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my name is hannah! i'm a sophomore and i love life. i'll give you the best advice i can give.

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13/F

I'm emo. I go by the labels in my skool so deal with it. Well, I hear we should waer gith black jeans and cut ourselves. I don't like tight jeans, they make my ass look bigger than it already is, hahaha. And I can barely handle a shot at the doctors place, hahaha, so I can't do either of those things. I don't have to do those things, do I? Don't talk to me about don't cut yourself, I already know that. But I want to know, do I have to? Because, emo means emotional. (Dictionary) Obviously I'm emotional, weirdos. (didn't mean it in a rude way, just proving a point) Can yawls help me???? ^/_\^

wow
first of all emo doesn't mean emotional. it's a type of music [emotive hardcore]. if it meant emotional everyone would be "emo" because everyone is/can be emotional. so why don't you try being yourself? dress how you like and deffinantly don't cut yourself or be something your not to fit into a label. stay true to yourself.

Okay so i was sitting next to my friend and she called me fat but she wasway fatter then me and i dont know if im fat what should i do?

if you really think you are go here, it'll tell your BMI

http://www.healthatoz.com/healthatoz/Atoz/tl/cl/bmi/bmi.jsp?UserSource=google&Campaign=TOOLS&AdGroup=BMI_CALC&LinkType=search&Creative=01&KeyWord=bmi

Can anyone suggest soft foods?
Here's the story:
My mom's molars on both sides are screwed up. Like the top ones are angeled outwards while the bottom ones are angeled inwards. So she can't really chew and ends up like hurting her gums as well. Her right molar on the bottom was hurting so at the dentist, they did "surgery?" on her molar on the right. I don't know. They did something and there are 2 parts? Well, they can't do the last half of the surgery until sometime in December because the dentist is booked until then. If she's lucky, she'll get it done sometime next week. But anywhos, before that time, she can't eat (Right is the one that she got the surgery on and the left, she can't chew with because it hurts as well).

She's like living off of the Ramen things, porridge, and fried eggs. What are some healthy, soft foods? We're Asian...if that helps =P. I was thinking of like mash potatoes, but I don't know if she'll like them much. Anyways, soft food suggestions that will fill her up???

thanks!

yogurt, soup without hard/big chunks, oatmeal, bananas, smooth peanut butter sandwich, soft canned vegetable or soft well cooked vegetables, macaroni and cheese, tuna fish sandwich, pancakes with butter to soften them, peaches without the skin, jello, sherbet, pudding, smoothies, overcooked white rice with any flavoring over it, cottage cheese, tofu, refried beans, spam, crab cakes

hope that helps!

So, i am considering geting my industrial bar piercing..I have regular cartiledge piercing and i was wondering if anyone has their industrial and how the pain is and how it compares with the regular cartiledge piercing

I have the piercing but not my cartilage but the industrial is basically in your cartilage so i don't think it's hurt much worse you know? I don't think I have a very high tolerance to pain and I didn't think it hurt too bad at all. if you do get it done don't think about the pain jut think about how it'll be done with in like 30 seconds and then you'll have an awesome piercing! thats what i did and hey it worked!

Hey I am trying to become the ultimate player, boyfriend, whatever you wanna call it. I could use some advice and please spare no details. The more info you give the better. Try to cover all the bases like clothes, personality, and anything else you can think of. Thanks.

yeah i'm not sure why you'd want to become a player either. girls don't like cheaters. why don't you try being yourself?

ohkay so im a girl of course haha and im turning 14 im going to have a party but i need to know what songs i should have for my party, and also to know if you think its bad to have just a boom box but not a dj. thanks guys!

i don't think it's bad to have a boom box. what i'd do is make like a ton of mixed cds with all differnt kinds of music. like 90's or even some 80's and ofcourse some current music, whatever you like too.
if you don't know how to make mixed cds just find a friend or someone who does.

hope that helps! =]

So I left this guy, who I know is totally wrong for me, and I know that I'm better off. But I still love him, and I can't stop think about him, and I just miss him so much. I cry all the time. What do I do to get over this guy? I know I have to, but it's just so hard. All this emotions are killing me..

honestly it just takes time. you can't make yourself get over him. it's good that you know he isn't good for you, so don't go back to him. just take some time and eventually you'll get over him. the same thing happened to me and now i'm totally over it and didn't even know what i was thinking.
oh and boys are not worth your tears!

hope i helped :]

-hannah

hi im 13 and im aloud either my tragus (the litle stickin out bit in the middle of your ear)or the top of my ear done and im not aloud any more or both until im 18 . loads and loads of people have the top of their ear done in my class and i dont know anyone else with a tragus peircing? what do you think??

i know this is an old question but heres another piercing for the top of the ear. it's called an industrial it looks like this:

http://s107.photobucket.com/albums/m281/CookiiMonstrr/?action=view¤t=industriala.jpg

i have it done and i loveeeeee it

:]

15/f

ok. i guess i sitll kinda am a little girl in some ways. i mean. that game webkinz? i like love that game. and i still like playing school occasionaly. [only in the winter though] but like, im not immature. like i dont go talking about how i got a new webkinz or something. and i dont like, act like a little girl. i mean, its just stuff i do when im bored. so is that bad?

i mean, like it doesnt affect my personality with friends and stuff. im just really girlie. i guess.

i don't think it's bad. who really cares if it's not effecting your personality or snythign and you only do it when your bored anyways.
like the girl said below everyone a little kid at heart :D

I'm considering to audition for my school talent show but i'm still debating about it.

All my family tell me I can sing, and try and encourage me but i'm still really unsure.

Btw, I'm not on here fishing for compliments, I want people to be comepletley honest with me;

So If you could listen to this and tell me what you think it would be much appreciated..

http://www.fileden.com/files/2007/3/25/924288/Emergency.wav

(It's a rough recording of me singing emergency by paramore.)

thankyou.
xxoxoxox

i think it's pretty good! you should just go for it but i agree with the person below too. you need more breath support. if you have a choir in your school maybe you could ask the teacher to help you with it, it could really help you improve!

good luck!!

Is it weird for a 9th grade girl to date an 8th grade boy? I rate and thanks so much!

i don't think it's that big of a deal. if you like him go for it, it's only a one year difference.

I would like your opinion. I have been with my husband almost 7 years, married 3. We love each other very much I know. But the first year of our marriage he became involved with his employee. He also admitted to me he was 'obsessed'. I don't know the extent of their relationship but they worked in a bar that allowed them to spend hours together late into the night. I know he would even puposely schedule her to work nights they'd be together.
During their relationship I found numerous photos of her on his pc, disk drive, and cell phone. He knows how much it hurt me and it almost cost us our marriage. A year ago he told me it was completely over and after that she quit her job.
It's been almost nine months since I know of him seeing her and we dont talk about her but recently I found several more photos of her on his computer. Do you think he keeps them for memories, thinking i'll never find out. I know they were not there nine months ago. Should I confront him and dredge up the past or leave it be and continue to hurt in private?
I think about this several times a day and sometimes cry about it.
I welcome any advice you can give. Please reply to my e-mail, I would appreciate if you not post this anywhere. Thank you.

age: 24

you really should talk to him about it. if you don't now, it'll build up and one day you'll just explode about it. that won't be good for anyone. he shouldn't have those pictures anymore either, thats just crap. i hope everything works out for you =]
good luck,

-hannah-

ok im in tears .... idk why its just getting to me now ; but me and my boyfriend have been dating aLmost 7 months now . im in Love with that boy & hes my everything . over the summer i cheated on him with the boy he hates most ''/ i feeL so bad , i HATE my seLf so much for it - the one thing i have in Life that means so much to me i fuck it up with my stupidity . im so scared to teLL him because he toLd me he wouLd break up with me if i cheated on him ''/ id literaLy be crushed i dont know wat to do

i cant keep this inside anymore ... N0 one knows & i wana teLL him so bad but nothing good can come out of it ''/

pLease heLp & this is serious .

okay, if you feel that way you need to tell him. just sit down with him and tell what happened and how you feel about it. but really if you love him as much as you say you do you wouldn't have cheated in the first place..

good luck =]

Ok so I know this sounds gross, but I sweat a lot. Like when I'm nervous, excited, hot, or even cold! Does anyone know of any deodorant that works really good and smells good too? Something that I can put on every morning and not have to worry about seeing sweat stains on a grey shirt. Thanks soo much!

and by the way, 15/f

same exact thing happened to me. i started using Secret Clinical Strength the light and fresh scent smells really really good. it totally helped me, but it takes about a week to start really working [what i noticed anyways] follow the directions and it should help you! i loveeee it!

hope it helps!

:D

what are muffin tops ? and is it sexy

muffin top happens when your jeans are too tight and the extra flab hangs over them.

no it's not sexy at all.

=]

soo..today is my birthdayyyy! and im going with a bunch of friends to fright night and my boyfriend and all of his friends are coming with us. im pretty sure my bf is going to kiss me tonight and im really nervous because i dont have any experience and he does. help please!!

awww haha don't worry about it! relax! it all comes naturally, have fun!

oh and happy birthday

=]

-hannah-

i'm 15/f, 5'5" and 130-135 pounds. I'm pretty athletic and have plenty of muscle, so i know i'm not fat, but i can't make myself stop over eating! I'll be fine all day and then when i get home i eat way too much for dinner and dessert. I feel sick, but for some reason i have no will power to stop!
please give me tips on how to stop
thanks

try drinking a full glass of water before you eat. the water will make you more full before you eat then your most likely to not over eat

i hope that helps you! =]

-Hannah-

15/f
since i was 7 i've had these constant zits in my T-Zone but i only have a few on my cheeks. I've tried all of the oil-free face washes... Then i stopped using those and now i only put white dove soap and normal clearasil on my face. My acne seems to have increased since I made that change.

What products will get rid of worse-than-normal but not horrible acne?

ps: i have super oily skin but I don't want a product that will dry my skin out.

please only reccomend stuff that you personally have tried. (or at least know someone who it's worked for)

i use neutragena soap and this zit cream i found at the Dollar General. it's called Dr. Sheffields Zit Cream. it works good. i've also used this stuff called Terminator cream that worked good but made my skin supppper dry so if you try that make sure you get a skin moistureizer. also for the oily skin start drinking a few bottles of water everyday. i did and it really helped my oily skin

hope i helped!

-hannah-

my dad insists that i be in bed by 10:30 on school nights. im 16 and i think this is rediculous. of course i can never fall asleep at 10:30 because thats too early so i normally just watch tv until 1:30 when i can fall asleep. he doesn't know this. he thinks i just go to bed and occasionally when he opens my door and i have the tv on he yells at me. i feel like a little kid. how can i convince him to let me stay up. it's not like i'd go to bed at 1:30 on a school night but he won't even let me stay up until 11 or 11:30. he over egsagerates about everything. if its 10:35 he'll complain because "it's 11 o'clock already and you're not in bed" there's a half an hour difference there buddy. please help me convince him because this is just rediculous.

honestly i don't think it's a big deal. he jsut cares and wants whats best for you. you'd probably feel even better if you did go to bed at 10:30. i'm 14 and i go to bed at 9 and i understand. and if you stay up til 1:30 watching tv whats the big deal?

so my friend is really worried that shes fat and shes not. but she doesnt want to throw up everything she eats but she is trying to. but i know that if she knows what to do then she will not want to do it? how do you?

just don't do it.
i'm going through it right now. it's not a happy scene. right now i'm actually scared because of it. it's not worth it. just please tell her not too. just google the stuff that'll happen to you in the long run from bulimia and you won't want to start.

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