hey my names amy and im here to help! i'll answer all your questions as best as i can and i hope i can help! I've been through alot and i can deal with almost anything... so.. BRING IT ON! lol you can always IM me online with AIM... on YiAlNuKvEdEaS.. thanks your great! love ya!
E-mail: aimerz13@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: colorado
Age: 13
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here is my ? kinda stupid i know lol but i have a black dress and shoes for homecomin and i was wonderin what color nail polish i should wear? cuz i don't wanna wear black cuz that is 2 much. thanks for ne help i will rate u
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id pick like a red.. or a pink.. something that will stand out.. yes your dress and shoes are black.. but you cant be dressed in all black go with a color that will signify your not all plain! x0x0x hope i helped x0x0x
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ok os heres the deal this really ugly fat chick likes me right but i dont really ever wanna talk to her again so i dont no how to tell her that with out being mean ................. what should i do
from broc (link)
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Okay so you dont like her and you dont wanna give her the time in your day correct? first id make it obvious that you dont wanna be around her... dont make time to talk to her to even look at her.. ya know? ppl like that eventually rub off.. if that doesnt work ya just gotta be like hey... ya know what i dont think we get along to well and i think our personalities are very different.. maybe it would be best if we spent alot less time around eachother... ya know? i mean what else can ya say? hope it works.. love always.. ~amy~
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May 17, 2004, ((st. patricks day)) one of my best friends committed suicide. She was 13 years old. She was born on September 11, 1990. Her name was Alyssa, and she was walking to school late and she was walking on the tracks. She heard the train coming and she turned around, put her hood up, and gave the thumbs up sign to the conductor. He couldn't stop the train. Alyssa got hit and died. A month later the investigators claimed it to be suicide, which everyone already knew. She had tried committing suicide a couple weeks before that, but I had to drag her off the tracks by her hair. I had made her go see the school counselor before that and I guess she still wanted to committ suicide. The night before she was hit, she wrote R.I.P Alyssa on her and her boyfriend's bedroom wall. She killed herself for many reasons, but I only know of how her boyfriend was cheating on her and she was in a gang and family problems. She told me there was more though. I tried so hard to convince her that death wasn't the soulution, but she didn't listen. I did everything I could to help her. Anyway, I know it's long but I thought you needed to know the whole story.
So my problem is, I still haven't been able to cope with it. I cry all the time and nobody seems to understand me. I miss her so much. I've already seen numerous counselors but they haven't helped me much. I just want to know if there's any way that I could start the "healing process" or if it'll just take time. I would appreciate all the help. Thank you so much!
Love, RacheL
((xoRachel))
R.I.P Alyssa Gonzalez.. I miss you so much.
9/11/90 - 3/17/04 (link)
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rachel.. honey... let time heal things.. im sure this painfull occurance in your life left a giant cut in your heart.. but hun the cut will soon heal into a scare .. the scare is gonna hold memories of a life time.. but after time it will be easier to deal with .. i know its been long since she died.. but there enough time to fix anything.. hold on and keep going strong..... just try to realize that right now.. alyssa is in a better safe and carefree place! love you! and take care!! ask me a Q anytime!
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how do u freak dance (link)
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lol well some ppl think freak dancing is like dirty dancing... but its not.. lol thats alot of grinding and shaking your ass! lol freak dance... ummm go out there n look like a loser... lol i wish i knew
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how do u get guys to like u more (link)
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depends... try to take more interest in them find out the things they like.. talk to them when you can, yet give them there totaly and complete space... be yourself.. and dont hold anything back! be just totally cute and stay that way
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My guy best friend kissed me yesterday. i have a boy friend. but now i am having wierd feelings about both of them i dont kno who i luv or who i dont i cant even talk of look at or think about my either of them bacause i am so confused! i luv them both and dont want to hurt either ehat now? (link)
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think, have you ever had feelings for you guy best friend before this kiss??! or are you just making these feelings up ever since this kiss happened.. I mean yes you had your boyfriend and yes you loved him.... so the Q is do you really have feelings for this best friend... or do you just think you do.. a kiss can make you think alot about a different things. but it shouldnt change alot... of course you dont want to hurt either man. so its up to you! you dont live life for others.. because youll never truly be happy. love who you love with your heart.. not your mind! hope i helped
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I really like this guy lets call Him "gabe" well Ok I met him like 3 days ago well OK I met him like 6 weeks ago but we never really noticed eachother till now. well when I met him we were at a party type thing and He drove me and my friend home But he ended up staying over at her house with us and me and him were talking and stuff then all of a sudden we were holding hands next thing U know were making out and kissing and everything else at school he doesnt ignore Which is kewl U know he even kisses me and everyones like "oh you and Gabe are so cute together" Even though were not going out at all but Hes 18 and IM 14 is it wrong (link)
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omg no not at all! ya know what i think age is a fucking # and no one should tell you otherwise if you really like someone dont let age or other ppl discourage you! maybe hes your sould mate you wouldnt know... ya gotta take the chances of a life time!!! stay with who you like if youve got reasons!! hope i helped!! x0x0x0x ~amy~
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okay i feel like my friends ditch me because im not as grly as them and i like to do other stuff unlike them and i get real lonely cause i feel alone what shpout i do? (link)
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dude, dont stress this one out! if your friends need to ditch you, look around maybe there not the greatest friends out there! honestly look for some people who are like you and choose to do the things you do! sure oppisites fit well but a good match is when you can do what ya love with your good friends!! keep your head up! be who you are, if you live your life for other people your never gonna be truly happy yourself
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I have been best friends witht his guy for a long time now. he has lived next to me forever! he is a year older (in my sisters grade) i am going out with a kid that goes to school in arvada and now that i see the guys i have known forvere more like at school now i am starting to like him! i am so confused plz help me! (link)
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you cant help who you fall for and who you dont. you lose feelings for some ppl and gain feeligs for others. I mean if you got boys at your school that you really like and youll see more go for them! i mean yes you got a man in arvada you gotta decide if you wanna be with him even though you dont see him alot AND enven though you got boys at your school. its tought but you follow your heart and youll make it.
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i have this boyfriend. but hes black. i really really like him and we`ve been on and off for like a while now im just afraid my family wont approve..they arent racist they jus dont exactly approve of this kind of thing maybe because the only black man brought into out family happened to be involved with drugs and violence pleasee help me i dont want to listen to my family bcause i care for him so much isnt that what counts? (link)
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honestly girl. your like for this boy should let your parents accept him! and they should i think that you should be proud that you found someone you liked wether there black white asian native indian. anything it doesnt matter!! what matters is you like him and your family should approve! hope i helped
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okay so recently ive been hanging out with some friends that i wouldnt normally hang out with them out of school or sports. They smoke pot and they talk about ti all the time. since ive been hanging out with them i have been wanting to smoke it but i know its not the right choice. What do you think i should do? (link)
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dont smoke it... i mean if you really look at these ppl you hang out withl.. there having or gonna have long term brain problems. and trust me you dont want them! so dont smoke weed or anything for that matter! its just bad!! for you and others around you! hope i helped! x0x0x
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well.. see my ;ofe isnt really perfect or not near it my parents fite n yell at me ALL the time
and one of my best friends loves this other girl doesnt even talk to me ne more and the only good thing is my othher bbff! but ive liked this guy for 8 months! and he was single bout to ask me out wen he asked out some1 else hoo said she hated him, shes a really good friend but like ya..also on my bus r all the popular guys and u see them whisperin u kno its about u it usually is! so i hate myself i got new make up n got hiarcut and highlights n everythin just how do i get my old friends back n make my life better?! sry if its so long.. ill ratE REALLy good! (link)
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to tell you the truth , everyone goes through some really tough time like this in life! i went through um! just talk to your friends! let um know your going through alot! and you need ppl to depend on! let um know you think your friendship fell when it shouldnt have!!!! and i promise things will work out! my parents are divrosed and my step parents criticize me alot.. so yea im like cinderella... but i promise things will all fall into place!!! okay!? let me know how it goes please! x0x0x0
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Ok, well my friend is having this party this coming saturday and shes inviting her cousin. i think he's really fun to be around and stuff but all he wants to do is makeout with girls at the party. i like him, but im not into like just meeting a guy and making out. and since ive never made out with anyone, im scared. i was thinking of just not going to the party so i wouldnt have to worry about him wanting to make out. wat should i do? im 13 and hes 15. (link)
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girl.. dont ever miss out on a party from one lil guy! chances are you could meet some other hottie and end up falling in love! dont miss out on those great oppertunites! and let him know where your limits are.. if he says lets make out make it a clear no! make him know your interested but that you dont wanna make out.. he'll respect it!! please let me know how this went!!
hug$ ~N~ ki$$e$
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Hey i have a question. I basically am boiling up and i think i'm going to start flipping out soon if if the people around dont stop being so fucken annoying. Like seeing my buds vain attempts to get sleep with my lady friends. Then watching my lady friends act like they have no idea that the only reason that some guys talk to them is because they want a blow job. What can i do to stop them being so fucking stupid
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wow...umm that happens alot! maybe tell your friends to stop being so gay! i mean girls will be girls and they like attentioin.. so if there getting it there not gonna be thinkin he just wants a blow job... but you best deal is to talk to your friend.. and your lady friends.. cuz that shits not cool... thanks hope it works..
hug$ ~n~ ki$$e$
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have u ever had sex?? i don't know if i should idon't know how :( (link)
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no ive never had sex.. and it depends on what age you are and if you beleive your in love... its not really something you like know how to do! its something natural.. and if youve never heard anything bout it... find help please.. but let me know what you decide to do..
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my fashion/syle canges a lot during the week ppl are starting to make fun of poor me just because i don't have the same style as them, its mean :( signed fashion disaster (link)
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man tell um to fuck off!! its your fashion keep it the way you want it! if there gonna be mean its there god damn fault! stick up for yourself please!! thanks
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i have a big problem...my bf just got me pregnanat, im 12 and i don't know if i should tell my parents or how to tell my parents should i abort it or have it? i wouldn't be able to give my child a good life style
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wow being 12 and pregnant! im sorry thats a rip.. man i mean i dont feel that sorry for you because you made this choice knowing there could be conciquences.. but PLEASE tell your parents! its no good to keep it a secret! and they will help you decide to abort it or keep it! family counts! let um know!
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i have this friend, and she tells all these guys that she'll have sex with them. She hasnt told her friends bout this to their faces, but i found out other ways...im worried for her. What if she gets hurt!?!?
tell me what to do amy! i need you help (link)
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hmm so your friend tells guys she'll have sex with them.. and she doest tell her friends.. but you found out otherwise.... ya your friend could get hurt.. but is she really sleeping with these guys.. or just saying it! its really not that big of deal if she just says it.. shes not hurting your or anyone else.. you can try to talk to your friend to get her to stop if you think its bad.. but the best lesson you can learn is from your own mistake... hope i helped
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i just found out i have cancer...its really scary...i don't know what to do.. (link)
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wow im sorry that you have cancer.. but i cant tell you what to do! just live you life to the fullest dont let anything bring you down! and dont act or seem differnet your not a different person you just have a bad disease! but if you could do anything in the world nows the time to do it! hope i helped
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when a you go over the number of a computers megabites and then will you be able to hack into it properly through another users account? (link)
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i dont think that would work.. but ask someone else opinion.. im not too smart to know these things.. thanks
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