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would this be smart?
i know this is long but i need some help... ok so im a 16 year old guy and a soph. in hs..i know this sounds crazy but i think im in love with a girl i only went out with for a month 2 years ago we are great friends and the problem is she has a boyfriend (a senior)...i told her last year how i cared for her again but it was at the wrong time she had a boyfriend and also she didnt want to risk our friendship but i told her i wouldnt let anything ever get between us...we are supposed to hang out saturday but now i have a feeling like we arent going to becuase all week she hasnt answered my texts instant messages or even really say hello in the halls at school..i dont think i did anything wrong i mean i didnt see her all weekend...the only thing i can think of is this weekend while she was at a competition with the school and my cousin called her from my cell and left these messages of a random, song..i told her it wasnt me and she said it was ok...so the thing is ive tried other girls and none are as special as her..shes amazing in every way to me shes the perfect girl..so should i tell her how i feel even though shes with this guy she claims to love or should i hold my feelings in? Thanks so much in advance!!!!
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I totally agree with the previous answer. That is exactly what I would have said. Eloquently put Elena Hilton!
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That's a tough one. I would tell her(in person!) and say that you realize this isn't the best timing, but you want to get your feelings out there. I'd give her space since she has been avoiding you. Tell her that you love being friends so much, that you think you could be more. Tell her what you like about her and why you think she could be the love of your life, "the one", your soulmate-whatever you want to call it. Tell her you respect whatever she wants to do with that info and would love to continue being friends. Check in with her about 2-3 days after so she doesn't feel neglected and she knows your committed. Don't leave her hanging with all those emotions. Be respectful if she doesn't choose you, and still make an effort to be friends. Be prepared for her descision. I know I would want to know-just wait a week or two(or until she stops avoiding) so she doesn't feel awkward. She knows you like her,so tell her.
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