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Q: okay my friend was arguin with me that chess is a sport i dont think it is i think its more of a hobby rite?

Its a hobby but if someones a nerd and plays it then its a sport to them but since u think its a hobby your not a nerd.

Q: well lets see my friend just met this great guy and well now there going out and hes like the sweetest thing ever and i think im getting jealous not of her just i wish i found a guy like that ya know cause i like kind of been waiting cuz i didnt want a boyfriend but now i think i want one but im not sure which one would be rite for me

Dont try to rush things because if you do youll end up being stuck with an ugly jerk. Just wait the perfect boy will come and when he does trust me youll know. give feedback please.

Q: well ive had alot of deoderants and none of them are keeping me dry. do u no any that actually work

Im very sorry but I dont I dont think any keep u dry.

Q: ok, i know this guy that i believe likes me, and my friend, well she doesnt like him (he used to like her, and she was always like ew) and i sort of like him, but if i go out with him, im afraid of what my friend might say, im afraid that she would be like ew. why are you going out with him? i mean, i want to do what i want, but if that means half losing a friend, im not sure what i want. please help..

if you really like him then go out with him. Talk to your friend and tell her that you like him and to not say ewww. If shes a true friend she'll understand. give feedback and good luck!

Q: (warning, long)Okay - I've fairly recently had to go through two deaths of one close family friend and a friend of mine. I am now very, very scared to have to undergo another funeral, and also, when the family friend died, my mother took it very hard even though she wasn't even all that close to him. A couple of my relatives are in failing health, and not to sound like a downer, but they will be passing on soon. Does anybody have any ideas as to how I could prepare myself for this, cope, and try to help my mom along as well? (the not-so-healthy family members are on my mom's side..)

Im very sorry to hear that a way to think of it is there in an a lot better place now. They have no problems at all and probably happier and no matter what they'll always be with you. tell your mom that to. Give feed back!

Q: I`ve been feelin really fat lately.. and if i dont find ways to make myself fitter im about ready to go all out not eatin or puken up everything or somen... and i know its really stupid but i really feel ugly!.. PLEASE HELP!

I feel the same way but dont go on one of those scary crash diets they'll just do worse. Just do what im doing and try to eat less snack and exersise I know it may be hard but you can do it. You see yourself as ugly because your thinking it your probably not ive learned that. give feedback. Good luck1 :)

Q: hey i like this guy but hes like 7 years older he goes to my church and well im not sure if he likes me i mean he acts like he does sometimes but see he has a girlfriend hes been with for 4 years and well sometimes he doesnt want to be with her and then he goes back with her but when its just me and him hes really nice to me and then when its not and i call him hes a jerk but i really like him and im not sure what to do cause like he messes with me alot and this one girl asked me when i get older if we would get married and he said maybe i mean what does that mean?????

Don't let the age differenc get to u just because your younger doesn't mean he cant like you. IF you really like him tell him how u feel and if its easier tell him in a letter. Good Luck

-Sara

Q: im 15/F and i know this guy who likes me, and when im hanging around him, im afraid to show him that i like him too, so i dont show it. and one day when we were hanging out, it seemed like he didnt like me anymore (which he did) so i didnt flirt or anything. well now, a week later, he doesnt like me anymore (thats what people tell me, and i believe its true.) and i really wanted to go out with him, but now i think he likes someone else(im not sure though.) i really want him to like me again, so we can go out, but he doesnt. i dont know what to do. does anyone have any ideas that might help me get him back? please help. i rate high for good answers. --i really messed this one up...-- xoox - sad and confused.

im am very sorry to hear this and I feel bad because i know what it feels like. IF you really like him that much build up your strength and tell him how you feel and if he really liked u that much he'll understand. Good luck and tell me how I did I can take it. :)

Q: okay so guys are like.. weird.. all of them like want sex from me and i dont want to be like no go away.. but i also wont have sex with them.. whats something i can do to try and tell them i dont want to have sex.. im not mean or anything so please dont put anything mean to say! thanks a bunch!

say im sorry but im not ready yet if there nice they'll understand.

Q: lets say there is a guy who you might want to go out with, but if you go out with him people will never leave you alone? would you still go out with him

Ive been in this position before actually 3 days ago and I did it but i like him to. ya people talked and still are but since i like him i dont care what people say. If you really like him then say yes dont be ashamed. Good luck

Q: as i have said many times before i have a crush on my best friend but she doesnt like me like that and i want to talk to her about it but its hard any advice on how to talk to her about it

i rate 5s when good advice

Everybody gets nervous when it comes to liking your best friend. you probably dont know for sure if she likes you or not but it never hurts to ask. If its easier try writing a letter. Stay srong

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HI my name is Sara and I give good advice so dont be afraid to ask. My email address is loverpinkprincess@yahoo.com. you can ask me there to. I LOVE PINK! :)!!!!!!!!!!!!