heyehy i'm ashlee
most people call me ashlee but i personally like ash. i'm 14 and i live in connecticut, i have the most amazing friends ever. i'm not perfect one bit, i have many things about me people don't know, i have anxiety&&depression i was diagnosed with my anxiety when i was about 7 but i had it since 5. my depression was last year and it was so scary, i love to help people with any type of problem they may have. back in 1st grade my best friend and i actually had a fix fight club, when two people were fighting we would help them sort it out haha
E-mail: omgitsashlee3@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: connecticut
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Age: 14
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What are some good songs to encourage someone who has recently gone through a break up?
Not sad, "I want you back" type songs, but songs that help you get over that person.
Thank you! (link)
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hmm well taylor swift sings a lot of songs like that. one good song would be picture to burn. its country but like newer country and its pretty good, even if you hate country listen to it, you might be suprised...
let me know what you think
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I entered high school going from an very small private school to a very large public high school (70 kids versus around 4000 kids) I knew it would be a big transistion, and would take some getting used to, but about a week and a half into it, I hate it so much. I spend most of my nights crying and I don't think I can bear it much longer. I don't know anyone but I have some people to talk to, but its just not the same as my other close friends. I just feel like Im completely lost, and not where I belong. No other people I know seem to feel this way. They say it'll get better but I can't see that happening. What can I do? If I really said I hated it, my parents would let me transfer, but I don't even know where to go. Theres a smaller catholic school closeby that I liked when I visited, but Im still unsure. My state has a lot of private high schools, but about that I am unsure also. (I live in Pennsylvania, my zip code is 19054)
Can someone please give me some kind of advice? Ideas? Something, because Im close to breaking. (link)
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i just started high school and of corse i have tons of friends there, there are also new kids in the classes that i try to be friends with. a week and a half isnt enough time, it took my classes like a week to just get used to the school and to start being or normal selves like just talking and stuff. try to meet new people i know its hard but find someone you have a few classes with or have lunch with and just when they look over st you smile and make eye contact they just probably dont know how to come about meeting you so do that then maybe the next day even if you do understand the question in a class ask the person you sit next to if then could help you, just say something!!!!!!! once you have people to talk to it will be so much easier!!!
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Alright, this is kinda crazy so bear with me. Just so you're not confused I am not an international student and this is my third year in highschool.
I've been in school for about a week now and ever since I've been back I've noticed that all the American guys completly ignore me and want nothing to do with me, even some of my guy friends don't wanna talk. However, a lot of the international kids (Asians and Italians-especially this one dude) won't stop looking at me. I'm a modest. quiet, keep to myself person, so please don't think I'm bragging about this. It really boogles my mind, I don't think I'm a model, but the attention I'm getting from certain Vietnamese and Italian guys is kinda looney. It's not like I mind it, I mean it makes me feel happy, but why are the American guys giving me the cold shoulder? Any thoughts?
Thanks!!! :D (link)
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my best guess is cause they have their eye on some other girl or something, they probably went to school with most of the other girls and just talk to them, i think guys have a harder time meeting people than girls do so they stick to the people they know
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Does anyone know some good songs that has to do with a guy you like but he likes another girl? If you do let me know, thanks. (link)
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if you like country youve probably heard this song but teardrops on my guitar, by taylor swift, thats exactly what the song is about and she wrote it based on her own experience
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This is a curiosity question: Lets say an individual decides he/she no longer wants to go to a doctor that they have gone to in the past (or hasn't gone to that doctor in many years) what does the doctors office do with those files. The files that I am talking about are the ones that the doctor uses in the examining room which has all the patients info (link)
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im sure all the information gets tranfered to your new doctor so the new doctor would have a background of your health in case something comes up and they need info from years before
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15/f. I'm always sad. And I have no reason to be. I have friends, my parents are still together, I get things that I really want and need, my parents give me attention, people are nice to me, I get good grades...All that good stuff. You know? Nothing missing. But I'm just so upset. Everyday. Sometimes I have outbursts of happiness. But they usually last for as much as one hour. Now, as a sophomore, I have these feelings of hopelessness, helplessness, and sadness. I know I need to see a therapist, but my parents strongly disapprove, saying I don't need one. I used to cut myself just to get attention from people that weren't even my real friends. I even have thoughts of suicide. I feel like I'm in jail, you know? I'm always anxious and stressed and I rarely ever make plans with people anymore. I can't stand being alone. And I need [CRAVE] attention and affection to make my days (from people other than my parents), otherwise, it's like "what the hell am I living for?"
This all seems really ridiculous to me. I have never had any type of trauma. I've never been raped/molested etc...I'm just so f-ing confused.
What can I do? :\ What makes people happy? (link)
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i guess i can relate, i didnt want to listen to music and i was asking myself what im still here for, like there was one voice in my head telling me i shouldnt be here and im knew i had a good life, finally i couldnt take it and i told my mom and it was the hardest thing ive had to tell her but the next day she called my doctor and got the name of a lady who i went to see a few times and helped me get out of my situation. tell your mom you want to kill yourself, throw a few tears in and stuff and im sure she will get you help if she doesnt make it seem like you tried killing yourself and make it so she can see it, like leave a bottle of pills on the counter and hide the pills but leave the bottle with the cap off and then go lay down, pretend to sleep something to scare her so she knows you need help!!! it was the best thing i did let me tell you. if you need anything else im me xoashhx33 or email me xoashhx33@hotmail.com
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i am 14 and i have worn my hair up everyday of my life since i was in like 4th grade... its not that i dont like my hair... i just hate the way it looks its really ugly looking.. like i need a different cut or something i dont no but now even if i do get a different style i am totally not confident enough to wear it down.. i mean no one has ever seen me with it dowm and its not like i can just walk in one day with it down.. its not that easy! please i need advice (and not just be confident or anything like that... real advice please! it would help to know someone else is like me!!!) thanks!
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start the 1st day of school with your hair half up half down, it wont be such a shock to people, straighten your hair before (if you dont have a straightner you can buy them at walmart find one your happy with.) straightning your hair makes a ton of difference. but i say half up half down would be best for you, just pull about half your hair back into a pony tail and leave the rest down. also, sidebangs and layers would also help, if you dont have sidebangs already, they make wearing your hair completly up in a ponytail actually really cute!!!!
if you need anything else im me xoashhx33 or email me xoashhx33@hotmail.com
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I think I have strep! I have the medicine and everything. Middle school starts monday, if I have strep will it be gone by then? What if i dont have strep, will it be gone by monday? i hope a doctor answers this Q (link)
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you will be able to go to school after one day of medicine
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I have to get up at 6:00 A.M for high school... In your opinion, is it better to shower the night before, or when you wake up? Because, I have P.E...and when I take a shower, I preferably wash my hair. So, which way do you do it? This is a really weird question LOL (link)
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i take night showers just because i need to dry my hair after a shower, if i take a shower dry it and then straighten my hair, it looks bad so i take a shower at night dry it at night then straighten it in the morning and it saves on time!
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does anyone know a song about a girl who loves this guy but they live far away from eachother? (link)
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try tim Mcgraw, i dont know how you feel about country but its by taylor swift and shes a young songwriter/singer who writes mostly songs about relationships
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Any songs about growing up, change [good].. just life experience/living in the moment ?
Thanks (link)
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i dont know if fits what your looking for but taylor swift tied together with a smile. listen to all of her songs there might be one or 2 i forgot. she is an amazing song writer/singer
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does anyone have any advice on how to make my dorm room super cute? i wanna make sure i appear cool to my fellow roomie. i dont really have a budget so anything goes! thanks! (link)
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try looking on the pb teen webite or in the magazine, i love their stuff in it. if you paint the room a plain color and find some stuff in the book im sure it will look amazing
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hi, i'm fourteen and my boyfriends seventeen. we've been together for a little over a year.
i live in nj and he lives in virginia. we barely ever see eachother. so i want to send him a letter and make him a little cd with a bunch of love songs and such. and some about distance and blah blah(: he's into like alternative rock and things around that. like the pink spiders, sherwood, ronnie day, etc. the more songs the better. thank you so much (link)
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i dunno how you feel about country but taylor swift is an amazing singer who sings mostly love songs, i think stay beautiful,i'd lie and our song would be good but look into her other songs i might be forgetting a few
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i had a hangnail and bit it out yesterday. now my fingertip is swollen and very red in comparison to my other finger. it is sensitive also. what can i do to it to make it go away?
thanks in advance. (link)
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i do this all the time, you just have to wait for it to go away which will take a few days
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(I know this is long, but it's a problem i've dealt with for such a long time and i'm just looking for relief)
For about half my life, about seven years, I've had severe anxiety. Panic attacks, feeling short of breath, paranoia, just feeling very anxious in general and feeling like someone with metal gloves is holding onto my lungs.
I've been on and off zoloft, taken Xanex in emergency situations where I felt like I needed to be taken to the hospital, i've had therapy and go to an alternative school and everything along those lines, but I can't seem to feel better; my anxiety just won't go away.
Now, my Mom's always been pretty 'spiritual' I guess you could say, and she believes in souls, heaven, angels, things like that. Well, i'm a twin, but my mom was supposed to have triplets. She ended up getting a reduction for whatever reason that i've never really been told.
But anyway, my mom always thought that I could tell that the baby was killed, and that I was aware of it, and somehow it's affected me. My Dad's never really been a big believer of that kind of stuff, and he's always just thought I was working myself up too much. Which i'd frankly much rather believe.
But last night when I made the analogy to my Dad of someone grabbing my lungs, he said he thought he knew what was wrong with me.
So today he comes up to me, with my Mom's mindset, and says that he thinks that when the baby was killed, somehow it's soul went into mine, and now it's trying to get out. So he want to take me to some specialist.
I'm not sure what to believe, because i've always thought this stuff was crap. So what i'm asking is:
1) Do you think that could really happen?
2) What else might be done to cure my anxiety?
and 3) Just, what should I do?
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well i have had anxiety sinci i was 5 not as bad as yours but im on lexapro and it works, i was on zoloft but it didnt work. my cousin had a twin that died at birth and my cousin often is depressed and all that kind of stuff. i think it could happen, what your parents say but it could also be that because you were with the twin for 9 monthsyou guys shared a special bond and now that shes not here a part of you is lost without her without you knowing it. try lexapro its pretty good and go to where your parents want you to go, it cant really hurt
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Okay so my state (TN) has decided to mandate that every student K-12 get 90 minutes of excersize a week. Well they are using our homeroom time at my school to do just that. I think it is incredibly stupid because its not the school's responsibility to tell us what to do as far as excersizing goes. It is so damn retarded I can hardly stand it. I HATE coming to school now. OMG as if it wasnt bad enough LETS THROW IN SOME EXCERSIZE!!! Plus my homeroom teacher is strict with the rules, so if we dont do these excersizes every morning, she will write us up. I dont feel like I can talk to her because she wont understand. And I cant sit there and object while everyone else is doing it because that will draw negative attention to me. I get enough attention as it is for being fat. And thats not the reason I dont want to do the excersizes. It's just that 15 minutes is a long time for someone who is as heavy as I am and its embarassing to have my fat jiggle around for the whole freaking class to watch and laugh at. I would much prefer to excersize in PRIVACY where I dont have to worry about what I look like. High school is bad enough as it is. I think this is pure torture and I really want to refuse to do it. But I dont want to bring negative attention to myself. WHAT SHOULD I DO???? and what is your opinion on our new state law?? (link)
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to be honest i dont think its that bad, i love to exercise, talk to another teacher or principal or your mom or someone who can help.maybe they can work something out,
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I want to try out for the JV cheerleading team at my school. What do I need to know how to do to make the team? What should I practice doing? I'm trying to get in shape for it right now. I'm 5'5 and 140 pounds, and I plan on loosing more, but how much more would be good? What should I absolutely not do if I want to be a good cheerleader? Thank you so much! (link)
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i woud enroll in tumbling classes somewhere close to you and tell them you want to make cheerleading, it will take a few weeks but work on back handspring, front tuck,
then on your own ir with a friend practice
being loud, facial expressions,jumps,splits,being tight, looking cute,dancing
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you have probably been asked this a trillion times but how do you make out with someone. like for how long should it be. i know it depends how into it you are. but im rilly nervous for my me and my bf's first kiss (link)
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mine was so unexpected with a guy i didnt know well, that sounds like im a slut but im not trust me. but let your bf lead! follow what he does until you know what your doing then try something on your own. its amazing and so worth it
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OK, so basically what are the side-effects of it? How many times do I have to dye it (using the lemon juice)? Thanks =] (link)
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i do this every summer. it doesnt dye your hair, it only brings out the natural highlights in your hair, but just put the lemon juice in a spray bottle add a little tiny bit of water and bring it with you by the pool or whatever and spray it whenever you want. when it gets dry, once in a while, it doesnt matter
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I know this is weird but i am 14(girl) and i think i just got like a HUGELY MAJOR crush on this guy. only prob. is that he is my BFF. i can't believe that i like him it is a really weird feeling when i talk to him and i actually cryed when he didn't talk to me for a while! WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG WITH ME?? How do i ask a guy out. i am new to this and need some ADVICE!!!!!! HHHHHHEEEEEEEELLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPPP (link)
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i just kind of went through the same thing, im the same age and i guess its just(gonna sound weird but true in a way) that you finally realized guys and everything, you knew they were there before but not like now, just try flirting a little not a lot cause hes your friend but like joke around, when your talking and he says something be like comon and give him a little shove in the shoulder just little things like that to get closer to him, start hanging out more and get comfortable with him. find out what he likes to do and his favorite color, it makes flirting a little easier and you will have something to talk about. if you need anything im me xoashhx33 or my email and msn is xoashhx33@hotmail.com
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