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I live in a suburb of New York City and I'm a Senior in High School. I'm trying to decide where to go to college. My top 3 choices are Cornell, Florida State, and Miami, and I've already gotten into all three. Miami gave me a lot of money, but Florida State has the best program for what I want to do and Cornell is the closest to home. I love all three campuses and don't care about travelling far away, but I don't want to make the wrong decision.
Any thoughts? (link)
If Florida State has the best program, you should go. Miami is a great school but they focus alot on medical for graduate school. Moving into a new city and state can be fun, as well. Visit each of them and see the atmosphere of the college.

Coming from Florida, I can say that I am sure either FSU or Miami will be great for you.

Go NOLES! Go CANES!


hey, can anyone help me out? its like 1:48 a.m. and i can't get to sleep. i was wondering if anyone knows any good sites? i'd really appreciate anything! thank you so much!

~bored (link)
Bored.com is always good when you're bored. lol.


Hi my name is Bailey, i am 13 yrs. old and in the 7th grade. I would like to be either a dancer, singer,poem writter, or a film maker. I like doing all of theese things what should i do to figure out which path i should take to find my career (link)
Do well at school now. When you hit high school, join clubs. There are Dance Clubs, Chorus Clubs, Poem Clubs, etc. If they are not available at your High school, I'm sure there are in your city. good luck!


umm..... i'm not really askin for advice. but who's playing Cho Chang in the third Harry Potter movie? Michelle Ang or BoA? (i personally think BoA's better \m/>. (link)
Cho Chang was cut out of the third HP movie. But it is still a great movie!!


Alright, I'm kind of torn on this issue. My mom and I are really close and we always have been.
There's just a little background info.
My boyfriend and I are planning on getting an apartment together when we graduate. I kind of want to tell my mom because he's away, earning money to put towards our apartment. She always says "If he loves you, then he shouldn't have gone." and I always want to say "Hey, he's doing this for us," and tell her about the whole apartment thing.
Thing is, she's never been crazy about the idea of two people not married living together. I hate to keep secrets from her, though. She's like a friend sometimes more than a mom.
Another issue is...
Yeah, I'm not a virgin. I haven't been since...april? and my mom keeps asking in this accusatory tone of voice "You haven't been having sex, have you?" (this is where she turns into my mom) and I've been saying "What? No. I told you, we're waiting..." or whatever
But I've seriously been considering telling her. She told me when she took me to get the pill that I could tell her if/when I had sex if I wanted to. She left the option open. I've been tempted to tell her recently.
Thing about THIS is, she hates liars. Like, a lot. If I were to tell her now, I'd have to admit that I've been lying since, like, april.
So what do you guys think? Should I tell her about both? One? The other? None?

I'm just looking for an opinion here, mostly out of curiosity. The final decision will obviously be mine. Thanks! (link)
If you care about your mom, you should tell her the truth. Maybe you and your mom should sit down and have a personal talk about the things that are on your mind. The longer you wait to tell her that you've been lying to her, the harder it will be to tell her.


Hi everybody. I'm a big Weird Al Yankovic fan, but the concert tour for him is already past. Does anyone know the next time its coming to Oklahoma??? (link)
His tours are listed here >> http://www.weirdal.com/touring.htm .

If there are none playing in your state, you should see about going to one that is closest to you.. or wait until his next tour; He might have new cities closer to you then.


Does anyone know where I can get music from for my picturetrail in MIDI File for free with actual singing in it?? (link)
MIDI files usually don't have singing in them.


ok, im 12 and im so flat! is it possible to grow boobs over 1 summer? im going to a new school and itd be cool if i had achest


am starting to grow. will i be able to grow in time? if so how big?
i know looks shouldnt matter but every girl i no has a chest
thanx (link)
You are still young. Every girl grows at different times. When your body decides to start and stop is unpredictable.


okay im 16/f n im a virigin
ive have known ma man for 3 1/2 years and he really wants to do it and so do i.but im so scared b/c its my 1st time and im so scared of gettin pregnant. he told me that we will use a condom and everything but still im not 100% sure.can anyone tell me how can i be 100% sure that i will not get pregnant. (link)
If you are not ready for sex you shouldn't do it. If you think you're ready for it - make sure you are prepared. You might want to see about getting birth control as well.





**** yes. It's because of friction.


I have acne kinda bad on my back ive tryed alot of things-Proactive,Birthcontrol,Natures Cure, EVERYTHING anyone got ideas? (link)
I know how you feel. You should make sure your back is always clean. When you shower, clean it well with a mild soap and apply lotion after you shower or if your skin is dry. It will take a while (it might be years - alot of things don't happen fast) but eventually, your skin will begin to grow in new and beautiful. You should see a dermotologist as well. He/She might be able to give you prescription medication for it.


can you help me find some books to read?i've read all the harry potters like 100 times, all the lemony snicket books,inkheart by cornelia funk,the traveling pants series,like all the books by louisa may alcott,chasing redbird,and mostly all the royal diary books, a lot of others too. could you please give me some advice on series and books to read? (link)
You should go to a big book store and just search the isles. Books A Million is great and the stores are comforting. They have chairs and couches for you to sit and read/skim. They have a HUGE selection of books and about any book you might need. Some also have coffee shops so you can even get drinks or maybe even snacks! They have isles of every genre of book you can think of. Its great!


OMG i just realized one of my boobs is bigger than the other, WHAT DOES TAHT MEAN am i an alien? i must have a disease how do i tell my mom? what do i do? (link)
it's normal. you are not an alien.


hey

i'm a natural red head i was wondering how people felt about..um..us!

:D

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Typical people don't mind. Unless they are discriminating against people with red hair, people think that red hair is another unique color.


Help please the last time I wrote to you people was in about March in Oregon... I had run away and was heading for Canada and asked what I should do and most of you said go back but I didn't listen... I'm from California and ive ridden my bike all the way to washington... i'm badly fucked up... I feel really sick... what should I do... I don't want to go back... but I want to feel good again... i've had to steal food, steal things to survive.... anyways i'm on a computer in an internet cafe... please help... what should I do? (link)
You should go home. If the reason why you are running away is because they abuse you at home, go home and call the Child welfare. If not, you have no reason to run away. Home is where your life is. I bet the people at your house are worried.


my mom is SO super duper gay.she wont let me stay up late.she says every night i have to be in bed at 10.but i sneak on the internet to chat with boys.she doenst know of course.if i get caugh tho im in trobule.what do i say to let her let me stay up later. (link)
You should sit down with your mom and have a personal convo. Ask her if you can have a later bed time - since, of course, it is summer. If she doesn't let you - you should obey her. She should know how much you want to stay up and why.


Oh man.. oh man.. I just met this guy 3 days ago and he told me today he was in love with me.. and I even have a boyfriend!! What am I supposed to say to him?!
Signed,
YIKES! (link)
I doubt he has spent enough time with you to be in love. He probably doesn't mean it. Just tell him that you care for him - as a friend. Explain the concept of you having a boyfriend and ask if he wants to hang out sometime - as a friend.




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