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Hey all! you're all welcome to ask me anything from relationships to your crashing modems or computers, i'll try to answer them as well as i can but please bear in mind that i do like my techology but i'm no subsitute for the real thing ok? same thing applies to relationships and anything else that you wish to ask me =]
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how could i get rid of split ends? like are there any kinds of shampoo and conditioners that could get rid of split ends because im trying to grow it out but it wont work cause i straighten and blowdry my hair too much so its lke fried (link)
You have to cut your hair, there is no way to repair spilt ends. and anyway if your hair is starting to spilt it's a sign for you to go and vist a hair dresser. but you can delay them spilting by using conditioners and such.


(im 14)Well my boyfriend and i have madeout many times and he puts his hand up my shirt and thats all we've done. i really love him alot and whenever im with him i kinda feel lustful...and i often find myself wanting to do much more than what we do but NOT sex..well one time i was jokin around and took my shorts off jokingly and asked him if he wanted me to keep them off and he looked SHOCKED. he was like ur so innocent and i like that..i cant see u doing anything..but what if i get so horny that i WANNA do something? would my boyfriend break up with me because im not the innocent sweetheart i seem to be? (link)
um.. how old is your boyfriend? if he's older than you by alot it may be that he views you as a younger person therefor trying to protect you. i don't think he'll ditch you because you arn't as 'innocent' as you seem. how ever i do think that he is just keeping your intersts at heart. a guy like that is hard to find.


i have an amazing boyfriend that i really love. but my best friends think he is a pot-smoking jerk even though hes only smoked pot once! and just because we got in a fight a while ago they are convinced hes out to hurt me and just wants to make-out..but the thing is i LOVE making out with him..today my best friend said he was ugly and she often compares huge losers to my bf and she makes me cry..no matter what i say she doesnt believe that he is a great guy even though he is..how do i show her that hes not like she thinks and also get her to stop insulting him?? ive tried telling her it hurts my feelings but she keeps doing it. (link)
well if your friend makes you cry intentionally - ditch her (just until you work things out with her and makes sure she understands that this isn't her place to make you feel bad about your choice.)even though she is trying to help (i know she's trying to help) sometimes you need to work things out for yourself. ask yourself the question - do you love your boyfriend or do you love the fact that you have him? thats the most important thing - do you love the IDEA of being in love or are you actually in love with the PERSON?




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