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E-mail: shutupnkissme101
Gender: Female
Location: St. Louis, MO
Occupation: student
Member Since: August 21, 2007
Answers: 169
Last Update: November 5, 2007
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I took 3 pregnancy tests,1 about a week after the conception.
1 about a week and a half after it ,both we negative.
I thought it was too early,so I waited 25-26 days after conception.
The 3rd test came out negative as well.
I took the test in the middle of the day ,but i made sure i didnt drink much but when i urinated in the cup,i didnt us ALL of it ,i just did a little in the cup and the rest in the toilet.
I did the test correctly,but i wanted to know if it is accurate or atleast an opinion .
Also,one of my nipples is alot bigger than the other one,but it doesnt hurt anymore like it did after about a week of the conception.
I also have a messed up period,and i dont get it regulary every month so that option isnt helpful.
So,honestly do you think I waited long enough and that its accurate enough?
By the way ,im only 14.
Yes i know its very young,please no lectures just help :]
thank you!
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well most pregnancy tests are 99.9 percent positive. so three tests pretty much eliminates that last percent. also stress will cause your period to be really unregular. and thinking your pregnant would put a ton of stress on anybody. another thing is you dont get your period at ALL when your pregnant so as long as you have had it since you've had sex then your not pregnant.
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the only problem is all of my friends think he's creepy and a nerd. i mean, yeah, he is a big nerd, but i do kind of like him back. i don't hang out with his friends, and he doesn't hang out with mine. i'm afraid that if we started dating that my friends wouldn't have as much respect for me. i had one friend that told me that "it would end in a trainwreck." i don't know if you'll be able to help me at all, but what should i do? i don't think he's creepy. (link)
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if you do like him them go for it! dont listen to your friends. you have to learn how to be yourself and not just go with the flow. you have to stand out and be different. i mean if everyone was the same the world would be pretty boring right? it doesnt matter if he is a nerd or the captain of the football team, if you like him and he likes you, then who knows how it will end up. maybe it will end up badly but maybe it will end up great and you guys will be really happy together. you just have to take the chance.
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The pores around my nose around huge and gross. I want my skin to look smoother. What kinds of products would you recommend to reduce the size of pores? (link)
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try taking some toilet paper and wraping it around your fingers. gently squeez until all the nasty black or white gunk comes out. dont try to pop anything just squeez them a little bit. dont make them bleed. then get a product like Clean & Clear, Deep Cleaning Astringent. it works really well for these types of things. it is sort of acidic so it cleans out the rest of your pores and then it closes them up. so they dont look big and open any more.
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I'm in business school and have to choose my major in two weeks. I'm undecided whether I should enter accounting or business administration.
Up until the end of sophomore year(this past year) I had wanted to enter accounting. But I collapsed the last month of the school year and had to stay at home without studying. I recovered 1 week before the final exams. That left me with 1 and 1/2 days only to study each of the eight subjects.
Although I usually do well in both accounting and business administration subjects , i failed the accounting course, it being the 1st exam after my sickness and 1 day not enough to solve most of the problems covered throughout the course.
I've realized over the past years that I usually collapse towards the end of the school year. This has made me have 2nd thoughts about majoring in accounting. Chances are big that I collapse towards the end of each school year and if I major in accounting, it being mainly made up of quantitative subjects, it will be practically impossible to catch up on all eight subjects, which would mean I would have to repeat the year.
On the other hand, if I don't fall sick, which, by the way,the chance is slim, I really enjoy accounting and I think there's more job opportunities for an accounting major.
I like business administration courses as well too, but not as much as accounting, because they require a lot ot reading and it's theoretical. But the good side of majoring in business administration is that if I fall sick, I can at least pass the courses by studying from the summaries. Also, people say that the business administration major is easier than accounting. But the negative side is, what jobs are available for a business major graduate ? I don't think there's many.
At the college i'm at , if you fail more than 2 subjects throughout the school year, you have to repeat the year, because there are no summer classes and no make-up exams. Also, I can't transfer to another college.
What do you think I should do, major in business administration and take it the safe and easy way, but with little chance of finding a job when I graduate, or should I major in accounting, with big chances of me failing the year if I fall sick, but better chances of finding a job upon graduation?
WHAT JOBS ARE AVAILABLE FOR A BSUINESS MAJOR GRADUATE?
I've already lost many years previously due to other reasons, so I don't need to lose any more.
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do what you really love to do in your heart. you dont want to get out there and be stuck with a sucky job that you hate. this year try not to get to stressed out about finals and keep yourself really healthy. take extra care to take a shower everyday, wash your hands all the time, eat healthy foods, drink 6-8 glasses of water a day etc. i think you might be getting sick every year because you are stressing out over exams. my mom is an accountant and she really loves her job.she also went on to take special accounting classes after college, through her work, which got her a big promotion. but really you have to do what feels write for you.
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I know it's impossible to do it alone but I'd like to do my share. I walk and ride my bike a lot, turn off lights when I don't need them, reuse plastic containers, wear old clothing, use the power-saving bulbs, use both sides of my papers, recycle, and when I'm on my own I want to use solar power in my home. I guess you could say I'm a tree huger stuck in modern-day suburbia. I just want to know what else I can do to help the environment. [and not spend a ton of money.] Any ideas? Thanks a lot!
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try researching Amnesty International. its a worldwide organization (that i am a part of) that helps out all types of problems in the world. including poverty, animal rights, the environment, all sorts of things another website is www.Peta.com
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Hi this might seem like a stupid question to you but Im only attracted to skater white guy types and yes Im black and i dress skater and everything but all the skaters Iv asked out they have said no cause Im not there type but my freinds who are mixed raced have no prob dating skaters I was wondering why this might be? Thanx (link)
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i know you like skater guys, but try venturing out to other groups of kids. you might not have as much trouble getting to know them. everyone has trouble getting guys at first. eventually you will learn yourself better and it will be easier for you to reach out to people and be shy. dont be offended, but the people you hang out with might be kind of afraid or imtimidated by your race.not because your a bad person but just because you are different than them. try getting to know one guy you like a lot. be friends with him for awhile and then try asking him out. hope i helped. if you need any more help feel free to ask.
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Lately, I have been waking up with a sore back and legs. I find this odd, because I don't go to bed with sore anything, and Im only a teenager. I exercise but not vigoriously so I don't see why I should be in pain. Does anyone know what could cause this and how to prevent it? (link)
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your problem could be that you need a better mattresse. or it might be that you need a better sleeping pattern. if your body is still tired when you wake up it will feel sore and want to keep relaxing. try going to bed at the same time every night and waking up at the same time. make sure you can get a good 8 hours of sleep in. if this doesnt help after a few weeks, maybe try looking for a new mattresse.
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today i got my eyebrows wax but a lady made 2 gaps in my left eyebrow. what do i do to fix it? my eyebrows are dark brown so black eyeliner wont work and i don't want to have to buy stuff. thanks for any advice! (link)
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well i dont how to fix them without buying something, but alls you have to buy is brown eyebrow liner. they have it with all the other make up at the store. it only costs a buck or two. just make sure you match the right color to your eyebrows. sorry i couldnt help out more.
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i was wondering when i will get my period (4 the first time)because i have this clear/white discharge in my underwear...but i dont have any cramps (link)
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you are 13 so your period will probably come soon. its different for every girl though. it could come when your 13, 14 ,15. Discharge is normal as long as it isnt chuncky. when your period does come you will probably notice it when you go to the bathroom. maybe keep an extra pad or tampon in your purse or backpack just in case.
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okay so me and my exboyfriend are still friends and today was the first day of school. i have lunch and computer apps with him and i sit with him in both. i think he likes me because he was asking me today if i wanted to like get together sometime and i just said i don't know. he broke up with me twice but i still like him for some reason. part of me wants to say yeah and part of me wants to just say no because i really want to find a new guy because i haven't had boyfriend since me and him broke up. i don't know what to do. like because he broke up with me and he told me he liked my best friend but she has a boyfriend. gr idk. what would you do? what should i do?
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i had the same problem a long time ago. i kept going back to the guy that dumped me. i eventually learned that he didnt really care about me as much as i cared about him. i kept giving him chance after chance and he would always mess it up somehow. if this guy has dumped you twice already, what do you think he is going to do this time? probably the same thing. dont give him power over you. dont let him think he can be with you anytime he wants.
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1. I've made out with guys before but in my current relationship any time i make out with my boyfriend i get saliva around the edges of my lips, is this normal? (have i just not noticed before?)
2. This ones mostly for guys but, where do guys MOST like a girls hands to be when making out? (link)
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yeah it is normal to get saliva all over your lips. just stop and take a breather every couple minutes and that will help. put your hands around his next and play with his hair. or hug him and rub/scratch his back a little bit.
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Im 16 ive been with my boyfriend for 1 and a half years. A little more than a week ago I met this guy who is 18 and started hanging out with him. I knew him for like a year but didnt really talk to him til then. Dont worry I didn't cheat on my boyfriend...Anyways This new guy was so amazing I couldnt help my flirting. He pretty much did everything I wish my boyfriend could do like just take me out and have fun! The thing is I wasn't physically attracted to this guy or anything but I felt like my love for my boyfriend was starting to die down. I thought maybe it was because I felt after meeting someone i thought there could be better out there for me. Well I told my boyfriend about my new friendship with this guy and of course he was a bit sad and jealous but I don't blame him. He got over it though because he knows he can trust me. Now these last few days of hanging out with this new guy seemed to consist of other girls....and now hes like in love with one of my best friends who is currently dating his best friend. It is confusing but thats how it is. I cant help feeling jealous about him liking her and now im just trying hard to make me and my boyfriends relationship work. (link)
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it sounds like you and your boyfriend need to spice things up again. try making plans to go out to see a movie or going to get something to eat on the weekends.i think you like this new guy because your not having fun with your boyfriend anymore. a year and a half of doing the same things can get tiring. so try talking to your boyfriend. tell him that you want to do something new and different for a change.
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ok so i've never dyed my hair, gotten highlights or anything, before today.
today i got highlights. i don't like them!! ahh .
my hair is naturally dark brown..well i went in today, not quite sure what to expect since i've never gotten highlights before, and the hairdresser does the foils, and puts bleach all over those pieces of hair. when she finds it to be done, she takes it out..the highlights are like bleach blonde omggg almost white. she washes it out and i'm done. that's it?? like i thought she'd put color in it. i told her i didn't want it to be too bold..yet it is a HUGE difference. i hate it. my mom was like..it's very..blonde. the hairdresser said i could get it toned down if i didn't like it.
should i get it toned down? like will it actually work?? i wanted like a caramel kinda color, NOT bleach blonde.
what do i do?!?? school starts in 8 days, i don't wanna look blonde and i dont want my hair to be like fried and falling out :[ help!! (link)
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get a good conditioner that helps damaged or fried hair. use it for a couple days then go to a differnt salon and get the highlights changed to the color you want. maybe try finding a picture with the write color and show them. keep using the conditioner even your hair isnt damaged it will keep it from becoming frizzy.
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i was wondering about on an average scale, how much is it to get your hair permed & what asre all the benifits & non-benifits to go with it? also i was thinking of getting my hair dyded at the bottom like avril lavigne, I was wondering is there some kind of spray or something thats holds on until you wash your hair, or do you acaully have to dye your hair to get it to be pink at the bottom? (link)
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i got a hair perm and all i have to say is make sure you really really really want to do it before you get one. it takes a lot of time to take care of a perm. you cannot brush it unless your about to get in the shower, it turns into a huge frizz ball. you usually have to put gel in it everyday to make it look how you want it to. and it fries your hair A LOT.also it cost from 50 to 100 bucks depending where you get it done and how long your hair is. you can get temporary hair dye at places like walgreens, walmart, hair salons sometimes.
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can someone send me pictures of that hair color?
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http://www.killerpeach.net/knit/images/p1010090.jpg
http://www.savannahchik.com/images/sep06/hairSept06.jpg
here are some pictures of people with black cherry hair color.
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i gave my mom a page in seventeen where there were hair products I wanted her to buy. she lost the page now I dont know what the hair products were. Well if anyone has the seventeen issue with ashlee simpson, can someone please find the page that shows you a week of hairstyles for back to school, and look at the first hairstyle. please tell me exactly what the directions were for that hairstyle, and what products you use! if you answer this you are so nice and thank you so much! (link)
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if your talking about the one with straight hair thats down for Monday, then this is exactly what it says. "to get your hair looking long and gorgeous, apply an anti-frizz cream (Garnier Fructis Style Sleek & Shine Smoothing Milk) to damp hair and then blow dry. use the flat iron, then finish with shine spray (Got2b Dazzling Shine Spray)to make it look perfect."
or if you mean the first one on the page that has wavy hair in a headband then this is what it says. "for a simple, pretty look, create waves using curling mousse (Aussie Catch the Waves Mousse & Leave-in Conditioner) on damp hair. let hair air-dry, and place a headband (Forever 21 blue & white striped headband) 1 inch from your hair line.
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what are some good costume ideas for a group of girls to do? (not sure how many yet) (link)
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try Charlies Angels or maybe the Spice Girls.
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I have problem and my problem is that I had sex a day ago and today my v is hertin and I be need in to pee avery 5mins and its only a little bit and when I do pee it hert in side and this is not the frist time it happend and when it did I got check but they didn't say any was wrong with me , but now am woudering wat should I do cause am worried and don't know wat to d0 cause it hert s0 bad (link)
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the pain is probably just from having sex. its normal the first couple times to have a lot of vaginal pain. but when you have to pee like that all the time and its only a little bit, that sounds like a bladder infection. drink a lot of cranberry juice for a day or two and if it doesnt help then go see a docter.
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who sings this song.....
this is the story of a girl who cried a whole river and drowned the whole world.
whats the name of it??? (link)
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its called Absolutely (story of a girl) by Nine Days. the album is called The Madding Crowd.
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im taking photography class son.. do you think they would ask us to buy a camera? good cameras are expensive, right? and how about those black and white cameras? what are some good cameras out there? and price? (link)
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yes it would definetly be best to buy your own camera for the class. that way if something happens to it you wont have to worry about damage fees. a REALLY good camera can range from 200 to 800 bucks. but you could get a small digital camera that is still pretty good for about 150. Kodak, Canon, and Nikon are some good brands to look at. also i dont think they have black and white cameras but you buy black and white film.
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