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I don't know how it happened but I just discovered today that it wasn't on my desktop anymore and I was sure that it was there before. How can I get it back and do you know how that might have happened in the first place?
hey trying searching your computer for recycle bin. the icon may have gotten deleted, but the actual recycle bin is still somewhere on your computer.
go to start, search and type in "recycle bin." that should do it :)
you or someone who uses your computer may have selected the icon and accidentally hit the "delete" button. it's no biggie though!
Ok, well like he has told people before he likes me, and like i said i know i like him i just cant figure out why. Like he isnt cute nd he can be a real jerk sometimes, but its so cute how he gets jealous and how he smiles everytime he sees me. And how he tries to make me happy if im sad. And he kissed my neck before and i thought i was going to i dont know what :) and he acts like hes going to bite me playfully to get me laughing, he defends me. But i cant tell WHY i like him. Lke if someone says why do you like him? i just stand there like a retard because i fully cannot answer the question because it is like hard to explain. I want you to help me figure out why i like him.
And i have another question, i dont know how true this is because i have never heard it...
Someone told me that if a guy kisses your neck and you enjoy it, that its love...
first of all, just cause a girl enjoys it when a random guy kisses her neck doesn't mean she loves him. i'm sorry but no, it doesn't work like that. you know when you're in true love when you don't need to lie or hide yourself from him and when you can talk and you feel happy when you see him. you can have the longest day and just seeing him, talking to him helps. you're not in love. being in love happens once, MAYBE twice if you're lucky in a lifetime. so i mean. your husband is your true love.
does it really matter if you know exactly why you like him or not? who cares if you don't? so what, you can't respond adequately when someone asks, "why do you like him?' just be honest & say, "i don't know exactly. i like the way he makes me feel." that's it. just being around him, seeing him (even if he's not the hottest guy ever) makes you happy and you enjoy his company. don't kill yourself over trying to figure out why you like him. it's better than being able to say, "he's hot." and that's why you like him. like that's dumb. so be thankful, actually
http://static2.thrivesmart.com/uploaded_images/business_images/0002/8869/Contact-Lens_slide_show.jpg
when im putting on my contacts like that... wont the contact SLIP? cuz it wet even when my finger is DRY.
nah it sticks a little bit to your finger -- long enough for you to get it into your eye, so no worries!
revlon colorsilk is the brand. do you like it?
i've never tried it, but it seems like it works.
http://www.google.com/search?q=revlon+colorsilk+reviews&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&aq=t&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a
http://www.icompact.com/beauty-products/revlon/hair-color/colorsilk-permenant-hair-color/
"Gals, if you are regularly spending $10 or more on a box of hair dye, you might want to check out Colorsilk instead..."
I like this guy, i know i do. But like sometimes i sit and think to myselp "why"...I can never answer it. All i get is he makes me feel...and thats it. I dont know i just cant explain it. And i dont know why. All i got is He makes me feel...
I cant debate my feelings, i have so many times there is nothing left. Matter of fact thats how i got "he makes me feel..." So please help me because i dont know.
i'm sorry sweetheart i don't entirely understand your question, but i'll try to tell you what i think.
it's okay to have a crush on a guy and not be able to explain why. you're just attracted to him. many couples can't explain with words why they love their spouse; they just do.
if you want a relationship with him, become friends with him and start hanging out with him more. maybe you'll realize you really don't want to go out with him after all if he turns out to be a jerk, or it could be the best relationship of your life!
pleasee add more information to this question so that i can help you further?
what are the best good saying to say to people when you let them know not to worry or when they having a bad or maybe sad day.
when my friend has a bad day, i first ask them if they would feel better if they talked about it because sometimes people don't want to. if they begin describing the situation, i tell them that it's not their fault and that i'm always there if they ever need someone to talk to. i let them know that things will always work themselves out, or offer a different insight on their situation. don't just say "aww it's okay" like actually get to the bottom of it and ask, "so why are you so sad about this? what would you have done differently? how will you fix it now (what steps will you take now in order to resolve the problem)?"
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does this haircolor box even work? i mean at walmart and other places its only like 4 bucks. doesnt that mean that is not gnna as good (cuz it cheap)??
tell me .
have yuu truied this product?
the link doesn't work.
but the haircolor box may not work because it's so cheap. the best product aren't $4, so i'd go for something with good reviews. try looking online at beauty websites and see their rankings
ok so to this day i am "the vigin mary" as my friends say. I have never even kissed a guy before and i am 14! PROBLEM: I am one of the most developed girls at school and a ton of guys only date me to get in my pants. But I am not willing to just give it up because I want it to be the perfect moment for me. Its monumental!! So how do I know exactly when its the right time or if its the right guy?
first of all, that is very rude and disrespectful for your friends to refer to you as "the virgin mary." just because you haven't kissed a guy at such a young age doesn't make you prude or a bad person -- you're simply waiting.
i am going to turn sixteen in a little over four months, and i have never kissed a guy. granted, i'm not more than a B breast size but you should always wait for the right guy. so don't feel pressured to get a boyfriend just cause your friends are being jerks.
second. you know he's the right one when he can have a conversation with you for 60 minutes with nothing sexual going on. just talking as in getting to know each other. he cares about you and respects you. but honestly, it's rare that girls find "the perfect guy" in high school. yes, there are such things as couples who are high school sweethearts, but at this age guys are very immature and hormonal so they're always horny, and girls just want to find their prince so they go out with them.
fourteen is a young age. you have time. don't waste your time, body or self on a boy who just wants to be lustful with you. you'll one day meet a guy who you know is right for you, but not at this time, love.
no one can say for sure how to find the right guy. most people on this site haven't found their soulmate. but you'll feel a very strong connection, and you'll be attracted to their personality, not their body.
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I got this top the other day and I was wondering if it's ok to wear to school..or is it too smart-like?
It's not dress length by the way. It's normal top length :)
What do you think? Too formal for school?
We don't have a dress code, we can wear whatever we want. I usually wear pretty tops like that but I'm not sure :P
omg NO that is way cute! pair it with a pair of skinny jeans and flats and it would look veryy cute. definitely not too dressyy or formal! girls in my school wear DRESSES to school with high heels - it's totally fine just play it down with the accessories :)
i wanna give my boyfriend a hickey but i don't know if he'd be okay with it, i dont wanna ask him thats awkward...so my question is how do i give a hickey and do most guys like it? thankss
most guys like it hahah. begin my making out with him for a few minutes and then slowly work your way down to making out with his chin and neck and then suck on his neck in a playful way (you don't want to hurt him)
i always see girls whose eye make-up looks SO pretty, but it hardly looks like they have anything on. maybe just mascara and a littttle eyeliner on the bottom. whenever i try to use only a little bit like that, it backfires and seriously doesnt look like i have hardly anything on, and my eyes look nothing like theirs and just look bad. i usually do my eye makeup kinda heavy. not overdone but it's so my eyes are played up, and even then i sometimes still dont like it. what am i doing wrong here? any tips? and dont send me to websites please, i'd love personal advice.
hey. i only wear concealer, mascara, eyeliner & blush. i have naturally really dark hair, eyelashes and eyebrows, so i think the problem might be that you have lighter eyelashes so it looks fake when you wear veryy dark eyeliner. so the girls you're looking at probably have very dark hair! i'd try going for a different color eyeliner or mascara (maybe a brown tone) to make it look less like you're wearing make-up. remember, if you have pretty eyes like blue, green or hazel, try a navy eyeliner! i hear that navy eyeliner looks really good on people with bright eyes. or if you're blonde with brown eyes, definitely go for a brown eyeliner. see if that helps!
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right yeah definitely try the navy out, girl. it should definitely work out well for you!
wats a mascara dat will make me look like im wearing fake lashes
just curious, why would you want to make it look like you're wearing fake lashes when you're not? the whole point of make-up is so that people can't tell that you're wearing it. if it's for like a play or something and you don't want to apply false lashes, ignore me!
okay "define-a-lash" in a green tube. in one swipe, you get SO MUCH mascara it makes it look so big & fake! hahaha but make sure you curl your eyelashes before you apply the mascara so you get more volume :)
or so i've heard. if it IS true, can anyone tell me the best toothpaste to use? and how long it'll take till my acne is gone? :/
no. toothpaste does not cure acne. however, if you have a stray pimple, it supposedly helps it dry faster, which is true.
if you have light, moderate, or severe acne, you need to get actual medication FOR acne. the toothpaste thing, as i said, is only meant for one or two stray pimples for people with consistently clear skin.
Im fifteen, female. Just got held back for various health reasons so Im in the ninth grade again.
Ive had three boyfriends; one in elementary school and two in middle. They all either deny it, ignore me, or dont say it counts. Whatever. But Ive never kissed a guy!
Lottts of people say Im just absolutely adorable and I have to agree :]
im sooperpetite, smiley, give great hugs. But I feel like a total wallflower. Probably am.
Anyways. Im not totally shallow but I can be stereotypical and guys have asked me out,just not great looking ones.
Well when I get my next boyfriend, Im afraid to kiss him. I want it to be both of our firsts just for that extra little spark I guess :]
But I also want a greaaat guy thats just as simple as I am.
Is there such a boy as that? At all? Do you think Im being too picky? Gosh. Opinions, please.
no, sweetheart. every girl wants to meet her prince and you're definitely not being too picky. picky is, "i want him to be 5'4" with hazel eyes and blonde hair and he has to wear a lot of abercrombie and he has to have dimples..."
there is a boy for every girl out there, and so yes there is a boy like that :) but you have to remember that the guys you end up getting will never be PERFECTLY as you imagined. just be open-minded but keep your standards high
i curl my eye lashes after i put on mascara cause it looks really good but my eyelashes get stuck to the curler...is that normal? is it bad for my lashes?
it happens to me too.
you have to curl your lashes BEFORE you put on the mascara. if you put on too much mascara, your lashes might get heavy and straighten out again, but i learned from experience that if you put on one stroke & let it dry and then put another stroke & let it dry, it stays curled because it's a lighter coating of mascara.
yes it's bad for your lashes cause a lot of them can get pulled out :(
I have naturally curly hair, and it's pretty thick too but I get it thinned... anyways I was curious- would it work for me to get bangs? I have a big forehead so I think that would help that, but curly hair and bangs doesn't seem to work together, ya know?
http://www.fashion.sniperslive.com/hair-care/curly-hairstyles/
that's kind of what my hair texture looks like. thank you for any input :D
of course it'll work!
here try bangs like this though so they don't become part of your hair. and style your bangs separately than the rest of your head!
http://images.starpulse.com/Photos/Previews/Beyonce-Knowles-sb01.jpg
but who says curly hair & bangs don't work together?! lots of girls i know scrunch their hair (i know it's not the same exact thing, but curly hair) and then style their bangs so that it's smooth and straight. it looks GOOD.
Has anyone seen this movie?
Is it good or not?
I want your opinions on it!
Thanks :]
it wasn't good :(
http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/bucket_list/
"41%"
I didn't know what category this would go into so I guessed, hope I got it right.
Anyways, I have a problem, atleast I think I do.
I ughh laugh to much. It doesn't sound that bad, just a happy kid. The thing is, I'm not happy :|.
If I fail a test, I laugh. I was about to fail math, I laughed. If someone shows me alot of emotion and starts to cry, I laugh.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not mean. It seems like it buut, I can't help it, I laugh to cover up things/feelings.
My friends if they cry infront of me they know by know that I don't do it to be mean, they understand.
Just, I don't. And, neither would other people.
I don't find when people are upset funny, espically the people close to me. It's just automatic reaction.
So, tell me, Am I screwed up?
no. you probably just do it out of nervousness because your body isn't sure how else to react. when you feel the urge to laugh at an inappropriate time, then think of the most SAD thing you can and try to concentrate on it. or maybe you just need to laugh it ALL out. like hang out with a few friends and just laugh it alll out. i know when i don't laugh for a long time, it builds up and i start cracking up at the worst times. so try those two
i am always scared with doing touch ups because itmight turn out ugly and not right or lighteror darker than the rest of my hair
so what do i do with my ugly roots/
go to a hair salon & get it done. it'll be worth the money.
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she probably went to a crappy salon.. go to a good one, like depasquale.
my roots are black and the rest of my hair is brown when i dye my hair home will it be perfect shade like all over my head or the brown part will be lighter? i want it even
if not, HOW CAN I MAKE IT EVEN?
most-likely, it will be even, but if you're worried, just concentrate more on your roots and do touch-ups often! it should turn out fine though