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I'm gonna get straight to the point.My dad hates me he said it himself he told me last yr. in New Years Day that he was gonna make it hell for me and he kept his promise now he's doing the same thing this year.Im 14/f and I'm really tired of it.And my sister doesn't make it any better because she looks through my things constantly I can't hide anything cause she finds it and uses it against me.She is 2 years younger and makes life living hell for me.My older brother is going to the Army soon and he barly is never there and me and him don't get along.Then there is my mom she doesnt understand all she can say is calm down be patient and soon this will end.PLZ HELP what can I do.Thank you on advance. (link)
well if your not shy or anything go talk to your school counciler!! i think that would deffenetly help alot.. or talk to someone you trust thats an adult so they have the power to do something!!!!!!!!!!! no dad can hate their son!! does he have a drinking problem because my mom and grandfather were both like that but now that my dad doesnt drink hes better and a better person but my grandfather still says he hates people that he loves the most and beats my grandmother soo yeah umm i.m me if you want to talk jilliix3

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My parents might get a divorce. And i feel like i should do somthing to try and save their marriage. Is there anyone who has gone through the same problems that i am and can help? (link)
well i deffenetly can help!! my parents got a divorce to... you can try and remind them about all there good times together and stuff but theres really not much you can do but if you want to talk instant message me at jilliix3

xOx jiLl


I'm a pimp or so i have been told. The thing is I'm a 34-year-old hooker named Ginger but I'm trapped in a 17-year-old males body. How do you suggest I get out of this body and create havoc in the world? (link)
wait wait.. your mind thinks your a 34 year old hooker hmm and your in a 17 year old males body.. well i think you need counciling haha umm i dont know where the pimp thing comes in if your a hooker thats 34 well to get out of that body you can get sergiry to be a girl a guess haha i dont really know what you mean umm i hope i helped xOx jiLl


Well to start off.. My mother left a week before Christmas and I miss her so much.. My dad is go crazy because she left all of us.. She don't call or even write to us. I need so help to know how to help my dad through all of this pain.. Thank you if you write back... I really do need as much help as I can get.... **** Thanks Heather****
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well you should help out around the house as much as possible.. and talk to your dad and maybe you should try and find your mom.. or ask your dad about family conciling.. it works.. i.m me if you need anything jilliix3 xOx jiLl


what happened when a guy gets an erection? can he get one from making out? (link)
umm an erection is when the guys dick goes up.. and if u make out i guess it can.. if hes turned on then he has an erection! and yeh it is noticiable sometimes cuz it depends on what kinda pants hes wearing xOx jiLl


Is masterbation a sin? Some people think it is, and some people think it's not. Some people think it is-- only under cirtain circumstances. Like if it's for lust, then yes it is, but if it's not for lust then it isn't..> Is it? Or isn't it? (link)
well catholics say it is.. but im not catholic so i dont think it is.. and that hole part bout lust u have.. why else would people masterbate if its not for lust?? thats my point.. soo i say no its not xOx jiLl


if you have oral sex, or your boyfriend/girlfriend has done anything sexual to you besides sex, is it a sin? (link)
well it all depends what religion you are.. i dont believe its a sin unless you have sex or something at a to young of age or when your not ready but i dont believe that its a sin before marrage then no one would go to heaven!!! xOx jiLl


ok ive done a hand job before but my friend keeps askin when is he gettin his and i keep tell him i dont kno and like i dont wanna come off as a ho doing that to someone im not with..is that hoeish ? i do have feelings for him though (link)
well you would be a hoe if like you do it all the time.. you should just me like im only doing this because i like you more then a friends i wouldnt do this for just anyone xOx jiLl


I know this will sound weird but I need your help! OK, I broke up with this guy last week. Well, I don't like him at all . I mean I like him but I don't like him like him. Anyway, I am goin gout with someone else. My friend asked him if he would go out with someone else and he was like yea. So, I really don't want him to go out with anyone else! Here is a big part though.. this guy I'm going out with isn't real! So what if I say I am goin gout with someone then my ex goes out with someone that is real! I don't wan thim to! I would be too jelious! Is there a way to get over this? Please help! (link)
well hmm this is complicating.. it seems like you kind of like him but you dont know it! umm dont tell him you have a bf.. say like you havent gotten one because you dont want a bf! it will all back fire on you if you do.. soo you could get over it by just telling him straight up that you dont want a bf right now thats what id do.. and hes probably getting a gf to get you back because he thinks you have a bf.. hope i helped xOx jiLl


My friend and I like the same guy. He goes to my church, and my friend comes to church with another one of my friends, so sees him on Wednesday and stuff. Anyways, she and her friend just found out who I like a few days ago because I decided to tell them. And I'm glad I did. But, she didn't know that I've liked him longer than her. Like, ever since this school year started. He's older and goes to a different school. Is this wrong that we both like the same person? I know that her feelings aren't hurt or anything, but should I let her know that I've liked him for like ever? Thanks and I rate well. (link)
well its kind of cool to like the same person so you can talk about that person ((me and my friend liked the same person be4 and it was pretty cool)) but if you really like him enough to go out with him then you should tell her you liked him first and that maybe you could go out with him first then her.. but if not and u juss like him cuz hes hott then you shouldnt bring up the time that youve liked him xOx jiLl


Well ok im going out with someone but i like a lot of other people alot, and is this bad, does this mean im cheating or watever if i like other guys a lot?
Thanx I'll rate!! (link)
not exactly.. if you do something with those feelings and stuff then yeah its cheating but if you like the other guys way more then your bf go with your feelings.. thats very important to do that! hope i helped xOxjiLl


I cheated on my husband for over a year it all stared because he had slapped me and I couldnt forgive him. He tried everything to get me back and I was being a bitch and unwilling to hear anything he was saying. After a while I came to my senses and wanted my famly back, but now he can't forgive me for the affair, but he has recently started seeing someone. Its so confusing because we have a daughter together and even though hes been seeing this other person we have still been sleeping together and now I'm pregnant again (its his) Now he's telling me to be patient and that he hasnt been speaking to her anymore and that she hasnt been coming around, but I don't believe him. I really want to save my marriage and I don't know how to go about it. We dont live together and I just want to be at home with my husband and daughter. What should I do? (link)
first of all carlthecatguy is wrong.. you are not fucked up or anything! you just did something wrong. and now your paying for it. But maybe you can talk to your husband and say you dont want to end it because you love him and you want to be a family. Plus you probably figured out that you loved him afater your affair.. so you paid the consiquences of the affair and he got the consiquences of slapping you.. hope i helped xOx jiLl


hey i have a b/f that i love and my best friend has b/f to and whenever she is not around him he flirts with me if i tell my friend she'll take it out on me but i told her anyeay and she did i try telling her that it wasn't my fault she doesn't belive me what should i do? (link)
pruve to her that he is flirting have him write u a note or have ur bf say he is too!!! hmm i dont know what else.. i would say record it but that sounds gay haha xOx jiLl




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