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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]

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I'm a 13 year old girl going into 8th grade, and i am getting a new backpack. I was wondering if an llbean one would be out of style or babyish? If so what other kind do you reccomend, and if not, what color should I get. I was thinking pink but is that kind of childish?

pink is cute. LL bean isnt out of style. north face ones are really cute in case you're looking for something else.


good luck

xoox lauren

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okay theres this girl i sit next to in history, shees already a friend but the thing is im crazy about her we dont really het to talk out of class because her friends are always inturupting us whenever werre alone, we do e-mail each other alot and occasionally have long conversations on the phone but i really like to talk to her in person so is ther anything i can say/do to toher in history class to get closer to her closer to her?

aww thats so cute.
maybe you could write her a note. or if you have to work in partners then ask her if she wants to be your partner. try hanging out with her outside of school. like in groups or maybe just you and her.

good luck!

xox lauren

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my hair is really long like down to my waist. its wavy and sometimes curly. some days its fine. but other i get attcked by the frizz monster. do u no any SHAMPOOS that stop frizz. im burnett by the way. and my hair is 100 % natural. thnxx

well first of all
you should probably cut your hair. you dont have to cut it like up to your shoulders.. but like maybe cut a few inches off. it will make it MUCH easier to handle. try straightening it. most of the shampoos that say they stop frizz work.

hope i helped

xox lauren

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hi im a 15 year old guy and i like this 15 year old girl...ive been doin alot of other stuff this summer and i keep thinking about her and i cant seem to get my mind off her...ive told her in the past how i feel but she says she wants to remain great friends and that she doesnt see us like that...ive told her nothing will ever come between us but she sayd she just doesnt kno then she doesnt get back to me on how she feels and i dont want to press the issue i havent said anything to her about it in about 6 months and i want to try again but how do i tell her?

aww thats cute u sound like a really nice guy.
when a guy thinks about a girl a lot you know that he actually really likes her and doesnt just want 2 get to bases with her. try to talk to her again. tell her how you really feel. if she still says that she doesnt see you guys like that.. then tell her that you accept that and try to start hanging out with her a lot. hang out with her in groups like go to the movies or someones house or something. if you become really close friends with her it will get her to feel more comfortable around you. the best relationships are the ones where you started off as best friends first =]

good luck

xox lauren

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I have Scolosis. It's clearly evident in my hips, they are offset making me look unbalanced. It has become more obvious as my body has "matured" I look stupid in most of my shirts because the curves on the lower part of my body do not match. How can I make this less visible?

wear shirts that kind of drape out at the end. those are really cute and in style!! hope i helped.

xox lauren

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14/F

Ok, my boyfriend and I have been together almost 6 months... He doesnt talk to me in school, and he doesnt call me anymore. Well his parents won't let him come over to my house and I haven't been to his house in a long time!!! Also at lunch his friends come and sit with me and he gets mad. What can I do to get him to call me and not get mad!!! 1 last thing... My school has this thing called homecoming and he said that he didnt want to go, but I do, what can I do to get him to go!!!

he doesnt talk to you in school? thats a little weird. maybes hes just shy or maybe theres something wrong. you should talk to him and see whats going on. if he doesnt wanna go to homecoming maybe you guys can like go see a movie or something that night instead.

hope i helped
xox lauren

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Ok, there are so many sex questions going around that I'm getting really confused, so here are some that I need answers to so it can straighten everything out.
1. If the guy REALLY doesn't cum, can you get pregnant?
2. What is the big diference between pre-cum and cum? or is there no difference?
3. With a condom, what is the % of pregnancy? without a condom? with birth control? with birth control AND a condom?
4. On average, how long does it take for a guy to cum?
5. How common ARE STD's?
6. If you have sex with a carrier of an STD, will you for sure get it?

I RATE FOR ANYTHING THAT ANSWERS ANY QUESTION!

ok im gonna answer ALL of them. cuz im just that cool.ok so..

1. no if doesnt actually cum then you cant get pregnant because the sperm is in the cum. and if theres no sperm. theres no baby. its that simple.
2. theres not that much of a difference. there is sperm in both. so you can get pregnant either way.
3. with a condom.. theres not a very big chance of getting pregnant. without a condom.. BIG chance. with birth control.. not very big chance. with both.. VERY VERY small chance.
4. it really depends on the guy.
5. if the guy has had sex a lot then he probably has an STD.
6. there is a VERY high chance you will get it.

xox hope i helped

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Alright so. I'm in my first year of highschool, and this highschool is three different schoools combined, and I'm from one of them. There's these twins, really really adorable and nice and everything, but they seem like really shy. One of them is in all of my classes and the other is in all of my best friend's classes, so we're trying to hook up with them before homecoming LOL. Neither have had a real girlfriend, but the one I like has had like one for 2 days. They're at our lunch and we really want to sit with them but we don't know what to say. Have any good conversation starters, or something that we could say to them that won't make us look like idiots? Or just anything that could help us? Thanks so much!

try to find them in the halls before lunch and then just be like " hey wanna sit with us today at lunch?"

xox lauren

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i have the hardest time picking out a gift for a my boyfriend. what are some good gift ideas for a guy for his birthday, christmas or valentines day?

gift card for his fav. store
cologne
a jersey for his fav. sports team

hope i helped

xo lauren

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I need a new screename.... i need one that states who i am and everything... but nothing to cheesy,...

heres some things about me
im 15 name is Ashley... im in 10th grd... im a cheerleader, i love to sing, model, and dance,... i have many many friends... i have big browneyes that in the right light look green... and i have sholder langth brown/blond hair...

help me out... what may be some good screenames????

umm im not too good at this..
but heres some that i just thought of..

cheerbabexo
xbrowneyedgiirlx
strut x your x stuff
dancerxcutie
brunette15
strikeaposex3
dancerbabe1234
brunettebabe874
YAY ashley is on
OMG its ashley
dancerdoll54
blondie06
cheerbabee044
runwaybaby94
ashley2304
bornonadancefloor76
cheerchica98
cheerleaderchick93
singingsweetie23
missmodel32
missxashley9403
dirtydancer323
ilive4cheer
xborn2dancex
danceqt6436
sweetsinger435
ashleythemodel3234

ok i dont know. thats the best i can do. lol
i tried. =]

xox lauren

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what are a couple good quote sites besides like quote-mania?

and it would be best if they had a lot of like love and getting hurt kinda stuff..
THANKS

go to xanga.com and go to blogrings and then type quotes and it will come up with like 23947630846038046983094680830469830496802809346083094602830468209384609803460928340968093840682903640983409680346 different quote sites. its totally awesome.

xox lauren

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i like a guy so so so so so much but im afraid to go out with him because ive never kissed a guy before and im really freacked out by it and dont know what to do please help! thanks

haha it sounds like you like him a lot.
you should go out with him!!!
when youve never kissed a guy before it might seem scary but it really isnt. its really easy and amazing if its with the right guy. good luck!

xox lauren

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Okay so my boyfriend and me have been going out for a while and we havent made out yet. And I want to but I don't know when? like I want to do it at the movies but how does it start? do i just lean it? and how do i accually make out? I know this sounds wierd but I really need to know. And please dont tell me to just follow his lead and just go with whatever you feel like in the moment. I need to know how to accually do it! Thanks!!

this will definetly help.

http://www.theromantic.com/kissing/frenchkiss.htm


good luck. have fun =]

xox lauren

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me and my boyfreind were in the bathtub both with no clothing what so ever on

and i think he cumed

can it swim up and get you pregnant if we didnt have sex

but we were close to eachothers private areas?

nope.
dont worry.
once the sperm touches the water it dies.

hope i helped =]

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ok my dad wasnt home so i snuck a reeses peanut butter cup, even though i wasnt supposed to have one and i dropped it and my dog ate it...is he going to die? please help me i am so scared right now...hes a wire fox terrior, 1 year old and weighs about 18-20 pounds if that helps...please help me danielle

he should be fine
its only one reeses
my dog has eaten a little chocolate before and she was fine. dont worry.

hope i helped

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Can anyone tell me the price range of a hamster?

Hehe, thanks. =]

i got mine for $7
but remember that you have to buy the food and the cage and the stuff that goes in the bottom and a water dispenser and food dish thingy and maybe some toys

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my boyfriend told me hes in love with me. he looked into my eyes and said it and i think im in love with him too.his friends always tell me that im all he talks about and when im with him he kisses my hand and does the sweetest things and he always says never to let go of him.also he invites me to all his lacrosse games and he ditches his friends just to see me even if its only for 30 minutes...thats a pretty big deal right?when guys are the first ones to say it..they mean it right? or could he have said that because hes afaid of losing me??

it sounds like he really loves you
you can tell by his actions and stuff and he did say it first so you know hes not just saying it because you said it first

hope i helped

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Is it better for a guy to have a circumsised penis or non circumsised penis?

What is the difference?

and how do they benifit from a circumsised penis?

Thanks

its much healthier and cleaner for them to have a circumsized penis

hope i helped

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okay. this morning. i woke up and went to the bathroom because i had to pee. lol, and when i wiped there was blood on the toliet paper. it was on the toliet paper not in the toliet, and it wasnt alot. and im sure it was blood. idk if ive started my period yet. please help.

yeah you probably started your period. that happened to me too. there was just a little bit of blood so i didnt know if i started it or not.. but then the next day it was heavier. good luck.

hope i helped

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This is a odd question, but when I'm on my period or the week and a half before I feel alot more sexual urges then I do when I'm not. What is wrong or up with that?

its probably just hormones..
theres nothing wrong with you : ]

hope i helped

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