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Justine,
Okay, i was going out with this guy for 3 mounths... then he broke up with me cause he likes another girl. Then they broke up three day. And i never lost feelings for him. But what happend was yesterday at church, i talked to him for the first time,(in like 3 weeks) and my best friend was hanging like all over him. During the whole service he wouldn't leaver her side which was strange because they arn't that good of friends. And after service was over, i went to go tell her something and i saw them outside alone together... they wern't kissing or any thing(i think if they did i didnt see) but he hugged her so tight and the way they looked in to each others eyes... i thought i was going to die. I am most certain that they are going out, but what do i do? My best friend loves my ex... but so do I. Please, I need advice.
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first. i would find out if they are going out. or not
if they are : talk to her. and be like hey. i heard you and .. are going out. i still kind of like him. do you think you two could like .. not be so cupple'ish in front of me for a while. itz going to be hard to get over him.
((but what i don't understand if she is your friend how in the world can she go out w. your ex!!!!))
if they aren't : talk to her and be like , hey do you like .. well so do i, can we make a deal? and make a deal on how who ever gets him . the other person wont get mad. or be sad. or try to break eachother up.
but what ever happenes don't let a guy break you too up from being friends. guys are the stupidest thing to figh over!!! i know you still have feelings for him, and you will be heart broken if they are going out. but you will survive. there are tons of ppl out there.. and when you find your next guy you wont even remember him! so i hope everything works out between all 3 of you.! telll me what happenes!
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Alright Justine,
I have known this guy for like 3 years, he has always been there for my through every thing no matter what.He is my best friend and we always hang out. But the thing is... i think i love him... what do i do? Do i predent like my feelings arn't there? Or do i tell him? What do i do?
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well you might ruin the friend ship if you tell him. cuz you could go out .. then break up. but i would just bring the subject up .. and be like .. so do you like anyone .. then if he asks you, tell him. but im not saying this will work. he might not like you back. but i would most deff. not "hide" your feelings. you have a right to tell, and he has a right to hear! so, just talk to him. i hope everything works out for you!
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Me and one of my best friends have been getting in alot of fights lately! We've worked it out and stuff but im still not sure about her. See when we were friends i heard she was talking bad about me behind my back.....But i dont kno if that is true. She's getting more popular and stuff and im getting left behind. Sumtimes i think she tries to hurt my feelings on purpose because she always says mean things to me then after she says it she goes "just kidding". Ive told her secrets before and then i think she tells people the secrets i told her because people are starting to hate me now and it was ever since i told her stuff. Were friends right now but im not sure if i should trust her or still be friends with her.... plz help me!!
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what are the fights over? something stupid. or something big? and have you talked to her about the things you heard? cuz the could be all rumors. then . i would talk to her. saying are you talking about me? are you telling ppl the things i tell you? can i trust you? then when you get those answers think about it. is the friend ship worth the stress? can you really trust her? do you want to make the friend ship work? i hope i helped. i think i need a little more info to say more. well come back if you need more help..
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i have been only 85 pounds for like 2 years and i just cant seem to gain weight. i eat and eat and i stay the same weight it bothers me so much. i think i hae a low matabolism plz help me (link)
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well first off .. if you eat, and don't gain weight that means you have a mast matabolism. but don't take advantage of that. cuz it will come back to haunt you.. haha j.k it doesn't haunt you, but it like .. just creeps up on you and then you gain a whole lot of weight. if you have been 85 for 2 years. and your dr. hasn't said anything about it. and your not passing out. and you can still run and stuff. then your fine. i now it might bother you. but who is really happy w. their weight? i don't think anyone is. but if you are really worryed about you weight you can go to your parents. or dr. and talk to them about it. and maybe they will put you on some pills that will help you put some weight on. well i hope i helped!!!
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Ok I'm not sure if I should lose weight or not I am 5'2 or 5'3 I'm not exact, and i weigh between 100 and 105, like on and off, but I don't know weather to just stay the way I am or lose weight. help me. (link)
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dude. your only 100-105! thats really good! you don't need to diet. at all. lol thats like perfect for some one who is 5'2 5'3! so don't go on a diet and lose weight. your good the way you are!
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Hey my name is zack and im 13 years old. One of my friends told me that you give great advice. Im a male and i have a boyfriend. Yes I am gay. Anyway he told me that he doesnt want to be with me anymore. What should i do to keep the this relationship going? (link)
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okay. so as you know you cant help for who you fall for, and you really don't help who some one else falls for. so the only thing that you can do it just talk to this person. tell him what your feelings are, how much he means to you, and how sad you would be if he was gone. and just hope that he would change his mind. also, you might think you really like this kid, but you know things happen for a reason, so maybe you 2 should take some time apart and you can try other guys? but w.e you guys decide to do, try to still be friends. that always makes break up's beter. hope i helped Zack. tell me what happens
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ok. justine, i have a boyfriend and he's really great and all but he's wayyy too slow. i know you know who this is because i've talked to you about this before. but he's the sweetest thing ever but it's big for him to hold hands. i've only kissed him on the cheek once and he looked really suprised when i did. he also said that he wouldn't kiss a girl in public and i was like "where isn't public?!" please help me because i'm afraid that i might do something stupid like break up with him...
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lol yes, i know who this is. and you have 2 things to do ((i like the first one)) talk to him. talk to him about what you want and see if you can get him to move faster. or you can break up. cuz he isn't giving you want you need. but i would pick the first one. just talk to him. be nice about it. and then he might tell you why he isn't kissing you. maybe he has a bad memory about it..fill me in on what happens
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o.k. well i'm on a diet and it hasn't been working out too well. i got on a scale and it said i was 134! then, my mom got on and she was 132! i can't believe that she weighs less than me. i also can't help cravings for food if i have money and crap like that. i'm going to ask my friend to help me make good choices at lunch but it will still be hard. please please please help justine!!!
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first off. if your my age, you should be on a diet. your a teenager and need all the food you can get! your a growing person! lol. but don't call it a diet. maybe just eat heathy.yeah i know those cookies and chips look great, but hey fruit is just as good! also i did this b.4 make like a deal. for every bad thing you eat, jog 5 min. and sooner or later you will stop eating bad food. and hey! whats better food..or clothing! ..i think clothes! haha if this doesn't help. ask me again i have some other things to help you loose some weight
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ok sooo i like this guy in my school and he is one of my really good friends. i talk to him online all the time and people say he doesnt talk but he always talks to me he is really really nice he is like the sweetest guy i know he stands up for me and stuff like that. people say he is the biggest jerk they know and they say he is really really mean but not to me he has never been mean since the day i met him. i like him and he asks who i like and i said i dont tell so he told me and he said a girl that he is friends with and said her name but he said i wish it was easier cause i kinda like her and soemone else but he wouldnt tell me that person cause i wouldnt tell him. he nows when i am upset and he trys to fix it and i told my friends one time and they say he never does that for me. but if he does like me he hasnt asked me out and we have been freinds for a while do u think he likes me? if so do u think he will ever ask me out? o and i am 12 years old and in seventh grade (link)
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first. think do you want to ruin the friend ship? you might not bee friends after you break up. then think about. if your friends don't like him. will you guys stop being friends? chick b.4 dicks. remember that. and if your sure that both of you will be friends at the end, tell him next time he asks you. or just tell him when ever! i think he does like you..maybe he is just shy? haha. well i hoped i help. tell me what happens
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Ok i have so much hair!! I mean alot! And i always wear it up because its so poofy when its down! I have a straightener but it doesnt work on my hair! I want to get a new hair style that will make people notice me better!!! I want to get a hair cut where i can wear it down and i look cute! Ive had the same kind of hair style for ever and i think its time 4 it to change! Do you have any idea how i can wear my hair down with out it being poofy? Is there a certian straightener for people with alot of hair? Or do you have any idea on what i should do with my hair? plz help! (link)
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lol hair.. im good w/ the subject. even tho i don't have a lot of hair my self. if your looking to get your hair cut i would get it thined out. cuz if you do it will make it less "poofy" i always like the look when it is thin'ish and then it has many layers. and about upper back. and for the straightener the best brand is a CHIC. but then there are like ceramics. i have a ceramic and it works really good. you can also go to Sally's and ask them about it. they have a good selection of hait things and also can get some serum or something to bring down the poof. you can also look in mag. and find a hair style that you like and bring it to your hair cutter.
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I really like this guy , but im so shy when it comes to guys! I really want a boyfriend! Im 14 and im just so shy to talk to boys... ive tried and its just so hard. How do i get boys to like me and how can i get a boy friend? Do you kno how? Is there a secret that i just dont kno! plz plz help! (link)
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the first step is flirt. flirt a lot. but make sure you don't flirt w/ to many guys!.. only the hot ones! and don't go over board also. k? and if you really like a guy. flirt more w/ them. but not to the point were your a slut. and to get guys to like you. act cute. be cute. flirt and just be your self! and no. theres not "secret" your time will come =) well i hope i helped.ask me if you need more help!
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Heyy
Theres this guy I like at school and my friend asked him if he liked me. He said he would think about it but how do I know if he really likes me or not (link)
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just wait for the answer. i mean. theres really nothing that you can do. just flirt. and be your self untill he tells you. maybe he is just thinking if he wants to go out w/ you and maybe not be friends in the end. i don't know. but i bet it will work out! tell me what happenes!
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o.k well.. there's this guy and we used to be like really really good friends but not anymore, and i've liked him forever but idk i like him a lot more now, but i don't even talk to him any more. and all my friends say that they heard from someone that he likes me.. but i have a really hard time to believe that cause i've had a bad experience w. that kinda stuff and i wouldn't believe it anyway.. so should i start talking to him again i mean i guess it's kinda a plus that we had such an awesome friendship before but idk if that would really help anymore since we don't talk at all.. i would talk to him but i get so embarrassed cause he's always around his friends and they are the.. "cool" kids i guess you can call it..
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what happened to your friendship? did you just drift apart. get into a fight. or just not have time? so what if you don't talk. start talking!!! lol and hey! some times rumors aren't always a lie..so maybe he does like you. stop being to neg. look. itz simple start talking to him. and then you might be getting your self a new b/f but don't be like oppsesed. like be friends then after a while like ask if he wants to go to the mall or movies w/ you and some friends. then sooner or later just go by your self. and then when the time is rite he will ask you out. or if you feel that it is rite. you can ask him =) i hope i helped!
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o.k here's the thing.. my parents are o.k and all but we fight all the time.. i mean all we do is yell at me and i get treated like crap when my brother doesn't.. i always feel like they don't want me around and they always try to embarrass me in front of my friends. Like yesterday when i had a friend over my mom was like.. I'll tell you her biggest secret if you tell me who she likes! omg i don't think so! and then she said she was going to go and get the baby pictures out!!!! and my dad all he does is call me stupid and i'm never good enough and he says that i need to start working out.. basically saying that i'm fat! i'm not skinny as a rail but my dad doesn't need to be saying that kinda stuff about me! and he never wants to do anything w. me that doesn't envolve my brother and all they talk about is how good he is at golf blah blah blah blah!! it's really starting to bug me but idk if i should just keep letting it bother me like it does or if i should tell them that it bothers me.. i've tried it before but they just don't like to listen.. help? (link)
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aw. what do your parents fight about? like is it about you. or things you do? but if it isn't about you. then there really is nothin you can do about it but just talk to them about the fighting thing. and just let them know that is really is bothering you. and about your brother, is he younger then you? cuz if he is then heres my only thing to say. all younger silbiling get treated better. not like you don't get good things. but like its just something w/ the baby child. but trust me. your time will come. have you talked to your mother about the friends thing. and let her know that that really bothers you. and there is a point were is it all just fun and games but then it stops. and some one does get hurt. and im sure your father doesn't mean any thing bad when he tells you to work out. and if your less the 200 pounds. your fine!!! i would most deff. sit down and talk to your mother and father at once when your brother and no one else i around and have a conversation and just let them know how you feel when they do this stuff and dont jus say "it annoys me when you treat __(your brothers nam) better then me' say " i don't think it is rite when you treat __ better then me like the other day when you were just bragging about how good he is in golf" well i think this should help. come back if you need anything else! and keep me posted!
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My friend was kept threatening to kill herself. It's because this guy that she was going out for, for like 2 days broke up with her. And I dont think she'll do it.. but i'm scared. (link)
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wow. i think this girl is me. i think that you should belive her. cuz when ppl say that, most of them mean it. and even if they only went out for 2 days. im sure the girl really really liked him. well i really don't know what to say. but just talk to this girl but don't ever say that she wont do it. i hope i helped-justine
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My friend...well, she's kind of is cocky, and full of her self, and acts like a bitch a lot, and lets just say she's kind of a "wanna be" you know the ones that want to be "cool" and like I don't know what to do with her, like...she shops at Abercrombie to get "attractive" clothes, and it doesn't work, because..well it just doesn't, and she puts on WAY to much make-up which makes her forhead look bigger than it really is, but it's huge anyway.
WHAT SHOULD I DO TO MAKE HER UNCOCKY AND FULL OF HER SELF?????????????????????????? oh, and be a bitch. (link)
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well im good w/ this one if she is cocky let her go. i mean hey. she can be who she wants to me. and if she acts like a bitch. then for get her. and a wanna be? well maybe she just doesn't like hang-ing w. you and so she wants to move up in the social scale. and who cares if she shops at Aber. not me! look she can shop were ever she wants to. abercrombie. hollister. or even target. you shouldn't care. itz just clothing. i mean. reallly. are you that low? if she wants to shop at abercrombie. then let her. and if she wants to shop at target. let her. and the make-up thing. well o-well. she can dress and do her make up how ever she wants. non of your bussness. and with the forhead thing. GO TO HELL!
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Well ok, theres this guy that I like, and we flirt ALL the time, we have two classes together, we always pass notes, he tickles me all the time, we sit together at lunch, the other day I told him how much I liked him, and he didin't say anything back, then all my other friends say that "he only likes you as a friend" and it makes me feel really bad, I dont know weather to listen to my friends and move on or like ask him out when the right time comes.... (link)
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heyy sweet. well if you flirt. he must have some felling towards you..rite? and i mean come on. you flirt. pass notes. and he tickles you? he likes you! duh. when you told him that you liked him he probably was like.suprised ((in a good way!!)) and no offence but don't listen to your friends! i think you should ask him out!! but he might not be ready. at the moment. so just wait a while, or you can ask him now!. k? i hope i helped!!
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hey. i really like this guy. but the bad part is that we have already gone out. and he said that there was no chance that we would get back together. can you help me? (link)
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heyy hun. how long have you been broken up for? i understand if it has only been like 1 week. but if it is more then 1 month i think you need to move on. i know you like him and all. but follow your head. not your heart. cuz your heart is the one telling you to keep liking him. your head is telling you to move on. i know you think that it is impossible to move on. but you can. well all do. i hope i help. come back for more help!
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