hey..im jus ur average 17 year old.
ive been through my share of ups and downs,havnet experienced it all yet, but i'll do my best to awnser any question you have
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Can someone define the diffrence between love and being in love...anything corny is fine! Or could you define love itself.
Oh and is it possible to find love at any age? 15? (link)
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i use the word love wen it's more of like a joy, hobby, or infatuation. Bieng in love is undefinable, it feels like nothing you've ever felt before, at first you wonder what it is, like somethings worng but it feels good. Then you figure out its love, true love is the greatest feeling you'll ever feel. I belive you can fall in love at any age, especially fifteen, thats wen i fell in love. It's crazy, but it happens. And you know your truely in love, if you love that person forever, you'll never forget about them, taht feeling you got at the begining will stay with you forever. You can't fall out of something you fell into. So i hope that anwsers your question, Enjoy being in love!!!
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ok heres the thing. I'm an "a" and im pretty insecure about it. My boyfriend says its ok and he doesn't mind and that he loves me no matter how big I am, but his last girlfriend was a "d" and i feel bad because he "down sized" so much. What can I do to become more confident and secure with myself when I am around him and in general? And what can I do with my boyfriend to make up for what I dont have? (link)
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If your boyfreind says he loves you no matter what..believe him!! You don't have to make up for what you don't have!!If he saw that as a problem he woulda never even asked you out!! be confident in yourself, wat size cup yu have doesnt make who you are!!It's all on the inside!
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i know about that i mean like...i can never seem to get myself into a situation that would have me tickling her or anything like that without me looking stupid and the opportunity being blown, i know she wants to kiss me, but i need an excuse to do it
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ok...like wen yall are at your house, or whatever your doin...just chill n whatch tv...sit next to her...get urselves close...if she seems far away at the time..or kinda like makes it ah-kwerd...then dont try...i mean i think the first kiss with someone you like has to be special..the perfect time will come..even if its not that night..i promise!But if she does seem close..then like say something that would get the thought into her head...or joke around about soemthing...and make sure ur always kinda lookin at her..and when she looks back lean in and go for the kill.Not too fast..not to slowIt's kinda hard to set up a situation...it kinda just has to happen...lol..hope im helping??
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Ok, I give advice but for once...i don't have an answer. There is this boy at my school and I like him alot, we flirt with eachother alot and talk to eachother all the time. Everybody thinks we would make an awesome couple but It only works if he likes me back. I am a kinda preppy emo gurl and he is a punk. I hang out with alot of punks and emo and skaters... how can I let him know I like him without being pushy or love dovey (haha) please help me! How can I dress or act give me everything you have!!!!! Thanks very much!
Age:13 ( a little young, but love is for everyone)
Gender:female (link)
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Be yourself, and just go for it.
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I know this guy since we were 7 years old. I think he is gay. He always talks about gay people. He always points out who is gay. He has no male friends of his own and he goes to gay clubs and claims he is just watching to see who lives a secretly gay life. He also has a lot of woman friends and gossips very much.
He dates women have no flaws. Very pretty women that look like models.He is very picky. He calls every body ugly. when i date a guy he tells me he's not that cute. I've seen cuter. Is it just me or is that something a girl would say? What do you think about this situation.? (link)
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im pretty sure ur freinds gay.or just very confused...?lol
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theres this girl i like a lot and i know she likes me and tomorrow she is coming over and its not like ive never kissed anyone or anything but i want someone elses opinion...what is the best way to get into a situation where you start kissing someone without just throwing yourself to them (link)
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hmm it depends...its always cute to start tickling her, or somethings flirty liek that till you get realli close, and just lean in and make it smooth and natural
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Well, my boyfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time on Tuesday.
I was just wondering if I should, like, shave you-know-where. I've tried shaving that hair before, but it didn't really go over so well... It was still stubbly and I couldn't get rid of that, and it was really just wierd.
I was wondering if the hair would gross him out or something... Would it? (link)
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depends on ur guy...i think you should let it grow out, then shave it...i mean every girl has problems wit it..its not the funnest thing in the world to do. But most guys that ive met...prefere it bare down there. You could try waxing...but if the guy gets grossed out, he's obvioulsy not worth your time...cuz if he realli likes you he'll take the good wit the bad...and he'll want the romantic part that comes wit sex, not the just the sex part...hope i helped!
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A couple of weeks ago I got caught smoking pot on school grounds. and Now I really regret it. Its going to fuck up everything and I completely lost the trust
of my parents. Is there anyway I could get their trust pack. Thanks
XxBrookexX (link)
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ya you'll get it back.....although from a younger persons point of view it will never feel like youve completly gotten it back...But eventually you'll get it back. But you CAN NOT screw up. Show them that you realize your mistake...and u aint gun fuck up again. Im sorry bout ur situation though...that sucs!!Hope things get better!-goodluck
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I am 17/f 220lb and like 6 foot tall, I was wondering if you think it will be posiable to lose like 50lb by august if i work out (go 2 curves) and eat right and diet? cause when i went to curves before I lost 20 lb in a month. or can you give me any good diets or things to do? thanks alot i will rate you (link)
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ya, go to curves, work hard, eat right, take care of ur body...n you'll loose maybe even more he 0 by august.
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is it okay to wear a black hat (like the french type of hats) when you're wearing a black dress, black sandals, and nude tights? and the dress is like 3 inches above the knee... (link)
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uhmm thats weird...y du needa hat??But hey man if you like it....more power to ya...
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I'm dating a guy he lives in CA I live in Tx. I'm 13 he's 15. We are in a very serious reationship. WE love each other with all our hearts, but latley I have the feeling that he just doesn't care. I'm in a stage where I just stoped cutting myself and I am in desperate need of attention, I know it may sound bitchy but I need attention from my bf. Is that a bad thing. We have been dating for about 18 months. I'm not quite sure what to do. Do I break up with him or stay with him? I'm just to confused. Someone help me
Love,
XxLovedXAndXLostXx (link)
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OK, first off, your only 13...i know it feels like you've experienced a lot. But i pomise you, you have so much more life to live. I think you should dump this guy...cuz long distance relationship never work out...it sucs but ya. Then find yourself a boy at ur scool. And i know the feeling of needing a guys attention, but you need to become content with yourself and not have to depend on a guy to make you feel good. Make sure that a guy is just a plus in your life, and not something you require to live.
-good luck
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G'day, Have you all seen the movie "Gone in 60 seconds" with angelina jolie and nicholas cage (that's the new one not the old one)?? Well remember Angelina's hair in it, it looked like dreads but it wasnt, it was curl things, im not sure. well i'm wondering what its called becos I'm thinking of doing it to my own hair. But becos I don't kno wat it's called i can't really get it done. So if you kno, could you please let me know. cheers! (link)
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uhmm...i dunnoif it has a certain name..but if you find a pic of her from that movie, then show it to a stylest i bet thay can help you out!!
hope i helped.
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i want some truley unique peices for my wordrobe! not too preppy but not to punkish. im a junior size (im 13years) so does ne one no where i can shop for these things? (link)
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ok go to a high class store...like a designer store...and ya you have to splurdge on the money a lil, but its soooo worth it.If you dont wanna go to a designer store, then go to like Guess or Express or somthin. But if all else fails...Make your own oufit...i love doin it.
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hey can anybody tell me where to find good quotes for AIM profiles and such? thanks in advance. (link)
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i love putting song lyrics in my profile...but if u want like amusing stuff..go to like...buddyicons or buddyprofiles.com...hope that works
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all my friends have boyfriends and it sucks for me because while they are all making out i sit there being bored with nothing to do cuz when my girlfriends are with their bf's they dont talk to me. i doubt some of them even like their bfs.. they just dont wanna be left out.. it annoys me so bad how they stoop that low.. i dont like any guys and i dont need a boyfriend.. but my friends are ditching me and im having boring night after boring night.. what do i do (link)
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shit man, go have fun, find new freinds, n party
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Well, i have this friend and i think she likes someone i am going out with i am starting to like this guy (before i didn't) but i don't know if she lieks him or not. She says she doesn't but i think she does. I want to tell her that i am starting to like this guy and i really wan to tell her cuz she is my bestest friend in the whole wide world but i don't know if that'd be okay to tell her and then ask her if she does like this guy.. What should i do??
Tell her that i am starting to lie this guy and then next minute ask her if she still; lieks this guy...
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Ask her if she likes the guy and then tell her ??? or if there are anymore suggestions please tell me.... (link)
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ask her if she like him, then let her no how u feel
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Happy Valentines Everyone!!
OK...well here is my question...i like this boy ok...and he is my ex but i fell for him again and all of my friends say that he flirts with me every day. I dont know what to think and what does a guy do if he likes someone? thanks a bunch...I RATE HIGH!!
__ME__ (link)
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i have no idea...guys are impossible to figure out, but the moment you do...please get back to me..i wouldnt worry about it.the day he asks u back out you know he likes u.
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Ok i am really attcracted to this one girl it's just plane crazy. But she already has a bf on her hockey team that goes to a different school. Wat should i do???? i rate 5 (link)
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get to know the chic...ask her to hang out sumtime...u never no how much she even likes her b-f.Give it a shot, and if you get shot down..at least you tried..goodluck
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ok well everytime i shave my lower part afterwards it always itches and gets red. is this normal and what do i do so it doesn't do that anymore??? (link)
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ya doode, im learning more from talking to people about it, it happens to everyone, you like have to wait for it to grow out or you;ll get razor burn...lol....kinda succy, unless you wanna go get a wax or sumthing
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My mouths been so dry i dont know waht im going to do!!!!! its bothering me so much! i tried drinking lots of fluids and using this mouth wash for dry mouth and it doesnt seem to work! ive been sick lately and breathing through my mouth if that makes a difference..does anybody have any suggestions?? thank you! (link)
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A SHIT LOAD OF WATER....ur dehydrated
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