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Okay do I'm bi. I'm sixteen and I'm a girl. I know I like girls but I wanna know how do I get one to like me if they're like that and how do I find out if they are? (link)
You can never tell by a person's appearance...... most of the time. Leave a note on a desk saying "Bi or lesbian?" If people sign their names, there ya go.


13/m

ok so i met this girl through one of her other friends and as soon as we met we really hit it off.now we both like each other, and this afternoon im going over to her house for a while, and im going to ask her out (we've already kissed and stuff). now one of my friends we'll call mitchell gave this other guy we'll call adam her email address n they were talking on msn, and i used to be best friends with adam about a year ago but he started being a real ****head so i stopped talking to him. well mitchell told me that adam he started cracking onto her, now i know that he knows i like her, and im worried that she might start liking him instead, but im pretty sure that she won't,
now my question.. what could i do to make her stay with me, and not pay attention to adam, should i tell her how i feel about him? or something like that.

i really like her

thanks (link)
Tell her that you love her. And tell Adam to lay off her. If these things don't work, kill him............ .> You didn't hear it from me...


Okay so 14/f
I have known this guy Dillon since Grade 3. and in grade 7 he asked me out but I wasnt ready to be more then bestfriends. So now this year, in Grade 9, he said we could see where this year takes us and we could maybe date. well its pretty much in the middle of the year, and I really really like him. and I have health and career with im and im trying to sit with him more. these are the signs I get from him:
Makes eye contact
Looks at me a lot
Laughs at what I say
Smiles & blushes
Tryes to make convorsations
And when Im outside of the school him ad his friends alway look at me and me and my best friend swear they talk about me.

So my question is.. Does he like me!!!? And if he does how can I get him to like me more, I make him laugh I make eye contact with him, I smile and blush. I dont know what elese to do! I feel like I have tried everyhting adn he stil lwont ask me out!? :( (link)
You ask him the hell out! He OBVIOUSLY likes you. I do that to the girl I like. ASK HIM!


for christmas along with a present im gona try and make my boyfriend a cd. i can do singing, guitar and piano for it by just recording each seprately and overlapping them. i taught myself how to do all three and im not good but im not bad. he loves metal music and pink floyd and journey type music so i wont do too girly of a song but maybe like parachute or evanescence? im 15 and a girl with a lower but not to low girl voice. what are some bands and songs that my voice could better match? (link)
The Unforgiven III, By Metallica.


19-female. I think I made a mistake and I honestly don't know how I can fix it. So i'm going to say first off - don't tell me not to do anything, etc. I am 19 years old, I do make good decisions but I just need advice on one thing! So please just answer the question without the preaching. :) I'll return the favor since it may be long ..Thanks!!

So i've had a crush on my friend for about 3 years now. He's honestly the only guy that I can trust. Me and him, we're both attractive to each other, its apparent and we have messed around before if you want to call it that, he's felt me up before .. we flirt nonstop like physically we just have fun with each other but about two years ago is when he first tried really getting with me, like going down my pants and I was like woooaah, it just caught me off guard and so I didn't let him because that was just my first instinct. Me and him basically talk about sex all the time, well when we text it occasionally gets thrown in there somehow! and he's the one who usually brings it up but I feel like he only thinks i'm a tease but i'm not. I was talking to my friend about it and I was like seriously, I NEED him like sexually .. I want to have sex with him and I know he would do it with me but I don't know how to bring it up. She was like... just text him and say FU*K ME!! But I just can't see myself doing that?? And I don't know if he would take me seriously either, because he doesn't think i'd go through with it but I WOULD. What should I do?? How would you go about it? What can I text him saying that would be hot/sexy and make it known that I really do want him?? I can't stop thinking about it.. (link)
Invite him over, and get things hot & heavy in your room. Don't let him get away. Then have fun.


So I am fourteen years old, female, and freshman at my high school. I have never had a boyfriend and I don't even think that any boys have really liked me :| I would love any ideas on how to talk to more boys maybe? Or just getting more attention, different styles maybe? Not to be desperate, but i just feel like all my friends have these great relationships and I'm stuck with nothing.

Please and Thank You!!

MyssLyss:) (link)
There's loads of stuff that we like in girls. :) Sorry if I was rude. Ummm, talk about likes & dislikes. Movies, food, music, whatever! Share common interests with guys. Stuff like »that«.


heyy 14f

Well, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now. We are a great couple and i haven't felt this way about someone before. I'm very lucky to have him...well i only have two days this week and i was thinking about giving him my bracelet to wear..you see he'll be moving soon and i want him to have something to remember me by...my friend said its a good idea..her bf gave her one...with his cologne...so i was thinking about giving it to him...its not girly its just a plain purple jelly braclet...i saw him wear one to but with a different color. if i should what kind of perfume should i spray on it? hah (link)
Give him something he'll remember you by. A bracelet, no offense, will be forgotten on a dresser. Give him a locket or a framed picture.


my boyfriend and i are both 18. we've been together about a year. we're both virgins and saving sex (any type) for marriage. we're pretty serious, and hope to marry someday. recently, we got caught kissing by my younger sister. my boyfriend had picked me up and i had my legs around his waist and we were making out. we also got caught while i was sitting backwards in his lap making out. our parents are concerned about us. we have boundaries and won't pass them but they don't trust us. our dates usually consist of laying on the couch in my room watching movies or just talking. my parents come in and out a lot, and freak out if they catch us doing anything. what can we do that will help us still have time to kiss each other and not be caught? we're not doing anything bad. we just love each other. i want to please him like that, but we have agreed that our first time will be on our wedding night, no matter who we marry. what kinds of kissing or kissing positions that will feel good for both of us? any tips on that? or not getting caught? this is confusing. i apologize. we're absolutely desperate! i want to make him happy and this is putting a big strain on our relationship. (link)
My advice is to just kiss in front of your parents ALL OF THE TIME. If they get used to you kissing, yay. If they don't, show them you ain't daddy's little girl anymore.


Hey ok i know this is very steryotypical but i am i emo girl and mah frinds say im a goth and i try to tell them goth and emo are totally differnt.... arent they... could u give me the differnt of the two or like a deffinition of each???? thanks!! (link)
Ok. I'm a goth, and I do NOT worship the devil. I am an Athiest. But anywhoo, Emo: Some black clothing. Tight clothing. Loves music(not neccecarily screamo). Maybe cuts themselves. Goth: Hardcore, death-metal black. Barely any other colors showing. We like to wear makeup and chains. I wear rings. Not neccecarily suicidal. Both: Depressed (if you're true goth/emo). Likes to be alone. Likes music.




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