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anyone know any good quote sites like with love quotes and stuff other than wittyprofiles. please and thank you

www.buddy4u.com
www.xanga.com
* type quotes in the blogrings section.

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Ever since summer started- I've been sleeping in until at least noon everyday and going to bed at like 1am. I'm really sick of doing this. I always feel like I'm wasting my day when I do this. Its really annoying and I would just like to know if anyone had any ideas on how to get up earlier and how to possibly make myself go to bed earlier.

Thanks!

What I do when I want to go to bed earlier is; ask your mom, dad, or older sibling if they'll wake you up at around 11. You'll be a little more tired at night and fall asleep earlier. After a week, ask them to wake you up at 10. Keep going earlier until you like the times your falling asleep and waking up. This would also work with an alarm clock if you'd like.

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The only thing i wear for make-up is mascara. I dont know why i just never really use anything else. What could be some make-up i could use that would look good?
my cloumn is: http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=fabulous11
if you want to see a picture

thankss :)

I think you look really pretty wearing just mascara but if you want to wear more makeup, try some black eyeliner but don't overdo it. Maybelline Unstoppable eyeliner works great!

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how do you stay so skinny?
this question is really towards those skinny,
emo guys, who wear those skin tight jeans.
i mean i wish I could do that
with out looking insane.
so tell me like do you eat something special
dont eat at all?
or what?

Well, I'm a girl so I probably can't help you too much with this, but I can give you my opinion.

I personally don't like when guys wear skinny jeans, but if I had to pick I would pick the fatter guys in them. When wicked skinny people wear skinny jeans, I think it looks terrible.

And most of the guys I know that are super skinny eat more than like three people. It's just their metabolisms. You should just start going to the gym and lifting weights and stuff.

Good luck :P
Let me know how everything works out.

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my dad abuses me. mentally and emotionally, sometimes even beats me. i have asked this question before. i have gone to all the hotlines on the internet, but i am scared to tell anyone.
if it helps, my dad was beat and touched by his parents. it has been going on for....4 years maybe. well hes done it all my life, but not this bad. he makes fun of me all the time, so does my stepmom. i live with my dad, but im going to try to go to court to live with my mom. please help me.

Like the others said; you have to tell someone. You probably don't want to but its only going to get worse from here. Spend the night at a close friends house and if you can trust them and their family, tell their parents the situation and ask them what you should do. Or, while at the friends house, call your mom and tell her whats going on. Tell her that you dont feel safe at home anymore and you want to live with her. If your brave enough, tell your dad that hes just like his parents were to him, although you might get a beating for that one so you might wanna just keep your mouth shut. Best of luck.

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that goes like this ..

wind up, wind up, wind up ..(?)
hold me closer and closer and hold me tighter and tighter.. cuz i want youu, and i feel you babyy .
something like that ?
thanks : )

Whine up by Kat Deluna.

http://www.metrolyrics.com/whine-up-lyrics-kat-deluna.html

Next time, try typing some of the lyrics you know into google.

Hope I helped.

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i've never really gotten how to scrunch your hair. could someone give me directions? please.

Grab a chunk of hair, squeeze and push the ends up toward your head, causing it to 'crinkle'. Drop that piece of hair and grab another chunk. Repeat the process until you have worked with all of your hair. Go over it again and again until your hair is dry.

Grabbing small chunks of hair and working more slowly will give you more curl.

Larger chunks of hair will give a larger wave effect.

http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art4077.asp


Do this after you take a shower when your hair is damp. Dry it a little before but don't brush it. Use gel or mousse while you scrunch it.

Here are a couple examples:
http://www.walgreens.com/store/product.jsp?CATID=100316&navAction=jump&navCount=0&id=prod3121479
http://www.walgreens.com/store/product.jsp?CATID=100650&navAction=jump&navCount=1&id=prod3121474
http://www.walgreens.com/store/product.jsp?CATID=100650&navAction=jump&navCount=3&id=prod8887

Finish with a strong hairspray.
http://www.walgreens.com/store/product.jsp?CATID=100322&navAction=jump&navCount=4&id=prod2431916

Hope that helped. Good luck!

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Where's the best place to find good ones?

http://www.xanga.com/justbeachyy_pros
http://qm.your-memory.net
http://www.wittyprofiles.com

Those sites are good.
Go to xanga.com and type in aim profiles under blogrings. (as the person below me said)
And try typing aim profiles into google.
Hope that helped.
Good luck.
:)

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alrighttt so i need a new straightener, because mine doesn`t really work any more the coating over the plates like wore down & you can see the metal underneath.. and when i straighten my hair it always has a wave to it because i have curly hair. i need a straightener that will get my hair pin straight. does anyone know any good brands i can buyy. price doesn't really matter.. nothing wayyy over a hundred dollars though...
thankss :)

I have a Tourmaline straightener and it works AMAZING. I got it at Sally's for about $65. Kinda expensive but it's worth it.

It heats up to 450 degrees. The straightener itself is silver and the plates are red. I definately recommend this.

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i have been having a problem when i login into myspace. as soon as i hit the login link i get sent right back to the myspace home page and tells me to login so i do i again. and it happens again. UGH ! i was thinking that maybe it there was something wrong with my computer or maybe myspace`s system. but i really need to get on and check my mail and stuff. someone please OH please help me out here. is it me or the computer ? i don`t know.

The same thing has been happening to me for about a week. It's extremely annoying, I know how you feel. What I've been doing is log in, and when it sends you back to the myspace page type in your myspace's url in the address bar. This is how I've been checking to see if I have new comments/pic comments & stuff. I don't think it's your computer so don't worry about it too much. I'm sure Tom will fix it soon.

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I want to makeout with my boyfriend and he wants to makeout with me. Does Makingout involve the toungue or just your lips

Making out is an opened mouth kiss that involves moving your tongue in and out of your partners mouth as they do the same. You can do it sometimes without but most of the time it involves tongue. Don't worry about doing it right or wrong because it will come natural. The first time is a little akward. Good luck!

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would it be a bad idea to have a bday party at six flags? b/c people might get hurt and itll be my parents fault?

I think that would be fun. Don't have too many people and have your parents ask their friends to help them chaperone and stuff. Just make sure your parents keep an eye on everyone and make rules that they need to follow. Have fun!

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all of my friends are on vacation!! I'm ridiculously bored. Does anyone know anything i could do alone to occupy some time? (as in, outside of my house). I've done a movie and shopping. any other suggestions?

Go to the gym, work out. Treat yourself to a massage, manicure and pedicure. Do things for you. Go out for lunch with your mom. Spend time with family. Buy some ice cream and rent a couple movies. Have a movie night. Call or email friends to see how their vacation is going. Get a tan. Give yourself a makeover. Cut or dye your hair. Wear different shades of makeup. Your friends will definately notice when they come back. Have fun.

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I get really bad razor burn on my legs. I use shaving cream and lotion and everything, but I still get it...

Anyone have any suggestions?

This used to happen to me. Your skin is sensitive. Use MORE soap or shaving cream than you do now. And be gentle, don't press hard with the razor. Use a new and clean razor and gently glide it along your skin the opposite way the hair grows. When you get out of the shower apply lotion and keep your legs moisturized. Aveeno is a good lotion. Hope I helped and good luck.

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I'm 14/F and chinese. I don't have the straight black hair. After showers, I love my hair. It's curly and very pretty. When it dries up...its like a sponge...it's all dried up and huge! Normally I just put it in a ponytail...that's all I can do! I have bangs which are to my chin...Not a lot of bangs but med. amounts of hair...if you understand. When I straighten my hair...it's still kind of big but not as big so I tend to put it in a half pony tail.
My question is...what can I do to my hair?

Scrunch it after you take a shower with gel and/or mousse and finish with hairspray. Then your hair will keep the curly wet look and won't dry and get frizzy. Good luck!

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ok well my period is late, but i havent had sex or nuthin, what can cause late periods????

thx in advance

It's definately normal for your periods to be irregular for the first two years. It's not unusual to skip a month, it's perfectly fine. It happens to everyone. But STRESS causes periods to be late, so don't stress and worry about it! :) You're fine. Hope I helped.

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is there any way to clean under acrylic nails.

I usually use nail clippers.
You know the little stick inside of them?
I'm not really sure what it's called but its like a pointy filer.
Try that. It usually cleans some of the stuff out.
Also, when you wash your hands or when you're in the shower, let the water run on them.
Hope I helped!

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I afraid of my boyfriends friends and he asked me if i wanted to go to a drive through with them and him. which makes me the only girl. and i said no thanks and he told me that we could make out the whole time. i trusted him. so i went and he went to get food and his friends started rapeing me and they told me if i screamed they would sufficate me so i didnt and i regret not screaming but i was so scared. my boyfriend was gone for like a half an hour which i thought was odd. and then they saw him coming so they got off me. i started crying and they made up an excuse why i was crying and he told them lets just go home. so the next day i told him and i couldnt stop crying he told me they didnt rape me and i was exagerating they were probaly just ticking me or osmething. i was going to tell my mom or someone but now im sure as hell nhot going to because if he doesnt believe me they wont either. im really scared and depressed and i cant stop crying what should i do? thanks.

Aw. Dump the guy and stay away from him and his friends. If he doesn't believe you about something like that then he doesn't care for you and trust you like he should. Tell your mom. And if she doesn't believe you ask her why you would make something up like that. If your mother doesn't believe you, tell the police yourself. Definately report it. These boys shouldn't be able to get away with a thing like that. And for the anxiety and depression youre feeling, after you tell your mom what happened ask her if you can see a therapist or psychologist to talk with you. I'm so sorry and I hope you feel better soon. Good luck.

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girls when your making out what are you supposed to do with your hands?
put them around the guys neck i need help im going to makeout tommorow at a party with a really cute guy.

Um I disagree with the person below me.
You can put your hands anywhere.
Around their neck, on their face, or if he has long hair you can run your fingers through it or just kinda play with his hair. It really doesnt matter what you do with your hands as long as both of you are comfortable.

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i want to be really skinny, and nothing will work! so i decided to be anorexic, how do i become anorexic? like, how do i start, i know that ussually it an illness but it just seems easey! please help! :D

that's probably the stupidest thing i've ever heard. don't do it. eat healthily and exercise. go for daily runs or sign up at a local gym. do crunches at home in the morning and at night. eat three healthy meals a day. eat fruits or veggies for snacks. that should work. anorexia is definately not the answer. and it's not "usually" an illness. it IS an illness and it's very hard to cure once you get started. take care of your body, nobody wants to see you in the hospital.

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