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when u give a b/j are u suppose to spit the cum out or swollow?

All up to you babycakes
;)

either is good.

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ok i kno this boy and we used to be such great friends like best friends and all of a suden i hear things that he says shit behind my back to my friends. and then he wuld talk to me on the phone and act like nuthing is wrong then 2 hours into the convo he calls me a retard and a douschbag and all the shit. and it like relli hurts my feeling for him to say that to me.

do u have any idea wats going on here??!!

i need help, and fast =[

Hmm, well it depends on your relationship with him, and it sounds like hes being an asshole or he could be flirting with you.
Sometimes people say stuff like that and mean nothing by it.
If hes being mean to you, stay away from him,
but if you like him , its another story and its gonna take time for you to get over him or for him to get over himself.
Give him a little bit of a taste of his own medicine , and be a little mean but not too mean.
And see how he reacts.
I dont know exactly whats going on, so i dont know exactly how to help you.
Hope I helped!

--Kendra

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Okay so last monday me and some friends were hanging out. And the boy I so happen to have a crush on was there but he has a girlfriend. Okay well we were flirting A LOT. And by the end of the day we ended up kissing. >_< I feel so horrible about this! So basically I made him cheat on his girlfriend. And everyday I feel worse and worse about it. What do I do? Im so confused right now. =(

You can't make somebody cheat,you have no reason to feel sorry about this.It was his dession to cheat even if you knew he had a girlfriend

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im 16 and me and my g/f were having sex. wen i fingered her she squirted. what is it wen girls squirt? sperm? is it normal?

It's normal I think

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i like this grl and idk if she likes me but wenever i ask her out she always says that she dnt wanna go out with me cuz she thinks that her good friend (my ex) will be mad at her wat should i do?

Hmm, thats tough.
In a way, shes doing the right thing , but in a way shes doing the wrong thing.
Her friend might still like you, becuase girls take longer to get over guys than vis a versa.
The girl you like, may like you but is being a good friend and not going out with you becuase of your ex's feelings.
But at the same time, your ex is holding the girl you like back from going out with you.
If i were you, i wouldnt get involved.
Let them sort it out and eventually a decision will be made for the better.
Wait it out, i promise things will get better over time.
good luck!
--Kendra

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Me and this boy had a thing over the summer and i really fell for him,hard.
He seemed like he really liked me always calling me and wanting to hangout everything seemed perfect and then school started and he stopped calling,answering my messages on myspace and we just drifted apart. I dont tell anyone this but i miss him a whole lot. We still talk every once in a while but its not the same. I just want to forget about him but everytime i try that by getting with someone else all i can think about is how much i wish that someone else was him
any advice on how i can forget him?
thanks.

Its hard to forget someone, and If you want to know the truth if you can forget someone maybe their not ment to be forgoten.
You can't forget someone that you fell for that easily, those kind of things take lots of time.
And I dont mean , weeks.
It could take monthes,or even years depending on if your around him alot or not.
To tell you the truth, the guy probably still likes you alot as a friend.
But honestly guys get sick of the same girl,unlike us they want a different girl.
I dont know why, they just do.
Or they want to rotate.
Guys at these ages are just immature and almost no boy is ready for commitment without hurting a girls feelings.
If you want to forget him , picture him taking a shit orrrr you have to let it come natuarlly.
Remember emotions arent irriversible

Hope I helped

--Kendra

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hey im a 15/f and I'm looking for a good perfume. Any suggestions? The name, price, and where you can buy it would be greatly appreciated! girls and guys can say. Girls your favorites, and guys, the ones you think smell good on a girl. Thanks again!

Go for Brittney Spears Fantasy or Curious , or the Hollister one call Mallia.
Those are the best, i get compliments all the time on them.
The brittney spears ones run from anywhere from 40-55, i think.
Depending on the sizes and if you get the giftpackage.
The Hollister one is 19.50 for the small bottle and I forget how much for the big bottle.

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ummmmm,, when you give a blowjob,,, is it right to swallow the cum cuz last night i did and i threw up all over my boyfriends penis,




kendra u had expirence this ones for you!!

Well in your case , you should fill it up in a carton and pour it in your fucking cereal.

Good luck princess.

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I am 12, and I have a boyfriend who is 17. He tells me everyday that he loves me, and that he wants to show he loves me by having sex with me. Well, like i said, I am only 12, and i haven't gotten my period yet. So, i can have sex with him and not get pregnant right? Also, I do not know if I want to do this, but he threatens to break up with me if I don't.
What should i do?

Wow, your in alot of pressure right now.
First of all , he is 17 that is a 5 year age difference, which at your age is alot.
Having sex at 12 is also a very young age to be having sex, I dont know the risks of getting pregnant but nothing is impossible.
If he threatens to break up with you because you wont have sex with him, that is totally wrong.
And he is usuing you for sex.
If thats all he cares about, he cant possible love you as much as he claims he does.
You have to make sure he respects your opionion and your decision, its not his decision.
But its hard to tell him that, so give him little clues and then finally tell him.
It will all make sense to him somehow.
If you get pressured into doing it, do it safely and use a condom, but please weigh out your options before you make this decision.
You have everything to loose, so think wisely.
I hope I helped!

--Kendra

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um, well im a girl
and i happen to like another girl, but does this mean im gay?
i would never like date her but im just attracted to her.
i have a boyfriend but he doesnt know this.
should i tell him how i feel about this girl?
and would i be considered a lesbian?

No, Those feelings are completly 100 perecent natural.
You arent considered a lesbian and honestly if I were you, Id think nothing of it.
You probably just think shes really pretty, which most girls do think about eachother.
Its a stage in life, but its deffinetly not permanent.
If You have a boyfriend and you dont have feelings for this girl, then im almost positive your not a lesbian.
Dont tell your boyfriend, it will just play games with his mind and confuse him.
You have to be able to hide some stuff from him ;]

Hope I helped!

--Kendra

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how do u give a guy a b/j cause my b/f wants me 2 give him 1 but im kinda nervous cause i dont know how to give one

Since this is a publically seen question, you'll have to talk to us personally about it.
Kendras myspace- myspace.com/iloveyoutooxo
Alexs myspace-myspace.com/thepilotalexface

Kendras Aim= iwantkendraa
Alexs aim= Alex the pilotx

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i have a disease. its called aids.
what will it do to me?
is it bad?
HELP.

Its a very bad discease you must have gotten from sex.
You can look it up on google , try typing in "aids and hiv"
and you will get tons of information of the discease.
Im sorry you have this discease, Good luck to you.

--kendra

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Well im a fat kid and i am smart and ok at sports. I am on a diet and i have lost 27 pounds. What so you think i should do to loose more weight. I am already going to start playing football to help but what else should i do

If you are already loosing weight from what you are doing then continue what your doing.
Dont over do it, and Dont be diet obsessed.
I [kendra] am personally diet obsessed and it is so horrible to be that way becuase you gain weight and loose weight VERY easily, so try not to be like that.
Exercise is important too, you need to burn the calories that you dont burn off in a day or else it stores to fat and once it gets to 3500 then you've got yourself a pound.
When your exercising , dont over do it.
I tend to do that soemtimes and its not healthy.
30 minutes of cardio vascular activity is what starts to burn fat, usually a good 30-60 minutes is a good amount of exercise.
When you eat, make sure you eat all the food groups and not just certain ones.
You need 2-3 servings of fruit, and 2-3 servings of veggies.
Dont forget proteins and carbohydrates.
Hope I helped!
If you need more help, ask again

--Kendra

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Im going to get my eyebrows waxed for the first time today...does it hurt?

Personally, it hurts for like a half of a second and then is fine.
Its not as bad as it sounds,i think plucking eye brows with a tweezer hurts alot more than waxing.
Good luck!

--Kendra

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i hav a mac, an ibookg4 and i am trying to click on my limewire, but whenever i click on it, it bounces, and then it doesn't go to limewire. has anyone had this problem before? how do i fix it?

I dont have a mac but ive had the exact same problem.
I tried fixing it, i tried re downloading , i tried everything.
Nothing is gonna work. I liked Limewire until that happend, so I found a new music site to download from.
Its called Blubster and its free and it works pretty good.
If your transferring music from Blubster to iTunes , you have to save the music as a file and then transfer the file onto itunes, its very easy.
hope i helped!

--Kendra

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does it feel weird to give a blow job?

Um, Ill have to get back to you on that one.
Sorryyyy

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what do you do to masterbate for a girl?

Are you a boy or a girl?

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what does masturbation do for a girl?
and how come at a certain point i cant do it anymore? like it doesnt hurt, but idk explain it please lol

Um, well im pretty sure its just like what guys do it for, pleasure lol.
You probably cant do it anymore becuase your body might have already seeked its pleasure and doesnt need more.
Thats my only guess...
Try finding another spot, that might help

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now i was playing truth or dare and someone dared me to stick a pencil up my vajayjay and i did now when i go pee pee which i do alot it is purple and it burns what should i do.

wow, nice dare.
You should have used a pen with a cap
but ugh, you probably just irritated the skin.
You'll be fine in a little bit or a day , I PROMISEEEEEEE

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i read in a magazine that one sign of a guy cheating is if their cell rings and they either shut it off quickly or run to another room to talk. my boyfriend usually does this, but theres no other evidence of him cheating. [although he was accused of cheating on me once although it was a lie because this girl just liked him, and hes sworn he'd never cheat on me because he's been cheated on too many times]. am i just being paranoid?

Honestly i highly doubt hes cheating on you.
With the phone thing, it could be someone annoying and he could just want to shut them up.
It could be his mom or dad or family member and he could be embarassed to talk to them in front of you.
Or there could be someone calling and he doesnt want to be bothered with them becuases hes with you or if someone calls once , he might turn it off to avoid future disturbances.
See there are many things he could be doing, cheating is not likely to be one.
Hopefully its just paranoia.
You should also tell him too, becuase maybe he feels you didnt notice.
Good luck


--Kendra

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