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Hello Everyone!! I'm Ashley and I am an 18 year old Senior. I'd be more then happy to answer ANYTHING and EVERYTHING! Giving advice is what I do best, so if your looking for someone to help you out I'm your go-to girl!! : ) I'm planning on going to Ohio University next year to study child psychology and I think this is a great start to my future career!ANYWAYS... enough about me!! Ask away and im more then happy to answer your questions, and by the way i NEVER reject a question! If you can take the time to write to me then i promise i will take the time to give you my best answer!
Oh and I would REALLY appreciate your feedback... whether good or even bad, I really like to know how i'm doing, so I can help better. I've had a lack of feedback lately so if you could help me out for helping you out, I would LOVE it!! 1 or a 5, just be truthful! Thanks so much!!!! And Goodluck!
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im almost 17 and my penis is quite small im worried what my girlfriend will think about it
will it matter that much?
Hey! sorry it took so long to answer your question i've been sick with the flu! But anyhow, there is nothing to worry about. Honestly i have dated guys with not so large penises and it really didn't matter to me because I liked them and thats all that counts. If she was to make a deal about it then she isn't a girl that is worth dating. Anygirl who likes you for who you are isn't going to freak out and be upset about your penis size. Trust me, most girls really could care less weather or not your penis is 7 in or 2! I know it may sound like a stretch but i promise, she won't mind!
There's this guy I like and i thought he liked me too. But then my friend had to go and mess everything up. She ran up to him and started bugging him and told him I was in love with him (which I'm not-I just like him). And now he's acting all weird around me. What should I do?
(I'm 13 and in 7th grade and I'm a female)
PLEASE HELP!!
Aw okay sweetie listen here. 7th grade boys are IMMATURE! Don't let it bother you! Okay well believe me, i have gone through this situation many many times!!! Well, this is the best thing to do, first of all play it off like you have no clue that your friend told him. If you don't act wierd, then chances are he won't either... and back off a little. Don't make it appear that you like him and don't give him any special attention that might clue him in on your little crush! Playing hard to get is ALWAYS the best way to go, trust me ask any guy. As long as you don't totally blow him off like he is nothing, and don't take it to the extreme then you should be fine. Flash him a quick smile from across the room but don't run up to him and hug him or whatnot. And listen, eventually he will get over it, trust me on this. And good news, the older you get the less immature these boys will be! So don't sweat it hun... give it a week or so and it will all be over!! :) I promise!
hey i am having a problem me and my b/f ahve been together like3 years noe and he broke up with me and said he was gay now hes flirting with this other girl all the tim she moved about 2 days ago now he wants to get back together i mean i still really like him i just don't want to get hurt again what should i do?
Okay well i'm a bit confused. First he tells you he is gay, then he starts flirting with another girl... and now he wants to get back with you? I'm not sure who is more confused, me, you, or him. Obviously he doesn't know what he wants, i mean if he thinks he is "gay" then why was he flirting with another girl and why does he want to get back with you? For some reason i think that he used that as an excuse. I'm not sure why he would do that, but with the information you gave me thats the best answer i can give about that. if he was actually gay he wouldn't want to be with you nor would be be flirting with another girl. It sounds to me that maybe you guys just need some time away. He may have used being gay as an excuse for you guys to break up without hurting you... maybe he wanted to get to know this other girl and didn't want you to think this was the reason, so that is why he told you that hes gay. 3 years is a logn time to be together especially when you are still somewhat young. Maybe You both should take some time to date around alittle and then decide weather or not you want to be together. Try meeting new guys, see what else is out there, you may be pleasantly surprised at what you find. Trust me, if you don't date around now, you will regret it later. I'm sure you really like him, and i totally understand that you don't want to get hurt. So take a chance and look around a little, then if your still not satisfied and want to get back with your boyfriend talk to him and tell him your concerns about being hurt then discuss getting back togethr from there. I hope i could help just a little!
Sorry for the length. Yes, I know that weed is bad for you, but I kind of got pressured into smoking a ganga(sp?) today. It was like a crash burn type of thing, I took two hits, but on both of them I messed up, I sucked in, held it, swallowed but only a little swallow, then blew, so I didn't really get anything. I was wondering, if I had gotten something, what are the chances of getting hurt on the 1st try? Can you die from the first try of weed. I think next week my friends wanted me to try a black and mild (the one's that smell really good) I know it's illegal and all that, I just wanted to know the chances of like dying or passing out, or blacking out on the first try, and only one or two hits. I know this kid at our school who had extesy, and about 30 of something, but he was like forced it or something, and he blacked out and when someone else woke up, the kid (Winston) had no pulse and had died from OD. Can you OD off of only no more than 3 hits of weed? What are some consequences besides death, or like consequences and how long it takes for those consequences to come in effect. I know it's a dumb question, and I could probably google it or something, but I'd rather ask it here. Thanks.
Hello There :)! Smoking weed, not necessarily the best thing to do... but lots of people are guilty. Including myself! I'm not necessarily proud of this however! Okay first of all no you can not die from weed and don't let anyone tell you this. You won't black out either but you may fall asleep! Not from overdossing but just because smoking weed is known to make you extremly sleepy! Especailly if your smoking a lot at once. But its not like your just gonna pass out and not know whats going on, you'll just get tired and want to go to bed! And 3 hits of weed will probably just get you really high especially if you've never smoked before. The more you smoke the more your tolerance goes up so it all depends really. It can be addicting however, i told myself that i wouldn't smoke weed anymore at one point, but that has yet to happen, although i wish it would! It's not necessarily the best way to pick up girls either so thats also something to think about. Just be sure to think of the consequences of this before you just do it because it can end up being a habit that you won't be able to get rid of! But If you do decide to smoke just don't drive or do anything stupid like that, it impares your judgement so be careful and don't get caught! But have fun and be safe... it can be an interesting experience! :)
how much does getting your belly button pierced hurt? what do you have to do to take care of it and do you think 13 is too young?
Well it all really depends on your pain tolerance. Mine is minimal i am a BABY when it comes to pain, but it really isn't that horrible. I got over it right away and the only thing that you really have to deal with is soarness for a while. I just recently got the cleavage in my ear pierced and hostely it hurts worse then when i got my belly button pierced lol. And to take care of it the place where you'll get it pierced usually will give you something to clean it with, or a card with instructions as to take care of it. As long as you wash it with soap and water (Dial) daily it should decrease your chaces of infection! And um, yes i do think 13 is a little young, i waited until i was 16 to get mine done. But if its something that you really want then i would say go for it, i wanted mine done for 3 years before i got mine done. But if its something you just want becuse eveyone else has it then don't, its just a fad and it'll be gone eventually. I'm actually thinkin of taking mine out because so many people have them now that its almost becoming the style not to have one. The natural look is in again and being more conservative is becoming the new sexy! I know it may be hard to belive but trust me... it's true!
my boyfriend wants to finger and i was wondering does it hurt ? do you bleed? and do u use two fingers or one? it seems like it would hurt if you used two ? and what should i do about "shaving" down there i don't want to get embarrased but eerytime i shave down there its all stubbly and it get rashy and i get razor bumps! HELP PLEASE!
Hey sweetheart! First and foremost make sure that you are totally okay with your boyfriend fingering you, don't let him pressure you into anything! Second of all yes it may hurt a little, but only because its your first time. But make sure he is aware of this and that he knows to be gentle and it may be more pleasuring then painful if done right! It is possible that some bleeding could occur, but in most cases this shouldn't happen. He could use one finger, two or more, but since its your first time its more likely he will start off with one and work up to two or more fingers as you feel comfortable. If at anytime you think its too much make sure to let him know to stop. As for shaving I reccomend doing it while in a bath and soaking yourself in some warm water for about 5-10 min before you start shaving. Use a clean razor and try going in a downward motion to prevent razor burn. I hope i could help you!