Ok guys, here's ,y question! I'm turning 18 soon so I can legally pierce anything I want. When I was 16 I got my belly button pierced on the top. For some reason something went wrong and i got very infected and I had to go to the docotrs n take it out. Now I have a scar there. When I squeeze the scar tissue it hurts. And my doctor said yesterday that it would be difficult to repierce through it. Anyways I guess my question is do u think it would look dumb or hurt if i got it pierced from the bottom??? I heard people say it hurts more but maybe thats just a rumor? Thank You guys so much for your help!!!
I think it would hurt more to pierce it at the bottom then at the top, But i dunno I've never heard of getting the bottom done...
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Hey..
I am just wondering...what is the south beach diet? What is normal for a girl that is around 5'7 to weigh? (14 years old) Thanks!
I'm not sure what the south beach diet it but normal weight for the height and age is around 115-120 or something
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Choose one or the other 4 each question!!
Chad Michael Murray or Johnny Depp??
Ruben or Clay??
Bush or Kerry??
Hilary Duff or Lindsay Lohan??
Apple or Banana??
Ben Affleck or Matt Damon??
Paris Hilton or Jessica Simpson??
Chicken or Tuna??
Johnny Depp
Clay
not into to politics...
Hilary Duff
Banana
Ben Affleck
Jessica Simpson
Chicken
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I have almost no ones instant messaging address. My mom walked in while i was talking to one of my friends online and saw that i only had ten people on my list. Since i had a different s/n last year i didn't bother getting a lot of people's IM, so she sent me to this counsiling group for teens who can't get along with others. I went to the group once and they said that i just don't want to talk to people. Should i stay in the group, or leave, i don't think i belong in there, but should i give it another day?
Please help
Lizzy
Tell your mom that that's what you did, tell her you have friends... I wouldnt go, but thats just me..
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Well uhh I love this person and well he says Im pretty and stuff and he SAYS he doesnt like me im 13 by the way........one time my friend goes "what do u think of katie" and he goes silent for like 15 seconds and goes "nothing..." i dont know what to do!!!!!!! and he moved, and my other friend says we werent meant to be......ok, i LOVE him....im serious....could you please help someone who cries every night????????
Just try to get over it... Yeah it will hurt a lot, it hurts to be shut down, just keep looking and you'll find the right guy that will only make you cry happy tears...
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I liked this kid for a couple months.. but we always would flirt during the school year.. now its the summer n he asked me out n i said yea... because i really started to like him... we went out but he broke up wit me... then he asked me back out and i said yes... then a week later i broke up wit him because he was never wit me n he never called... but then i started to relieze that i missed him alot... n he said he still liked me but he was still thinking about goin out... i was ok wit that... but then he started liken my best friend... i told him he plays around wit peoples heads to much... should i still like this kid? or should i move on?
Just move on, it may be hard but there are plenty of other guys out there, you hae to go through a few pricks before you meet your rose
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This is gonna sound so weird. I read this advicenators collumn, and it seems like he is the kewlest guy ever. At first i thought maybe he was like 20 something, but he's my age, and i don't know, the picture of him kinda just made me feel weird, but i am not a person who starts that kinda thing. What should i do?
Start talking to him?
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Omg.. i really like this boy in my school we hang out all the time movies at eachothers houses but i odnt know if he likes me but....im afaird if i tell him how i feel he will be like all weird around me and stuff!!! Should I tell him how i feel or just keep it as freinds?!?!?
Please help ME!!!
Ask him how he feels first, if he doesnt want to answer then he probably does and is scared of rejection, thats when you tell him how you feel
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There is this guy that I have liked for 2 years (I saw him in my 7th grade yearbook when he was in 6th and I was in 7th). I am now going into 9th grade. We see each other often and we are good GOOD friends. He is one of my best friends. Well, he flirts with me like no other girl. His mom even says he isnt the flirting type. All of the people who were in our drama class say that they think he likes me. He tries to make me laugh when I am sad and he is a sweetie for life! We went and played pool today and everytime I went to shoot, he would be saying something like "I know then...." and then he pauses, watches me (making it obvious), adn then when I am done, he starts talking where he left off. I took pictures of him the last day of school and they didnt come out. Well, he had his mom take a pic of him for me! My mom gave it to me as an early b day present (his mom and my mom work together! WOW SMALL WORLD!) Do you think he likes me? With all these clues? Everyone says he does but I dont know. Please help!
He probably likes you, try asking him so you know for certain, if he does maybe you should tell him how you feel too
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i liked this one kid for a really long time.. i only ended up telling a few people becuz i dont like every1 knowin.. then after awhile i found out he liked me for awhile too.. then he asked me out at 1:00 A.M on my birthday.. i said yea of course.. and then i didnt get a phone call from him or nothing.. then at 11:O0 P.M that night.. he told me he doesnt think we should go out anymore.. he never told me a reason though.. i asked him why he even asked me out in the first place and he said i dunno.. he said he was sorry n everythin.. i think i might still like him but i cant say i loved him cuz we were neva together long.. wat shuld i do.. try n get ova him or still like him?
Try and ask him again for the reason he broke up with you... And yeah try getting over him because there are definitely more guys out there..
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I live in North Carolina and my mom and dad got divorced 3-4 years ago. He doesn't pay for much, and I know he won't pay for college. I'm 16...a Junior in High School and have 2 more years left for college. I really want to go to Boston University or University of Massachusetts because I love those schools and it's my home state. My mom said that I should go to college in North Carolina so it will be cheaper but I don't like many colleges here. The ones I do like (Duke University and Wake Forest University) are private and will still cost more. I told her I'd pay for law school and 4 year college but she wanted to pay for that. She said if I go to college up there then she'll only give me the amount a year that she would pay down here. What should I do? Should I go down here or up there or should I say something?
Try and apply for a loan, that's what my sister did.. Or try for a scholarship there are sooooooo many out there, just look around and try to find places where you can get loans and or scholarships...
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|Gurl| 13 | Hey ive liked this kid for like 3months now, he knows i like/liked him but things never worked out between us, we never actually went out though. We started out as friends, then one day i told his friend i liked him n he was still in tha room n saw it. His friend told me he said tha other day he felt tha same way bout me. So then the nxt day wen he was home i told him i liked him, then he told me his friend told him already. But I kinda ruined things wen i madeout with sum kid wen i wasnt going out with dat kind n still liked him(as in tha kid i liked for a while). I dont think i like him to much anymore, cuz he barley shows any intrest in me anymore n we barley talk. N 1 of my friends i think likes him now, which was really rong of her to do to me, even tho i tell everyone im over him and i pretty much am. Im just kind of jealous and mad cuz we're not even really friends anymore! Wat should i do?!
Thanksz!
The best thing you can do is be happy for her if he is into her... She might have found her *1* just be happy for her and try not to think about it... just remember you had your time with him too
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Im 14 female..okay my bff steph n i are....soooo close we go on vacas together n my mom is like her second mom since her family life isnt so good..she is like my sister..we have been through hell n back together n i know i can tell her anything!! shes such a great friend! but...well lately we have been drifting..we r kinda going seperate ways i think..im into school..im going to summer school to get a highschool credit n she wont go..she missed 49 days from school last year n yeah..so im into school n shes not..plus our moms are 2 TOTALLY diff. ppl...well it sux bc i kinda do feel like we r drifting n part is bc of this guy..he is my ex b/f(which by tha way im ova completley bc of his nasty additude!!!)..i have knwon him fer 3 1/2 years n she has been "close" with him for 1 1/2 or so..well he is a big time PLAYA!!! n her and i both know it..but him n her have some special realtionship...n right now they r REALLLLLY close..but i know he is guna end up hurting her..n sumtimes she will bring it up like how much of an ass he is being to her n shell just laugh n say "o-well ill learn sum day!" but i knwo she is guna come running baq to me hurt AGAIN fer tha 6th time..n it just gets irratating..i wanna talk to her but i dont think she'll listen..im not sure what to do....?!?!?!?!? plz help thannnnnx! much luv!
Just tell her you dont wanan see her get hurt again, tell her you dont like that your best friends keeps getting hurt... Just let her know that...
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i have liked this kid since 7th grade ( im only in 9th now ) but thats still a pretty long time...he knows i liked him in 7th and he knows i like him now but he doesnt know i have always liked him...hes all i think about day in and day out...i cant EVER get him off my mind but im scared to talk to him about it...we talk and stuff he kinda flirts wih me and stuff and we chill sumtimes but he works a lot...i REALLY want him to like me the way i like him...it just hurts a lot to know he prolly doesnt even care...me n my friend went to this soccer game and after it was a huge pilloiw fight...well these kids kept like trying to get...up on me...and wen he saw it he took off his hat, put it on my head and like chased them so they wouldnt touch me...ik it sounds really gay but wen he put his hat on my head i felt like i had everything in the world...is there anyway i can stand out to him...but not like changing myself totally? thanks for helping...xoxo
Just be yourself, that's the best way to stand out... Individuality is standing out... as long as you are yourself it will be fine..
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ok well im very upset at my father for sumthing that he does. so my boyfriend is a really big guy and i dont mind at all and my dad likes him and all but my dad always calls him shrek when my bf is not around. i always get mad at my dad for sayin that bc i like my bf alot and he cant help if hes a big guy. i mean my dad isnt that skinny either so i dont think he should be sayin nething. but its like everywhere we go my dad finds sumthing shrek and says "hey we should get this for shrek" and it really hurts me. how can i make my dad stop before he slips up and says sumthing in front of my bf?
Tell him it hurts you when he says it, ask him if he can stop
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I really, I mean really like this guy.He is my age and he is 1 of my bro's friend's brother.He goes to school with me.The last few weeks of school me and him were becoming really close.Im scared that next year he won't remember me remember me anymore.What can I do?
Try to hang out with him over the summer, or if not that try to stay in touch with him, he wont forget you
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...i play soccer a lot and im kinda busy...i realli wanna be able to do like back walkovers and stuff...without coaches...can u give me like TONS of tips that would help me learn how?? thanx
Just practice doing back bends sooner or later you'll get it
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ok...my best friend is mad at me because i tried talking her into going back to my church because she has done some bad stuff lately. I apologized and told her i like her for who she is but she wont talk to me...now what do i do?
Tell her your sorry and that's all you can be, and the apology is there if she ever wants to except it... there really isnt anything else you can do
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I am the middle child in my family and sometimes I think I don't belong with my siblings. Don't get me wrong I love them to death but... I am 13 a typical girl teenager. I like make-up, boys, fashion. But my brother does not respect any of my private life or social life. I am always baby-sitting for my little sister while my mom and dad are working and while my brother is out with his friends 24/7. It's not like I do it for my health i'm doing it for the $$$ but I need to get out too and especially since its summer. I am always fighting with my older brother and when ever I am on the phone with my boyfriend my brother always makes some rude remarks like "hey is this your tampon" or something like that something gross. I TOTALLY respect his private life and social life. My brother goes through my stuff, looks at my txt messagees on my cell phone to all my friends and my boyfriend and he goes on my screen name and talks to my friends pretending to be me. I have told him so many times that I need some space and he doesnt care. He gives smart remarks to me and I can't handle it. I've told my parents they yell at him yet when we're around my parents together he acts so perfect and he is older then me... how pathetic... but seriously I NEED HELP!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!! GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!!!!!!!
Signed,
Brother Hater
Well on your screen name don't have your password saved, and if its not saved and he knows your password then just change it... if he continues to bother youi'd just bother him back...
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Im female and 14...Okay i like this boy Matt. I met him in a transition to highschool summer program..so i have knwon him for a few weeks but it feels like I've known him..for forever! Hes so awesome! Hes outgoing,easy to talk to,has goals in life and cute! Its soo nice to have a best guy friend..but...I have totally fallen for him. I like him..sooo much, and I know he thinks im hot/cute/pretty w/e n i know he likes me kinda but he doesnt wwant to go out. Which i kind of understand because we only have a month n 1/2 left of summer n then school will start. So yeah..but I like him so much! Im not sure what to do. All of tha girls in tha program keep telling him we should go out bc we flirt alot n we would make a cute couple. But I'm still not sure what to do. Should i say something or...what?! Please Help!
Just see how he would feel about going out with you?
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