im a junior. i love movies. photography. scene plus american eagle. i love vintage and antiques. im my own person. i try not to judge and i have many different sides of me. im stubborn.insecure. lazy. cranky in the morning. but im also forgiving. protective. shy.
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Location: Ohio
Occupation: junior in high school
Age: 16
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hey.. i am 14/f
so here it is... i just got my period and it has lasted a long time. I am now on day 10!!! AGH .. is that normal?? well anyways today (day 10) i looked at my pad and their was blood BUT the front was red (normal) BUT the back was BLACK!!!! i mean PITCH BLACK ... not red y browny,... im taking like.. well it looked like tar, or black paint... well not that dark but soo close!!!! IM SCARED ABOUT THE COLOUR AND HOW LONG IT IS LASTING....!! but since this is my first period i dont know what to expect really!!!!??? HELP!!!!!
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yes, thats normal. well i shouldn't say normal since there isn't a right or wrong. All periods are different. Since you just stared for the first two years, it may take a while for the period to get normal.
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As I was looking through different questions, I came across the question titled "Bible and Sexuality" which was basically about what is says in the bible about homosexuality being a sin and why god sends homosexuals to hell. In your reply to the question, you stated that homosexuals are not born that way, and it is a choice. My question to you is, how do you know that? Are you gay? Is there some scientiftic research out there that proves this fact that I am unaware of? Last information that I have read regarding this subject, is that it is not %100 known if it is strictly biological, but it is known that homosexuality is a result of biological and enviromental factors. So before you pass your judgements onto others, you should probably know the facts. I feel sorry for the people that are against homosexuality and believe it is a sin. Because as time goes on, it will become more and more acceptable, and those who find it unacceptable will be the minority. (link)
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No I am not gay, and I have nothing against people that are gay. I don't choose to live my lifestyle that way, but God put people on this Earth to make a decision to follow him or not. I did not mean to offend anyone, and Im sorry if your feelings got hurt. When my parents were in high school, they rarly ever heard of someone being homosexual, now in today's society you hear of it quite frequently. If gays and lesbieans were born like that then it would have been just as common back then then it is now.
Advicenators is for people to give advice, whats great about this sight is that many people have different outlooks and opinions in the answers. There is no doubt in my mind of what I believe. I just have faith.
God Bless You!
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So on August 28th its my sixteenth birthday... I have no idea what to do!
I don't want to do anything too expensive... I want quite a few people there, but not too many. I have a pool and a hot tub.... but I'm not sure if people would actually use them. IDEAS PLEASE!!!!
And good ones... :D (link)
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you should have a pool party/ slumder party. then at night you can go in the hottub. later you can all go to a movie or something and tell people to being their own money.
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i've been with my bf for three years. and he was just told that he has to move across the country. and we both don't believe in long distance relationships.
what are some good songs that go well for this situation? (link)
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here without you - hoobastank
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Recently I've noticed that I seem to be carrying excessive things in my handbag or missing some vital things, so I'm just wondering; what do you, girls, keep in your handbag that you take with you wherever? The things that you always have in your hand bag?
Thanks :) (link)
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- money
- license/ID
- keys
- make up
- cell phone
- gum
- a card with emergency contact lists
- mirror
- pen
hope this helped
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I know this might not be the right place for this question but I would really like your help, sorry about it being so long. Okay so there's this guy who I had 2 classes with last year, we never really spoke to each other, and he was just another class mate. In late April of 2008, I would notice that he would stare at me all the time and I used to wonder why he would do it. So I eventually started liking him because I was noticing him from the staring. So in late May, I told him on Msn that I liked him and at first he didn't take me seriously then he said that he didn't want to waste my time because he had a girlfriend.
But even after he told me that, he would still stare at me, whenever I would walk past him, he doesn't look at me until I turn around to look at him then I see him looking back at me at the same time. So this has been going on for like a year with the whole staring thing, except it would be in the hallways because we didn't have any classes together this year. One night I was talking to one of my guy friends on msn and prom came up, so he asked me who I wanted to take as my prom date and I told him the name of my crush but then I said that I can't go with him because he has a girlfriend then my guy friend put a confused face and said that he doesn't have a girlfriend because they know each other. I've asked around before and everyone told me that he doesn't have a girlfriend so I figured that he lied to me about that. So my prom was on June 5th and I told my myself that I should dance with him since I won't see him again because he's going off to University, but I changed my mind because I was too scared. So anyways I noticed that for the whole night; he kept on staring at me, even when I was on the dance floor, I would look around in the crowd to find him staring at me.
So I was starting to think that maybe he wanted to dance with me. So I took a break from dancing, went to get a drink from the bar and went back on the dance floor. I wasn't really dancing because I didn't like the song they were playing so I was just slowing rocking, then I noticed that I was standing near him so I felt kind of awkward. So I'm standing there then I noticed that he kept coming closer and closer to me slowly. we were so close to each other that his arm was up against mine then suddenly, I felt him grab me by the waist and started dancing with me so I was shocked at first then I started dancing with him. While we were dancing; he kept rubbing my arms up and down, he took my hand and folded his hand into mine. Then the Dj started playing a slow song and we parted from each other for a little while then we were both looking around in the crowd then he finally locked eyes with me and asked me if i wanted to dance? So I smiled and nodded yes. While we were slow dancing; he kept rubbing my back up and down slowly, and then he ran his hand over my butt a couple of times and I had my face pressed up on his chest. Then when a fast song came on, we smiled at each other and started dancing again. We danced together to 6 songs. Then we went our separate ways.
So 2 days later, my friend told me that she spoke to him on Face book and she sent me the Convo. I was brought up into the convo and my friend said that me and him looked hot together while we were dancing then he said: ahaha, I don't want to give the wrong intentions by the way, she's a cool person but yea..Then later on in the convo, he said he just wanted to have fun. So I was crushed by that. I mean I understood when he said he wanted to have fun but what was the whole clasping hands thing all about? I seriously thought he liked me that way because I was the only girl he danced with for the whole night; I thought he was thinking the same thing that he wanted to dance with me since we won't be seeing each other again. so I sent him a message on Msn later that night saying: "hey, I saw the Convo with you and my friend I just wanted to say that you weren't giving me the wrong intentions and I don't mean to be rude, I had fun and I danced with other guys and u weren't the one who made my night." I only said that because I didn't want to seem desperate and of course he made my night but I couldn't let him know that. so then he replied back saying: Cool, I only said that because your friend kept saying that we looked so hot together dancing, I hope I didn't say anything to make you mad." so I said: no I’m not mad" so then I was feeling really bad for what I said so I went to school the next day and I went up to him and said: "hey, can I talk to you for a minute?" then he said: "sure" so I said: okay, I don't mean to sound annoying but about that message I sent you on msn about prom, I didn't mean to say it like that." then he said smiling: it's okay, it's okay, who cares. Then I said: no, I only said that because I didn't want to look desperate. But I didn't mean It." then he said: its okay. then I said(blushing): I know this might not matter to you,(then I put my hands to my face and said "oh my gosh") then he smiled and said: "this must be hard for you to say" then I laughed and said: I’m going to be honest with you, but you were the one that made my night" then he was smiling for the whole time then I said: I know you don't like me like that but I just wanted to be honest so yea...then he kept smiling then he said: okay well thanks...have a nice day, then I said: okay, thanks you too. so people told me that he doesn't like me like that, he does like me but is afraid of what other people might think, or he does like me but isn't ready for a relationship. I was wondering if it had anything to do with the race thing, because he's Indian and I'm black, and I heard that Indians cannot date outside of their race. I'm so sorry if this is long, just wanted to give you guys some background info. Thank-you
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it sounds like he likes you but maybe he isn't wanting a relationship right now. I bet he likes you though. Its obvious that you guys have some kind of chemistry there. I think that you should talk to him more online and see where things go. Also you should casually bring it up again.
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16/F/Christian
What does the bible say about homosexuality and being sent to H*ll? It just doesn't seem fair that all gays and lesbians can't go to Heaven, especially because God loves EVERYONE. Some people are just born that way and can't help it.
And what about people that are in such an isolated community, that they've never been exposed to God's word or people that don't know Christianity exists? What about them?
And in the old testament, doesn't it say crazy things like, it's okay to rape a woman as long as you marry her afterwards? And if someone hits you, you can chop off their hand, or something like that. That's just...crazy!
Why would God tell someone to put that in the Bible?
What are your thoughts on this? Can someone please clear up the rumors I've heard? Thankyou! Maybe you can recommend some scriptures, too? Thanks, again! (link)
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Of course that you know, the stories in the Bible happened thousands of years ago. Jacob had four wives and today people only have one spouse. You may wonder why. Bear in mind that the books in the Bible report that what happened in history didn't always go according to what God had in mind for his creation.
God let's people make up their minds about many things. But some things he says are wrong. God does not approve of the homosexual lifestyle anywhere in the Bible. In fact, he makes it clear that it is sinful. When goes says that something is evil, you can't pretend it is right. Some may say, well "my god, wouldn't send a gay or lesbian to hell..." That is breaking 2 of the 10 commandments. You are creating your own God in your mind to fit your own life you would like to believe, that is idolatry and you are worshiping a different God.
God doesn't send homosexuals to hell for being a homosexual. He does this because they are living in sin. God states that two of the same gender lieing together is a sin. To look forward to everlasting life in heaven you need to change ways and live your life by God's ways, not what you think you should do.
" If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They must be put to death: their blood will be on their own heads" (Leviticus 20:13)
As I stated before the books of the Bible don't always mean that this will happen. It does not mean that homosexuals will be put to death, this jsut means that they will be punished for their sins such as everybody else will be punished for their sins.
As you also stated that you said that some people were born into being gay. That is not true. God would not create a child being born gay, that is a choice made by that child. God says that this is a sin. It is true that we are born into sin but God gave us the decision to be saved by him or walk away from him. If you walk away from him though, you will be found guilty on judgement day and go to hell.
God loves all his children, whether they are straight or not, but just because he loves them, doesnt mean that they will go to Heaven. You may be confused of why people go to hell. Well if a teenager sneaks out of the House what happens when they get caught? Their parents will most likely ground them. They do this because they love us and we need to pay for our actions. Same with God. No matter how big a sin is, God will not let someone off the hook. He loves us so much that he will be a good Father and make us pay for our actions.
I hope that I have helped make things more clear.
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I want to create some sort of tribute to Michael Jackson. I miss the man. The King of Pop. He was an idol for some many. He was the ultimate pop star. I'm sure plenty of people will miss Michael Jackson since he died just a short time ago, at a very early age.
I thought about making a website or something but I'm not sure what to do. I know that MySpace put a tribute to Michael Jackson up for fans--a MySpace page with Michael Jackson songs up to listen to. My friend suggest I write a song about and for Michael Jackson but I'm not sure about that either since I am not a good singer. I want to do something so people can remember and enjoy Michael Jackson for a long time. Something that he would like.
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I think that a website would be a very good idea. Something very cool and creative and not just a boring website. A place where MJ fans ( such as myself) can go and watch his videos, blog, listen to his very famous songs and stuff like that. Or you could make a youtube slideshow about him. Some cool graphics and a tribute to all the fans and to his family. And of course a memorial to the king of pop. Im very sad pf the sudden death. I will miss him.
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15/F
I got grounded for a month , the longest I had ever been grounded for since then my mom has done nothing but been up my ass. I mean its getting to the point where I pretty much want to go crazy physo bitch on her and hit her. I mean my parents dont understand that I want them too go away on their motorcycles trips and have fun and leave me here. They need that bonding anyways. And this is EXACTLY what happens ; my dad will be all excited saying were going on a 4 hour motorcycle ride tomorow and your moms going too we are going to leave you the house (me being excited cause ive only seen their faces for a damn month) I cant wait just to relax watch movies maybe have a friend over. But I wake up expecting them to be gone and NOPE THERE THEY ARE. My dads mad lookking and my moms all hey amanda! hey!!! Im about to go fucking crazy. I ask why arent you guys motorcycle riding? My moms liike you werent going? Wtf ? Be independant mom. Then I get an attitude because I mean im 15 I want to do things not be stuck with my parents 24/7 so my dad thinks I have a plan to bring my boyfriend over and like fuck him? I was actually planning on just having the house to myself. So bottom line I need to get my mom off my back I am about to go crazy and I dont want to get grounded even longer. But this shit has to stop! (:
Helppp;;;
Thanks! (link)
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I understand that you are upset. But you shouldnt hit or yell at your parents. Sometimes my parents make me want to pull my hair out but i dont want to be grounded for yelling. So i write a note without cussing in it to get my point across. Maybe you should write a note since they are not listening to you. This is a tough situation.
i hope i helped.
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Iam 20 years old and iam a female my boyfriend is 21 years old and we have only been dating for a week and he's alredy asking me when we are going to makeout and have sex and he says he's the kind of guy who is very sexually active and I told him that I just don't think iam ready for that kind of serious relationship that he wants especially since the last time I had done something sexual with a guy when I was 18 which it was only oral sex so iam still a virgin but the guy hasn't talked to me once since we had oral sex and iam afraid if I do this it will happen to me again what should I do? (link)
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You might get this advice a lot but if a guy pushes you into having sex when your not ready, then he doesnt love you or care enough about you. I understand hes 21 and all most guys only want sex but dont push yourself. Take things slow. I hope this helped.
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okay..so i really want to get a purity ring and practice abstinence..but..
i've gone past the line before..i havent had sex..but i've done stuff other than that..like fooled around and stuff...but is'nt it common for people to do that? like..after they've done stuff they promsise to not do it anymore and they get a purity ring?
and what is that called exactly? (link)
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hey
i just got my purity ring in february. Mine is relegious reasons but even if yours isnt then thats great. If you ask for forgiveness, by reclaiming your innocence then it is as if you are still a virgin (even though you techniqually are). Then it saves the most special gift to your spouse when you get married.
i hope this helped.
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14/f
ok im the one that posted this question:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=553503
basics:
never had a boyfriend.
pretty chubby(working on it).
my friends say im pretty.
not popular.
shy/quiet unless you get to know me.
please read the question i provided in the link above, if you dont know what im talking about.
please, please, please read it.
im desperate.
recent update:
a few weeks ago we were talking on the phone and i was like i really wanna go to the movies and he was like we should go like not this weekend but the next.
we never did.
i like him so much.
but i dont want to give up.
but im always the one who calls him.
and like whenever i hear his name my stomach drops, i blush, my heart beats fater, and i can i hardly breathe. i think about hime everyday.
and the from the last time i saw him, i look way different in a good way and he doesnt know that.
what do i do and why do i feel that way?
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you should let him make the next move. stop chasing him and play hard to get = ).
you should bring up the movies thing and make it casual the first time you do something out side of school (as a date.)
bring some of your friends and tell him to bring some of his. then you two sit by each other, then let things take their course. let him make the next move.
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So, I have a family plan on my lg vogager, and now I want a blackberry. So I'm eligible for an upradde, and I can spend the money on the PHONE but I can't add any more monthly charges. I currently have unlimited texting (30 dollars)
I know that it's nessecary to activate a blackberry with a data plan, SO do I need texting AND the data plan? Or does it come with it (link)
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you have to have your phone for two years.
or something like that.
i have the voyager now. .. . awesome phone.
i think that everything you have currently ( texting) will be carried over onto the new phone.
go to your local verizon store and ask them about it. they can help you better than anyone else.
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15 female.
okay, so i have a huge crush on my best guy friend, and he knows it. me and him are really chill with each other also, were very open with eachother. (hes 17 btw and ive known him since i was 12, and ever since then we've been really tight) sooo heres the thing:
he always tells me how gorgeous and sexy i am,
and he says he likes me but he doesnt want a gf right now, and i was like thats str8 okay i don mind being jus his friend.. but the thing is..
everytime me and him chill we end up kissing or doing something. and hes gone pretty much the whole way except sex, and hes always telling me how he wants to have sex with me and all that stuff and how like awesome it would be and etc.
and even though i want to, i havent let him.
i just dont know if i should.
cause i wanna be with him as bf and gf, but idk how to do tht. and also idk if i should continue messing around with him or stop and just be normal friends? PLEASE HELP!!
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it sounds like he is trying to use you.
its ok to mess around but not intill you guys make it offical,
thats cool that you guys can be honest and everything. you should talk to him and see why he doesnt think that you to should go out. make sure you guys go out so that way he cant hurt you.
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ok well me and my boyfriend just broke up, we went out for about 5 months.
but anyway, i am still not over him.
and what helps me the most to get over a guys is to listen to music and get my emotions out with the words of the song.
so i was wondering if anyone has any good sad\love songs for me to listen to.
i am into about any kind of music,
so plz give me some ideas!!!!
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i know what you mean. music helps me too,
i dont have many but these are what i listen too:
1.) so long goodbye - sum41
2.) here without you - three doors down
3.) on my own - threedaysgrace
4.) your guardian angel - redjumpsuitapparatus
5.) everything im not - the veronicas
6.) behind these hazel eyes - kelly clarkson
7.) time of dying - threedaysgrace
8.) breath - breaking benjamin
9.) learning to fall - boyslikegirls
9.) what about now - chris daughtry
10.)gone forever - threedaysgrace
i say your best band to listen to is threedaysgrace ( onex album )
i hope you feel better.
from,
pinkcherries
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okay so my girlfriend is pregnant and she dont get her period does that mean the baby is like drinking the blood? (link)
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when a girl is pregnant you dont have your periods. there is no need to. if an egg is fertilized then the egg never breaks so blood doesnt come out.
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so next year..i have to take a foreign language.
my school only offers French and Spanish.
i dont really know which one to take..people say that french is easier..but that ill use spanish more.
any suggestions?? (link)
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i have actually heard that french is harder. i used to take spanish and now am in french. i believe its easier. but yet again i could never get a spanish dialect right.
in the US spanish is more common, but in europe and in canada french is more common.
hope this helps.
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when you get defrosted can you/are you back to life? (link)
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in some cases i believe its possible.
but i imagine that if you are frozen for so long that your heart freezes and your organs start shutting down. you also need food and water to still survive.
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My period's late by like, a month.
Is there a way to make it come faster?
Because I'm getting really annoyed waiting around. (link)
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it may be possible that you are pregnant.
if not then your period is just being irregualar.
usually periods become normal between 1 to 2 years. i have had mine for a year and a half and its not 100% normal. There is no such thing as a normal period. i would just be patient with it.
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how do you make your hair curly or wavy without using a hair straightener or curler?? because i have stick straight hair and i want to do something with it but i dont want to fry it and whenver i use a curling iron it doesnt work and my hair doesnt curl anyway with it... (link)
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try scrunching it.
when you get out of the shower, take your hair and scrunch it, then keep putting product in it as you are scruching it.
google : scrunching
hope this helps : )
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