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why do people always leave me when i need them the most? i know im there for them if they need me, but its not mutual. and its not just all in my head because they say things like "i never want to talk to you again" or "i dont have time for your drama." and i think what hurts most is that my ex boyfriend... who was my best friend is one of them. how can someone profess their love to you one day and then hate you the next? im getting older... ill be 18 soon and i feel like i dont have very many people that i can trust or even call my friend. any suggestions on if i should say something to them or not? and if i should say something... what should it be?
my only adivice is be honest. I know that I dont care when someone is honest with me wether I agree or not. I sometimes feel like no one cares about me, so I found it was easier to not expect n e one to care. You are in highschool and the bottom line is you prolly wont see very many of your "friends" for long after that. I know it seems horrible but the friends I had last year that graduated i hardly ever talk to. Its all part of growing up. And as for your boyfriend. I know a guy in the sam situation who is being mean to his ex and all the same stuff and I call him a jerk and an ass for doing it to. Its not right but its how guys act. I dunno if this helped you or not, if you want to talk mor efeel free to ask!
is it wrong for chicks to finger them self?
is ok for guys to masturbate?? Yes...then why not girls?
I'm a 16 year old girl, and I don't shave my legs or armpits on any regular basis. I'll do them for special occassions or if I'm wearing a special outfit, but most of the time the hair just doesn't bother me so I don't bother removing it. I figure that it's my body, and my time and energy that I'm saving by not shaving, but sometimes I worry that guys won't be interested in me because of this and I've got to the age where I wish guys expressed more interest in me. Should I start shaving, or should I just wait for a guy who doesn't mind me being me?
i dont shave my legs very often either...maybe once a week just if that and guys have never seemed to mind. But my underarms is a different story...i know girls who dont shave at all and they are doing ok with the guys. Just do what you want, if it makes you uneasy then shave more. If you dont care then dont.
My girlfriend & I dated for 3 years and she was the love of my life. Well, I decided to take a job that I couldn't refuse in Michigan. I wanted her to move up there w/ me, but she said she couldn't leave her home in TX. The long-distance thing was too tough, so we mutually broke up on good terms. She then started dating someone new who she was "miserable" with. After over a year of staying in touch w/ her, I moved back home. A short time later, she ended up breaking up w/ the other guy b/c she wasn't happy. Well, we started slowly seeing each other again and things were great, but she wanted to "take things slow and not jump back into a relationship" since she just got out of a bad one. So, not trying to force her into a relationship, we just hung out and did everything that a normal 'boyfriend/girlfriend couple' would do. Well, after a few months of dating each other (and me thinking that we were gonna get back together), she met and started dating a new guy! I WAS CRUSHED!!! Here was a girl who was my best friend, someone I thought I was going to marry, & the love of my life........and now she wants to date this other guy out of the clear blue?!?!?! I was devistated. She's still together with this guy.
Now, it's months later. We still talk (fairly often) via email and sometimes on the phone (I NEVER call her...she only calls me), but I'm still not over her. I truly loved her w/ all of my heart. Part of me hates her for ripping my heart out and the other part of me still loves her very deeply and wants her back. Someone told me "if it's meant to be, then she'll come back to me one day". I just don't know what to do and I need help..... Any advice?
Wow reverse that situation and I have seen it frist hand, same states and all. Like I told my friend. You gotta be honest, honesty may hurt for a while but at least you will know you gave it your best shot. If you really love her fight for her. *not literally* You just gotta be honest and talk to her about it. She may not even know how much she hurt you. I hope it works out for you!
my friend has a crush on the same guy i like but she doesnt know i like him and i dont want to tell her cuz im afraid if he finds out then we wont be like best friends anymore i really really like him and now i think that shes gonna ask him out im dont know wut to do i really like this guy!!!!!!
MaDlY iN LoVe!!!
tell her! if she gets mad at you then she was never your friend to begin with. Just talk it out, maybe she likes someone else. You never know until you ask.
ok latley i havent been able to talk to guys oh im a 13 yr old female- i just need some icebreakers see once the ball gets rolling i can talk to them fine even flirt if i wanna i just can never think of anything to say when i approch the guy which is weird cuz normaly i can so if you all could just give me some icebreakers that would be great please and thanyou
just try to go along with what the guy likes. Find out what he does out side of school and ask him about it. If all else fails tell him you like his shirt our something. Some times random works, or even just saying hi how's your day going. I have never really had your problem, seeing as I am not shy. But when I think about it thats all I really do when I talk to guys. I hope things work out for you!
Hey, well i live with my mom and my sister. { My mom & dad seperated when i was 5, now im 13 }. My mom has been qettinq me so mad lately, and it qets me so mad because ive been really depressed lately, and she just makes everythinq worse. Well i miqht have a chance to move in with my dad, which he lives like um 15 minutes away { same state, same school district }, but the only problem is, the high school i want to go to is the school i would go to where i live right now, but if i moved in with my dad, i would have to go to a different high school, and he wouldnt let me choice! what do you think i should do? Sorry if this is a little confusinqq!
ok some times the truth hurts. I know that I really dont know you situation too well, but you are only 13; right at that age where you will start fighting with your parents and be feeling like an outsider. Talk to your mom and try to work things out. If it is as bad as you say go to a counsler and ask them to help you work it out. Moving wont solve everything, if anything it will create more problems. I hope everything works out for you.
my boyfriend spends a lot of time with me at my house, but the problem is that i have a lot of siblings (they are close to my age, not much younger) and he always talks to them. he'll just disappear and hangout with them more and it feels like hes ignoring me. i dont really want to talk to him about it cuz i told him i wanted him to get along with my family so i dont want to be a hypocrite.. what should i do and is there any way that i should just deal with it?
I had this same problem with my bf and his friends, because we always hung out with them. If it really bothers you just tell him in a polite way that you really want to hang out just you and him now and then. He shouldnt get angry with you for being honest and its not being a hypocrite. I hope you work it out!
ok, this will be my 2nd vday with my boyfriend and i want this one to be extra special. i bought him a bunch of candy already, might buy him a cd and i'm baking him cookies. anyone know any cute ideas for vday? please share...thanks
thats awesome...2 v-days. Why not try asking him subtly what he really wants. I know my guy just likes it when I make him summin like cookies. Just sweet stuff that comes from the heart should do.