I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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if he really likes me. My friends keep telling me that they're sure he likes me, but I am still kinda iffy about it. I know, just trust them, most likely they know more than I do. But I get really self-conscious about this kind of thing, and then I have to keep asking them "Are you sure?" and (to me at least) it seems like they get irritated the more I do it. But I really just wanna be sure....not like it matters anyway, because I really don't know how I'd ask him to find out myself. idk, just maybe if you had some tips on how I could possible sure that would be SWELL! :)
17/f (link)
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well ask him if his friends and him would like to go out this weekend for like dinner or something you can get one of your friends to do this too make sure if your friend does it she tells him that your coming and a few other people so it doesnt seem wierd and all you have to do is pay attention to what he says and does so for example if he says yes right away to the weekend thing then he likes you a lot and cant wait now once the dinner starts and you make sure your sitting by him he should be kinda nervous or really talkative either way its a sign he likes you then he will do whatever it takes to get your attention these are some simple things also asking you to do something or saying this was fun we should do this again is a sure sign he likes you or you could just ask him if he likes you if you want a quicker answer.
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proactiv is too expensive for me so i'm trying to look for something that works as well or preferably even better than proactiv to get rid of acne that is cheaper. does anyone know of anything else?? (link)
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try any clean and clear products the ones with the purple top are the best from my experience. all clean and clear products are cheap about 5-10 dollars so its not really that bad.
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My boyfriend goes to college a state away from me. For the holidays, I wanted to get him things he may need while he's in his dorm. I want to get him things associated with the things he enjoys though.. for example, I got him a south park beer mug because when I visited his dorm I realized he only had a small cup that he reuses.
I want to get him other things he may need too. Maybe some posters to cover up his walls, or something of that sort. Things that will make him feel like he's at home.
The thing is though, my limit is 50$.. I got him expensive presents for his birthday, and our anniversary, so I need to calm down with the spending. I want to get him nice things that he'll actually use.. not things he'll just pack up and forget about... or things that will crowd up his space.
Anyways, any suggestions will be very appreciated. Thank you! (link)
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you could get him some bobble heads and some mugs and a pencil holder and maybe a few cute bears that will remind him of your relationship.
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I want the itouch for christmas, and i was wondering if there is another mp3 player that is similar to the itouch, but that is less expensive.
thanks! (link)
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check this out
http://stores.nextag.com/FiveStarQuality/product.jsp?product=592332806
its just like the itouch except its a mp4 the only difference is the name and company other then that its amazing you can order it online or get it from future shop,visions and wal-mart.
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i went for my morning run just now, about 1km like i suppose, and suddenly i felt like puking. so i stopped. then i just did basic dance stretches (splits and stuff). then when i stopped, and start walking home, my eyesight became screwed up, lights all distorted. i took two rests on the way home. plus, my house is a one to two minute walk to the place i run. so, i had two rests, but my eyesight didnt improve at all. after the second rest, i just walked home. it wasn't until i reached home when my eyesight returned. i don't know how long it was, but i think about 10 minutes, although it felt so much longer. i stopped feeling pukey after the second rest. i hadn't eaten my breakfast, nor dinner the previous day. i've done that before but nothing like this happened. what happened? (link)
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your body just got to worked up and couldnt handle all the stuff you were doing you should eat something small before doing your exercises because it could really effect the way your body is running and working and it will probably happen a lot more if you dont eat or drink anything before doing your exercises.
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What is the best place to get jackets like this?
http://www.box-clothing.co.uk/womens-2/jackets-coats-38/womens-melton-jacket-11445-2344_medium.jpg (link)
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old navy,suzy shier,urban behavior or le chateu
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Thing is I live at home and I don't drive I am not able to with my Disbitly. well i am 23. I do have job where I go babysit and stuff. well i go otu ittle bit. bit thing is hard to find somone and meet somone.i know i shoudn't be looking he maybe come at my door. i don[t want to do online thing i try it once and i don't want paid for it and yet to many weridos. I really like try something. i was wondering how i try find that person and i want try be more you know look more my best and be me. but what is best place meet somone? (link)
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try speed dating or ask one of your friends on family members to hook you up with someone kind of like a blind date or the most outgoing thing ive hear is when you cant find love become a contestant on the bachelorette lol i know it sounds wierd but it might help if not then just try going to places where a lot of guys hang out gym's cofee shops or even in parks.
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ok so if i don't use proactive my forehead breaks out but when i do use it my whole face clears up EXCEPT my chin area and around my mouth...i hate it cause thats the least place i wanna have pimples...but whenever they turn white, i pop them...does that cause more? its a habbit and i want to stop...i almost put alot of coverup and concealer on my chin because they're red and ugly is that bad too? should i just leave them alone ? i just feel so self conscious if i go out with concealer on them
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ya the more you pop them the more they will come back your just getting it more red and causing them to dulicate if proactive works use that and if not use clean and clear perferably the one with the purple top it works the best.
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I am a 17 year old girl who is questioning my past. I have heard about people who were abused and forget the entire thing, and was wondering if this was a possibility for me. I am extremely afraid of sex and have anxiety about men. I hate hearing footsteps behind me because it scares me. I am also afraid at night that there is someone in my room. I sometimes have dreams about groups of men chasing me. I used to self-mutilate a few years ago and I also had an eating disorder.
I am asking this question because I heard that these are things that abused people do, and because people in my support group for eating disorders have asked if I was abused after I talked about some things. Is there any way to find out, or any other clues I can look for? Thanks =] (link)
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you should probably talk to an adult perferably a counsellor just because what your going through can be considered pernoia and depression and its very serious and needs to be handled immediatly.
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I'm fifteen, and my mom said I could get it done for Christmas.
I'm not very good with pain, but I've watched quite a few videos on youtube of other girls getting it done.
I'd be SURE to have it done professionally, but I'm just curious as to the average price, healing time, PAIN, etc.
Also, is there something they can do to numb it?
Thank youu :] (link)
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the price is usually about 80-100 depends mostly on the place the healing time will most likely me a week or less and the pain isnt terrible but yes it does hurt a little the only thing you can do to numb it is put ice on it that helps i dont think it will hurt as much as an eyebrow piercing probably less dw everything will be fine.
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okay,well about a month ago i met this kid. He's a year younger than me and i really liked him. we've hungout at one highschool eventt, with my friends. he became friends with my best friend's boyfriend. and when they went away to "bond", he kept asking my friends boyfriend things about me like "what was her face like when i was hugging her? how did she do thiss or that?" things like that.wouldn't you think that would mean he liked me?-or is it some kind of sick-twisted way of him keeping track on how hard he made me fall for him?(what do you think?)
So after that good time, we didn't hug goodbye. even though he was right next to me. and then he ignores me for two weeks straight in school after that,not even one look. He's always around other girls, and my friends always tell me how hes with at least 5 girls at a time in the hall. I decided it was time to let go and i did. FINNALLY. and what do you know, he starts talking to me again and flirting with me hard core.He always trys to impress me.(supposidly)I CANT HELP BUT FALL FOR HIM AGAIN. he doesn't realize, but he really hurt me. And i'm not sure if he's just trying to make me jealous,or for real is just a player. Anything you know about guys like these? How can i stop falling for him? Any help because i'm so sad about this. thanks (link)
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he is definitly a player and you do not need to be wasting your time with a guy like him you need to get it straight ask him what his deal is and if he likes you or is he just trying to toy with your emotions it better to find out once then having your hearbroken a thousand times.
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we need names, i mentioned so many to my boyfriend he's turned down them all these are some of them so nobody names these ones..
- Joel, Kyler, Ryton, Rylan, Lyndon, Mason, Gage, Cooper, Chase, Tristin, Brighton, Lance, Allen, Aiden, Hayden, Shawn, Shane, Silus, Landon, Zayden, Keaton, Keegan, James.
those are ones he does NOT want.
i really love the name Joel, but i can't get him to like it.. so we need more names the middle name is going to be David, or Daniel ( family names)
if we have a girl we both want Madelyn Karen.
last name would be Brazee.
PLEASE HELP US WITH BOY NAME! =] (link)
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what about Andrew,kevin,jim,karmyn,jason,sam,
patrick,james,jamie,Aaron,shawn.shane,erin,kam,
harry,trevor,gary,damian,alvin,charlie,luke,erik,
mike,nate,ryan,tom,tommy
i hope i helped good luck :)
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I have a hard time just hanging out and relaxing with people! I can't help but think people are constantly judging me, thinking bad thoughts about me, and I always think I'm going to get into trouble. If were just driving around, I'm almost positive I'll get pulled over or get in an accident!
How do I chill out and just have fun with my friends without worrying about everything? (link)
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you need to think positive when your driving think of all the good things that could happen or have happened while you have been driving your car or just think happy thought about other stuff and dont always think people are judging you because that just means your judging yourself which is bad when your with your friends just focus on them consentrate on one topic and dont let anything get into your head maybe even talk to your friends about this and ask them for help they might be more helpful since they know you better.
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When you love a guy, and you just start losing trust does that mean that we don't need to be together. He is losing trust in me, and i'm losing it in him. I dont know why were losing so much trust. I'd give the world for him to trust me, and I no he'll do the same. I'm also thinking that maybe it has something to do with other people telling him I was cheating on him, but I dont know. I'm really scared to loose him. He is the best person (guy wise) that i've ever met. He makes his whole day revolve around me, even when we are at school. I try my best to give him everything he wants, I talk to him more than I talk to my friends and half my family, I tell him everything, I've even stoped talking to my guy friends that I play football, and basketball with for fun, just so he can trust me, I know that he did trust me, until one day he went to school (we go to diffrent schools) alot of people went up to him telling him I was cheating on him, they knew we was going out becuase I was his wallpaper on his phone and it said I Love My Baby Elizabeth!! They told him I was dating this other dude (and i wasnt) and I guess he believed it but i dont know. I can't lose his trust. I Love Him To Death && He Means The World To Me!! (link)
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If he loves you then he shouldnt be losing trust in you and he should be comfortable with whatever it is your doing. if your bf isnt able to trust you maybe he isnt the right guy for you i know you love him but a relationship with no trust is not a relationship its just a one sided crush that probably wont last its better to talk to him and get everything out in the open tell him you didnt do anything and that people just dont want you two to be together and tell him you love him and dont want to lose him but he has to trust you.
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18/m
My girlfriend had to break up with me, cause school has been hard for her, plus work, several other issues unrelated to me..
The thing is, we both still love each other, she says she'd like to get back together one day, when things are easier. I dont know what Im supposed to do...
Do I get over her? Do I just hang in there, be the best friend I can, and hope one day we might get together again? I really love her, it hurts so bad, knowing eveytime i see her, i can't kiss her, hold her like i used to, but can just be a friend.
Any advice will be greatly appreciated. :) (link)
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If you really love her then maybe you should become her best friend and help her get through things and just let her know that when the hard times are over you will still be there for her i know it will be hard not being able to do the boyfriendish stuff but you have to respect her wishes if you dont really feel like you can do it then maybe you should move on and find someone else special and hopefully you will be better off.
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I’m 16/f and so I had this saxophone teacher for three years. I was never super serious about saxophone...I really enjoyed playing and all but I certainly didn’t intend to pursue it as a career. He knew that and I knew that. Acting and singing are what I really love to do but this guy and I became really great friends, as artists and just in general. I saw him once a week at the music studio (occasionally we held lessons at his house) and we made plans to see a movie, but it never took off.
Well, back in April my mom told me that we couldn’t afford sax lessons anymore. I was sad to break off the friendship but I had no choice. My dad and I had plans to break it off formally. But things never took off and my dad just ended up giving him a phone call. I got an email from him later saying that we could still be friends but sooooooo much has happened since then in my life. I’ve been insanely busy and haven’t been able to keep in contact with him.
It’s been more than six months since I last talked to him on the Internet. I’ve got his MySpace and I just realized that I really miss being friends with him, and I want it back. He was like one of the coolest people I knew. But I’m afraid that it’s too late and the friendship has died already.
Also, since he’s no longer my sax teacher and he’s an adult, I’m really not sure what would be an appropriate way to get things together again...
I’m thinking about writing a Myspace email. But how does one go about writing a note to a former sax teacher about that?
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Just tell him that your sorry for not staying in contact but you were just really busy tell him that your friendship means a lot and that you would like to if he is still up for it hang out and just talk and become good friends again thats the simpilest way to tell him. good luck:)
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alrite, long story short: i work at this drama place where my usally i called \"good friend\" back stabbed me and telling every one shit about me that is not true, they call me sluts that there is no way to be found also where i work there is a lots of old people where they have no life and love to talk about things like this, now when some one really likes me and want to ask me out on a date, that they would go and \"warn\" them to watch out, im a bad girl and leave me alone.
i guess its kind of my fault to, cause im too nice i cant tell if they are setting me up. i tell them about my boy troubles and they spread them with nasty words. i dont kno if you guys have ever played the game call spread the words, where people sit in a circle and pass down the sentence or word people by people and the sentence end up some thign completely differnent!!! thats the situation im in, where every one in the restruant think im some kind of a bad girl and spread shitty rumors about me. i dont want to quit the job, b/c its easy and its not my fault why would i quit rite???
please guys what should i do now????
should i get a pay back? (link)
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when your dealing with childish people you have to act mature sure you would get payback but your just doing what the other person did so its the same thing which isnt worth it try to think of a different approach to this talk to the person spreading the stuff and maybe everything will be okay.
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Okay here it goes. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 21. I really care about him a lot so the issue is this... He's not a virgin and I am. I just feel that he'll end up dumping me because I want to take it really slow. It's not that I'm waiting for marriage, I just want my first time to be with someone that can say I love you and actually mean it. Can you all give me advice on how to explain that to him without him getting the idea that I don't like him or something? (link)
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you shouldnt have to explain to him all you should have to say is that your not ready and he should understand but anyways just tell him your just not looking for that type of relationship and that your not ready for it and you need more time and he should be able to understand if he really loves you and wont break up with you over sex.
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OKk so i met this kid and he is 18 and i am 16. and we both go to the same high schoo. i met him through this like retreat thing that he choose me to run with him. He is really cute. and i really like him, but he just got out of a 1 year and 8 month relationship ( no i am not stalkerish he told me that) and he said that its hard to get over... but they broke up in june?
Anyways everytime we have a meeting, like the one last night.. he is always bumbed out.. and i want to write on his facebook wall.. like get better bud.. but idk what to say? what shoud i say?
and i am kinda a shy person.. and he kinda sorta is too... not as much as me.. but i want to like make a move and start making connections how shouuld i do that.
thanksss (link)
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just write get better im here if you need to talk to anyone thats always sweet and i know what your going through im really shy too but the only way to get connected with him is to get to know him better and to do that you need to ask him to hang out or just talk to him more which will give him the chance to talk to you and hang out with you and get to know you a little more.
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i really want to get colored contacts..either green or light blue [my eyes are kind of grey blue now] and i was wondering if there were any stores the might sell them with no prescription...or where i could get them cheap. thanks =] (link)
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drug stores usually have them you can also get them from the mall just go to a eyeglass place they sell them pretty cheap and you can get them without prescription.
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