but she isn't she is sooo mean tooo everyone.I was friends with her but then I started to date her ex- and she got so mad!!!!And she already got a boyfriend after she dumped her ex-!I just can't stand her!HELP!HELP!HELP!HELP!HELP!HELP!HELP!
signed,
HELP (link)
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Well I hate some people like that too not that I would ever mention but... Get Her Back. I'm not really filled with idea's for this one because I just thought about it and never had the guts to do it. But then again only do this if she is really that much of a B**** to you.
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Hi I am someones friend and Im using there computer and I really need to ask a question but theya re sleeping so I just decided to ask anyways....
Well I hate myself and I tried hanging myself like 3 times.. am I crazy?? (link)
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Alright, how should I put this, suicide is a crime but you're not completly crazy. I mean you just have low self-esteem or you're depressed at the moment. I get agrivated with myself alot. I don't try to kill myself but I hit myself or scratch myself real hard. It's alright, just dont get as far as to acually commiting suicide.
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I like this guy.I mean I really,really,like him. He stares at me all the tame and teases me playfully. And when this kid tried 2 kiss me he had his head down.He has his head down a lot around me.Does he like me or is he just friendly to all girls? (link)
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i think he likes you.
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I'm doing a report on Anorexia and i would like to know what it is so could you please tell me what it is. Thank you so very much!! (link)
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ok, this is nt homework helpers and i'm not gunna give you any answers or write your report for you but i'll just tell u Anorexia is a problem people that don't eat have. If you dont eat and you are extreemly skinny, you are anerexik.
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I like this boy but i am in 8th grade and he is in 6th grade is he to young to go out with? he is real nice and cute and he is soupose to be in 7th. i really want to go out w/ him but is he to young?
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age 14 going on 15 (link)
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u like him? Go out w/ him. I'm sure he'de like to date an older girl.
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I am 35. I have three children? I am still with the last two children father? Will i be happy with him? Will we get married?
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ok this is ur third question in a row. the first one was fine, leave it!
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Will we get married?
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u n hoo?
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THERE'S THIS BOY THAT I LIKE BUT HE HAS A G-FRIEND WE FLIRT BUT I DON'T KNOW IF HE LIKES ME. SHOULD I TRY TO BREAK HIM AND HIS G-FRIEND UP OR JUST LET IT BE. (link)
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see how his relationship goes. when they break up go get him.
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My friend is anorexic. What should i do?
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talk to her. tell her you're worried. try to help her eat something. Maybe give her a little treat eventually, maybe some cookies or sumtin she wood like.
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is there any way to get rid of freckles? (link)
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Well, there was once this book called frekle juice but that won't work. Try avocado, i think I read that in a book once.
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hi guys. i have this white gooey discharge stuff and i had it for maybe 1 to 2 years but now its getting kinda heavier. sometimes i have really bad cramps... but i know i dont have my period because i never had any blood down there. does this mean i am going to have my period soon?
oh and please answer the question if you know the answer because i really need to know!!!!!!!! (link)
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Most likely... yes. I think, atleast that's what I learned in science last year. And I think.
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