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Ok well I just started going out with my boyfriend Jared. Litterily today.& i kind
of feel weird like I just like him as a friend
because then again i just met him yesterday. But
when we talk on the it's totally different we talk about everything. But then he tried to come over my house & when i told him he couldn't he totally ignored me & was like w.e im coming.?? But anyway I want to go out with him but i really want to get to know him more & see if hes the one. What should I do or how should i tell him?
xo Erikanne♥
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Okay well this problem occurs with many! So dont worry! but when you have a boyfriend it kind of gives you troubles if he isnt the right one. He has to make you happy inside and if he doesnt then he really isnt the right one for you, but sometimes feelings can change. Maybe you should start by like just going out to eat and like talk about everything that goes on and try to make it seem like you are on the phone since you can say like anything to him. You also need to talk to him about what you are feeling because you never know he may be feeling the same way too. Since you guys just met yesterday then you shouldnt rush into it all. I am almost positive that he will probably feel that way too then because you didnt get to really connect. But when it comes to the desicion its all up to you! I want you to make the right choice so think it all over first. This guy, Jared, probably would like to get to know you better to. So before you get too intimate you need to just act like friends or even just become friends! If he was in such a rush to get involved with you then he would probably be okay if you told him that you just wanted to be friends! And if he rushed that should mean that he was eager to get to know you so he should wait for you guys to become GOOD friends before you become a couple. And then when you guys become good friends you should be able to tell if he is the one! So, maybe you should put dating off for a little while and become friends right now!
Katie&hearts Good Luck!
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I have done that before; went out with an older man (in my case) that had basically been a setup from a friend and the day after i met him we went out officially. This did not work well for me because like you said it makes things awkward. We only lasted 2 months because it didnt get more comfortable. I think you should talk to him about this and say I want to be more with you, but right now i just need to get to know the real you better, the friend you. Then I can figure out if we are meant to be together or atleast see what youre all about. Hope this helps! Let me know how it works out.
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