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I started to babysit for money. But there's this evil little kid that is very young (only 6!!) but is verrry perverted. He watches rated R movies, fastforwarding to sex scenes, and he's always trying to touch my parts. I'm 15!! How gross is that?! I told his parents about it, but they wouldn't believe me. He acts like an angel in front of them I guess. I yell at him and everything, but nothing works!!
WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO? (link)
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if his parents dont want to believe you , or do anythnig to their son about it, then refuse to babysit for them, i know you need the money, but thats not right of them to not believe you, and to continue to let it happen. good luck chic- be strong
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well my bf is getting locked up for something he didnt do should i wait for him or find some one new? (link)
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definetely wait for him, hon. hes depending on you to be there for him. my bf got put in the same situation not that long ago, and we have our first child on the way. but we waited, and everythnig got taken care of, and he thanked me for still being there. according to my man, me leavig him was the last thing he wanted. trust me, he needs your support.
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what's a ghetto? the dictionaries all have like scientific words that don't make sense (link)
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the real janky part of a town that makes you feel awkward, and scared to be in if youre white.
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http://photos.pe.facebook.com/v54/19/6/509094788/n509094788_10058_8944.jpg
where do they sell bathing suits like this one (BOTTOM PIECE) (link)
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that doesnt look like a bathng suit to me- it looks more like lingerie.
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I told my best (male) friend that I wouldn't sleep with him. We had been friends for 3 years and really cared about each other. I felt that he was my "soul mate". The problem was that he is trapped in a bad marriage- really bad. They have nothing in common and fight constantly. People say they are like oil and water. I almost think he is afraid of her. They have never had kids and she is older than him with two grown kids who are heroin addicts. lt time I saw him he hinted we should fool around. I told him that as long as he were married I wouldnt sleep with him. Now he wants nothing to do with me. So does that mean he was never intending on leaving her and just wanted an affair? Because I think he really did care about me but is too scared to leave her. She is very vindictive. I know how unhappy he was with her because I could see the pain in his eyes when he was with her at social functions so if you think he's staying with her becuase he loves he it's not true. (link)
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it sounds to me like he just wanted to get some. i know its not what you want to hear, but i was kind of in the same situation before. except they werent married- jsut had been together for years. he always wanted to fool around, but never wanted to dump her. i finally realized that i was tired of being used, and let him go.
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Alright, heres the deal. I'm 16 years old and a little while ago my boyfriend came over and we fooled around a little bit..and we went a little further than we usually do, but were careful all the same, but still there was a chance that I could've gotten pregnant. I don't really need to go into it because the next day i got my period. But i don't know if that makes me safe or not..? Because i got my period the next day, does that mean I didn't get pregnant? I'm starting to get nervous as I think back on it. (link)
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you cant be pregnant if you got your period.
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i just got doen with my period and im spotting pink not like red like when i have my period. i also has PROTECTED sex with my boyfriend lastnight and im on birth control. but im just wandering why im spotting.
if anyone has an answer...
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really not tryin to scare you, but sometimes when a girl is spotting, it means that the egg is fertilized and planting itself in the uterus. it happened to me when i got pregnant. and yes, i know you sed you are on birth control, but hey- its not always a hundred percent. but it really could be a number of diff things.
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im really confused about this. When your about ot have sex, like he starts taking off your clothes and you start taking off his when would you put the condom on. I'm really confused
thankss =] (link)
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i always say- if youre asking questions like this- then youre not ready to have sex.
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What do you do when you want to comite sucicide? I seriously am considering how, but i don't know. (link)
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try and think of the one personin your life tht you trust the most, and tell them. bring it all out, and tell them everything, theyre there to help, trust me.
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Basically there is this girl, Nikki nobody likes her. She had friends at one point and then everybody turned on her including me. I'm friends with a 'popular' girl Lindsey. And Lindsey is rude and snobby but she's kind to me. I'm not 'populer' me and Lindsay just hangout during school. I dont like Nikki either, and she knows it. But today I was hearing Nikki and her friend talking about, Nikki cutting herself. I saw it was true, I know it was she showed her friend her scars [I saw them there is two]. And I dont know why I did thing..to Nikki and anybody who's going to sit there and think they never made a bad decision knowing it was wrong and did it anyways is a lair, we've all done it. I told Lindsey, It was a bad idea she's going to tell everybody she hasent, yet. I'm about 50% sure she will. But I know Nikki started cutting because of Lindsey, I know it. I don't know what to do, Suggestions? comments? I feel awful that she cuts herself and I know Lindsey, And Some what of Me and her own self image issues affect this cutting.
I'm in middle school 8th grade. (link)
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often times, kids your age will do things like this to gain attention- ive seen it happen all the time, more than i could count on both my hands- id jsut wait it out. nikki obviously is disturbed by somethnig in her lfie, and feels that she needs this attention-= so jsut dont give it to her. the more you give to her, the more she'll continue to do it, because she knows its working.
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I have this special Anti-persitant. I can only wear it on before bed in spareingly amounts. When my doctor gave me the trial pads they worked so good so I went to the Drug Store and bought myself the Roll on Anti-persitant of it. Lately this month, it hasn't been working really good and sometimes during class I can smell it and feel it sweating which makes me very self concious because I'm scared when it sweats in summer and I play volleyball so I'll have to raise my arms up and you'll see ti no matter what kind of clothing it is. So I'm wondering how to make sure it stays on. Am I supposed to wash my pits before to get rid of the bad stuff before I wear it on? If I wash it in the morning, will it come off? because i get nightmares and during the nightmares the stinkyness activates so I can smell it in the morning but I'm not sure if I should wash it because I'm scared I might wash off the Anti-Persistant (link)
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the only thing i can think of is to talk to a dermatologist up and ask them. you can even cal one up at random out of the phone book if you dont feel comfortable making an appointment to see one. just ask them exactly what you asked in here, and dont feel ashamed- often times excessive sweating is found to be a genetic thing. i got it from my mom- so its really not anythnig you can help- a dermatologist can help.
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I don't feel feminine or look feminine, in my opinion. Guys do say I'm a girl. I mean I'm about to have a C Cup but it's just my face that's bothering me. I have shoulder length hair.. it's just one weird length, poofy hair. (Products do not work. I need a haircut, but I dont want short hair). My eyebrows are messed up and too thin. My face.. the bone structure to me.. looks like a man's. I dont know. Is there anything I can do?
Because I've seen all these other girls at school.. they look Feminine... and really pretty.
But compared to them all.. I look like an ugly boy.
I want to feel pretty and look like a girl.
I'm not a tomboy and I don't wear baggy clothes.. it's just my face.
I wear makeup too.. but.. its not working. (link)
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do what MAKES you feel pretty . often times, those girls really arent all that gorgeous- its how they carry themselves,an the confidence the yhave that makes them so attractive. i think if you start doing things that MAKE you feel pretty , i.e.- gettng pedicures, facials- even donig them yourself- your confidence will be hugely boosted.
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how do you summon your inner demon? (link)
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do everything against God's word, but i can guarantee you might earn a spot in hell if you try that one
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There is this guy, at my church and I also work with him,that I really like, and I think he likes me too. I don't know why I think this, but It's just a girls hunch. He and I skated together for like an hour one night at a church lock in. That isn't really a sign, but I wished it was. My friend bein retarted one day asked him if he would ever go out with me. I'm not sure how to take all this, but I'm gonna go crazy. Any one have any advice on what you think, or what you think I should do to find out. (link)
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the bst advice i can give you is to take things slow, and please please dont rush anything. i know its exciting to want to have him- but the more you give him a little bit of space, the more he'll come runnin to you when the time is right.
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i was on youtube and i found this on the top videos: http://youtube.com/watch?v=gSmYVlofcZE does that really happen when you get your period? lol probably not but im still wondering ... thx (link)
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no, most def. not. i think that is probably the most disgusting, and vile thing ive ever seen. it def does not happen that way, and i thin kthat whoever made tht is sick and twisted. some people find humor in that, i on the other hand think that is is degrading towards women.
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i just started high school this year, and its so hard for me, mainly because its so different from what I'm used to with junior high. all of my friends have adjusted and seem to go with the flow, but i just cant. I'm up till midnight every night doing homework, i have tests and reports every week, and i feel like i have no control over my life anymore. i cant figure out how to manage my time, because i get home from school from 4-4:30 everyday [i live pretty far away from my school]. Does anyone have any tips on what i can do, and some tips for relieving stress, or better yet stopping it? thank you i appreciate it soo much
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EVERY SINGLE chance tht you get, take your mind off of school. if someone asks you to go out one night- GO. dont hold back because you think that a little studying is crucial to the rest of your life- dont get me wrong, im not enforcing horrible grades, but i manage to do it- with a baby on the way, and i am a straight a student. trust me, if i can do it- you can def. do it.
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Can an exes really be friends after a break-up that neither one knows why it ended? I need straight to the point answers (link)
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yes. definetely. i am living proof that it can happen- every single one of the guys ive ever gone out with i keep in contact with, and am still goodd friends with to this day. so i know that its possible,and actually- i would recommend it to anyone. i mean, you went out with that person becuase you had feelings for them- you can still love them. maybe not the same way, but trust me- there will always be that love for them somewhere in your heart.
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I was sick with a cough and sinus problems a few weeks ago and i'm still have a little cough. Lately though it's been hurting to breathe somewhat and i've been really tired. My mom told me that my forehead felt hot earlier tonight. I finished my period 5 days ago but today i got cramps and had a little bleeding. Could these be related in anyway? i've also been under a lot of stress lately.. could that be the cause, or am i over-reacting? (link)
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stress can be a huge factor in both iregular periods/ and getting sick. stress lowers your immune system, and can make it easier for your body to retain viruses. stress can also cause irregular periods and happens quite frequently, to many girls. i think the only thing you can do is just try and stay calm, and try to pinpoint the reason for stress in your life, and try to narrow it down.
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15 y.o. freshman girl. So, I've liked this guy for just a couple of weeks now. He sits next to me in one of my classes, but he usually didn't talk to me that much. But lately he's been talking to me more frequently. Today, we practically talked the entire period because we had a substitute and she just gave us busy work, so we didn't get in trouble. He even grabbed my knee and held on for about a minute or two, which surprised me. About a month ago, my friend told me he liked some girl that went to another school, but maybe he's over her? Should I pursue him? Was he flirting, or does he just want to be friends? (link)
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i think you shuld def flirt back. after all, its worth a shot, right?- i mean, this girl is going to another school, so why not show him what he COULD be gettin if he chose to stick closer to home?
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I'm 14/f and my boyfriend is 16/m. We got together pretty recently and things have been going great so far. But I've been having a problem dealing with his past. Sometimes I'll come across a picture of him drunk with a bunch of girls and it bothers me, but I know he didn't do anything with them besides maybe hooking up. (For the record, he doesn't drink at all like he used to and won't do it unless I'm there) Yet it still drives me insane to see those pictures on his friends sites. He isn't afraid to call a girl hot,(example being Tila Tequila) but I know he's kidding because when other guys talk about girls being hot or whatever, I'll go "Oh yeah, shes so hot" in a sacastic tone. Hes just doing it back jokingly to make me sound like a lesbian. Just the fact that hes calling another girl hot makes me jealous though. He knows I'd go insane if I ever foundout he was cheating or anything, but I just don't like thinking about that he probably thinks of other girls sometimes. I just don't know how to deal with that fact that all guys checkout every girl they see. Any advice? :/ (link)
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its first nature for guys to check a girl out when they see her. and i know for a matter of fact tht when guys do it, the first thing they think of isnt always sex, or seeing her naked, etc. ive asked my bf several times why guys do this, and its really somethnig they cant help. but i know this might be hard for you to believe, because it was for me- but alot of the girls that us girls think are drop-dead gorgeous, really arent to guys. my bf for example- cannot stand jessica simpson, or angelina jolie. i know ur thinknig - ok this guy def, doesnt know a cutie when he sees one- but for real, he jsut doesnt find them attractive. so, dont always assume that your man thnks a girl is hot justbecause hes lookin at her. its instinct for guys, and ultimately- they really cant help it/
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