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I hate my family. There all a bunch of #$@%&*$#(@%^(#&^…everytime I get on the computer..they always suspect I’m doing something wrong like..i’m on myspace or aim or e-mail….my dad always think that…everytime I’m on the computer he’s always saying “ o are you on myspace or aim or e-mail…and I get angry b/c I’m not and he always suspects that and it gets on my nerves and when I say “NOOOO!!!” he says “ yea rite your lying to me” then I get mad and say “WHAT THE HECK!!”…Why’d you ask if you don’t believe me!!”…. Then my mom is just a bigger annoying one!! she’s always nagging to me about my grades…. I try my hardest but she never accepts it!!…. She’s always saying “if your trying your hardest…your grades would be higher”…I hate talking about my grades b/c my mom is always like look at everyone else…their grades are high, why can’t you be like them…everytime she says this I feel stupid, and I wanna just ignore her…then she says you never want to talk about this but look at your grades!!!…. Then I’m on aim sometimes and then she comes and beats me because she thinks I’m talking and not doing my hmrk…. When really I’m talking to a friend or my cousin to get help…but she never believes me…then I get beat for noo reason…and everytime she gets mad she always talks about my grades..And says print your grades out and let me see them…then there bad grades then she gets mad at me more…sometimes I wish I can just kill myself (no joke)…but then I say no bc don’t want to die in pain(if there was a easier/ painless way of dieing I would do it)…it’s really getting close to me doing that…I know I won’t ever do it but I really wish I can …sometimes I just tell my mom that maybe I’m stupid and this is the best of my ability but she never believes me….sometimes I wish I can hurt her really badly emotionally w/o hurting myself physically…I just can’t stand her…sometime I wish I can just run away….and we also have this neighbor who is he biggest momma’s boy ever…he listens to his mom and everything he’s like the “perfect son”…he makes my life even worse…b/c my mom will be like “look at his grades and look at yours he has better grades than you…he’s in all honors classes and your not!!…you just in 2 classes”…and this makes me feel even more stupid…and I’m really bad in math and my mom makes me go to this tutoring class for math every Saturday morning…and he’s there…b/c everything I do he has to do!!…and he does his hmrk every single day and asks questions and be a good student… then he makes me look bad….then I don’t get anything we learn in that class so I asks questions and sometimes she’ll get aggravated b/c I’m not getting it..and then we’ll take a test and I’ll maybe miss a lot and she’ll call my mom and be like she doesn’t do my hmrk(maybe b/c I don’t get it!!) and she missed a lot and she never does anything in class(she lies!!)…I try my hardest to pay attetion..It’s not my fault I’m stupid and don’t get it!!…sometimes I hate going home from something just cause it’s soo bad…I get in trouble or yelled at everyday!!…then my sister is the worst of them all!!….she’s sooooo annoying..she’ll always up in my business!!….i’ll be on the computer and she’ll always run out of no where and “check up on me”…then b/c she comes so fast then I get scared I then I think I’m doing something wrong so I have to exit out of everything then she’ll be “OOOO!!!….your on mypace/aim/e-mail!!!..i’m tellling!!.” And she’ll yell it so that my mom or dad can come can come and accuse me and be like “GET OFF THE COMPPUTERR!! YOUR NOT DOJNG YOIUR HMRK!!” Then I can never finish my hrmk…so then I have it sneak on at night just to finish it then my dad’s like…I know you were on the computer on myspace/aim/e-mail last night so you can’t get on today!!…then I can never do my hmrk…then that’s probably another reason that I’m not passing all my classes!!….then sometimes I’ll be on and my sis will come and then be like I no you were on something you were’nt supposed to be on..click on the history!!…then I’m like no I’m tired of you accusing me …then she accuses me for no reason with no proof and yells “OOO!!…mommy/daddy she’s on myspace/aim/e-mail..then my mom/dad comes and says CHECK ON HISTORY!!….then I do and there’s nothing wrong there!!…and my sis walks away saying I no you deleted it…I get sooo mad when they accuse me for no reason!!…I hate it!!….and everytime my sis and me argue my mom comes and break it up and she listens to my sis’s part of the story and not mine…so it’s like I’m the bad guy!!….it’s sooo annoying!!….then of course I get yelled at…..my sis has an attitude and she never gets in trouble she treats our parents with no respect…and she never gets in trouble!!…she scratches me and it leaves marks on my hand and my parents don’t says anything…but if I do something like call her stupid or push her down I get in trouble they always say you should know better she’s younger….I’m like what the heck!!….she’s 11 she’s not little!!!!…. And I’m not “allowed” in her room…if I stand by the doorway she gets mad and says “get out!!” then slams the door in my face….I don’t know what to do with my family..sometimes I wish I can just run away…and everyday when I go to sleep I wonder how it would be like if I was never born…..it would be the “perfect family”…I try to make everyday a good day but it always comes out bad..b/c of something I do…so I just gave up…I know it’s gonna be a bad day so I just go along with it…there’s no point of trying to make it a good day…..also I’m doing really bad in Spanish…and I pay attention in class and do my hmrk and go to tutorials…and I can’t tell anybody b/c if I tell my dad then he’ll tell my mom…and if I tell my mom then she’ll yell at me and I don’t want that anymore….so I have to keep it a secret and pray that I pass at the end…..
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i'm gonna be honest with you. And it may not be the easiest thing to hear but it is the truth. I used to be suicidal. I even started cutting my wrists, it was because all that negative shit my family and people around me used to say used to get me so like why am I here dude and why did you fucking have me if i was an accident and all this other blah blah so on and so on. The fact is that anything in this world could happen to you. There are people who are in some real shit just like you. But they choose to view it differently. They take it as a challenge. You don't have to prove crap to your family. If you know you are doing the work and doing your best don't try to convience them cause what they wanna beleive they are gonna believe and that is the end of it. You should get this book called "The Secret" It will help you handle things with them better. And you know what sometimes take some time and tell yourself in the mirror like away from people or when no one is around or something and just like cry dude! CRY CRY CRY and get all that bad feeling out of your system. Then tell your self all the good things that you are good at and things that you like and know that when you are meant to understand stuff you will. My mom sucked at school you know. I had better grades than her so she didn't hassel me too much about that but she hasseled me about other stuff. You are not stupid, you are smart and only you can make yourself believe that. Do some emotional release exercises, read some books on thinking positive and It will be better before you know it. Peace kid. If you ever want to ask me more questions or just talk about that family stuff or whatever feel free.
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ok i have a lot of discharge, i have not started my period yet either. i live with my dad so its really hard to bring up the subject. i can't have a aunt, a friend, or a cousin take me either. i need pantyliners but i dont know how to get them without my dad knowing. what should i do???
plz help me, A.S.A.P.
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Dude you gotta tell your dad. Listen...You dad had to have had sex to have you. Which means he had a girl friend and she had a period. That means he knows about this stuff. So you gotta tell him that way when you need money to buy it or if something happen he can know what is going on so he can help you. You could have your friends buy some for you in the mean time. Give them the money and stash it in your book bag or something. But I feel like he would understand more than you think. Peace
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Are you allowed to smile with your mouth closed in school pictures?
Because I don't like my teeth/smile
I smile with my lips, yeah? And the person always says smile and I end up looking stupid in pictures. :|
I know this may seem stupid but i would like my mother to actually buy school photos? I've been through the yearbook and half of the people don't even smile.. but they always bother me to.. and they always say it's not good enough.. which makes me try hard to be -> =D
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I say you do a model pose. Pucker those lips or keep em relaxed and think about something really sexy or cool and keep a straight face like you know America's Top Model. Look in the mirror before you do it there and find one you like! Do it chick. There are many ways to love a cat. hahaha
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Does anybody have any home remedies to cure dry skin on the face? (link)
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I would agree with the other people and I would like to add that if it is dry and itchy and flackey you should go to the allergist and make sure it's not exzima or psoriasis . Cause I have eczema that flares up sometimes with alergies. African Shea Butter is good too!
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i know this is long but i need some help... ok so im a 16 year old guy and a soph. in hs..i know this sounds crazy but i think im in love with a girl i only went out with for a month 2 years ago we are great friends and the problem is she has a boyfriend (a senior)...i told her last year how i cared for her again but it was at the wrong time she had a boyfriend and also she didnt want to risk our friendship but i told her i wouldnt let anything ever get between us...we are supposed to hang out saturday but now i have a feeling like we arent going to becuase all week she hasnt answered my texts instant messages or even really say hello in the halls at school..i dont think i did anything wrong i mean i didnt see her all weekend...the only thing i can think of is this weekend while she was at a competition with the school and my cousin called her from my cell and left these messages of a random, song..i told her it wasnt me and she said it was ok...so the thing is ive tried other girls and none are as special as her..shes amazing in every way to me shes the perfect girl..so should i tell her how i feel even though shes with this guy she claims to love or should i hold my feelings in? Thanks so much in advance!!!! (link)
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I totally agree with the previous answer. That is exactly what I would have said. Eloquently put Elena Hilton!
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HEy i JUSS GOTTA NOE iSZ SEX ERyTHiNG PPL SAy iT ISZ ..... iSZ iT WORTH WAiTiN A WHiLE OR WAT CUSZ iM REALLy CURiOUS AND i NOE iM yOUNG BUt i DUNT WANNA BE STUPiD WEN i GET A LiTO OLDER (link)
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I say wait cause most of the times people who don't wait regret their first time cause they hate the dude they did it with. I mean if you are a dude it may be a little different emotionally, but either way I think it is best to wait. Your first time is gonna be really awkward and embarissing and those moments are best to share wtih someone who cares about you and wont make fun of you too much. That's what I did and even though we are not together anymore I do not have any regrets. Peace
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My best friend has guys asking her to hook up all the time, right and left and sometimes i wonder if its because she has big boobs, i mean all they talk about is that she is pretty big, but i feel like being around her makes me realize how much guys dont notice me.
I mean i do have a pretty good amount of friends, but not a lot of guy friends. I really wish that guys would find me attractive, and want to hook up with me and actually have interest in me. But idk how to achieve that. I mean i get told everyday that i look really cute by a lot of girls and that i dress so cute and have like the best style. But i have a feeling it's because im not confident enough with myself and around guys. I'm sorta shy you could say. How can i change that? (link)
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I used to have a lot of self concious issues cause my family used to call me fat a lot and I grew up around people who had different body types than I did. I matured quicker than everyone else and in my enviornment it was not as apealing. But then I went to college and everyone thought I was fine. Honestly it is really about you. It is not about your friend. You frined is probably just as insecure about certain things as you are. You gotta look deep within your self and develop a love of you. A pure unconditional love that no one can take away. Get some books or tapes on self help and emotional freedom. Positive thinking things like that. Make a list of things you love about your self and like and think are cute and why you like them and tell your self in the mirror for 30 days in a row right before you go to bed. It will really help. I did it. Just love your self. You love your self and everyone will want to love you to. That is the realness. Watch Tyra Banks hahaha she'll tell you. Peace and Love.
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ok, so i am pretty much crazy about sex. before i met my boyfriend i was a virgin. except i masterbated a lottt and i used this uh like weird thing. it was a thick plastic tube with glitter inside, basically i used it for a dildo except its probably half the size of a penis (not length, like the size around it) so anyways, sadly i popped my own cherry and i didnt know it. i think i was 14 (im 15 now) when it happend. i remember me bleeding and i was scared and now i know that it was because i popped my cherry. so anywaysss obviously i didnt bleed the first time, or any of the times my boyfriend and i have had sex. so, he thinks he wasnt my first and so he thinks i had sex with a guy before him and im hiding it from him. what i explained earlier is very embarassing to me, i mean wouldnt you be too? so do i just tell him that so he'll believe me that he was my first? he hasnt brought it up in a while but its been bugging me a lottt lately. ill just feel so, embarrassed and gross. so, do i just come out and tell him? (link)
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Well the truth is that you can't make anyone believe you. They either trust you or they don't. The fact is that a lot of people pop their cherries before they have sex riding horses playing around rough etc. I had sex a ton of times and my cherry didn't pop til I let this asshole finger me and he did it way way way too hard. That was after I had sex with like 4 dudes. Not to mention how many times I had it with my ex. So just like teach him what the facts are and you know what ever he gonna believe is what he gonna believe. Stay true to your self. Peace.
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Everybody talks about this amazing tea tree oil face stuff from The Body Shop. Im looking on their website right now, but Im not sure which one it is.
Is it this stuff?
http://www.thebodyshop.com/bodyshop/browse/product_detail.jsp?productId=prod170248&categoryId=cat30012
I also have combination skin.
Like..my skin is dry. and when I put moisturizer on, it gets oily. So will this be mild enough so that it wont strip the hydration out of my skin?
or is it this?
http://www.thebodyshop.com/bodyshop/browse/product_detail.jsp?productId=prod170252&categoryId=cat30012
which would be better for me?
i have acne also.
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I am gonna keep it real with you. If you have acne and you are trying to get rid of it. No matter what any one says anything that is trying to exit the body is doing that cause there is something in the body that is trying to come out. So one of the best things to do is to take this vitamin called Shark Cartilage. You can get it at the Vitamin Shoppe or GNC. Talk to your doctor and everything first but I know a few people who had really bad acne and used it and it cleared their whole face and body up. It's healthy and good for a lot of other stuff so check it out. Peace.
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I have never had sex, and I have a boyfriend. I want to know exactly what happens before, during and after sex. Or approximately what happens. It is a very curious matter to me, and I sort of want to find out from experienced others instead of trying to find out for myself. lol. Thanks for your time.
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ok. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 20 because I wanted to do it with the right guy so you are right to do what you are doing. Kudos to you. Everybodies experience is different. You gotta make sure you have: KY Jelly you can get it at the drug store. FRESH CONDOMS! Trogans or Life Styles are awesome! Make sure you go with the guy cause guys have different size penises. The condom gotta fit. Buy like 2 small packs of 2 sizes just in case it is too big or too small. DO NOT USE VASALINE! It will break the condom. USE KY JELLY! Make sure if you are gonna have oral sex you get condoms for that. Go the the sex store if you are old enough. ok then hahaha you are gonna kiss and everything, make sure he do a lot of 4 play so you can get wet. That will be a bit of a shock if you don't masturbate a lot but it is good they like it. Then he might finger you to get you a little wetter. You gotta be wet so it will go in. Then he is gonna get on top of you if that's what you two want. Then have him stick it in slowly, a little bit at a time. It may hurt or it may not depending on your body. You may bleed or you may not but if he is gentil enough you shouldn't bleed. If it hurts stop. A good dude will take as much time as you like. Then he is gonna push it in and out and kiss you and you are gonna hold him and make sure if you like it you make noise cause they like that. The most important thing is: TO BE HONEST AND COMMUNICATE! The more you are honest and communicate the better your sex life will be. And hey! Porno's are good advisors. They got nice ones for couples. Have fun. Be safe.
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I really want to be a model. a lot of people tell me that id be a good one. the problem is, i'm too short. i'm not a short person, and i have really long legs. but right now, i'm only 5 foot four and a half. i did a thing that predicts your height when your older and it said i'd be 5'5.5. thats not good enough. does anyone know if that should be around right?
my height: 5'4.5
my weight: 86 lbs.
my fathers height: 6 ft
my mothers height: 5'4
if anyone knows if ill be tall enough PLEASEEE let me know! :) (link)
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Well I am an actress. I know that you have to be at least 5'9" to be a high fashion model. But being short doesn't mean that you can't model. You should look into "Print Modeling". It is for regular fashion. High fashion requires models to be a certain height and body type to fit the clothes for the run way which may only be a few outfits for the runway show. They gotta be able to fill in for each other and just use the one manikin. So Do this: Get Backstage (it's a newspaper they have it at news stands it's like $3.00) or get The Ross Reports (That one is more like a little brochure and it's like$7 but it's worth it) It's got lists of all the agents. Do it chick! you can! Just be wise, get advice from good people. Have faith and make moves. My friends and I are doing it. Peace and Blessings.
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