We live on a farm in rural Minnesota. We are a 3/4 mile from the county road. We live on a dead end road. There is a zero crime rate in this area. My husband insists on keeping our doors locked at all times. I hate this and feel I am being locked in as there is no way in the world that anyone ever comes to our farm. To me, this is abuse. What do you think? I also say that it is cruel to lock me in when I have arthritic hands and opening the locks could be a problem, especially if there was a fire.
well i understand what you are thinking when you say is this abuse! but i can guarantee you that that is NOT abuse. Your husband loves you he isnt going to try to abuse you by locking the doors. He is doing this becues if you stay at home and something would happen and the doors would be unlocked you would pry get hurt because you probably wouldnt be able to defend yourself with your arthritis. And your husband wouldnt want you to get hurt so he is trying to protect you from any harm!
This is just a sign of love. But if you still feel that it is abuse then you should talk to your husband about keeping the doors unlocked and about your arthritis
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I'm 13 and I way 113 pounds. I am not bib but I am not super skinny. I am very muscular. I run atleast a mile atleast 3 times a week and i do sit ups and other excercises every night but I can't seem to lose weight. Is this a bad weight? and does anyone know any good ways to lose weight 5-10 pounds?
thanx i rate
Hey dont worry about that weight! Believe me i am 13 too and i only weigh 98 pounds and i am trying to GAIN! It is perfectly fine to be that weight! I always get made fun of for being TOO skinny and i mean even if you would lose weight then you would WOULD get made fun of!
lulas&hearts
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there is a song in the movie 'empire records' and it's all about money. they play it in a scene when most of the workers are in the backroom, and renee' zellweger is talking to it. what is that song? thank you! (its not on the soundtrack)
its called Money or Thats what i want
that is what i got off the internet but idk if it is the right song
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Ok well I just started going out with my boyfriend Jared. Litterily today.& i kind
of feel weird like I just like him as a friend
because then again i just met him yesterday. But
when we talk on the it's totally different we talk about everything. But then he tried to come over my house & when i told him he couldn't he totally ignored me & was like w.e im coming.?? But anyway I want to go out with him but i really want to get to know him more & see if hes the one. What should I do or how should i tell him?
xo Erikanne♥
Okay well this problem occurs with many! So dont worry! but when you have a boyfriend it kind of gives you troubles if he isnt the right one. He has to make you happy inside and if he doesnt then he really isnt the right one for you, but sometimes feelings can change. Maybe you should start by like just going out to eat and like talk about everything that goes on and try to make it seem like you are on the phone since you can say like anything to him. You also need to talk to him about what you are feeling because you never know he may be feeling the same way too. Since you guys just met yesterday then you shouldnt rush into it all. I am almost positive that he will probably feel that way too then because you didnt get to really connect. But when it comes to the desicion its all up to you! I want you to make the right choice so think it all over first. This guy, Jared, probably would like to get to know you better to. So before you get too intimate you need to just act like friends or even just become friends! If he was in such a rush to get involved with you then he would probably be okay if you told him that you just wanted to be friends! And if he rushed that should mean that he was eager to get to know you so he should wait for you guys to become GOOD friends before you become a couple. And then when you guys become good friends you should be able to tell if he is the one! So, maybe you should put dating off for a little while and become friends right now!
Katie&hearts Good Luck!
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