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How can i convince my mom to let me go over my boyfriends house? Im 14 and hes 16 i guess she somewhat doesnt approve of that. Its imbarresing for him to come here because I live in a small apartment and my mom would have to sit with us omg that would be so bad. I dont kow why but even if he was my age she still wouldnt let me go over a guys house.Does she not trust me?

she doesnt trust him. have your mom get to know him more.

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well i have naturally kinda sraight hair, but i straigten it if its now curly, but i really want curly hair, and i already got a perm one time and its just too much so i dont wanna get that again, and so what i do is i get out of the shower and twist my hair up and put it in a clip, then i take it out a few mins after and spray some hair spray on it so it stays and its fine, what are other ways to make your hair curly? and also i have a curling iron but i dont know how to do my hair with it haha, my friend can do it but i just cant seem to get the hang of it! please help *xoOx

Take a shower/bath @ night, and sleep with your hair wet. In the morning, it should be curly or at least really wavy. :)

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13/m....i went to a dance alone cuz my mom made me go -.- so i was sitting down and this girl came up to me and started to talk to me. i never met her before but i danced with her and even bought her candy. we walked around and talked most the time......what do i say to her tommorrow at school?

if you see her at lunch or between classes, just say, "Oh hi! I had a great time at the dance!" its not that hard. :)

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im 5'4 and i wiegh 168lb., i want to loss at least 20lb. and im working hard, exercising, cruches, and watching what i eat. what else can i do?

well, you could start a sport. like running. lol :) (look @ my username) :P

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okay i havnt had my first kiss yet and im REALLY nervous, I like this guy and I think he likes me, so I think he might ask me out but im not sure, and i THINK he might ask me to the dance but im really nervous because what if he tries kissing me?? i dont know what to do ! helpp pleasee :(

I rate all 5's if you care.

i havent had my first kiss yet either. but shouldnt you be HAPPY if he kisses you? but dont get too pumped up about it...he may not kiss you. and he might not even ask you out to the dance. but if he does, its okay! just dont chicken out! if youre not ready to have your first kiss, dont. make sure its the right moment when/if he kisses you. Good luck! :)

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my friend wants to get her bf the ideal gift for v day. she wants it to be unique and different from the usual giftcards or cds or tshirts or w/e. what are some things you would give your boyfriend for v day that will show him that you love them and stuff like that?

love notes and a big valentine card(hand made)!!!!!

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okay everybody,

I have a friend who is 12, but she's kinda tall, or atleast, that' what everybody says, and she's starting to hate it, czuse she think it's kind of annoying, so to reassure her, can someone tell me what the average height for someone who is 12, weighs 90 lb, is? I want to know, so I can tell if she really is too tall or not.plz help

well, there is NO average height. everyone is different. im 13 and 4'9. your friend is FINE how she is!!

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I am in love with my ex boyfriend. He broke up with me and is well and truly over me and I know that for a fact, so there is no chance of us getting back together. We're still friends and alot of people know I still have feelings for him and people have told him but I always deny it when he asks me. There is no point in me telling him how I feel because he doesn't want to get back together but he keeps asking me if I still have feelings for him. I want to tell him the truth because I hate lying to him but it might make things uncomfortable. Should I just tell him?

tell him! u never know what might happen.......

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In my school should I do lacrosse or track? I like them both but I'm not sure which to try out for. Can someone give me their opionon? Please don't say one is better than the other give me reasons why. Thank you!

track, but thats my opinion. why? beacause with track you run more, and running can help you in real life situations. its more rewarding too....but whatever you choose is fine, of course! :D

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I'm asking this question for my friend who is twelve. Here's what she told me to say. "My friend doesn't go to church and doesn't understand how important religion is. I really want her to come to my church but she always has some excuse why she can't. What should I do?"

well, i dont know. just dont make her go with you. its her choice.

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ok well theres this guy that i like and well hes like my ex we hav had an on and off relationship, but we have been seperated for almost 3 months and i miss him and i want him back. i have a feeling he likes me but then i have a feeling he doesn't. how do i know and how do i ask him out because i mean its just kind of weird.

its always easier to talk online/write a note about this stuff. try it. :)

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Okay...so I'm 13, and I have long legs, I'm 5'3" and long brown hair...I'm tired of wearing the same old clothes, and I'm not that girly, more into blues and blacks...see,the problem is that I live in a really expensive town in Italy and so I can rarely buy stuff, and I go to a rich private school where all my friends buy the latest most expensive stuff, which I can't afford...I need a change(not too big) and new clothes...I have no idea what to do...help???

start to make your own clothes!

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My best friend and I are going to experiment again. We were wondering is there any other thing we can do while experimenting(. We've already tried French kissing and nibbling on each other. What else can we do like a different way to kiss or something (nothing vaginal!!).

http://jealousy.lefteelicious.com/kissing.html

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ok, i think this is going to sound really dumb, but i may as well ask it anyway. im 14/f.
well, im going out with this guy, we've been going out for nearly a month now, and he's my first proper boyfriend, and i know im the most serious he's had.
anyway, we're going to watch a movie in a couple of days, and some of my mates and some of his are coming too. the thing is, when we've been out before, we've been out in town, in the park, ive been to his house and things like that, so its not really the most romantic of settings, and i havent kissed him properly yet. i mean, we're fairly comfortable with each other and stuff, thre just hasnt been the right time to kiss him. and ive never kissed a guy before. so, any tips on how to handle the back row of the cinema? any advice would be appreciated. thanks

sorry im not too great w/ this stuff but here is my suggestion: casually hold his hand, and share popcorn. look into his eyes and if he thinks thats kewl, just go for it(the kiss)! make sure you dont have popcorn kernals in your teeth! lol :P hope i helped. tell me how it went. :D

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This isnt about sports too much but people who do sports might be able to help me. I have a big sweating problem and i always wear jackets to cover up my sweat but i was wondering what a good deoderant was that would mostly block sweat so i can wear my cute tee shirts more.

wearing jeackets make u sweat more

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ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh omga this is getting on my nerves. my best friend is acting so weird latley. everytime i call her she makes up some excuse so she doesn't have to talk to me. latley she has been hanging out with all of these 9th graders. we havn't been friends for a long time but we have nown each other for awhile. i don't no whats her problem please help me.

it would help if i knew if u were a guy/girl. add it, and ill tell u

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okay, so there's this guy at my school, I dont really know that well, and I'm new here this year. but he''s supposedly the hottest guy. Two months ago he started flirting wit me almost everyday, and some other girls actually did think he liked me. A month ago one of my friends asked him if he did and he said yes( i wasnt there), but then a week ago my friend told me that she and another friend asked him again a week ago, and he said I was disgusting and he only liked to make fun of me. But he still flirted with me uptil then. I'm confused, does he still like me, and tried to cover up for it? Because in the beginning it genuinely seem like he liked me when he flirted. I DO know he's somewhat of a playboy. I'm in Middle School.Female, of course.

he likes u, but is embarassed i think

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alright I've been dating this guy for about a month in a half. Hes perfect he already bought me roses and he treats me soo good. But i dont know what to get him for Valentines Day can you please help me? thanks

95% of guys would like to get flowers from their girlfriends. but if hes that other 5 percent, get him something special. maybe a valentine card (one that takes you FOREVER to make)! or maybe a bunch of love notes. something from the heart!

tell me how it went l8r! :D

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We Just Moved Into A New House And We Bought It. So My Mom Said I Can Paint And Decorate My Room However I want. I Dont Know What I Should Paint It Though. My Favorite Colors Are Pink And Purple. And I Love The Playboy bunny. Does Anyone Know Where I Could Get Playboy bunny stuff? Or Pink Stuff For Your Room? Thanks.

Claires.

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I have a big poster of aaliyah on my door and its getting kind of old ive had in since i was in 7th grade. what should i do with my door? i dont want it to be empty! nothing i have to go out for just stuff @ home. thanks!

you could put a whiteboard on it

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