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I love green day (pretty much any punk/rock metal band, etc. I love to read, dance, write poems and songs. I love love love animals, mainly my AWESOME hairless (sphynx) cat, and my two beautiful guinea pigs! Music and Family/Friends/Pets, are my life!

Good Bands: Green day, My Chemical Romance, Three Days Grace, Breaking Benjamin, Nickelback, Avril Lavigne, and more! (I don't like girl bands, but avril is an exception)

Good Books: A child called "It", Go ask Alice, TTYL, TTFN, A Rose For Melinda, Flowers in the Attic/Petals In the Wind, Cages, I CAN'T NAME THEM ALL, I LOVE SO MANY BOOKS!!!!! (mainly sad realistic fiction)

Favorite Colors(in order)- Black, Red, White, and Green.

Least Favorite colors: pink, Pink, and PINK!!!! I HATE PINK!!

Interesting Fact: I'm a Vegatarian, I have a naturally hairless (sphynx) cat, and I've temporarily dyed parts of my hair purple quite a few times.

Any Questions? I give great advice (execpt for stupid blond girly gay questions)lol jk :)


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so these 2 girls asked me out. and i like both. wanna help me? please look at the pictures.
this is katie: http://a797.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/01007/69/70/1007270796_l.jpg
shes tom boyish. she likes to act. she does alright in school. shes good at some sports. she plays alot of instraments. shes a prude. she has a good amount of money. shes adventurous. shes always buisy. she likes ping pong and skate boarding. shes really family orriented. shes childish. she always hangs out with guys. she is well liked. she has a preppy prude boring sense of style. she always partys and gets drunk. plays xbox alot. tends to meet people on xbox live. she wears hollister and pacsun and things like that 24/7.

this is marychelle:http://a756.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/33/l_9a6daff5fbc15300da1df6b689dd5753.jpg
shes more on the girly down to earth side. shes been through a lot in her life. she loves to break the law. shes iffy at sports. but is a really fast runner. she does ok in school. shes not really prude. her family dosnt have much money. shes loud. but quite in school and around adults. shes wild. shes ussaully not buisy. shes a great dancer. she loves to swim and take pictures. shes funny. alot of people hate her cause shes straight and in the gay straight aliance. shes loud. she has a unique style. like hollister/abercrombie/hot topic/ghetto/retroish.


who do you think is a better choice?
prettier?
what do you think?
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I think katie would be a better choice, because of the characteristics, she sounds like a lot of fun, whereas marychelle is just OK. But its up to u, listen to your heart. (i kno that sounded corny lol)


hi,
i have anorexia and haven't gotten my period for about 4 months now, maybe 5 give or take. first, i was wondering if it's even possible for me to get pregnant anymore because of my loss of periods. also, i just had sex with my boyfriend. we DID use a condom correctly and he pulled out before coming. is there any way i could possibly get pregnant? i'm not freaking out it's just like my lack of periods to begin with prevents me from knowing if i can get pregnant or not. PLEASE ONLY ANSWER IF YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT!! (link)
You really need to get help for your disorder of anorexia, you can easily die from this, and its very sad. Please get help, its sad seeing people suffering because they think they're fat, when they're not. heres some pics of what will/may happen(ed) to you:

PICS OF ANOREXIC MODELS

http://www.treatmentonline.com/blog/images/218.jpg

http://www.sixwise.com/images/articles/2005/08/03/anorexia.jpg

HERES A WEBSITE:

http://www.teengrowth.com/index.cfm?action=info_advice&ID_Advice=5707





Hi. I just got my ears pierced (Yeah I know most people get thst done really young but I'm different) anywayz i read on the little leaflet thing that you have to keep the earrings they first put into your ear for 6months?? At the beggining of summer I want to know if it would be ok to just switch earrings anyway?? I got them pierced at the beggining of summer so the earrings wouldn't have been changed for 3 months (link)
Well actually you need to keep them in for 6 WEEKS, and then after that you can change them. but they muct be posts, and you have to wear posts for at least 6 months. after those 6 months you can take them out, and not have to put them back in. (well evenually your gonna have to so they don't close up) ;)


dammit , i can't find Loreal color Pulse anywhere , i tried Target , Walmart , Walgreens , ever Sally's Beauty Supply , helppp i really need to find this. thank'ss bunchie's.:] (link)
I got mine at walmart and walgreens. at walmart i found it in the clearence section too, so maybe try there. and in walgreens it should be by all the rest of the hair products. I also saw color pulse at domincks and jewel, so try there in the hair color/product section. color pulse is almost everywhere, keep looking!


ok so i'm 13/f and i like never go in my room i dont know why but i dont and i want to start going in my room more is there any fun things i can do to my room or put in my room like things to do or something??? also i'm thinking about reading more then i could read in my room is there any really good books i could start with keep in mind i'm 13 (link)
Well ttf, ttyl, l8ter g8ter, all the books from Lauren Myracle are really fun to read. I also recomend reading "a child called it" its really sad but very good, and true. there's millions of great books out there go to the library, into the teen section, thats were you'll find the best books for your age. Hope this helped!


are there any perfumes that smell like fresh laundry? (link)
Go to Bath and Body works, and get Cotton Blossom(its also body spray), it smells EXCACTLY like fresh laundry, I love it! And it's really cheap, like 5-10 dollars depending on sales. Hope it helped!


i got a kitten like a little less then a month ago and she hates me. like i lleave her in her cage b4 i go 2 skool and when i take her out to feed her or play with her she bites me and just wants to run around my room. like how do i make her like me? like how can i show her i care? also, my mom is alergic to cats so my kitty has to stay in my room all day long and she stays in her cage and she isnt aloud to get out well only out of the cage but not out of my room and my room is starting to stink how can i make it not stink and what should i do about my cat? thanks bunches! (link)
ok well first off, cats aren't supposed to be kept in a crate. Shes prabaly mad because shes living a lot of her life in a cage. How would you like it? Cats need to roam free, and expeirence new things. I feel really bad for that cat, i would give her away to a good loving family that won't stick her in a cage and a room all day. That poor cat is probably miserable. Thats why your cat hates you.


how can i get hair like her
http://a264.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/01565/36/22/1565232263_l.jpg (link)
you can go to a hair salon, and show them the picture of the girl, and they can style and cut it almost exactley the same! they can show you how to style it, and recomend good hair products to use on it.


Are you allowed to bring knitting needles on an airlplane? Why or why not? (link)
no, they're considered a weapon. maybe plastic knitting needles tho, but im not sure.


if your a vegetarian
can you eat chicken noodle soup?

sorry if this is dumb
haha. (link)
Well no you can't. Hint: key word is Chicken. Ask yourself, can vegetarians eat chicken? ohh yea, they can't, so no, you can't eat CHICKEN noodle soup. Nice try. LOL. But there are tons of other good soups that dont have meat in them and are good, just gotta find one.


For my birthday im getting a coach bag. I cant decide which one i want though :


This one :
http://www.coach.com/content/product.aspx?product_no=9353&category_id=256

orr

http://mirror.replicasi.com/productInfo.asp?MercID=2&ProdID=1931

Pros and cons of each bag would be great if you want to thanks :] (link)
The first one is WAY better, the brown and pink in the second one look really weird together, and clash weird. So I think the first one is a LOT better.


where can I find the game where the exorcist pops out and scares you? The easy version please. (link)
Try: funnyjunk.com, albinoblacksheep.com, ebaumsworld.com, addictinggames.com, gamesloth.com. (i forgot which one)


F/16
Okay me and my bf have been goin out for a year and bout six months. He has fingered me and went down on me before, but the problem is i havent done anything to him yet...besides just feel down his pants. We are goin to hang out tonight and i want to give him a hand job but i have this little scared streak in me to not do it. i know he wants me too but i'm just a little scared of what he will think. i dont know what to do. any advice helps! (link)
how about not doing anything! your only 16!!!!!


just turned 13/f. ok i live with my dad and its very hard to talk about girl stuff
plus i can't go to ANYONE else. well i really want a push up bra. not just for the effect, but also because right now the bra i'm using right now my nipple points out and its disgusting because you can see it throught my shirt.i cant go get one because there is NO ONE tht can take me. what do i do to cover it up, and i havn't started my period yet either.
plz help me (link)
You could always just go to the mall with some friends, and buy one there (he dosen't even need to know). You're dad will understand this kind of stuff, dont worry.


what foods make you poop more and what foods help you lose weight? also does running make you lose weight? (link)
walkig helps loose weight, running helps you gain muscle, and muscle weighs more than fat, so you'll stay the same, or actally gain weight, but look very toned, and healthy if you run.


Ugh I have this huge cut in ym mouth from my braces which is KILLING ME! I brushed my teeth clean and put the wax on. Oh while I brushed my teeth the brush hit off my cut so it hurt even more!

Is there anything else I can do to make it heal quicker? (link)
Baking Soda, or saltwater


on almost every tv show they beep out the bad words like fck, sh!t, asshole, dick, cock, or whatever else but why don't they beep out the word bitch? (link)
On dog shows, they would call the female dog a bitch, not a female or girl. So it's allowed because it actually means female dog, but it was turned into slang.


what are some good like pop/rock/punk songs...like fall out boy, mayday parade, panic! at the disco, wolfmother....that kinda stuff.

14/f (link)
Green Day

Three Days Grace

My Chemical Romance

Breaking Benjamin

Nickelback

All American Rejects

OK GO

and more....


13/f
okay so my skin is like, really pale. im tan, just its like my skin isnt bright or healthy looking like every body else's skin. i mean, my make-up looks good and everything when i put it on, but if you look really close to my skin around my nose and cheeks, its kind of speckly and stuff. should i just wash my face a lot and eat healthy? what should i do? (link)
ummm well u should eat healty no matter what, DUh lol sry


Okay so for the past 3 or 4 days.. i feel like i have to go to the bathroom ALL THE TIME. and i will go to the bathroom..then 5 minutes later i feel like i have to go again.. but i dont. ALSO when i stand up i feel like i have to go. but when i sit down..that feeling just dis appears... could this be something bad?? and what could it be??? (link)
ignore it, it's all in your head (when you keep thinking about it), i get like that sometimes too. It'll go away if you ignore it.




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