about


i'm ashley.
i'm pretty much a good girl :)
i care about everyone.
i have a lot of first hand knowledge with a lot of things.
my life doesn't suck, so i'm not going to sit here and say it does.
i know how fortunate i am to have a family and good friends
i have a great guy named Eric in my life right now ♥
i help EVERYONE regardless it's just the kind of person i am
i give out my AIM and MSN for a reason, so people can reach me quickly, so IM me anytime.
i'm an honest person, trust me, my mouth has gotten me in trouble PLENTY of times.
i'm a smart person and make good choices.
i screwed up alot before, but as of now, i'm an amazing person in my opinion.
i'm one of the happiest people you will ever meet.
i will cheer you up, just ask, or show you need it
i don't judge you on how you get by, the company you keep, what you do for thrills, that's your own business. and i have no room to judge you.

advice

how can you tell if someone has been smoking pot? (besides smelling like it and drug test)

i just did a project about this !

haha there eyes will be red and pupils dilated.

they're really loose and lovey towards people.

and there reaction times are alot slower. and my friends tend to blink alot.

and they scream, a lot.

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alright. so ive aalrady made up my mind and im trying to make this guy jealous, its a long story,
but basically what are the kind of clothes that would really make a guy jealous, or like DANG i shouldnt have dumped her...guys? whats like the hottest look?

tight jeans. and like a low cut shirt, and talk to alot of other guys in front of him, trust me.

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me and my boyfriend had sex on sunday. it was only like for 2mins long without a condom. when he got his penis out he cummed. did some of it stay in me? what should i do?

wait til your supposed to get your period, i know it's hard.

but just because he pulled out doesn't me that you didn't get pregnant. he could have had pre-cum or whatever.

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Haha and here's my 6th one. Yes I'm bored and I don't have a life. Okay, so this is the random one. Can anyone explain to me how to calculate your GPA and the whole class rankking thing?

I know that A-4 B-3 C-2 D-1 F-0 and if they're weight it's A-5 B-4 C-3 D-2 F-0. And they only count if they're high school courses. Well, what do you add and divide and blah blah? Like does the grade for each 9 weeks count or is the semester grades or the end of the year grade? Just step by step pleasE? haha.

And for class ranking, how do you know what number you are right now? I know you can go to the counslor and ask but is it possible to know what class ranking you are in 9th grade?

well, at my school, we go 1st quarter and 2nd quarter and get seperate GPA per quarter and we get a semester grade.

it's calculated by adding up your points [5,4,3,2,1,0] and than you take that number and divide it by the number of classes.

and for class ranking i have no idea, but to go to counslor.

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Why do guys lead girls on and then stop? Like just completely stop and act as if you guys were just friends and all that flirting never existed?

because that's boys for you. flirting is like a game to them, it's annoying, and is never going to stop.

but comeon now, girls can be like that too :(

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What are some bands that are like Shiney Toy Guns and tATu? Like sorta techno but with slight rock in there.

Alice In Videoland is a good band, it sounds slightly like shiny toy guns.

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so me and my boyfriend have had sex twice. the first time we did it i don't think he broke/tore the hymen even though it hurt really bad, basically i kept pushing him off me on reflex. anyway, the second time was yesterday and it also hurt really bad but i still don't know if he tore the hymen, it still hurt and i understand it will hurt the first few times but how do i make sure he fully "popped my cherry"?(i got tired of using the words broke/tore)

virginity isnt only about popping cherries, if your boyfriend and you had sexual intercourse, than your not a virgin.


ADDITION:

if you need to see if your hymens still intact, you could try feeling around or you could check with a mirror.

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my mum keeps calling me names .and every time i try to do something she yells ar me help me plz

oh man, thats rough, im sorry :(
my moms the same way.

so you just need to learn to ignore it. your mom isn't going to stop picking on you until you show it doesnt get to you.

goodlucklovelyy

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well its the same as the title lol. My question is If you have masturbated in the past does that mean that your hymen is no longer intact?

not nessicarily [sp?]. many people can be fingered and keep their hymen and masturbation in the form of fingering will most likely not break your hymen.

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if you click on someones myspace picture will it show whos looking at it

nope, it doesnt show that.

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my friend lets call her "S"

well she gets mad at me for likeing guys that she dosnt approve of and my last boyfriend dumped me because of what "S" said to him i felt like i was falling in loved with him but "s" messed up every thing


should i still be her friend even though she messed up whati had with him

i understand her looking out for you, but she shouldn't have your boyfriend break up with you. i think she just might be jealous of you and him or she might just want you to herself. just tell her to back out of your love life. and ask her about it before you decide whether or not to be her friend anymore.

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what exactly does it mean when somebody's getting laid? like, what happens and stuff?

it means the person had sex.

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heres the deal I used to be in a gruop, girl life was at its best. I was convinced though that I could get it better. Myself and Anna broke up from Abby and Hayden, the gruop was split! My first recesss with Anna was really fun. We were bff's, and i was convinced it would stay that way. The problem though is that Anna gets mad and is sortof a tomboy I know thats no reason to break up but we get in fights all the time and so a few nights ago at one of our sleepovers I thought maybe I could shoot back over to Hayden and especially ABBY!!!! I MISSED THEM!!! I asked Anna if maybe she could forgive her (she was really mad at her cus she told hayden somthin) and we could be a group again. NO. That was her straight answer. So MY QUESTION IS should I stick with my friendship with Anna were we are sorta tomboys and dont totally get along, or should I make a new frienship with abby, and transform into a GIRLY GIRL!!! Im sort of going abbys way but if anyone thinks I should stick with Anna go ahead and speak up, PLEASE HELP!!!

okay friends are impossible. you can't please everyone.

you and anna could remain friends and you could hang out with hayden and abby too. if anna is really your best friend she'll let you hangout with other people, just don't push them all hanging out again because the tension will be hard to deal with. just don't hide your friendship with them from anna. and you shouldnt have to go from who you are now to a girly girly, if abby and hayden dont accept you thats there problem :)

goodlucklovee

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Okay, I cant seem to think of this song. its driving me crazy! alright, Its a duet, and I THINK its a duet with Michele Branch and another guy, and its about them breaking up, i can only recall one line, and its only roughly accurate, something to the effect of "I cant stare at your picture next to my bed I'm while sleeping with him" I know thats a horrible quote, totally messed up, but pplease, I LOVE that song and I cant remember anything about it!!

Picture By Sheryl Crow And Kid Rock.

thats my favoriteee song too :)

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Ok this has been bothering me and my friend for a long time now, what song does this lyric go with "middle finger up, we dont give a fuck" if you know please helpp! thankss =)

grey goose by the yingyang twins :)

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Oh my godd. My boyfriends mom saw his hickie that I gave him!! When he gave me my 1st one my mom found out and wasnt so mad, but his mom was upset when she saw it!! I have no idea wat to do. Now wat if his mom hates me. I already thought she did even though i was very polite and try and act normal around her and she caught us making out today too!! Oh my godd!! What should I do im gonna be so humiliated next time I see her!!! What woudl you do if you were in my place?

well don't worry about it, you guys are going out you have nothing to be embarassed about. its not the worst thing you could have been doing :)

if i were you, i'd avoid her for a little bit and just have your boyfriend at your house, if that's an option. otherwise if she mentions it just be like "im sorry about what you saw"

and lay off hickies for a little bit :D

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Hi, you answered my question on birth control. I was wondering if a physician(sp?) could perscribe it or if I would have to go to a gyno.

i actually think you would have to go to a gyno.

if you need to talk or anything sweet heart. IM anytime.

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Well, last year in 7th grade, my friends and I would get in fights/arguments. This year, in 8th grade, I've told myself that I wouldn't get mad over really stupid things, and I wouldn't get into very many arguments with my friends, even if they start it. Well, about 2 days ago, one of my friends, lets just call her, i don't know, how about Lisa, well anyways, Lisa just kinda stoped talking to me. I asked her if she was mad at me, and she was like "NO!!" and she sounded pretty mad. And my other friend, we'll just call her Brooke, anyways, it seems like Brooke has switch personalitys. Like, for a week she will be best friends with me, then the next week she will ignore me and just act like I don't even exsist. Oh, I forgot to say one thing. Whenever one of my friends seems mad, and I ask if they are mad at me, or if I ask them if somethings wrong, they just seem to get more mad. Sometimes I feel like my only friend is this guy that I have a really huge crush on. And in our little girl "click" it seems like everyone is pared up. Am I not a good friend?? Am i doing something wrong?? I don't know what to do. But I'm tired of being treated like a peice of crap. Thanks everyone. Much love!

your good friend for actually giving a damn about fixing this. your doing nothing wrong, unless you left things out. you just need to tell them how you feel. tell them you feel left out and want to fix things but they need to stop treating you like crap before you guys keep being firneds.

friends are the hardest people to part with but if your friends treat you like crap you shouldn't even bother, make some new friends if they dont treat you bettter.

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Ok. Well Im 14 and I'm a girl. My boyfriend is just a few years older than me. Me and him have gotten sexual, but we haven't had sex before. I don't want to have sex, but he's older and he would do it if i did. And that kind of puts pressure on me. He isn't making me have sex or purposly putting pressure on me. He is a really nice guy and has a very nice personality and I could so see myself with him years from now and we have been together for 6 months. We have touched eachother in certain places before and like the other night we took it a step further. He touched me between my legs bare but I let him. I always get caught up in the moment and I am afraid I will get caught up in the moment and end up doing something I will regret. I won't have sex till I have no doubts I want to be ready and my mom said that if i want to have sex she will put me on the pill. So I want to wait another year or so and then i will if I'm ready, but I'm afraid he exspects I will have sex with him even though he's told me many times it's will always be my choice and when I am ready he will be to! I am scared! What should I do?

Oh sorry if it was so long, but if you can could you please give me some advice? :)

of course, its your choice ultimatly. just tell your boyfriend your limits before the situtation happens. if he knows your limits and you know them beforehand, it'll be easier too stop. but of course be ready just in case things do get out of hand have protection with you.

just try to take things slow.

goodluckloveely

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Does anyone know any sites ware I could order some cool bad tees.


Thanks


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hottopic.com :)

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