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I'm a simple girl, I don't need a lot to please me. I love giving advice and the greatest pleasure for me is knowing that I have helped people out. I am often misunderstood and judged to quickly because of my age. But I have been through enough in my lifetime to understand and identify with many of the people who come to me with problems. I am willing to do whatever I can in order to help you all out, so anything you need, just ask :) I answer all questions honestly... no matter how much the truth hurts.
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Me and this guy like flirt non stop haha, Lets call him Jim. I mean, you can obviously Tell we have a thing. And everyone can see it. Both of us Are just too Afriad to Tell eachother. Anyways, Im not too sure if this is flirting but He always like Wacks me in the stomach or like punches me or stuff just like Fooling around. But i wanna like be Really flity with him, But when he punches me, I don't know what to do, should i punch back? That's what i usually do. Also, I just want to be flirty in general, School is coming to an end i wanna show him i like him without actually telling him. Im extremely shy though, So nothing too intense pleasee! haha thanksss(: (link)
do the whole fake fighting thing.. haha it always works for me. be like ahh your so mean to me all the time and then he will apologize and keep going back and forth or whatever and then after awhile be like i will only forgive you if you do [insert something here] you can say hug or if you want to be REALLY flirty you can say kiss. its up to you.

Hope this helps you :)


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i will be singing ina talent show in a library. but i want my performance to look interesting like evryuone would like it and not get bored with me just singing you get it? like if im just singing its going to be boring im doing like pop rock genre and i would love to get ideas of how to make my performace intresting to the human eye. i cant play any instrumkent i was gonna learn guitar but the song is way to hard to practice (taylor swift) and i cant really play guitar or piano or anything i dotn know what to do please help thanks i rate! if that helps (link)
well taylor swift isnt really pop rock, its country.. so i dont really get it. but what you can do is a get a group of people to perform with you and maybe they could learn a dance in the background of you singing.

Hope this helped you :)


My girlfriend and I had sex for the first time yesterday, and I pulled out instead of using a condom (we didn't have one.) The next day she said her stomach hurt, like cramps or a general stomach ache. Either way, I think she is just freaking out, and I'm doing everything to keep her mind off of it and make her happy, but for my own sanity, what should I do, and should I worry about anything? I was basically sure everything would be fine, but with a freaking out girlfriend, I just need some clarity. Thankkkk youuu (link)
for right now... it is all just in her head. she is probably freaking out because she knows that something serious bad can happen because you were unprotected. just watch for symptoms of pregnancy and be sure that if she's late... take a test, right away! and next time... USE PROTECTION!


Okay, so my mom sighned me up for this singing class. I love to sing. BUt she doesn't know. But anyway, i'm not that good. Well i'm like AMAZING when its just me but i suck when i'm in front of poeple. But, The class has more than me in it. I'm soo nervous what should i do? I want to become an actress so i sighned up for acting, dance, and singing classes so 1. i have something on my resume & 2. because those are usually the stuff that makes or breaks a deal.

I don't really know what the question is..

But, how do i not be afraid to sing infront of people. (link)
you just have to be confident. its okay if your not the best, thats why you're there... to get better! you just have to remember that you are all there for the same reason and that its okay if you mess up a few times.

Good luck :)


I want just a sturdy, good, nice, flip phone. NOT the razr. It's too boxy. Plus I already have it lol. Not something too expensive. And it has to have a camera. That's all I ask. =] Oh,and I have to buy it used or refurbished or whatever. I've already been to all the "the wireless galaxy" and sites like that, so dont send me stuff like that. thanks. (link)
it may help to know what service you have, or which one you want.

i used to have a SYNC from cingular which was a pretty good phone. i mean it wasn't cute like some phones are. but it was sturdy, had a camera, got really good service, and no matter how many times i dropped it... it didn't break!

Hope this helps :)


its summer and I want to get into shape..I have already started excercising but now I want to get my waist smaller and bring out my curves more...its there any special excercises I can do to bring them out f/15 (link)
here is a pretty good website that helped me a lot. i hope it helps you also..

http://www.exercisesforhealth.com/exercises/a-smaller-waist-can-be-yours.htm

Good luck :)


yeah i know this is asked loads of times anyway: we went to school with each other then i left. i Knew she kinda liked me because her friends told me. When i left we talked a few times on msn, but recently we met at a party and we messed around havin water fights, we wer havin loads of fun and she picked on me more then anyone else. Then when i was just standin she came up behind me and put her hands around my hips on my stomach. then i just stopped and stood still and she took them away.... on msn she always talks to me as soon as i sign in. she asked me if a got a gf.. we wer goin to another party soon and i asked her what we wer goin to do and she said makeout, then said it was a joke, she also asked me for my number and texts me at random times to piss me off like really early in the mornin..... i dont know whether i should make a move??? (link)
it sounds like picking on you is her way of flirting, so yea it kinda seems like she does. but you really just have to go with your gut feeling on whether or not ot make a move. if at the party she is acting flirty and hanging out with you a lot, go for it. but if you are getting and "just firends" vibes i wouldnt. you just gotta go with what you are feeling at that moment.

Good luck :)


Do Size Matter In A Fight? Not boxing or kick boxing or wrestling i mean Like a Fight on The Sreet. (link)
yes size definatly matters... i know there are some guys who think that it doesnt.. but it does. lets just say your 5 ft 6 inches and you are really fit and storng, still if you go to fight a 6 ft 3 inch guy, no matter how out of shape he is... you don't stand a chance.

Hope this helped you :)


I had to take my Physical Science EOC over again today and i don't know if I passed or not but if I did it is going to be so awesome but if I didnt I will have to take the class over actually either way I will have to take it over because I missed to many days in a class...........what should I do just ask the principal to waive it for me because it is just one day or should I just take the class over???? I just want to graduate thats all I want to do. (link)
you can go talk to your principal about perhaps making up the day you missed, but chances are he is not just going to waive it for you. maybe you can write an extra paper or take an extra test. just beg him to give you some kind of make-up so that you can still pass. be polite and apologize many times for missing so many classes.

I really hope this works out for you :)


hey as my subject says:how do you tell if a girl loves you.....btw(by the way) im 13 and in grade 8 .....i like this girl alot but im not sure if she feels teh same way, shes in not in my class but we talk on msn and r friends. (link)
Love is a super strong word... and in eigth grade chances are she doesnt. she may LIKE you, and you can tell this if she is really flirty with you and if she talks to you a lot. the best way to know for sure though is to just ask her. be casual about it and just ask if maybe she has feelings for you!

Good luck :)


So I want arches for my feet because they're pretty much flat and they look weird with ballet.

So, what can I do to improve my arch so they'll look pretty? (link)
if your a ballerina, i totally understand your problem because i had the same one.

whenever you're sitting down or anything always work on pointing your toes and point as hard as possible. sit with your legs straight out in front of you [pike position] and have someone else push on your toes while you push through your point. and when your sitting on a chair or anything instead of putting your feet flat on the floor point your toes and push your toes against the floor, so your forcing an arch.

Good luck and i hope everything works out for you :)


i've liked this guy for about a month and tonight i'm going to be introduced to him at this event at my school. he is in jazz and he's gonna be performing and i thought this would be the perfect opportunity to meet him. he's indie, intellectual, and funny, and he has tons of personality from what i hear. what do i say when i meet him? i really want him to like me. help please! (link)
tell him what a wonderful job he did! [every guy likes to hear that hes good] and then all i can say is be yourself. if he doesnt like the true you, then he doesnt deserve you anyways. if you are yourself and he likes you... then your golden :)


i get jelous when my boyfriend talks about other girls
is that normal? (link)
everyone gets jealous... its a fact of life. you just have to make sure that you dont act on your jealousy... then things get messy! your guy obviously likes you, or he wouldnt be dating you. dont worry!

Good luck :)


well, my bestfriend who is middle eastern hates where she is from 16yrs and says she dosent wanna date any guy from afgan, but she tells me (16 &asian) right now she only is attracted to asian guys maybe cause, r we hang w/h them too much.the problem is, she says no asians will ever fall for me! and im gonna b single 4 ever! i told her some asians are open to different race,and some asian guy will like her, what do u think?/ any asian guys out there willing to date out side their race? esp middle eastern? (link)
race should not matter in a relationship. whether yout middle eastern, asian, white, philipino, hispanic whatever! it should not matter. however there still are some terrible people in the world that are rascist toward other races and wont date outside their race. as long as she is fallng for the good people and have good hearts... she shouldn't have a problem with dating people from other races.


Hope everything works out for your friend :)


im having a party and my friend just found out that one of our friends( a girl)like her and i told her that for my party she can infite someone at first it was her boyfriend but than when she found out that our friend likes her she said she wanted to infite her becuz she dont wanna hurt her fellings, shouldnt she infite her boyfriend insted (link)
if she doesnt return the feeling for this girl, she definatly shouldn't lead her on. and if she doesnt have feelings but invites her anyways... chances are her boyfriend may be upset. and she doesnt want to ruin things with her boyfriend does she? if she really doesnt have feelings for this girl... then maybe you should let her invite both... and the girl can see that she is happy with her boyfriend.

Good luck :)


Okay, Lee my best guy friend is a Soc Jock. What me and best friend Ashley call the kids that play soccer in my Highschool. Well my school plays In and Out doors soccer all year round, and are wicked competitive to our rivals The Chiefs... and theres so many kids that would KILL to be on the soccer team that theres rules to being on. No Smoking, and No drinking and the biggest ones tho that could get you kicked you off immediatly. Well in November was our start of Indoor soccer which Lee is on because he's amazing at soccer and they won there first game. So him and a bunch of Soc Jocks celebrated. Now I dont know the whole story because I was not there... this is what I heard from a crying Lee which you will understand later. After getting completly drunk and they smoked some Hash i think, he got in his car [alone] thank god and got into a car accident. Well he walked away from it, and his Father completely covered it up and baught him a BRAND NEW CAR! Well, Lee came to me a few weeks after and told me the whole story like hysteric because he was afraid someone knew his secrete and he would be kicked off the soccer team [[who garentees like 10 kids a whole year paid of Coledge which is crazyy]] Well for the past couple months now I have babyset him every Friday night... and 2 Friday nights ago i went over my friends Ashleys house whos parents were thank god on a second honeymoon. Well Lee... he's an alcoholic. His drinkings gotten worse and more frequent and he puked in an areopostale bag like nine times threw it up in the air aiming for the trees and it landed on his head... so i washed him ofcaose. Well then last friday he calls me around 10 saying he needs a ride.. and soon after I realise he wasnst drunk but wanted to talk to me. Well he told me a lot of stuf that I wasnt ready to hear and I left. It started raining and I was freeezing! Well Lee finds me on park bench and tells me my Dad has had a heart attack and im saposed to go to the hostpital. My doctor lectures my Dad, I lecture him to and Lee hears this...
I told my Principal Monday this. And the same day Lee Ralph and Ben the star players were kicked off the team. When I left the office Lee was at his locker and like I had I screwed you over written on my forehead he knew i told on him.. Mr. Broody said I was a loyal friend only doing what i thought was best because I didnt want Lee hurt or dead but I dont feel loyal. He hates me, I messed his whole future up he was depending on that scholarship... Ashley told he it wasnt my fault hes a drunk but no one would know. It is my fault. Lee wont get in a good coledge, or anything. Everyone knows Im the rat. and I dont care what a bunch of little highschool kids think about me or the soccer team. I care about Lee... and he hasnt talked to me. And Im afraid Friday he'll get drunk and wont call... and die. And It will be my fault he's in some ditch. I thought I was doing the right thing, but I didnt. I know his parents wont ground him.. they'll cry there all star is off the team and probably buy him something huge and expensive. He might get in a car accident and it'll be all my fault. (link)
you did do the right thing! and i am very proud of you for that because honestly i dont know if i would have been able too. what you need to tell Lee is the real reason you told on him, i was a little confused throughout the hold thing... but is the reason you told on Lee because your dad had a heart attack and you didnt want the same to happen to Lee? well if that is the case, thats a really good reason. Lee may not want to hear it at first... but keep telling him. if he doesnt answer your calls, keep calling. leave hundreds of messages. it may seem a little stalkerish, but eventaully he will get sick of anooying your calls and call you back. of this doesnt work you can start rwriting him nots or waiting for him at his locker. even if he does think your a stalker, he will still be able to hear you tell him that you really just dont wanna see him get hurt.

Good luck with him :) and remember you really did do the right thing!


What are some good websites about yoga, meditation and losing fat/weight? I know they're 3 different things but I'm looking for a list with multiple sites. Thanks! (link)
how to lose weight :
http://www.wikihow.com/Lose-Weight-Fast
yoga :
http://www.easyfabyoga.com/blog/
meditation :
http://www.how-to-meditate.org/

Hope these help you out :)


i need to lose about 5 lbs in one week? 16/female whats a good way to lose the xtra stomach quick. not too much to lose just wanna trim down an inch...thanks for the help!!! (link)
here is a really wonderful website that helped me a lot.. my number one tip: if you drink soda... STOP! that was what hurt me the most, i lost so much weight after i gave up sode.

http://www.wikihow.com/Lose-Weight-Fast

Good luck :)


I need some ideas for some slogans for my class of 2009 senior t-shirts....i can't think of anything anyone want to help with some ideas of slogans? (link)
well at my school are 09 slogans are...

... 09 is mighty fine
... 09, its our time
... We shine, 09

hope these help :) also you can try these two website, just type in 09 where it says type in your name.

http://stprojects.com/funstuff/slogan/

http://www.sloganmaker.com/

hope i helped :)


I cant stop eatin
I am stressed, and its making me onstantly eat. I have gained 17 lbs in the last month , yeah i in't think it was possible. Someone please hep me
I really need to loose at least a good 15 lbs.
HELP!
xooxx

ps! .. Most of my fat is in my stomach and thighs
and face.. and it shows
ALOT
=[
im gettin realy sa about this , but i cant stop its like addiciting in some weird way
and when i see other girls skinny , i dont feel good at all , and it brings me to the ice ream..
help! (link)
first of all... you need to calm down. don't call yourself fat because that will just stress you out more. chances are your not fat, maybe just a little bigger than some girls and there is nothing wrong with that. if you are not happy with your body, change your eating habits. clean out your house so that there is not a lot of chocolate, candy, or high in fat foods. if you have easy access to them you are more likely to eat them. then start exercising everyday. simple cardio is better than nothing. try doing an hour of cardio each day... whether its biking or running. then you can try the exercises on the following websites to help eliminate the fat in your stomach and thighs.

thighs: www.womens-health-fitness.com/thigh-exercises.html

sotomach: www.flatstomachtips.com/flat-stomach-exercises.html

Good luck :)




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