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I'm single but I have gone through tough relationships so I can help anyone on that field...


I'm a tracky and I love soccer and most of my close friends play diffrent sports... so sport questions I can help with...


I have awesome friends but we have had our tough times so friendship problems, I know almost all...


I'll tell you straight out what I believe whether good or badd... but I try to be as nice as possible... I answer any type of question...


I'm a Junior in high school... which means I'm in 11th grade for those who don't have any special names and such... i'm 16 since july 9th


Im me on my screenname if you really need help with something that takes further more talking on... or you can just im me to talk... I'm me... xoxoxo


~Gomesy #11~

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I have a friend that has been drinking and stuff. I've told her not to but i know she doesn't care. And now everybody is all like yeah i drink a lot and i've gotten drunk and smoked that. It seems like everybody smokes and drinks! it's crazy we're all still young! I don't do that kind of stuff and I feel weird like ppl think it's no big deal drinking and i say it's wrong and they think i'm weird. I'm so confused! does everybody do the drugs? i'm not going to start doing them but should i still speak up and say they're wrong?

NOT EVERYBODY DOES STUFF LIKE THAT!!!... good that your not going to do it cause people are... my friend is like that too... she is hanging around ppl like that... don't do what you dont want... they are totally wrong and the only person you should be concerned about is you... but talk to your friend and such... tell her how you feel... true friends wont judge you they will listen...

"Do what you want, not what you feel you have to do" ~Gomesy

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i would like to be able to stop my period in two weeks because my boyfriend will be visiting me.what do i do?

IT FUCKING SUCKS TO BE A GIRL!!!... sorry to say but you really don't have any choices but to wait until next time... it sucks i know but u have to deal... tell your guy that your not in the mood... hopefully your relationship isnt based on sex and shit like that... hope i helped...

Gomesy

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My friends and I are trying to get this one boy from my classical music class to start to appreciate rock music and rap music, pop music etc. He isn't responding to most of it and is giving answers to rap music like, "You don't know what he's saying!!" Is there an easy way to introduce him to this type of music?

I use to be the type of person who only liked rapa nd rap only... but my friend got me into rock and such... just make him a mix cd and let him get into it... if he likes it than he will.... give him time... he will get it... hope i helped

Gomesy

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i got this pink dress for my semi [[ more liek 3 shades of pink, light lighter and dark,it has sparkles and diamonds and its a halter ]]..and i dont know whether to wear black shoes or silver (more like light gray..) and i dont know what kind of jewelery to wear.. since its a halter i dont know if i should wear a necklace or anything..please help! x0ox

Sounds like a hott dress... you should wear a falling necklace or even a nice chocker.... if you dont it will look plain and as shoes go... whatever looks better... i would wear white but if the grey are lite than wear thouse but black goes with almost anything so u can always try those... ask one of your friends who can see you with the dress and shoes on...

Gomesy

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I am a 15 year old female. There is this boy i really like and he flirts with me and i flirt back. He pokes me all the time and makes fun of me and everything. He went out with one of my friends but they broke up in January and only went out for a week. What should i do?

Going out with one of your friends ex isnt always good... first thing is check with your friend and see if its cool... make sure... and if ts alright with her than make your move... ask him to hang out and see if yah really like him, if it works than it works, maybe your friend was ment to find him to get ur attention so he could end up with you... love works in crazy ways

Gomesy!!

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I'm in a long distance relationship and am only 18. I believe deep in my heart that this person is my future husband, but how do I keep it strong with being so far apart? We really love eachother however, things are just getting difficult between work and school. Any suggestions?

Even though i'm 15 i have been in a love distant relationship... i know how you feel... you guys sgould talk about it... but if you guys love eachother than you will have probems but your love should help you guys in the end... and since you guys don't see eachother all the time than atleast you know you guys love eachother for personality and not for looks... because maybe you do for looks to but i bet u guys talk more than you guys do anything physical... none of my buisiness... just see if your love can last... hope i helped ease(sp?) yah mind

Gomesy!!

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hi, i am a sophomore boy and i have a crush on a freshman girl in my basketball class. i have had a lot of aim convos with her, many in person convos, and ive called her twice. i hear she has a bf and apparently, theyre in love. i dont want to be a third wheel or anything, and im sure shes not slutty or anything. what should i do? ive tried keeping low and playing hard to get, but it doesnt seem to have any positive effect, so im talking to her online and a little bit in person. should i ask her out (not ask her out to be my gf, but ask her to hang out) or what?

Its good you don't want to ask her out to be a grlfriend but as a friend... always a good thing... you should ask her to hang out... but make sure she knows you want to hang out as friends and not as anything more... because maybe if you guys start to hang out and she will maybe realizes your the guy than she will fall for you... take chances

Hope i helped

Gomesy #11 (soccer)

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Well everytime i go some where like walking around my neighbor hood or driving in my car all these guys stop and look at me! its really starting to make me mad. I was walking home from school and this guy stopped and asked me my name and stuff. and just today a car full of guys stopped and asked me to come over to them its really gettin on my nerves. i dont dress slutty or any thing i just wear jeans a a big shirt or shorts and a long shirt. how do i get them to stop!

GUYS... CAN'T LIVE WITH THEM... CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT THEM... but these guys aren't very good guys.... you must be pretty so be happy bout that... just ignore them and if things are gettng to out of hand then always try to walk with someone... hope i helped as much as i could....

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I have always had this crush on a boy named Riley and so has my friend Anna. But then I realized that Riley was to young, so Anna and I gave up on him. But now, I have a crush on a boy named Camden, and I didn't tell Anna because I didn't want her to "win" him. One day, I went to go get a drink in the hallway, and I came back into the classroom, and I saw Anna FLIRTING with Camden! CAN'T I LIKE ONE SINGLE VOY WITHOUT ANNA BARGING IN! I know Camden doesn't like me, but it's worth a shot. Does anyone know how I can "win" guys without friends stealing them?!

I SOOO KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!!! Ihave one friend that i love to death but she always gets the guys i like... what i did is talk to her about it... when we finally talked seriously she stopped... you should invite Anna over one night and have a great time and such but at one point in the night sit her down and sit across from her and hae a serious talk.. make sure it is serious, and if she really listens she should get the picture,.... hope i helped

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ok...
i like this guy..and he likes this grl...he acts like he likes me..hes my friend though..((hard to explain))
but the girl doesnt like him
((i dont think))
i dont wanna ask him out cause hes my friend
and im a little jelouse but i dont kno wut to do...and my friends are all being ass holes...and this year((skool year)) f**king sucks!!
a$$
and i have cut before but i hate doing it..call me emo..i dont give a flying FU..CK

LIFE FUCKING SUCKS!!! But there is always people here to make it worthwhile. You should ask him out or atleast ask him to hangout... he wont know the diffrences..test your relationship and see how far ur feelings for eachother is... maybe if he is the one life wont be a fucker anymore

TEST IT OUT!!!

hope i helped

~GOMESY!!

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ok, my birthday is in 5 days and my mom usually asks all her kids what they want and where they want to go out to dinner for their birthday. well, she didn't ask me anything yet and she forgot 2 years ago and i think she forgot again =/. i feel like she doesnt even care and i've tried to hint to her that i actually have a birthday unless i'm delirious and its not april 21st today?

hopefully your mom hasnt forgot it... maybe she is planing a surprise party... shhh i didnt tell you... but seriously if it is like cuple of ays before and she says nothing you should maybe stop and hinting and be like mom what is in ___(days till your birthday here) and if she doesnt say anything or is like "idk" than just tell her straight out... hope i helped

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Well this is so random but my dad is my soccer coach and when ever we are at practice and i say daddy he says i am not gunna respond to that call me coach.. and i get really sad

i play soccer to... been there and i hated it to... me and my brother have... you just have to talk to him... tell him how you feel... cause if you don't than he will never know... and that doesnt work than you always can tell someone who is close to you about it... mom, sister, or even a brother or any close relative... hope i elped

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hey i'm a female and i'm 14 yrs. old and this guy that i've been really good friends with since i was 11 has been flirting with me and we did some stuff the other day. I don't regret it at all i mean it wasnt that bad but my friend has asked him if he likes me and he said he thinks i'm really hot but we've been friends too long. I can't let this go though because i dont have many guys liking me and he has never cheated on anybody and he would be the perfect boyfriend. He's really hot and i like him so much. My problem is that we've decided to just be friends more than once before but we always get together and flirt and do stuff and this happens all over again what should i do?

Luv,

~Very Emotionally Confused~

You should defiantly talk to this guy. If you guys are so close of friends and you guys ave these feelings than the next step on coud think of is going out. If you guys really like eachother that you should try... and if it doenst work and if you guys have such a strong bond than ur friendship will never end... it happen to me.... hope i helped

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For the last few days a bunch of boys in my class have been looking at me funny. At first I thought that I mite have had somthing weird on my face or maybe my outfir looked redicules to them. Then they all started talking to me. Not at once, but boys would come up to me all threw out the day and talk to me. This one boy even said that his best friend (one of the boys who wouldn't leave me alone) had a crush on me. I didn't belive him. Another one, was always trying to make me laugh, anouther one was always starring at me. The boy I have a crush on is really cool and always talking to me too. I can tell he has a crush on me. I think all the other boys have crushes on, and it really freaks me out!!!!!! A bunch of girls have been giving me the cold shoulder, or being really mean. My crush is my best friend too, and we are always together, some stupid boy calls us the love birds. I really don't know what to do. Should I just stay away from all boys in general.

If you like this kidd than go for it... dont let these guys or girls ruin ur days. Maybe if you and this kidd get serious these guys willleave you the hell alone... lol... hope my advice brightens up ur day

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