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The names Julie. i`m 15 years old and love too give advice so just ask me a question and i`ll try to help [:

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My brother in law is living with me and my husband.
I don't mind that he's staying in our house. What I can't stand is that he is messy. He'll go into the kitchen and get something to eat and not put it away. He'll get a glass of juice and not wash his glass. Not only does he not wash it, but he leaves it on the kitchen table for me to do it.

What do you suggest I do?

just say to him.. "could you wash out your glass from now on"

Okay, 5 seconds ago I just dropped the camera that I got this Christmas! I know it cost like..130 dollars, and it was the gift from my parents, unlike the other ones from 'santa' hha. Anyway, i dropped it, and now its all scratchy inside, and I got it to turn on..and it wont now. It sounds like pieces in the inside are juggling around. I unscrewed the top to see if anything was in there, but the bottom doesn't unscrew, so you can't take it off, so I don't know. Wtf do I do? I LOVE that DIGITAL camera, and my parents are gonna be soo pissed. Should I blame my cat? Be like, "I think the cat hit this off the table' or something. Omg, please help, my mom's gonna be home soon. PLUS, I'm supposed to bring it to school tomorrow. Oh man :(

if its under warentee you can send it back to be fixed but you need the original recipt and stuff and it might take awhile

He is kind of overwieght, but sweet and fun to talk too. I really feel happy around him, and always try to talk to him. But at my school he is regarded as a geek, or a nerd by everyone. And I think he likes me too! I'm not quite sure I'm ready to date, but how can I have him keep liking me until I am?

you cant just lead him on, its either you like him or you dont.. its not fair to him

I have this problem with my singing. Im told by a few people that i am pretty good and all.. but i somehow dont have enough confidence in myself compared to a lot of othre people in my chorus. My music teacher is always cracking jokes on me about thank god that he doesnt have to hear my solo anymore and what not... But when I talk to him personally he tells me that if he didnt think that I was good then he wouldnt have chosen me for all county and all this stuff... and that i just need to work on my musicianship and all.. But somehow i am extremly confused... can someone help me figure this whole thing out?
I rate!
-Confused-

some teachers are just like that, he probably thinks you can take a joke, your teacher wouldnt keep you around if you were a bad singer, you just need to bulid up your confidence

I love to draw but the only problem is that I never know what to draw.I need some ideas on what I can draw!And if you name something that is very colorful and takes a while to color than I will rate you a perfect five!!!

try doing a collage of something on a big piece of cardboard or a protrate of someone

Can you skip your period and not be pregnant? In other words, if you miss a period, is the only explanation pregnancy?

no, if you just got your period for the first time and your cycle is still inschudeled

ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months.. considering valentines day is today, i got my boyfriend the video game that he wanted. he came over to my house after school and all he did was sit and talk about his game. and he left me on valentine's day to play his game.. would he be considered a shitty b/f?

yep

i'm REALLY bored right now, and i was wondering if anyone knew any really good/ funny weblinks i can go to

i have my own website that has TONS of links its www.geocities.com/julie309077/links.html

i did my flute for 30 full minutes... i practiced everything imaginable and the deal is that if i do 30 mins of flute i get 15 mins online... i thought i was making my dad happy by actually practicing for 30 mins so when i came home i was told him and he was like well get off line and go running! and i was like no i just practiced and he was like im disconnecting IM because you don't do anything else! whatever i do isn't enough for him!!!!!! never!!!!!!!! ever!!!!!!!!!!! nd my dad has to read my stupid conversations online... i have no privacy!!!!!!! i can't take it anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im ccrying right in front this stupid computer!! i absolutely positivly hate everything! there is no talking to him so thats not an option.. no one can talk to him... please help... i rate 5's

well i hope you can read this... if your not disconnected already. lol. but why dont you talk to your dad and tell him that you go on aim to talk to your friends and that your did what he said (practicing the flute)OR if he disconnects aim you can go on aim express, you dont have to download it at all you can get it off the aol website or go on google and search aim express... good luck

There is this girl that when I see her face
She takes me away to that special place, and she just means soo much to me. The thing is she doesnt really live near me and stuff, and where i live i dont really have the greatest life, i have no friends and am always lonely if im not working and i get very very suicidal (SP) and its happened before and i dont want to hurt her and stuff,and all i want is to be with her but i have to finish school and i got an apprentaceship after school and stuff but you know i dont want to spend my life suffering like this with no one to do stuff with and nothing to do and be lonely cause it sucks, help please

well why dont you try talking to her, complement her. if your feeling sucidial you should call 800-784-2433 or go online to www.befrienders.org or call the youth crisis hotline at 800-448-4663

okay, I just got a new sn AIM, I didnt redownload it or anything, just a new sn and for some reason on my buddy list on the left, it shows a column with links i can click on such as " Radio" " My photos" "greetings" "IM Robots" "Video IM" is there a way to get rid of this? because on my other buddly list it doesnt do this... if you want me to send you a picture of what it looks like just e-mail me on here andill give you my SN, thanks :) * I rate 5's*

click setup then useful tools i think... you have this because when you got a new sn, aim automatically updated your buddy list

Ok, So last night (Saturday night) I met this girl (17 bout 4 months younger than me) and we talked, kissed, etc, Then she left and I got her phone number. Well, It's Valentines Day Tonight at midnight, and I was wondering if it would be too soon to ring her at midnight to wish her a happy Valentine? Or should I wait until morning? Any advice within the next 2 hours would be much appreciated! Btw I am 17/m

~Evilenterprisesinc

i think you should wait.. she might be sleeping

I saw someone ask a question about an itchy pubic area and someone answered with it could be `crabs`. Im scared i might have it!! what is it and how do you know if you have it?? what happens if you DO have it? Please help!! Where does it come from and stuff?

if you had crabs you would be REALLY REALLY itchy in that area... it would drive you crazy. it is really easy to get.. they can "hop". my step-dad told me about how he was in hospital and his friend who did have crabs visited him and then all of the sudden he had crabs.

hey. ok my problem is that my parents give me noooooo freedom. They won't even let me go to the mall alone!!!!! I always confront them but they never listen. I am getting really fed up with them. I don't know what to do. Green day is going on tour and all my friends are going and i really want to but my parents wont let me because they think they swear too much. What should I do besides talking to them because that doesnt help!

they do it because they love you

i have windows xp and im using the regular Word processor that it comes with (not microsoft works word processor) just REGULAR WORD and i NEED to double space my paper but i cant find any possible way to do it, but i know there's a way. how do i do it? (dont say press enter cause that'll get screwed up when i print) thanks SO much!

i have the same thing... there is no way... i downloaded a free word processor with double spacing AND abc check (since it doesnt have that either) just look up abiword on google and you should find it

15/f I get really chapped lips, but they don't crack or anything, they just get sore and red and sometimes itchy. They flake too. So anyway, I've tried loads of different chapsticks and stuff, even blisteze which is a really good medical thing to use. It's really annoying me cuz I can't wear lip gloss or anything, plus they itch and I get red bits around my lips too. Does anybody know what's up with them?

i dont know but did you try petrolium jelly??

Do you think its wrong for a tenth grader to like a seventh grader even if the seventh grader is supposed to be in eighth grade? Im a female tenth grader and theres this male seventh grader thats hella kewl....what do you think?

kinda... it sounds a little young

My lip is bleeding really bad from being chapped. Is there a way I can stop it? It's a reddish black and I'm about to go to school so it's going to look weird. Any tips?

put vasaline on it... it makes it shiny and unchapped :)

Im 13/f and one of my best friends (12/f) tryed somking today with her two other friends who have somked sice they were 10.
I am really against smoking and when I talked to her about it, she said she was, and didn't tell me that she tried it or act like anything was weird. I know she told others, I saw her whispering. I know she did it because I was with a group of friends next to the bush where they smoke and I saw her smoking. She was coughing all the way through the next lesson and STANK.
This was in first break and she went off with the other two at lunch too, so she might of been smoking then too. I havn't told her that I know.---How do I stop her before she gets addicted?---
She is really into sports and I know smoking makes you breathless and bad at sport. I think she would have a far better life if she didn't smoke. Sorry about the length!
Zoin.

tell her you know and talk to her about it... if that doesnt work, tell her parents what shes doing

well with valentines day coming up i was soo confused on what to get muh boyfriend of 2 months. and i was thinking about doing this for him but i don't know if its stupid soo im asking you ppl for input! ok well here... at the beginning of the day im gonna go to his locker and hang out with him and act really bored! and then when i see him at the end of the day im gonna tell him that i really need to talk to him and its important and just to call me when he gets home. and im gonna hand him a note and that he has to read it when he gets home! and the note is going to be about how much i really do love him and care about him... does that sound like an ok thing to do for valentines day? and for the guys tell me what you would do if ur gf did this for you! thanks bunches

i dont think its that great but its ok

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