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Hey im Porsche and im 16! finally! I am a christian with strong beliefs and i am proud of it! I live in England and love to advise people and be able to help them. I do it alot with my friends and they have wacky problems sooo ive probably heard about quite alot! My friends think my advise is good and i hope you do to! I can only really give advise on relationships and mental health becuase thats what i studied soo anything else i will suck at haha! If you need help or advise dont be affriad to ask send me an email! God Bless!
xox Porsche

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15/f. i'm missing a tooth. it is the one right next to my front teeth on my right side. i just got my braces off today so on my retainer the orthodontist attached a fake tooth so that when i wear my retainer it looks like i'm not missing a tooth. but what do i do when i eat lunch? is it bad to eat with a retainer in?

also is it weird to kiss with a retainer in? because i'd be too embarrassed to take it out.

thanks =]

I would advise that you take your retainers out before you eat and before you are about to kiss someone. You shouldnt be embarrased about taking them out because may other people have them too and just think of them as a fasion accessorie and that they are going to help your teeth become perfect! sooo eventually you will thank yourself for sticking to them and wearing them. You will get use to them and so will other people. I had retainers for 8 months and i totally forgot they were there half the time.
so dont worry and totally dont be embarressed.
Hope it helps Porsche xxx

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My boyfriend and I hang out three times a week. Wednesday & Friday - after school & on Sunday. He doesn`t go to my school, so those are the only times I get to see him!

Since I`m on Christmas vacation, I REALLY want to hang out with him. Because, I`m home alone, and yeah.. it`s way too boring for me to handle.

His brother came in for Christmas, and he`s staying for two weeks. He`s been here now for, four days. Tomorrow is Friday & it`s our day to hang out. I asked him if just ME & HIM could do something. (I hung out with him and his brother on Wednesday & I was COMPLETELY BORED OUT OF MY MIND! I felt so uncomfortable!) Like, I asked if we could drive to a different town & you know, just like chill. =]

Am I being way too selfish? I just don`t want to sit around all day & watch tv with his brother, it`s the worst thing ever. Is it bad that I don`t want to hang out with his 27 year old, older brother?

I`m 17 & he`s 20.

Thank you, mucho!!!!

I personally dont think you could call it being selfish because you are his girl friend and you dont see each other as often as maybe you would like soo you treasure the time you spend together and you dont want to be bored stiff. you sould talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel becuase he will want you to be happy, and if you dont tell him then he wont know. Just talk 2 him and say you would rather spend the time you have together alone. You could always say that you could hang with his brother on a wednessday as long as you were able to spend friday and sunday with him alone. just compramise with him becuase he'll want you to enjoy the time you spend with him.

hope it helps Porsche xx

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15/f. i like one of my guy friends and i don't know what to do. i want to tell him but i'm shy and i'm afraid that if he doesn't like me then it will be ackward between us and we couldn't be friends anymore.

also a lot of other girls like him too. like i know of 2 girls that have already told him that they liked him and he didn't feel the same way and then he doesn't talk to them anymore.

what should i do? and if you suggest that i tell him that i like him how should i do it?

thanks!

Well if you are affraid of loosing him as a friend because he has not kept in touch with other girls who have confesed their feelings, then you may have to decide if you want you and him to be just friend or if you wish to risk it and to tell him how you feel. You could always try flirting with him but not over the top and try not to make it too obvious. But try subtly flirting and then you can see if he returns any emotion. This could show you if hes flirts back then you could try and tell him then how you feel but if he does say he would rather stay friends then tell him you agree and would love to stay his friend and make a special effort to make sure you keep talking to him. But if he shows no sign of returning to flirt with you then you may have to decide if it may be best to just stay friends because then you can ensure you do not loose him out of your life all together. I really hope that helps and you do what you think is best. xox

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okay well i am in the 9th grade and i have liked this guy since i was in 6th grade. we went out for a while in 6th grade then broke up then in 7th grade we went out twice and broke up bc of rumors that were spread. but we always talked and told eachother we still loved eachother. then he just stopped talking to me then last yr [8th grade] we would talk but i didnt klnow how much i acutally liked him then i realized i was still in love with him. we didnt talk for a few months then started talking again and im like dead in love with him. he found out i like him but i dont kniow what to do. like this isnt some kid love, its real . its been almost 4 years. i have no clue what to do. im trying to go out with other people to get over him, but it doesnt work at all.

The one thing to do would be to Find out if he has any feelings for you! The sooner you find out if he returns the feelings the quicker you can move on with your life. You cant wait your entire life for someone who does not return the same love. Trust me youl be happier once you know! But dont be affraid of asking him the worst thing that can happen is he shows no effection and says no, but your a strong girl and i am possotive you will survive and then you will be able to move on with him or without him! Good Luck and go for it hunni!!

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Okay, this is the thing... I'm 15, and just got my period last year and i have a big thing with blood I cant see it , touch it or anything. So when i get my period i throw up sometimes beacuse its nasty or sometimes ill pass out.. and in school this is very bad what should i do ?

I would suggest speaking with your doctor to see if there is anything they can suggest, but if not then you could always try talking to your mum if you havent already to see if she can suggest anything before you seek medical suggestions. :-D

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well Theres This Guy we went out like in term 1 or 2 in this year and i liked him then stoped then i saw him again nd we talked and im not sure if i like him but his the player type he gets a girl and dumps her in a month so i know i shouldnt tell him cause he wont care but if i do end up liking him what should i do ??


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If he is a player do you think its a good idea to go out with him? It could only lead to heartbreak and pain. Also if you are looking for a long term relationship with someone who would really care for you and keep you in their heart for a long time, this guy definately does not sound like the one. Is it worth going out with him for just a month and be another name to go on his long list of girl friends? I recomend you try your hardest to get over him as soon as possible becasuse it will be fot the best.
I hope it helps xx

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To make this as short as possible...
My best friend has been depressed for almost 2 years now, mostly minor depression. Lately she's been getting more and more depressed. She has been talking to me about it and she has mentioned, more than once mind you, about commiting suicide. I love her and I tell her all the time...I don't want her to kill herself, soo many people would be sad. She seems to think that everybody hates her and all that...she used to cut ALOT but I managed to get her to stop but that took so much effort that I started getting depressed. I'm fine now but she isn't. She needs help but she refuses to get any. How do I attempt to fix this? I love her so much, like how is it that a 16 year old girl wants to commit suicide. She's in soo many clubs and what-not, she does soo much volunteer work, she's the best person ever. I know one of her best friends just died but I don't think that would cause all of this, being that it started like almost 2 years ago. Anyways, she and I could use all your help. =]♥

This is something my friend has also been through! its hard but you seem to be really special to her and you have done amazingly well to get her to stop cutting. You need to look after yourself also because you have mentioned you also started to get depressed and that is no good to your friend if you are also depressd. What you shoud try and do is talk to your friend about what she thinks is getting her down and why. A great way to do this is to get her to write a diary with all her feelings and emotions in it and then you could read this and this is a fantastic way in which you can get an insite into what she is feeling. The best thing to do is to get your friend to seek proffesional help and you have got to try and convince her as best as possible to do this. She clearly listens to you and you have got an impact on her and this will help as she will listen to what you say. Her best friend dieing may have triggerd alot more depression but you being there for her will make alot of difference as she is not alone as you are doin a fantastic job in trying to care for her. Try and find the route of the problem and then if she shares all her feelings with you then it will take less stress from her. You are doing fabulously well with careing for her soo much and i hope this helps.

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