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Q: ok so i have liked this guy at school for like ever and earlier this week he asked me out and i said yes of course! Then the next day he started to ignore me and tell everyone we were going out. He is really starting to confuse me what should I do?
i know it's hard but talk to him and ask him why he's starting to ignore you!! if you like him don't mess things up already!!

Q: okay i have been going out with this guy for a month and by christmas would be three months. i am needing help on what i can get him for christmas. i dont know what to get him b/c we would be going out for three months and i dont want to get him someting that special. so can someone plz help

thanks alot
punkbaby69
3 months isnt that long..so dont worry about the perfect gift!! get him something like his favorite dvd..because then if you like the movie too you two can watch it together!

Q: Alright here is the story. I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 days ago because it didn`t feel right and I kinda wanted to explore with other guys. The problem is I still like my now ex alot and I dont want him to get with another girl! I Don`t know if I should go back out with him or just explore or what to do at all! Any ideas?
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see if he's the right person for you to go out w/..nd if you like hanging out w/ someone else better then it doesn't matter what he does..but still hang out w/ him because it's good if you stay friends w/ him! but if you go out w/ a couple people nd you like him the best then go back out w/ him..nd if he has a girlfriend then wait..if he likes you then him and his girlfriend won't last..and if he doesn't like you then he won't go out w/ you even if he doesn't have a girlfriend

Q: OK, the story goes like this. I go out with my ex-girlfriend and she says she won't ever leave me, and BANG. A week later she leaves me(she's f/17). I tried to call her...a lot for two weeks. I then decide not to contact her anymore but it's been two months and i'm still not over her. Must i contact her or must i just accept that she will never come back?
call her again!! she'll be suprised nd then she'll know that you still care about her!!

Q: i use windows media player and all my music comes from cdzinc.com. now none of the music works and the site is different. does anyone know if the site is like down for good or if its being fixed or if there is another website like it?
go to www.limewire.com nd download it..it always works even if your internet isnt working..i love it!!

Q: Have you ever thought that you had a true best friend??? And then one day you guys are both hanging out and she/he sees there other friends and then diss you???? Dont you think thats really FUCKED UP???? Well that happened to my other friend and she got really mad. {her and another girl were hanging out and then others came and she left}
same thing happened here..shes not a true friend if she does that!! just dont get mad at her..find new friends nd have fun w/ them..nd when your friend comes and tries to talk to you..dont leave her..talk to her even though it might be hard..
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Q: hi i like this boy. i want to be freinds with him and talk to him with out him knowing that i lke him.i kno were his locker is (right acrass from mine if i could do somthing with that)help
thats how i am!! and you just have to be yourself because you cant pretend to be shy or something if your really not..becasue then if he does like you he wont like the real you!! when hes w/ a group of your friends or something just be all crazy..guys definatly like that!! you cant just pretend you dont like him when your talking to him becasue it doesnt work like that!! just go up to him and tell you that you like him..if its out in the open then you wont have to worry about him finding out or something!!
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Q: I'm really confused about a lot of things. I think that I may be bisexual, but I'm not really sure how to tell. I wonder if telling myself I am is what's making me that way. I've never done anything with someone of the same sex, but I've talked to people about bisexuality and I think about it a lot. How do you know you're bisexual? I know it's probably different for different people, and please don't say "you just know". Thanks in advance, any serious answers will be helpful.
sometimes i get that feeling too!! but nothings wrong w/ you!! its just that sometimes its easier to talk to girls then it is guys..nd go make out w/ a girl if thatll help..see if you get the same affect as if she were a guy!! that might also help!!
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Q: ok so there's this girl at my school who i REALLY REALLY REALLY LIKE ok and she's goin out with this other guy. so here's my question what are real good ways to win her over her bf. from a desprit person in love give good results.
just be yourself..i know thats hard to do sometimes when you really like someone..but its all that you can do!! if you like her..tell her!! a girl would rather hear if you like her then if you keep it a secret..because she might like you too..just didnt think that youd like her back so went out w/ someone that liked her or something!! just treat her like she IS your girlfriend if that doesnt work..because then she can see how awesome it would be if you went out w/ her!!
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Q: I'm really, really bored right now. I'm sick of the computer, there's nothing on TV, I don't feel like playing video games anymore and I'm tired of guitar for now. It's about 9:30 PM, so there's no outside activities I can do. Does anybody have any ideas to get rid of my boredom? Thanks.
eat the sugar outta the kool aid pack..nd then run around your house in your underwear singing oops i did it again!! it helps..trust me:)
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Q: I chew on my hair alot. will that harm me in any way?

please help!!!
13/f
yess..it makes you get really bad split ends!! i use to do that nd mii hair sucks!! i wish i never did..just wear your hair up for a couple weeks nd you wont be able to reach your hair so you cant chew on it..nd then you can wear it down again nd you'll forget that you use to!!
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Q: okay what would you do if this "friend" always ditches u for someone else and only hangs around you when she aint got nobody else? i mean we use to be really good friends but now she only wants to hang with this other friend and is beiong really mean? please help!!! thanks buh bye!!
omg!! the same exact thing happened to me!! nd i know people say just forget her and everything..but that's hard!! so start hanging out w/ someone new..nd if she wants to come back dont push her away..as tempting as it is..becasue taht makes it so much worse..but hang out w/ new friends nd have fun w/ them! shes a person from the past..and one day your gonna look back and ask why you were even friends w/ her!!
i hope everything ends up okay for you!!
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