The name is Kayla.
I'm totally cool with giving anyone advice. It's what I love to do. So ask away.
Hm. I'm 16. Brownish - red hair .. green/blue eyes .. 5 ft.
I love life. I've experienced many things in it.
Live it to the fullest, but never regret .. you can never take back anything you've done.
E-mail: KaylaH1303@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Occupation: School
Age: 16
Member Since: October 5, 2004
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Ok its CREEPY thers this guy that i hung out with ONCE at a party who goes to a totally different school then me. he ends up calling me (even though i never gave him my number??) and we talk alittle but i really dont like him. then he calls me right before i left yesterday (ON MY HOUSE PHONE?!?) and i told him i couldnt talk and he said "why not" and i said "im about to go to the movies with my friends" and then i went there and guess who was there! yupp that guy!! and he decided to see the same movie at the same time! weird huh! how do i get rid of him?? (link)
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Tell him that you can't talk to him anymore and your parents are tired of him calling and you don't like feeling like you have a stalker that follows you around and tell him you don't want a relationship right now or whatever, but only if he is interested. I had a guy like this and he would call me every single day and more like once or twice, but like 3 or 4 times a day and I just started ignoring his calls and I blocked his sn and whenever he beeped in, I told him I had to go. It really freaked me out, but he got the picture and stopped calling me. Hope I helped. -Kayla
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Okay, so there's this guy in my school that most of the girls would give their leg to date (not literally of course) He's one of the best skateboarders around, and was even chosen to go to this contest thing across the US... Anyways, he's so cute and he doesn't even know it. From what I've heard he doesn't like having a gf because it gets in the way of skateboarding. A few weeks ago he(Mark) broke up with the girl I have hated since elementary school (she used to pick on me before I lost a lot of weight and discovered make up. lol) This guy that I know from around my neighborhood is dating my best friend n also friends with Mark. He told me that he thought I was 'hot' and that he liked me. Well, he is also really shy. You'd think that because of all of this attention from girls and skating he wouldn't be, but he is. I was hanging out watching them skateboard and he didnt do anything but look over at me a few times. So, before I left I heard him say "No hug?" which was the first time i heard him say anything really. So i gave him a hug and left... When i passed him in school Mark barely said anything other than a "Fine dont say hi to me, i see how it is" so I did and my friends and I walked on to class. When I've passed by him, I saw his eyes on me the whole time we walked by each other and I know he did it on purpose for me to see. I can't help it, I like him so much even though I don't know much about him. Something about being not like the other guys who make those rude comments as you walk by. He's just... So cute! lol. Well, I don't know what to do anymore. I've been talking to him as much as I can, but I don't want to ask if he wants to hang out because I think that's his job and I really want to get to know him better. I also don't believe he likes me because i tend to put myself down a lot and I don't think that he *could* like me. I'm thinking of the worst, like, its all a joke or not true or something, not that he really does like me. Can someone help me with what I could do? Thanks ((I rate if that helps any... Btw, Mark is 16 and I am 14)) (link)
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I definitely think that he is starting to crush on you. If he does make those kind of comments and he wants hugs and he stares at you and he wants you to say hey, then he definitely is crushing also. You should maybe ask him to teach you how to skateboard. That would be a good way to get to know him better. It's both of you doing what he loves to do and is very good at and you can ask him to make sure you don't fall so he will hold on to you as you skate and then maybe catch a bite to eat afterwards. Just ask him. What is there to loose? -Kayla
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What do I do? Two of my friends like me, who happen to be girls, and I don't know what to do! Should I say that I only want to be firends or what!? Please help me! (link)
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Are you a girl or a guy? Put a message in my inbox. -Kayla
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it seems every guy i like is chubby or overweight, i hate skinny guys and fit guys ya know? is there something wrong w// me (link)
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There isn't anything wrong with you, that is just your type. Everyone has different taste, that's your pick. Don't think there is something wrong with you because of it. -Kayla
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i became friends with this one girl named Jenna who was new this year. weve been in school for about 5 monthes now and me, one of my best friends, and one of my guy friends are her only friends in our school. well one of her guy friends from her old school likes me and i dont like him back. he saw me at the movies one night and gets mad because im with another guy, he tells Jenna and Jenna gets mad at me and says some extremly mean things to me, things that a "bff" (as she calls us) would NEVER say. she then apologizes the next day when she hears the real story from one of my friends. i dont know if i should forgive her because she really feels bad.. or shes apologizing because she needs friends at our school and if im mad at her, then she knows my friend and my guy friend will surly be mad at her too.. also she has gotten me in a LOT of trouble.. like trouble with cops.. please help! (link)
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I think you need to ditch this girl. If she doesn't even have the decency to hear your side of the story before she blows up on you then she isn't a true friend. Also, a true friend doesn't get you in that kind of trouble. I used to have a friend like that and my mom made me stop hanging out with her and after we stopped i realized my life was better without her and now I'm very happy. You should let this chick find new friends and dump her. You've already got friends, what do you have to loose? -Kayla
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ok recently i posted a message about "tyler" rite....
well today i had a dream about him... i went up and asked him if he liked "rachel" he said no...... i like u... so i stood there like an idiot and just said o.... ummm.... so im not sure if i like him or not!! !! so heres the 411....
~hes in my language arts class and math class
~we sit across from each other in class
~he says bless u and smiles at me everytime i sneeze but only to me and he never says it to ne1 else
~if i drop my pen like behind me or sumthin he will GET UP and get it even if some1 else cud!
~the other day i was like "omg my poem sux soo bad" he said "thats really good" so i was just like "ok....."
do i like him or what or does he like me im just so confused!! bc i mean i want him to like me but im not sure i want a relationship!
im SOO SORRY its long but i really need some help!!! plz!!!
*i RATE high!
~boy crazy~ (link)
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Well, he did say he likes you and he sure does show you all the signs so that is one problem that is already taken care of. Now with you liking him, maybe you should try hanging out with him outside of school, this way it lets you get to know eachother better and find out if you do or do not have feelings for him. Hope I helped. -Kayla
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Ok my best friend is a girl and im a guy. She and i have been friends for a while but weve had some problems. She always lies to me . And then when she says sry a week lata she makes up some lame excuse why she said all that stuff. well now she acts like a slut and i dont like her . what should i do and what should i tell her? (link)
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Tell her the honest truth, that you don't like how she lies to you and how she acts like a slut and it isn't cool at all. If yall are true best friends she will take your advice seriously and hopefully try to change for the better, but hey, nothing can change unless you try to fix it and you are her best friend so tell her her flaws so she can try to make herself better. -Kayla
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My Best Firend went out with this kid for 2 years! they broke up this summer! The kid now is like im love with me and has really strong feelings for me! My BFF tells me to go out with him and everything. She has a new boyfriend and says it will not runin anything between us and we will still be bff but i dono HELPPP!
**I have feelings for him** (link)
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If you have feelings for him and you are absolutely sure she won't mind, then you should give him a chance. No reason not to and he obviously likes you a lot. Try it out and see wehre it goes. -Kayla
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ok i like this boy and i have an idea that hes knw that i like him just by the way he acts around me i mean we flirt like all the time at skool everytime we see each other but my problem is .. he has a G/F he told me just a couple of dayz ago he was breakin up wit her for me... and that same afternoon my whole crew was talkin bout the arguement between him and his G/F not trying to b mean i was kinda happy about that lol newayz when i was leaving skool that day he pulled me to the side and got down on his knees and told me he loved me (which we've known each other for like ever) i kinda brush'd him off .. so then after the bell rings we talk some more but now were on a break for 5 dayz and today i started to think bout him and it brought tears to my eyez girls ur advice shud i tell him i love him or up my flirting game????** (link)
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If you love him, tell him otherwise don't say it. Don't say something you mean because those 3 words can change a persons life. Definitely get off your break and get with him girl, sounds like you deserve him and he deserves you. If you thought about him and it brought tears to your eyes then I do think you are in love or very close. Definitely tell him you love him! It would make him the happiest guy ever and yalls relationship very good. Hope I helped. -Kayla
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In order to understand this question you need to know a little background:
This guy lived two rooms down from me on a co-ed, all-feshman dorm floor and I never really talked to him before. But at my school (college) there was a big drinking fest and everyone is out drinking and socializing with people. I was standing in a large group of people outside, talking and drinking, with all the same age, and he comes to me and asks me if I could get him in to the dorm because he 'lost' or forgot his key. So a couple of people I was with, me and the guy, (lets call him P) walked back to the dorm. We hung out in the lobby for awhile and we all talked. The night is kinda hazy for me, but I remember most parts. ANYWAYS, later on, somehow the conversation lead to P staying with me in my room that night. So it happened, he spent the night and everything in my dorm room. Obviously it was hours after we had been drinking. But we did stuff. The next day he talked to me as if nothing happened. Now this school year started and I rarely see him. We both live off campus and when I do see him, we say hi, how are ya and everything but never a complete conversation. I don't want to keep him from class. But after I see him I just wanna grab him and kiss him like that night we spent together.
Now my question is, From all this background info, do you think he actually likes me, or do you think he was trying to get in my pants that night. BUT lately, he says hi, even if I dont see him walk past or something he makes sure I see him. Should I just stop him and make him late to his class and talk to him, see if he wants to get together some time. I dont have a clue at all. I really like the guy but I'm confused on what I should do.. If anyone could help me, that would be awesome!!
I'm really sorry this is long... (link)
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I think he does like you, I don't think he was trying to get in your pants. If he was then he wouldn't take the time to make sure he says hey to you when he sees you and makes sure you see him too. I definitely think you should make him late to class or give him your number or email or something so yall can talk more often and ask him to hang out one night. See what happens from there. I wish you the best of luck, sounds like you've found a good guy for yourself. Hope I helped. -Kayla
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My guy friend..lets call him K..likes me and I like him back..atleast I think so. We got kind of deep and talked about our feelings and stuff..and he told me all the reasons he liked me..I really liked him at that point..he's so sweet. One weired problem..when I'm not talking to him...or just talking to him online..I feel like I can't decide if I really like him or not..but when I talk to him in person it's totally different. I dont know I can't stop thinking about it and it's tearing me apart. If anyone could help..that would be GREAT! THANKS! (link)
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Well, it's always different when you are talking to someone in person rather then online. Maybe you should also talk on the phone and hang out with him a lot more. You'll figure it out soon, you just have to hang around him more. This may just be the beginning of your crush. Or maybe you just can't decide whether or not you like him because you just don't talk to him in person enough. I don't know about online, maybe you should try some personal conversations, like getting to know him better and maybe he would ask like the way he does when he is around you in person. Good luck with that and I hope I helped. -Kayla
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ok well heres the situation i liek this kid n hes on the same sports team as me but i juss dont kno how 2 exactly get him 2 notice me liek as more then a friend cus i realli liek him n i woudl realli like us 2 go out or atleast become realli good friends n yea but my 1 friend thinks i shoudl ask him 2 come bowlin w. a group of us but idk cus then i dont realli want him 2 kinda kno i like him if he doesnt like m bac cus then it'd bb awkward if he doesnt n i dont want it 2 b also a lot of grlks liek him n tahts anotehr reaosn i dont wanna juss come out n b liek yea i liek u n crap cus i dont realli think id have a realli good chance cus of all the ppl that liek him so yea. i neeed usm things 2 talk about n stuff i hope u can help me cus i realli need it! ty if u can!!!! (link)
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Well, if he liked those other girls that like him then he would be with him right now. Do you talk to him a lot? If you don't you should and tell him that your friends are going bowling and you think he should join you guys. Don't tell him it's a date or anything just tell him you wanted to go with a bunch of friends and you think he's really cool and wanted to know if he could come. Don't worry about those other girls, they got nothing on you. Haha. Anyways, just talk to him one day like start the conversation with hey, what's up? Then say, you played really well today. And talk to him about the sport or something and get to know him better and better to where you are hanging out with him and talking to him on the phone. Hope I could help you. -Kayla
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Sorry it's long, but please try to help.
This might be confusing, so if it is, sorry. But this girl I've known since 6th grade,(I'm now a freshman, grade 9) Brittany, and have had classes with since 7th, and became friends with this year, well her mom had a tumor in her eye. And Brittany's mom had it removed about a week ago. And she had to have her head shaved because they were doing surgery going through her head. Well, lately Brittany has been getting upset a lot in class, and I want to try to cheer her up, and make her happy, but her mom might be dying because the surgery didn't go to well, she's recovering, but not the best way possible, so I have a few questions.
1.) What can I say to her to comfort her, she knows I give advice, and a lot of times she asks me, but when it comes to a personal friend, it's hard
2.) This really weird teacher that none of us like who is a lesbian (not saying that's bad, but... it's weird w/ what she's been doing) Well, she, w/o Britt's permission, told the whole class about Britt's mom, and Britt ran out crying, and we didn't know how to comfort her. And then that teacher gave Britt her cell phone number, and was like call me, and don't leave a message, keep calling until you reach me, so I was wondering, is that okay for a teacher to do that? None of us like her, and Britt said she asked 2 teachers about it, and they said it wasn't normal, but Britt does tend to over exaggerate, or lie about things (she's really popular, and does whatever she can to boost the popularity, I didn't like her until this year b/c I always thought she had a perfect life and was concieted, b/c she's really rich and stuff, but now that I've gotten to know her, I've realized why she acts that way.)
3.) We're only 14, and freshman in high school. I don't associate with her that much outside of school, unless it's at a game, or if we see each other at the mall, like I don't invite her to the mall with me and my friends, but if we see each other, we talk, and/or walk around w/ each other. So please, help me try to comfort her, and is it right for that teacher to be doing what she's doing? What can I do to help, or what can I say. Also are there any gifts I could give her for x-mas that might make her feel better, or might make her laugh, or smile? I'm not trying to be weird, or act gay, but it's been so long since I've seen her smile, and it's been so long since I've heard her laugh. She's cut her wrists in the past, and I don't want her to use self-harm again, and I'm afraid about with what's going on with her mom, she might go farther than just cutting her wrists.
Oh, and about the whole teacher thing, we don't know how that teacher found out, Brittany didn't say anything to her, we figure she must've overheard Britt telling one of us. Please, any help would be appreciated! And if you're one of those people that like to leave sarcastic, or rude advice, I could do with a good laugh, so make it funny. Thanks in advance for all the help. And again, sorry it's so long. (link)
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I really think that you should just hang out with her outside of school and get to be close. This way yall can share anything with eachother and you can be her shoulder to cry on, but make sure she knows that you are there for her. Send her mom a card saying that you hope she feels better and take your friend Brittany out to a movie or dinner or maybe hook her up on a double date so yall can have lots of fun together. Take her shopping, just find out what she LOVES to do and take her to do it. Whether it be playing a sport, a video game, shopping, watch a movie, whatever. Just take her to do it and that will definitely cheer her up and you should get her a christmas present. See what she really wants and get it for her. That would be awesome. And with that whole teacher thing. Teachers shouldn't do that. They aren't supposed to do that, and if it gets too out of hand you need to tell the principle or guidance counselor, or someone like that. -Kayla
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ok, i have a boyfriend. and i thought i loved him to death. but the other day i was at this club thing. and me and this other guy who is a good friend, we started flirting like crazy. and i realized i have feelings for him. and then later he told me he had feelings for me. he doesnt know i like him too though. but i don't know if i should stick with my boyfriend cause i truly do adore him or should i give this other guy a try bcuz hes so nice and everything. (link)
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Stick with your boyfriend, this doesn't give you enough reasons to break up with him. That other guy is a good friend and will most likely stay friends, if he likes you enough he will leave you be until your single. But don't break up with your bf unless you really mean it and when you do you know that it was the right choice and you like the other guy more than the bf that you just broke the heart of. -Kayla
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My guy friend and I just started liking eacother..( begining of thanksgiving break )..and we just told eachother * which is something I like NEVER do * but I am so afraid that he'll just change his mind..and I'm gonna feel SOO weired on monday at school. Ahhh what do I do..we're not like BEST friends but we're pretty close..and I've never felt this way about another guy before. Please Help!!
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Hun, if he told you that he likes you, then that's gotta mean something. He wouldn't tell you that just for the heck of it. Plus, you can't get over someone in just a few days. He will still like you when you come back from the break, but why don't you try hanging out with him this weekend, that way when you see him monday, nothing will be weird between you two. -Kayla
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ok these TWO guys like me..... well im not sure about one of them but im definite on the other .... the first guy's name is lets say mike well he likes me... but hes kinda a loser.... plus hes a big jerk.... ya this is the guy who likes me and i no that he does. the second kid lets call him tyler.... im not sure if he likes me but all of my friends say that he flirts with me... but i dont even try to flirt with him!!! so the real question is does he like me??
o ya by the way i sorta have a crush on him but i dont wanna tell my friends bc last yere he wassa humongous loser and now hes all hot and sexy lol!!
plz dont delete this i really need advice!!
~*l0sT aNd CoNfUsEd*~ (link)
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Haha, I think you should definitely find out some how whether or not that second guy likes you and if he is as hot and sexy as you say he is, then go for him. It doesn't matter what your friends think and chances are they are thinking the same thing they just don't want to say it for the same reasons as you. Just hang out with that second guy a bunch and see where it goes. Ask him to the movies or the mall or your house or out to eat or something like that and get one of your friends if you don't want to ask him yourself if he likes you or not. Also, if that first guy likes you and he's a jerk, but you've got this second guy, then go for the second guy! He seems better, jerks are no fun to date! -Kayla
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Hey Im getting braces in a week.. i was wondering if there was anything i should do to prevent the pain.. or to get rid of the pain.. or could somebody jsut tell me how much pain there even really is? cuz i get different answers from like everyone i ask.. i just wanna be prepared. I know i should take advil before getting them put on, and i should bring chapstick with me.. any more advice? Oh and btw.. what color should i get lol i was thinking pink cuz i thought it might be cute? or would pink be too babyish for a 15 yr old? thanks ill rate!! (link)
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Sweetie, it doesn't hurt when you get your braces on and I'm 15 and I get my braces off in a week but I usually always have hot pink, you can pick whatever color you want, nothing is too babyish and to be honest most people don't even notice the colors. All you need to do is bring the chapstick because every time I go my lips get really chapped and you might have a little like pain, not much, but maybe over like 3 days, your mouth will be a little sore. Just take any kind of pain medication, because it gave me head aches. Hope I've helped and good luck with that. Braces suck! Haha. -Kayla
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k..my friend is out of town right now and i like her boyfriend..the other day we madeout in his truck when he drove me home..and we've been hanging out a lot since she left for thanksgiving..i feel really guilty but i just cant get him off of my mind..i like him way too much..and i dunno what to do!..i swear im gunna end up going crazy..what should i do?? (link)
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Wow, this just happened to two of my friends and you really need to dump him. I'm sorry I know you've had fun with him, but trust me, one way or another your friend will find out and she might hate you for the rest of her life because that is her bf and not only will she not have a friend she can trust but she won't have a bf she can trust either. Tell him you can't do that anymore until your friend and him are broken up because it isn't right. Sorry, but this is true! -Kayla
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i hurt my arm the other day and it's broken... i don't want to go to a doctor.. what can i do to get it healed (link)
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You need to go to the doctor. That's the only way to heal a broken arm, sorry I'm not much help. -Kayla
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hey everyone! omg- i need some help!! okay, well this guy, Eric, like me alot and asked me out last night, and I said yes. But, my ex boyfriend(our relationship was 1 year)is coming down from Oregon tomorrow and i still love him. Help, i dont know what to do!! i really love my ex and i still like Eric alot. I am sooo confused!! please help me!! (link)
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Well, is your ex just coming for a visit, because if so then I see no need for you to freak out. Just hang out with im maybe watch some tv or something and make sure to ask your bf so he won't get angry. You might still love your ex, but now you have a new relationship and I think you should try to keep it as long as possible, even if your ex is just visiting. -Kayla
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