let's not bore you with my life story. or completely bore you with who i am.. i'll just tell you that my name is destiny. and i give pretty damn good advice. =]
i think i give good advice,
im gonna be honest, im not gonna add u on myspace,
unless i talk to you,
and get to know you a little,
E-mail: randomconfusionx@yahoo.com
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ok so i have like mad mood swings all the time.. one second ill be so happy or hyper and then like a minute later ill look and feel like crap or like i haven't slept in days or ill be really mad and upset and my moods changes so quick all the time.. im 16/f does anyone no why this is or if its normal? my friends and teachers always ask me whats wrong because ill be so happy and they go to like so upset? (link)
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uhm.
ask your mom to take you to a doctor.
it sounds like you might be bi-polar.
it means you have random mood swings.
it's okay
there's medicine for it.
i might have it.
but i don't take medicine.
or it might be something bc of your period.
butyeah.
hope i helpeddd.
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I liked a guy.
We have one mutual friend, and I wanted the friend to drop a little hint to him, so I could test the waters and see what was up, how he reacted to it, etc.
Well, my friend did that today. She made the comment (after seeing me), "I think _____(my name) likes you." She said this to the guy.
The guy stares blankly for a second. And then goes "I don't believe you." And the friend goes "What?! Why don't you believe me? I'm telling you so." and the guy goes "I don't believe you, that's not possible.". Then some of the guys friends came, and he stopped talking.
I have a class with the guy, two periods later. In that class, I was sitting on a desk, waiting for class to start, and I happened to be looking at the door. He came in late, and was trying to sneak in past the teacher, so obviously, I was watching him. He sees me watching him, and gives me some awkward wave, and goes "Hey". I'm sitting about five feet away from him.
What does any of this mean? Any help would be nice. What should I do now? Should I tell him I know? Does he not like me? (link)
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ask him waht's up.
talk to him...
see if he flirts..
etc.
ask him who he likes.
bc you know someone that likes him.
see what he says
if he says soomeone other than you...
just be like, okay you don't like her
she told me not to tell you bc it would ruin the friendship
[[which isn't a lie >.< ]]
hope i helped
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So, there is this guy , T, who I have liked for several months, we are pretty much perfect for each other, but I never made a move because he had a girlfriend ( who was 18) ( he is 15), plus he had recently moved from the east coast to the west (here) so I knew they were going to break it off eventually. Now i still really like him and we are good friends, but I dont want to freak him out because he just broke up with his ex like a week ago, and they have dated for almost 2 years.
But now I suspect our mutual friend to like him too! I never told J that I like T because I thought she would tell him and he was still in a realtionship, so that would kill our friendship. I want to stay friends with J but it would break my heart if they dated.
Then there is this guy D who is always telling me how much he likes this one girl, M. who is our ( D and my) mutual friend, now she knows that he likes her, but she doesnt know that he is always hitting on me. D and I are in yoga PE with J and when I am in some positions , he makes weird comments like "dayummm, id tap that" , and if i ask why he forgot his yoga mat, he says " i was hoping i could just lay on you"
I have no freaking idea what to do about my feelings for T, how i should handle the J situation, and how to respond to D with out hurting him or M.
help? (link)
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just tell T.
and if you really care,
then you'll let him be with J, it'd hurt
but you'd be happy for them.
=]
about D, maybe he's just a perv,
trust me, i know guys like that.
=/
but yeah.
it's okay, just tell T.
he might like you.
=]
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this is a weird question haha. i'm 14/f and i'm taller and a little bigger (not fat) than most of my friends. Whenever i hang out with people, i feel so awkward and i feel like i don't look girly. I feel very manly and beastly compared to other girls. I'm also not really good at talking to people haha i know i'm a mess :]
what can i do to feel less awkward all the time? (link)
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be yourself.
hang with peopple taht accept you..
but first.
you have to learn to accept yourself
that's lame, and crappy
but it's true
you have to learn how to be yourself
or else, you'll let the bad people might think about you hurt you..
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me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years and i love her sooo much you know it wasn't that first sight love it was that first kiss that made my world change just that first kiss and all of a sudden she doesn't love me for no reason after she has done everything bad to me and all i have done is love her, her friends hate me and put things in her head all the time, i just want to take her and leave and be alone and happy forever just the 2 of us and just start a new life i love her and i dont know what to do i have done everything she has asked lost firends everything you can think possible and now i have nothing but her i just don't know what to do (link)
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okay, there's two sides to the story.
maybe you were or weren't doing something that she didn't like, or wanted you to do...
if you think you've done anything...
then it's up to her now...
sorry
keep in contact though...
you should always be there.
but talk to her
ask her why.....
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Heres the deal. his names Lesley and i've fallen head over heels for him. We first started with simple Hi's. & i started to push it i would hugg him alot but we just knew eachother, it was stupid of me. He thought i was annoying at first but now were closer then ever. But as we start to know eachother i stop hugging him i thought maybe i shouldnt push something it'll mend on its own. Then i got too shy so i just stopped. We talk constantly once every million years he'll call and text me. When he's not busy he'd go online and chat with me. He teases me at school tries to get my attention or get me mad. Now and then i'de stare at him and once in awhile he'd stare back and our eyes meet so i turn away don't want to show him that i'm smileing. He probably thinks i like him he would catch me stareing at him alot. His best friend Glen and a lot of people told me he likes me. But i really dunt know. They would ask alot if he did and he'd start to smile and turn red. [VERY CUTE] he'd get mad if i said i was fat or ugy, he'd always say your perfect pretty and if i was retarded that i ccan't see how pretty i am. LOL! for some reason when noones around we always meet across the hall and he'd smile i would to. he would say something like oh great it's ashley. i'de probably reply with shut up. But it's been like this for 7 months now.
Does it seem like he likes me?
How should i give him a sighn i realy like him?
If he does like me how do i make him ask me out or tell me he likes me?
7 months is so long and i'd rather not wait anymore..
please help i need advice! (link)
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awhhhh.
lovely,
yes, i think he likes you
it's way adorable.
flirt a little more
talk to him alot moree.
talk about "liking" a guy and ask him for advice
but like, don't let him realize it's about you...
i really hope i helped.
tell me what happens.
if you decide to take my advice.....
=]
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heyy :) (sorry its so longgg)
okay. so i met this guy (lets call him jamie) at the gym and what happened was jamie and my friend chris were talking and they kept looking over at me, so i walked over and started talking to them and introduced myself to jamie and then after a few minutes left because i had to go run. Well after that i went into a diff room and jamie was there, and so was chris (me and my friends were there too). so then i was like okayy well why dont you guys give me some tips on what to do for abs, and chris was like do the bike thing and i was like ohh okayy, who wants to show me ? and chris was like jamie will show you, so jamies like yeahhh ill show you.
so i was like okayy ill do it with you. so after that we stopped doing it and i was tlaking to my friends and he was talking to his, and then i was like okayy i have to go. so i said bye to my friends and left with my friend. and just as i was leaving jamies like what i dont get a good bye ?! so i stopped and turned around and i was like come here :) and hes like what ? and i said come here. so he came over and i was like jamie, whats your email. and he gave it to me. so then i said bye and left. (the whole time we were in the room he kept looking at me) well i added him a few days later to not seem desperate, and my friend added him as soon as she got home. they tlaked and he was like ohh well i find it weird how the girl who asked for my email didnt even add me :( and then he told her to tell me to add him. then he told her that i was cute. i added him and we were talking. and we were supposed to hangout, and hes like okay if i have my car ill txt you right after my game. school ends at 2:32 and the game couldnt go longer than 5 im pretty sure. so i msged him but he didnt get back to me, even though he said he would? im really confused because he acted and sounded interested in me, and then he doesnt msg me?
help please :)
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i get it...
okay,
i think he likes you..
maybe he just hasn't had the chance to get back to you..
come on now.
flirty much..
baha
but just wait.
message him again.
--destiny
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so i asked this question before but people did not seem to understand that i don't want slow music, i don't want r&b i just want fast rock/punk/metal music with dirty lyrics and a good beat.
that means no pretty ricky, barry white, any of that stuff please. (link)
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um,,
turn of the lights by hollywood undead.
wow.
ah. good sonngggg.
=]
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this is going to be confusing so bare with me
i have this friend A whose a guy. i talk to him on the phone every night and hes one of my best friends. i can literally tell him anything. the thing is, i have liked his friend M for a while and he knows, hes been really supportive saying oh well you two should date blah blah blah. But i wasnt so sure. I didnt know wether or not i like A. I mean hes really really really cute hes nice funny and he cares about me. But i dont know M that well. besides those factors i decided to stay likeing M. well last night, my friend A told me he likes me. and now i dont know what to do. i dont think he wants to go out with me but im not sure. hes been acting really weird when i text him like always giving short answers and things. what do i do about A? i dont even know if i like M still. im so confused. why is A acting weird now?? sorry this is so long but i really need to know.
please please please tell me what you think of this situation! (link)
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ah,
deep, deep down inside u care about A,
and it doesn't seem like you like M.
i think, you should tell A, that you kinda like him,.
so you can figures things out..
i think you like him,
=]
xoxo.
destinyyyyyyy.
need anymore help
aim: randomconfusionx
yahoo: randomconfusionx.
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http://img.bbs.fans.com.cn/month_0710/20071004_97077d84dc4cd8f5449eX2NgPoUKSRBQ.jpg
does anyone know what color that is? :) thanks! (link)
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it looks like a rose pink
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Whenever I ask my mom for anything, it takes four hours for her to respond. Today I asked if she could give me a ride to the tanning salon; she didn't answer, she completely ignored me. I kept asking for hours until she answered and by that time I bugged her so much she was in a pissy mood.
I don't mean to bug her, but she never answers me directly. This happens all the time and when I tried to talk to her about it she, once again, got all pissed off and stopped talking to me. What should I do? (link)
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um, just. breath.
and ask her. can you take me to the tanning salon before [[whatever time it closes]]
and if there's no answer.
just back off, go with friends.
she prolly haas a lot going on.
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does masterbation effect ur performance in bed? like u wont be as good in bed as a person dat has'nt masterbated be4?
16/f (link)
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um, it doesn't make a difference.
i mean, you might have more expierence if you masterbate.
but it shouldn't make that much of a difference.
but it won't make that big of a difference.
need anything else?
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so ya me and my bf like having oral and i was wondering, he likes to stick his tounge all the way up my vagina, and i mean ALL the way! is that normal?
also, my boobs are huge, theyre D's, and i have a friend who isnt my bf, but he really likes to squeeze my boobs and touch my when im naked. is that cheating? (link)
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um. it is.
i mean, not to be harsh, but it is.
and i think, you should just pick one,
OR..
you could just be friends with benefits with both of them.
heh.
^_^
yeah, i mean, it's your choice,
but it is cheating.
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Lately I've just been feeling reeally depressed. But there are reasons. I'm truthfully not good enough for anyone. There's nothing good about me and I can't do anything. I've been giving up on everything because I can't succeed in anything. I've even been cutting my arms which I swore to myself I would never do. When I try to talk about it I just get more depressed and it's just like well nobody knows what I'm going through anyways so why bother. When I'm with people I act totally different from what I feel. I don't like letting people know what I'm feeling, because I'm constantly depressed. I've even considered suicide. >_<
So can someone please help me stop this feeling? I don't want to take anti-depressants because then I'd have to tell my mom and I don't want her freaking out. I don't want to cut anymore, it just feels like a last resort. ): (link)
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ohmygod, people on here are bogus.
they think people that cut are being whiny, [[i just got an answer about me being whiney]]
but i totally get where you're coming from.
it's hard to stop. but think about it, someone out there is going through worse than you.
write poetry. break things. take karate. anything to get ur anger out.
i'm always here to talk to you.
because i know how much you need someone right now.
aim: randomconfusionx
yahoo: randomconfusionx
i'm here. and right now. it'd help if you were here for me too.
we could talk to eachother. and just, communicate.
trust me, it'll help more than you'll ever know,
and someone out there cares.
and loves you.
don't say nobody cares.
trust me,
i felt that way,
open up to some of you friends.
they can help,
you might not think they care,
but they do.
more than you ever know,
trust me,
i cut,
and my friends cut
alot of people in my family have chronic depression.
and alot of people in my family have commited suicide,
and cut,
i know how you feel.
and i know someone cares.
and i do,
im there for anyone.
im here to talk to you about ANYTHING.
at all. trust me,
and it just might end up being me,
cuz i wanna talk to you.
you sound like you need someone to tlak to.
and, give me a bad rating if you want.
but someone cares.
more than you'll ever know.
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16.m
i've been going out with an amazing girl the past 13 months. we're both in highschool and she recently got a job. so she's been feeling responsibilities pile up on her. it was all going good until she wanted time to herself.
she said we're very likely to get back together, but it's nothing i haven't heard before. i guess i just need some comforting words.
but i love this girl and she knows that, she loves me back. i don't get how two people can have feelings like that and one just doesn't see a point in going out. (link)
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just, trust her.
if she really cares
then,
she'll come around.
but don't let her be the only one u care about....
because if she doesn't go back with you.
then,
you'll have to move on
it's really muddy.
and not clear.
but i hope i helped some.
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Ok, So I've been crushing on this boy for about a year now. We got pretty close as friends, and he's very religous and all cus he's dads a preacher. But I'm not really that religious, i dont care what religon anyone is, that's their choice. But to the point; I finally asked him out this one tuesday, he told me that he'd get back to me and such, so i waited. Then he finally tells me no that friday. The next Tuesday that he's moving away. Later I asked him if he would if he didn't have to move away, and he said probably yes. He keeps acting like he likes me and when i ask for a hug he'll give me one. He's extremely kind and I can't help but want to hang around with him as much as possible; which I do. I don't know what to do, I keep falling more and more in love with him. I think I should tell him, but I'm really not sure at all...and I really really really want to go out with him, so I don't know if I should push that issue...I mean, if I did he might say yes. And he's only moving a hour away from my place, but...I can't drive for about 3 more years. And he's only a month and two days older then me..so he's in the same boat. But I'd get to see him 1 time each year till then...idk what to do...I really want to be his girlfriend and I don't want to lose him because he's became my entire world..I'm so lost and confused..please help, I'm running out of time...I have 2 more months with him.... ='[ (link)
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i think you should spend as much time with him as possible. flirt a little more, he might ask you out. but when he moves. don't be all like. "you can't leave, iloveyou" just be like. im gonna miss you. and give him a goodbye kiss. i mean, he really seemes like he likes you. i mean, just. have a great time with him while you can.
just make sure that you're comfortable with the choice.
hope i helped,.
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so i've never had a guy eat me out before and i've been dating this guy for about a year and i want him too but i'm afraid i'm going to smell down there.
how do i know if i smell?
and if i do, how do i change that?
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um, just shower. with bar soap.
and if you shave before it. it's saferr.
idk why.
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so i have long brown hair, fat cheeks, small but wide nose, pretty big lips, straight across eyebrows, and small really dark brown eyes
what makeup would make my eyes stand out and look bigger and my face and cheeks look thinner?? (link)
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i agree with. um. the person before this. pin ur bangs back to bring out you face. and curl your hair to take attention away from your cheeks. for the eye make-up. try a shimmery blue eye shadow. if you don't have that. put black eyeliner across ur eyelid. and put a LIGHT brown over it. that should make a shimmery blue color. and then put a little bit of eyeliner on top. make it THIN. and put a little on the bottom.
hope i helped.
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ok so theres this guy in my 6th period english
class his name is dakota well lately me and dakota have been playing footsy and stuff and yesterday in class or legs accidently crossed each others and when he seen that he jumped up really fast and we just laugh about it i'm starting to like him but people say he's a loser
and last time we got close and stuff he started blowin me off.im afraid even if he does like me he won't ask me out because he's the quit type and has never had a girlfriend befor so can anyone please give me some advice because im really startig to like him again . thanks in advance . (link)
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i think, you should just make the first move.
i mean, if you like him. and it seems like he likes you, ask him out. but for like a double date. it might take some of the pressure off. if he says no.
these are the DOS: just say okay. say, sure. i get it. DON'TS: ask "WHY?!?! WHY?!!??!"
that's a bad thing to do.
but yeah. go for it.
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I was with this guy at the start of the year..we broke up cause we didnt talk much and were suppose to get back together and I continued to have a huge crush on him...time went by and he stop talking to alot of people because of personal prob...now he hangs out with different people and with this new girl name kelly..well kelly got moved up to my class and we started talking alot she told me how much he liked me and stuff well he had been with this girl at another school for three months and last monday I spent the night at kellys house and he called her in the morning and told kelly he was going to break up with his GF..well he told kelly after the break up that he wanted to get with me but was nervous to ask me...this went on for two days but i thought we were going to get together...yesterday I was at my youth group with kelly and she called him to come and see me he wouldnt go finally she asked why and he said cause his ex called crying and begging him to get back with her...he said he dosent know why he did it cause he dosent like her and never see's her..im on spring break right now but what do you think this means...please help (link)
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i really think he likes you.
i mean, come on. srsly. it seems like it. and he broke up with his g/f for you. so he prolly does. =]
if you need anymore help go to my advice column.
aha
=]
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