Alright. I'm pretty sure I know what I need to do, but reinforcement is always nice.
So I'm in a bit of a complicated situation.
First, theres the ex. We had a terrible breakup. We are still very much in love with each other. We are probably not right for each other. She cheated. I forgave. She moved home (4 hours away) and right now we're talking but thats about it. Ive told her I want to get her back.
Second, theres the future fuckbuddy. Shes gay but openminded. She wants an ongoing relationship with me thats based almost entirely on sex. This is not a problem for me in the least, and fresh out of a harsh breakup (3 months isnt that fresh, but it was almost a 3 year relationship) she seems to be what I need right now. Shes poly and married to another woman. Her wife would know about me, and probably meet me.
Third, theres... I don't know what she is to me. We've been talking for two days. Theres already a ridiculously strong connection between us. The kind of connection that could lead to something very serious down the line.
The third girl is coming over tomorrow. Sex is a possibility. The second girl is coming over thursday. Sex is a certainty.
I'm not sure what I want to do. I don't know if I'm ready to trust someone in a serious relationship, but I think that if I pass up a chance with this girl I might seriously regret it later. But I obviously cant test things out with her and have a fuckbuddy.
I dont know. I don't know if I should take the chance of hurting and getting hurt if I'm not ready to fall in love again, because shes (the third girl)definitely going to if things keep going. It might take a while, but I think we both might be there within a few months.
I just don't know. What would you do, reader? Stick with the fuckbuddy and tell the girl its not a good time? Take a chance on a relationship when I'm still in love with my ex? I know that if I fall for someone else that will not make me fall out of love with my ex, is the thing. I don't work that way. Ive been in love with two women before. Hard to imagine for some...
Yeah. Anything helps. Just send me some advice.
fuck buddy-NODON'T!
ex- somethings arn't ment to work out.
new girl- if this connectino is REAL she will help you get past the pain,a nd to be more open minded.
why don't you AVIOD sex with this new girl? just start out slow, look int oher eyes, tell her she's beatiful, a kiss on teh forehead toward teh end, trust me.. it'll make it worth it.
any girl who wants to have sex that quick..wouldn't be worth it anyways.
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im only 16, and i have gray hair. My mom told me i could have "straightened the color right out of my hair" because it doesnt look like normal gray hair. its totally white. she told me it doesnt look normal. has this happened to anyone else?
my mom started getting gray hair at that age..she just has been coloring it, for yearssss.
sorry.
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I have this dance at my school on december 7th called winter wonderland. its for 8th graders and i dont know what dress to get! some of my friends even got dresses around summer! talk about early. so anyways im thinking of ordering mine possibly cause i dont want the same generic dresses everyone else seems to have. but yeah my budget is 70 dollars for the highest amount (accessories can be more). http://www.bhs.co.uk/mall/productpage.cfm/bhsstore/260378/121939 i was originally gonna get that dress though because its in england and the store doesnt ship to the U.S. I'd have to send it to my aunt who'd then send it to me. but ugh.. the dress is out of stock in my size, ofcourse (it was friggen beautiful!!!). i like fashion like that.. like i want to wow people.. lol im just like that. but i want it to be like cute and all that.. appropiate for a 13-14 year old girl to wear.. and such. give me tips on other things like.. make up, accesories, shoes, hair (my hair is currently in braids and it will be for winterwonderland so dont try to change that.. how should i hold my hair up?) and last of all.. im not sure which friends/guy to go with. i currently dont have a boyfriend and im sure people are getting a little anxious about getting a boyfriend in time. ive never asked a guy to dance at school dances (ive been to several) and i just danced with my girl friends.. and about how many should I go with to take pics n stuff at one of our houses if im not with a guy (how do i know if he wants to ask me out or how do i do it? im kinda shy). so yeah.. and any other tip relating to the topic! heh, thanks a lottttttttttttttt babes
This is something most people are not daring enough to attempt:
this dress, is to die for!
http://www.bhs.co.uk/mall/productpage.cfm/bhsstore/260927/114764
if you get that, then you can wear either silver, black,or gray leggings under it! and some flats, or heels.
to complete the look, throw on either a chuncky or a long simple black necklace..
and since you're determined to wear teh braids in your hair.
throw a black hair band in your hair. :D it'll look adorable
by hair band, i mean something that goes "on top" or aroudn your hair.
:D if you dont want ot buy one, cut black cloth and make your own!
:D goodluck!
give me some feedback on what you think
becuase i can help some more if oyu want.
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I'm looking for shoes like this:
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?catId=cat1440005&productId=0411_7508
I need them in a cream or white color and I'd really like to find something cheaper than that price ($60), maybe around like $30 or $40. I want them to look just like those boots (flat and about that height but with or without the fur trim on the outside is okay) but I can't seem to find anything even similar to that anywhere else. Obviously I've seen uggs and obviously since I want to spend less than $50, those are not an option.
I really need these boots before friday for a special occasion so it would REALLY help me out if someone could show me where I could get some before then. Thanks SO much!
http://www.payless.com/Catalog/SLCategory.aspx?TLC=Womens&SLC=WomensBoots&BLC=WomensBootsTrendy
and here's shoes just by American Eagle in Payless
http://www.payless.com/Catalog/SLCategory.aspx?TLC=Womens&PaylessBrand=American%20Eagle™&pgNbr=1
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I am a senior in high school and I have been playing Powderpuff football my entire high school life. This year we have a new way of going about things and we are stuck with a really cruddy name unless anyone can think of something before Thursday night's practice (one week from today).
So far (as class of '08) we are called Crazy 8's. They are going to have the team name on the front of the shirt with c/o '08 on the back. The picture on the back is going to be a picture of a magic 8 ball with "Seniors=Winners" in the triangle thing that "predicts the future". Anyway, I think the picture is a cool idea but the name definitly needs some work. Are shirts will be black with teal lettering (the words and stuff).
In the past we have had the following names: Ruff Riders, Crunk Cuties, Pink Panthers, Hustlers, Soulja Girls is currently being used by the junior team...
Any suggestions are welcome!
Magic Ball..
(picture)
..Magic Ball
It doesn't take a magic ball
to figure out the outcome of this game.
SENIORS '08
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Me and my boyfriend have sex sometimes. About five months ago he got mono and got a white layer of something on the back of his tounge, Alot of it. He got medichine for mono and it cleared the white stuff up. Today i realized he had it again, Alot of it. And i'm scared for him. We are not sure what it is, But we're hopeing its not STD realated. I've never got tested, And he was a virgin and not born with anything. But i've gotten a pap smear and i've taken that new test "yest infection or something eles" And i came out fine. I cant find anything online about this. But resently i had BV and i thought i got rid of it. He gave me oral. And my BV is back. Could this have anything to do with it? Thank you so much.
ok, honest time.
NO ONE on here can answer trhis.
you REALLY need to call a dcotor, or go see one.
that's th eonyl way you'll know.
go to get checked out,and ask about your boyfriend.
goodluck.
if you're mature enough to have sex, tehn you're mature enought o fidn out what's wrong. (:
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I really need answers on these please:
If all dimensions of a house were doubled, its FLOOR AREA would go up by a factor of:
2 3 4 8 or 16?
If all dimensions of a house were doubled, its VOLUME would go up by a factor of:
3 8 6 4 or 2?
Merci.
oh my, ok.
to find the area of something you do LxW
ok, so we'll pretend.
we'll make.
L= 6'
W=12'
6x12=72'
now, lest double it.
L=12'
W=24'
12x24=288'
288/72=4
so it went up by a factor of 4.
so, to find the volume of something it is LxWxH
ok, so we'll pretend again, haha.
L= 6'
W=12'
and H=20'
6x12x20=1440'
now lets double it.
L=12'
W=24'
and H=40'
12x24x40=11520
11520/1440 = 8
so it goes up by teh factor of 8.
if you're having trouble understand it, right it
out, all of it. it'll help..a lot.
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Alright, I have this research proposal that's due next Wednesday in biology. Basically I have to write up the experiment in the scientific method, up to the actual experiment part (which will be a spring project). I'm at a total loss for ideas on what to do. It has to be something feasible for a 15-year-old girl with limited access to most high-tech cool science-y tools, and it must be related to life/biology. Any help would be fabulous! Thank you. :]
uh, how about..
how to balance an egg on its tip, if its possible? ;]
look like "science fair ideas"
i dont knwo waht to tell you, ebcause i dont know waht will intrest you?
goodluckkk!
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Does any one know what the code to put a picture under another picture as a caption is? Because I want to put a picture under another picture.
Sorry if this doesn't make any sence =/
between the = & the > but the link
if your using photobucket..
use the "direct link" code
for example..
http://i34.photobucket.com/albums/d111/oXoCutiex6/ZPicture2684.jpg
hope i helped (:
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sorry if this is long but i got to say it...i need advice...okay megan...i like/liked this guy and i told him about it but he said he was gay and his best friends sister who is my friend said that i scared him, and tomorrow i was gonna ask if we could start over..im just the kinda girl that goes to the beat of her own drum..but anyways it took me like a month to get over this guy--just did like two days ago--but today he was staring at me and smiling----my cousin says that once you stop liking a guy they like you back..but anyways my horoscope for tomorrow says:
Today, you're less concerned with how you come across than the contents of your message. As long as you convey your feelings, you've accomplished your mission. If the other person rejects your behavior, they're not right for you anyway.
and my little planets affecting your horoscope thing says:
As the great communicator shifts course, prepare for another day of confusion, but luckily, the storm will settle by tomorrow when a calmer energy takes hold. If you've used your time wisely and turned within, it's a great place to move ahead from - travel freely, express your emotions and sign contracts without fear.
so my main questions:
1) what is going on in his lil noggin??
2) should i ask if we should start over??
3) are my horoscopes actually trying to tell me something??
once again sorry its so long but i just would like some awnsers....thanks
ah, boys. yuck lol!
1. let me be honest, if your asking this question, chances are.. im guessing you really dont like him.
i have a question, do you like him, or do you like him because he likes you?
2. no, if he wants you, you let him talk to you, dont get your poor heart broken, if hes that improtatn to you, he'll make a move.
3. honestly, i read my horoscopes every day, and i know that reading them makes my day better, because i go "forth " in a better mood & more positive, and they are a nice way to start your morning, but i dont believe theri true, i belive reading htem..makes you want them to be true..
don't go with the horescope..
follow your heart, your head thinks to much.
if it feels right, talk to him.
but my advice; wait for him.
(: byeee. goodluck!
& dont say sorry, i love helpign.
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How do you make an ingrown toenail (toenail that fell off) grow back faster?
le tme be honest, my dad has that happen..
NOTHING works ):
sorry.
just time. and keep it CLEAN!!!
or else, troublee.(infectino, etc.)
goodluck & sorry.
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15/f - I really need help with a physics question my teacher gave me. Weve already gone over it, but i wasnt at school, so now he wont tell me how to work it out and what the answer is even though i need to know bc i was absent. Here it is:
"The information on a Party Balloon kit containing a tank of Helium states how many of each size balloon you can expect to fill from the tank. The label states that the tank will fill THIRTY 9-inch balloons. You plan to use 11-inch balloons instead of 9" ones, so how many can you expect to be able to fill?"
can you please solve this and tell me how to work it? I'd really REALLY appreciate it.
ok, so the tank will fit thirty 9 inch ballons, so if the ballons were 1 inch.. you would have to mutliply that 30 by 9 correct?
so , 30 x's 9 =270
so, in that tank there would fit 270 1 inch ballons.
since there's 11 inch ballons
you devide that 270 by 11.
which is 6.36363636..
but, since you can't put a 1/3 of a ballon, its 6
so 6 ballons.
want to see how its correct?
go back to the basic problem.
9 inch ballons, you'd do 270 devided by 9
which = 30
(: correct!
righ this out, it'll make more sense.
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I have a permanent tooth that is mildly loose. I can wiggle it side to side a little. When the orthodonist was moving the tooth into place, it was running into another tooth. I think the gum roots were getting damaged or something. Do you think over time the tooth won't be as loose and won't wiggle as much?
it could not be a permanent tooth, or maybe you did somethign to it. honeslty, no one can telly ou, the bes tthing todo is to call your dentist or "braces doctor" if you have one. and find out what you should do before freaking out (:
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Well , I have played hockey for about 8 years now . And I have just decided to take it more serious then I have in the past :P
But , I am stumped . I have been practiceing my shot outside . Is there any drills that you can do at home (Without the rink) ?
Also , I am a girl if it really matters :P
hello..
my boyfriend plays hockey.
he doens't have a rink
him and his friend sjust shoot shots, (they dont play) and when he's by himself, he just works on diffrent shooting angles, because its easier to do something onice than on a drive way..
he walys says that its not good to do "floor hockey" before you go play on the ice, because you shoot diffrently thouhg.
hope i could help?
im probably not teh best person to ask, but i wanted you to get SOME ideas (: have fun.
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Hi There,
Please help me! I am in my 20's, a female, and sexually active. I have a problem that may be normal or not, but I need to know.
There is a flab of skin/line of skin growing from my vagina to my anus. It connects them and goes up inside my butt. It's not big, but I think its gotten bigger. I am terrified to go to a doctor. How would I approach them with this? What is it and is it bad? What is it caused from? Any websites with pix I could check out to see if it's the same?
I do not have anal sex, but several years ago...it was forced upon me. Could it be from that? I have had it for a while. I don't peep down there often, but happen to notice it today. OMGosh...I'm so scared and don't know what to do!!
I truth is, it could be a lot of diffrent things.
it could be nothing, or a disease, or you may have to even tkae under the possibility of cancers that produce "down there"
the best thing to do is go to teh doctors and say that you're noticing a diffrence in your vagina area and they'll check it out.
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For spirit week, we have 80's day. Can anyone give me cute styles for a girl to wear?? I want it to be more cute than anything else. Pictures or ideas would be great. Thanks!
i love this day.
a bandana, tie it in a bow or just tie it to the top of your head. (the extra stuff ont eh side of your head, top..but off ot the side ig uess)
big sweaters.take your dads plain sweater and tie it to the side with a ponytale!
tight jeans, light washed the better.
ripped is a big +
or a mini jean skirt with leggings.
shoes; pumps with a cuteee pair of socks (not ducks cute, like.. "geek disigns" or plain coloerd socks.
tie die is big too
BIGGGGGG HAIR
tease it, and whatever
then pull it in a side pony tale w/ ur bandana or just any peice of fabric. (:
if yuneed any more ideas, ask.
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okay so i totally bombed my 9th grade year of high school. I finished with a 2.4 :\
and now im in tenth grade.
i want to get into oxford university.
i know this may sound stupid but would i still be able to get in if i raise my grades?
and what kind of things look good on a college application.i know they talk about this in 11th grade but i want to start preparing now.
thankss SOOO much!
the truth is, it's VERY hard to bring a low GPA up.
right now, you're GPA is at a C (non-weighted i suppose?)
you can PROBABLY bring it up to a B if you work extremly hard and too EXTREMLEY WELL on finals (if your school has those i nkow iin ohio they are VERY important and count as like.. 1/3 of your GPA each year.
goodluck, study hard.
adn keep your eye on the prize!
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coming up on our two month-versary. Both seniors in high school. I (male) was planning on placing two red roses in her locker, with a little note saying something about two roses, two months and maybe a heart of some sort. Another idea, although it may be over the top, would be placing 2 dozen roses, and saying, 2 two months, 2 roses, 2 *dozen roses :-D that might be fun because then when our 3 month comes I can really surprise her with 3, 3 dozen roses, or somthing down the road even more surprising, for example. 3 - 300 hearts!
these are just a few ideas, anything else? What have some of you girls had done for you. I like to go big, and really like bi reactions, although they would be just as pleasent with the smaller items, its the significance of the thought ;)
i agree, do 2 roses.
then you can always go up.
(: 2 dozen is alottt
a single rose would make her done, trust me.
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i need help ... what are some ways to french kiss? like what should i be doing with my tongue, what are some good things to do? what should i be doing that will make a boy think im a good kisser?
there's never such a think as to less of a tongue, to much on teh other hand.. grossss.
try not to use a lot,follow his lead..
place you hands, wherever is comfy.
there's no proper way to kiss.. so don't worry!!!
not being nervous is the best thing, and don't droll a jillion gallons of spit in his mouth, we don't want him chocking or her ? haha.
seriously though,dont owrryyyy!
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I've been taking Birthcontrol for alittle over 5 month's. For the past week i've been forgeting to take 1, one night and then the next night i would take two. I've did that like 8 time's or so. I think that i'm pregnant and i was wondering if i happened to take a pregnancy test would the birth control affect the result of the test in any way? thank's.
no, birth control tests are made with the knowledge that people taking them could be takeing birth control , therefore.. it will have no effect on what the stick reads.
hope i helped.
(: bye.
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