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Ok well i have a friend who I can talk w/ abou my issues. Me and her go through the same stuff, right? Well, I read one of her and my other friends conversation. She was sayign how she htought she could talk to me about the stuff we're going through but she thinks I onyl talk about myself. And I only care abou myself. what can I do to prove her wonrg and show her that i realy care abotu her too? Thank-you (link)
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I think that when you guys sit down and talk that yo need to make just a little bit more of an effort to hear her out. Its fine to tak about your issues but when she talks about her issues make sure that you actually pay attention and listen and give her some feedback and dont compare evrything to yourself. just make sure she knows that she has soem one that will really listenh to her 2
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ok so friday my friend tells me my friend who ive known for 3 years likes me. i didnt know what to believer b/c well yea but i mentioned it to my best friend who had been texting w/ him and she asked him if he would go out with me and he said yea but she doesnt like me. so i have choir banquet next month and i decided that i would ask him b/c yea ok i like him and my sister decides to tell his sister and she askes him what he would say if i asked him to choir banquet and my sister gets this text back saying " my dads making him say yes" whats going on! hes told all my friends he likes me and now i hear his dad is making him say yes? can someone please explain this to me? PLEASE! (link)
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Im not sure whats going on with all this back and forth stuff yo9u should go up to your friend that you have known for 3 years and tell him all the gossup that has been going on and ask him whats true and what is incorrect. Ask him if he acctually wants to go to your choir practice.
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Yesterday I went to PacSun with my friend. I walked into the back of the store, because the hoodies were marked down. As we were browsing, an employee walked past us and sort of stopped. We both looked at him. He went, "Hey!" in the friendlist voice. I was shocked by his charisma, really, I haven't seen anyone so gorgeous. I said "Hi!" back, and we both laughed like little kids. He asked me if I needed any help, and I asked him if he could find a medium for me. When it was time for me to buy it, he looked at me incredulously (but still friendly) and told me he'd hold it for me while I looked around more. I told him that was all I wanted and he kept insisting. Then, you know how you're staring at something so beautiful everything the person is saying is muffled? That's what happened, when I heard him say something about my face. I know it wasn't bad, because he smiled, almost flirtingly. I gave in and looked around more. When I went back, I said that was all I wanted, and he was like, "Are you sure? I mean It's not really the season for hoodies" Please note that when I was talking to him, I was beet red in the face and I was showing all signs of nervousness. He asked if I was alright about 5 times. He was like, "Is it something I did?" I thanked him and walked out of there. A few questions: Do you think he wanted me to stay because he wanted me to buy more, or stay longer because he was attracted? I never asked him his name, and I'm so desperate, I called Pacsun twice, then hung up because a girl picked up! I thought about him and regret how I never asked for his name..or age. I'm 14 years old. I hope to death he is young because If I ever hook up with him, I don't want it to be RAPE! I desperately need help. Pleaseeee. I will rate 5's.
Plus, what can I do when I go back to the store? I want to come back and say something, but I need suggestions. Thank you so much in advance. Sorry for the length. (link)
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I dont think he wanted you to stay jsut to buy more stuff i think he wanted you to stay because he liked you like you liked him. It seems like it was love at 1st sight i wouldnt just let this fly by i would go back in when he is working and wi ould buy something else make it seem like you were just inn shopping then you should eithergive him a note with your name and number and see if he wants to hang some time or i would simply ask him for his name and ask him if he wants to go out some time.
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alright i went out with this guy for a month. i was really upset when he broke up with me but im over it now. recentely ive found out he is going out with a girl in middle schhool (were freshman) & for whatever reason that really bothered me. i still sort of talk to him but we had schedule changes. i wanna hang out with him but make sure i dont start liking him again bc itd be more me just wanting someone than wanting him. i know that sounds awful of me but i dont want that to happen. he told me friend that whenever he saw me he was happy so i think he's trying to be a "player" he told my friend that he like a couple girls. how do i keep him as a friend but let him know i dont want anything other than that? (link)
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You just need to come strait out with him and let him know that you guys are stricktly friends and thats it you dont want nothing else and make sure your ready to be friends. You guys have to both handle being friends and not act like a couple when together hopes this helps
need anything else you can email me at
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If I have strech marks left over from me losing weight...will they ever go away? (link)
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Yess, They will eventually go away your skin needs time to come back together since it was stretched out. You should use some cocoa butter and rub it in thoughly hopes this helps if you need anything else you can email me at
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i'm 17, and i like this guy who is 27. usually i like guys who are within my age range.. but i suppose you can't help who you fall for. he's very quiet and seems very lonely.. hes doing law so he spends a lot of time studying and doesn't go out too much. he always jumps at the opportunity to speak to me when we see each other. well, i'm not sure what to do about this. 17 is legal for consent and all where i live (so its not a legality thing) but i guess it does sound kinda bad that hes 10 years older than me. i'm wondering whether i should just try and forget about him or whether i should try for this. i don't really care about age, but he might feel differently, and society always views these kind of things as unacceptable. so just curious what everyone thinks of the age gap, and whether it's worth pursuing or not.....?
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Hey Umm... with your sittuation i also dont really care about age.... although you know how older guys are and usually what there after so either way you do have to be careful im not saying to leave him alone but if i were you i would remain just friends for now go out occasionally get to know eachother better and then see where you want to take things considering the age difference but as long as both of you are happy thats all that matters. Just remember to take things SLOW! Well hope this helps if you need anything else you can e-mail me at NELLYLOVA1489@AOL.COM
have a good day buh bye
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Okay. I was supposed to get my period at..eh..around the 20 of last month. obviously i haven't. :( and i'm a bit confused why.
I'm NOT sexually active, nor have I ever had sex.
I'm 13.
But I can't say that defensivley because there are many people my age sexually active.
I just got over being sick..could that effect it?
Thanks for your help. :] (link)
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Hey hun whats up umm.... I think i know what your problom is you see my period comes whenever it wants and i noticed that a long time ago when i wasn't sexually active either so i didn't understand what exactly the problom was so i went to the doctors and i was told i had an irregular period which a lot of people have even me so you just might have that.... what they do is give you birth control pills dosnt mean ur having sex or nothing it just makes sure your period comes monthly on time. hope this helps if you need anything email me nellylova1489@aol.com
Anabel
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i met this girl on a school trip to another city. well we hung out a bit n danced a little n i think shes cute. well when i got back to my city all i knew about her was her name and that she went to a school near where i went to, cuz i forgot to ask for a number. well i asked a friend that goes to that school about her and turns out she lives down the street from him, so iono should i go visit? would that be stalkin? cuz i didnt mean to find out where she lived, i juss asked about her. would it be weird?
if it is weird wat else could i try, she dont have mysapce n other stuff (link)
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Hi my name is Anabel i really dont think it would be stalking at all. You never know she is probably looking for you 2. I would go hang out with your friend and take a walk down to her house or maybe your friend can get her number for you. Maybe an address so you can write her. hope this helps Bye
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