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this name is old and stupid....well first off my name is stephanie.dont judge me before you know me.im pretty nice.i like meeting new people,so im open to friends, but im extremely shy, so yeah. i dont give that good of advice so i'll help you as much as i can












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If you read this, Id like you to respond. And Id like you to post your age. Consider it a survey. Respond as briefly or as long-winded-ly as youd like, but please respond.

What is love to you? How do you define love? How do you tell when you are in love with someone?

Answer me these questions three and then we'll see what love means to thee!

this is probably gonna sound corny or whatever but i think it means something deep down where you can say anything to that person and is attracted to not what you look like but whats inside you..that the person is like everything your looking for..which they actually mean something...you will know when you feel butterflys when looking at that person or maybe even stumble when you talk..blah im stupid...age 14

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What kind of eyeshadow do you think would go best with my eyecolor, or my style or whatever? because i'm going out to buy different makeup later and i usually wear like 2 or 3 shades of eyeshadow at a time. idk what colors would look good on me.

here's me:
http://myspace-840.vo.llnwd.net/00231/04/87/231387840_l.jpg

first off i would like to say that i think you are pretty..umm im guessing you like to be different like colors people wouldnt usally wear..im horrible at this but i would think greenish because it would make your eyes stand out and it would probably fit your style

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ok im 15/F. i knew this guy who was IN LOVE(like almost obsessed) with me, and a week later, hes not. hes over me, and now i think he likes someone else. was he just joking the whole time, or did he really LOVE me? and to fill you in.. i liked him back but was to afraid to show that i did. (i know, wrong move to make..)

one he could of heard that you liked him and wanted to be an ass and laugh about it later. or he liked you but thought you didnt like him and moved on but didnt really move on..confusing

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13/m I know I'm going through puberty. I just know it. I'm starting to feel the true emotions (love, rejection, jealousy, etc), and I'm starting to be cleverer (I'm starting to beat my dad at chess, which I haven't done for 8 years.) But despite these mental changes, I'm still physically the same. I mean, sure, I've started to get erections, but it's not like I'm showing that off at school! It's really annoying, how I have the highest voice in the school, and I'm the shortest guy in all my classes. Facial hair, I really don't give a damn, but now a few people think my high voice is annoying, and it annoys me too, and also my parents don't believe that I'm in love because I haven't shown any physical signs of puberty, and thusly I can't have had any mental either. What should I do? (Note: Smartasses get 1s and WILL be reported)

umm if your voice has just changed to a high voice then yeah you must be going through changes and when you do you will probably get taller, but im not really sure what your trying to ask but yeah to ame it sounds like you are

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I want to be something for halloween that NO one here can ever think of. I am 13/f and I want to kinda stand out from the rest of the cround. Like I want to dress up as someone for EX the Dukes of Hazzard. i am too fat to be Daisy. So What? I know its early but just wanted some ideas! Thanks!

i know this wont really help but go to google or yahoo and type in halloween costums..blah i cant spell

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There is this white wiger at my school and friday the dance he kept bumping in to me and when he did he would say what punk u want to fight. i want fight him but there is cameras and teachers so i dont know where i should fight him???

dont fight him..theres really no point but if you really feel like you need to then go ahead but i mean just try to talk to him first..there was this fight at my school like on thursday and this kid bumped into him and was like what the eff are you looking at and the other kid was like what you want to fight in a joking way and then the other kid took him by the neck and lifted him in the air and was like chocking him to death and then 3 secerity guard and 5 teachers tried to get him away from the other kid but started to punch the teachers and everything and he was only suspended for 2 week..yeah there was no point in telling you that but its your desion..umm you could fight him off school grounds or whaatever umm or in school

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if you havn't had your period yet and you have sex can you still get preganat?

yeah you can..i know everyone else below me says you cant but if your a girl im guessing thats why you want to know..um because an egg can release earlier than when you had your period.

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ok i like this boy so much and so do like 5 other girls and he likes 3 of us so what can i do too get him too notice and like me more

Jo Ann

this is going to sound weird but dont be like all the other girls and be all over him..so he sees you as the mysterious and the kind of person that he wants to get to know

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Hey I just got my cartilage pierced yesterday and Im cleaning it more than is required cause I dont want it to get infected. I cleaned it for the 3rd time today and noticed a really light red color on the cotton I was using. Should I worry about this?

no you shouldnt worry its probably just blood

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Tomorrow is my wedding day!!! Wish me luck and all of the happieness in the world!!

Princess Ava

happy wedding....

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i wuz juss at a football game and well there was a firedrill durring it and well it was wierd becasue the back road is very rocky. and i fell and he came over to see if i was okay. and i was running the track agin and he was like RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN for a whole lap and i beat him and he was getting a bit close but i kinda walked away becasue i was still running.

does he like me?
and how can i tell
him that i like him other
then AIM or thru a friend
or in person, its embarising!

is it always better when a guy knows you like him
is it always better when a guy doent know?

i would just let him know you like him because it sounds to me that he likes you..just give it a try..you can do what you said like ask a friend to ask him if he likes you..this sounds like a fairytale HA im a loser

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All I ask is that you don't critisize me in this. Well, I made myself throw up a few minutes ago. I did it to help somebody, and I'll never do it again. The thing is, I got a really sore throat after. Does anybody know how to cure that?

well i would first go brush your teeth because the acid will make your teeth all weirdand thats probably why you have a sore throat..drink hot tea or something hot. and mayb take some advil or something like that to he the pain

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I know for a fact that when it comes to math, I'm pretty slow. Today was the first day of school, and I have a math assignment but I'm very confused. It's a fraction paper. One side was really easy for me but this side I'm just not getting.

-1 1/4 + -2 1/2 =
I keep getting -2 1/4, but there's a list of answers (in a different order) at the side of the paper, and my friend told me the answer was 3 3/4.

Can someone help me with this problem? I don't seem to understand what I'm doing wrong.

My work is
-1 1/4 + -2 1/2 = -3/4 + -3/2 = -3/4 + -6/4 = -9/4 = -2 1/4

-2 1/2 is equal to -2 2/4

so then it would be.... -1 1/4 + -2 2/4=

so -1 + -2= -3..and 1/4 + 2/4= 3/4

so it would be -3 3/4

-1 1/4 +-2 1/2= -3 3/4

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There is a boy I have REALLY liked. He told me he liked this other girl the other day but then after that he asked me if I still liked him. Well, today he asked me if i was going to the parade or the dance on friday. Usually thats not like him to ask me where I'm going. But anyways I siad the parade and he said "sweet me too"..do you think he likes me or what? i dont know whats going on..help me please! Ill rate 5's for everything except dumbass answers!

i think hes begining to like you..or wants to get to know you but it sounds to me that he likes you

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I have a wart on the back of my hand. I heard somewhere that it could go away by itself. Is this true? If it isn't what are some things I might try to get rid of it?

it wont go away by itself..you could go to a doctor to get it lasered,cut off, or frozen, i cant remember anyother way..or you can buy a kit at a store that freezes it off, or you can cutt it off yourself but i dont know if you should

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Okay, I'm on birthcontrol. But, when you're on bc do you have to use a condom? And can he cum inside you and you still be safe? I"LL RATE 5's!!!

birth control and a condom arent 100% effective..if you dont use a condom your at a bigger risk of getting aand STD or pregenet(sp)

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there's this boy i see around a lot, but i've never worked up the courage to talk to him, i'm not very good with strangers. he notices me too, and at once point early on he made an attempt to talk to me but i shot it down accidentally. i didn't realize it at the time but now i do, and i hate myself for it.

anyway, i really really like him, and i know some of his friends but not closely. how do i make it so i can meet this boy, and talk to him?

this is just lkike a book i read, she really likes this popular person that everyone likes, she sees him every thurs. at a local pool hanging with his friends and he always stares..anyhoo just go up to him and talk..about summer the place the you see him at hobbies, what classes he has.. idk

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okay
so i did something
and now im getting liek these sores in my mouth
like open sores kinda and they hurt
could it be an std ?

yes.. you should really get them checked or look on google for symptoms(sp)it could turn out really bad

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this is'nt a random wirdo but i could,nt find anything in this area. im a 13m and i have a little problem. my friends keep laughing at me about my eyebows. and i dont know what to do, ya see if i pulk my eyebows im a fag but if i dont do anything, im a freak, so how can i get rid of my bushy unabrow without being judged.

go get the professinaly(sp)done...tell them you want them to look natural and not thin or in the best shape..

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well is it weird that im a girl that thinks its better to have guy friends. cause there not all about drama and are really funny. well a bunch of people say that cuz im nice and i hang out with guys that means i like love them or something. and i really dont feel that way about them.
what do you think

yeah its deff. a good idea because i hate drama and most of them are funny..you shouldnt care what other people think..its you not them

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