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my advice-based life basically started when i was sent to a set of seminars to modify my behavior(i was being a rude kid). there i learned how to help myself out with alternatives to being rude, and how to give others really good advice. i have bipolar and acouple other disorders which are all under control, so don't worry. but if anyone has any problems like that, i can answer alot of questions on that subject. i'm really good at answering any questions i know things about. i don't know much about Mac products, but i'm pretty good at computers. i also enjoy just chatting, so if you want my email address, just ask me for it. i hope to meet some people here and become friends with them. i guess that's it, hope i can help anyone who calls on me with a question. feel free to ask me anything you want and i'll answer to the best of my ability!!
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my doctor told me i was anemic, but i have no idea what that means. can anyone exaplain it to me?

wow, a fellow anemic!! okay, being anemic is when you have low levels of iron in your blood. not too life threatening, don't worry. one very easy way to make sure is to make a REAL sterling silver ring and rub it on your face, a little hardly, and you should see a black mark or line on your face. don't panic, it comes off, just rub it off. hope this helped, and if you have anymore questions, feel free to ask!
Kat

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i have really really REALLY sweaty armpits and i need advice on wut kinda deoderant would actually work for me.. its really very embaressing and its really embaressing to ask u all rite now so please don't reply and make fun of me... neway cya hope u can help

i happen to have a similar problem myself, and speaking from experience, i use the men's deoderants because they really help keep armpits not-so-sweaty. if you don't mind the fact that they don't smell like baby powder or fruit mixes, go ahead and buy some old spice red zone, it works great for me. hope i helped!
KAT

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i have a b/f and im fourteen. im so ready to have sex but my parents dont think so. im thinking i shoudl do it behind their back but idk signed- im so cunfuzzled

NO NO NO!!!! you are 14, first of all, if you get caught, your bf could get charged with rape because you are both under 18(i hope!!) and also, think what could happen if one tiny little sperm gets through....you'd be pregnant. i'm 18 and still a virgin, i personally do want to have sex with my bf, but i know that i also want to wait because i don't want to accidentally get pregnant because then it would screw up all of the plans i have for my future. if you did get pregnant, would you keep the baby? what would that entail, what would you have to do if you kept it?
if you didn't keep it, can you imagine how hard it is to know that you aborted your own fetus? it really sticks with you for your entire life, i know, i have many friends who had to do that because they had sex too early, or were raped, etc. if you did abort it and later you had your first child when you are READY, every time you look at that baby, you think about what could have been with that one you let go. i wouldn't want you to have to go through that before you even get through high school. please, PLEASE think about everything that would happen if you did have sex and you did get pregnant, anything like that. with such a huge thing on the line, this is something you need to think over VERY CAREFULLY. please hear my words and take them in,
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Kat

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wow this is incredibly embrassing but... ok so i started shaving my armpits like normally people do years ago but for the past maybe... year? when ever i shave i still have this little bit of hair left! so i had a venus and figured the blade was just dull so my mom got me an offbrand bag of razors but that didnt help either! ive never told anyone though.. but does anyone have any idea how to get rid of this? thanks!

well, it may sound a bit weird, but that new men's shaver the Shick Quattro works REALLY well for me, it has 4 blades, so it gets everything, and i mean EVERYTHING. but if u don't want to go that route, just shave for longer periods of time and use a mirror to see if you missed anything. i miss things too sometimes, and i just take a mirror with me so i can be sure that when i get out of the shower, my pits are hair free. later,
Kat

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well my boyfriend of 5 months has been acting weird..for the past 3 days he hasnt been calling me, or asking to hangout or nothing...and everytime i call him he says hell call me back...and does in like 5 hours...but yestreday we were supposed to hangout and i called hmi at 1 and he said he was gonna take a shower and hed call me back...and he never did =(....ive talked to him about it upsetting me when he doesnt call me back for like 5 hours..but this time he didnt call back at all...i usually go to his house every wednesday....should i go this wednesday if he calls and apologizes? how do i act on the phone if he calls tonight? do i yell at him, be quiet, or act sad?? HELP...i dont know what to do im really upset about it though because my boyfriend means the world to me i love him so much im even listenin to sad music like mockingbird by eminem.....thx.oh ya i dont think hes mad at me or anything....i saw him the day before all this started happening and everything was great..


btw...16/f

i think that if he calls, you should stand up for yourself and ask him what his problem is, what is so important that you are taking a backseat to it?? yes, i think you should go to his house on wednesday because i think that talking things out in person is better. who knows what could be going on in the background when you are talking to him on the phone? honestly, he could have a girl over there(not saying he does) but anything could be possible. just stand up for yourself, do what you need to do to find out what's going on. if you 2 really love eachother, then he will be honest with you and you can hopefully be able to patch things up.

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