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Dear Alicia,
Hello. I'm 16 and a female. I was wondering if you could help me out...see, I'm dating this guy who I dated several times, but him and I have just grown so far apart from the first time. He thinks we are perfect together but, I don't know if I feel the same. We have fun together, but he always wants to be together, but like you, I love going out and having fun and not worrying about anything. I feel like I'm treating him bad, but, if I break up with him I won't only be losing him as boyfriend, I'll also be losing him as a great friend. I hope you can help me out...Thanks a bunch-*Confused* (link)
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If you dont feel like it's right you shouldn't be living a lie because it will only make him mad. Tell him you seriously want to be friends, that he is one of your best friends and you dont want to hurt him.
(and sorry im not alicia. har)
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could you give us the link to your gallery?? (link)
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It'll be up soon, the link will be on here.
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when are you going to open up your gallery? (link)
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when im done ©opyrighting my pictures and making a new stylesheet for the gallery and a new main photo..what should the main photo be?
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is it just me, or is everyone getting really annoyed with people asking alicia questions. please someone ask a question or put a comment that doesn't involve 'alicia you're so pretty' or 'i want to be just like you'. it's soooo annoying me now, please if you want to ask her questions use email, don't clutter up the site's space with this rubbish!
P.S if you're alicia, please answer because i would like to know what you think of all this. thanx. (link)
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maybe they should make a very own special topic for alicia.
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since your column is probably the only one i dont get blind off of. (all the other girls are so bright. eww.)
i think my boyfriend of 1 year is cheating on me, but i dont want to say anything because i dont know all the facts. do you have any ideas of how i could really find out if he is?? (link)
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well first of all what makes you think hes cheating on you? maybe if you could IM me you could tell me more :] and if you really think he is try asking him if hes free on _____ day and he says no, when you suggest a few things. If he says things like "i cant im with family" etc, etc, etc. then he might be just don't jump up and tell him you know hes cheating on you..because you really don't know :/
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okay last year my dad got married to this girl and was all totally stressing. Today their still married and hes still totally stressing all the time. She freaks out at him over nothing and thats wierd cause' she only talks when shes mad at people. One time my dad paid for one semester of my brothers college and she flipped and carved a.s.s. into the side of his car. She has 3 kids ages 2,4,and 6 and my dad is always watching them while she does 'other things' which none of us know what they are... On the way to my dads wedding my brother and I had to seperate them bcuz they were in a huge fight and the day after their wedding she got mad at me for forgetting to tell her there was a message on the anwsering machine and she called my own mom a really bad word that i wont put on here.. Anyone know why my dad isnt like trying to fix this or something? Im sure my dad knows how much this sucks.. What can I do??
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If you aren't too scared by your step mother, you should sit her down and tell her to cool it because shes making your family very unhappy, if she doesn't loosen up talk to your dad and tell him he shouldn't take it and that there should be decision of divorce very soon because he doesn't need that stress at all.
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what kinda music do you think expresses you the most? (link)
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well i listen to mostly punk rock & alt. rock butreally i dont like sorting myself into one group so i guess i like all music..but rap and hip hop isnt my thing.
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well since youre the highest rated columnist right now i'll ask you, and the fact youre in college, right?? okay well im 16 but im graduating next year so im thinking about majors and everything, im into writing and drawing and designing rooms and all that, what do you suggest i should study and what school..what do you do and where do you go? (link)
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i go to NCSU and i study Design(clothing design) you should do journalism and interior design and i dont know about colleges you would have to decided just take a look and make a portfolio of your drawings of rooms and everything and writings. hope that helps!
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i know you know rhe best drinks otu there whats your favourite and hwo do you make it? (link)
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Morgan's Special:
This is the best drink of all time. My ultimate favorite.
INGREDIENTS: Captain Morgan's Spiced Rum. (Half gallon is recommended 'cause you'll LOVE this mix) & O.J. / Grenadine if you have a sweet tooth.
DIRECTIONS: 8 ounce glass w/ crushed ice(best) or reg. ice + 2 shots of CAP (more if you dare) + fill the rest of the glass with OJ + (optional) shot of grenadine. I like alot of grenadine :) major sweettooth. You could also take the contents of the glass & toss it in a blender, tastes like orange sherbet!
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i'm a virgin, i dont know if you are or if you arent but ive been with this guy for 5 years and im ready but i want to know if it hurts? could you also tell me some facts you know about sexual intercourse? i am 18 also by the way. thanks for your help =) (link)
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it might hurt, i noticed girls who have been using tampons for more then 1 year it doesnt seem to hurt them as girls who refuse to use tampons so that kinda helps right? here are some facts i know of:
there is a good chance of getting hiv/aids because the std is smaller then the condom holes so it can actually go throught he condom, and you can be infected. so check if you or your guy are okay :]
and try trogan. (duh)
the rest is up to you.
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This summer is coming up, I maybe see my cusin well I love her so much she my best cusin and freind. well thing is that she can be on wild side and she drop out school get a job.. she likes punk music and stuff. I more of other side not punky and stuff like her. she hases these bypooler and deppression and she shave her head once. I want be ther for her and be her best friend agin like have good time and louhts but it hard becouse things inside me hurts what she doing to her self and I would talk to her but it wouldn't help.. I dont want judge my own cousin and I dont judge I just feel un combale things i dont know what to do.. (link)
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Punk music isnt bad at all, i listen to punk as a matter of fact but anyway, If talking doesnt work, do something. Make a big difference to make her see, she needs to realize things around her are changing, show her shes not the only one going through these things. Make her understand things like being wild when youre not doesnt change anything but your friends and attitude towards things..tell her you miss her alot and you dont like seeing her like it and it hurts so much.
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This mad sound stupid, I looking up yoga and all this. I relize that breathing lot helps ur mind or something..
wel thing is all my life I kinda talk to my self in my mind and this maybe sound silly sometims I'm not with my friends and I kinda pretend there in my mind talking to me. I know sound childest talking my self. I don't do it in pulublic. well in my mind I do somtimes. well my qestion is it okay do that unless don't controll and make thing in mind say thing in real life. if this dont make since it ok dont answer and yelling bout my grammer.. I sorry I am deaf and I have slow writing I do want wirt good. I like helping others and stuff. well thanks any way. thing is right now I typing this I hear my self in my mind saying it.. well I do have good memory..
Pls dont judge my grammer just keep reading it and maybe u get it try put ur self in my shoe just turn around or something.. u need learn becouse there maybe lot people someday writ asl not english.. thanks
u. this intressing how many of u met deaf people?
Manda (link)
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I actually do that alot, when i go to sleep, i tend to think about friends, family, etc. I think to myself alot about what really bothers me about somebody or what i don't understand..it helps me know about myself alot better. My aunt is deaf, and she is the sweetest person ever also. :]
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i have liked this guy(lets call him *B*) for about 8 months. he has changed my life completely around. i like him so much, i can talk to him about anything. and he makes me feel like a princess. he is like the ideal guy. except he has changed me and not for the best. before i used to be the sweetest girl who wouldn't make-out with guys a lot. but now all my friends are like to me "god you spend all your time with him now" and their all like "its not my fault.. cuz *B* is kinda controling" Now last nite my bestfriend told me that eventually i am gonna have to choose between haveing *ALL* my good friends or the GUY!.. but i like him soo much!!!!What should i do?? PLEASE HELP ME!
--troubled (link)
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Troubled,
lets see, first things first, talk to *B* about him controlling too much, tell him you really like him but it's effecting everything in your life and you do NOT need that right now, or any time in your lifetime. Tell your friends you talked to him, tell them your sorry but youve fallen head over heels for this kid and they need to be supportive of you and no be so angry at you for being a normal girl. If that doesn't work out, i would say pick your friends, if that guy changes you NOT for the better..you dont need that at all.
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do you have any pets? i want a kitty and i know you have some, any preticual(uh sorry spelling) cat you think is best? (link)
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tabbies. that'll be all. :P.
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can you stand all those people talking about alicia when you and other columnists are actually the best? and from your picture you look really pretty. (link)
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NEVER, will i talk crap about somebody i dont know. Yes people give Alicia alot of attention, maybe its because she gives good advice? if you don't think so, thats your opinion..i really don't mind. Each columnist has their own special attraction. Thanks also, i like that picture as well :].
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YOU ARE RAD! whats your real name? (link)
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this isnt exactly what this site is for, but thanks..and my name is not to be told(just kidding, you can im me and see for yourself. but oh wait you dont know my sn..maybe later!) , i know i said contact me by asking me a question but..you also need to ask a meaningful question hun!
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in 8th grad(in 9th now) my friend told me i was a bad case, and social disater..it really hurt, she said i lied too much when i wasnt even lying! she ended the friendship, i said it was okay but i couldnt get her off my mind we went to different highschools, etc. i saw her on friday at the mall she came up to me and said she missed me alot sadly..i cried..because i hated the fact she ended it and now misses it what should i dooo? i think i want this friendship back.. (link)
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Tell her she hurt you bad, and you dont think you could forgive her..tell her to share to you how much she missed you(no not in money or gifts) spend more time together, since you are in different highschools, go to the mall and shop or just talk, see a movie. Just tell her you just don't know yet but you want to find out.
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my ex boyfriend, cheated on me..its been a year now and he wants me to forgive him hes leaving notes on my locker, telling me he misses me..i feel like i should forgive him but what do you think first? (link)
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Oh boy, i don't think you should do it, take him back that is. First be friends, see if he is really trustworthy enough to get a chance. If not, still be friends..don't mess him up totally.
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My friend started dating my crush and i dont know how to tell her i've liked him for like 3 years. what do i do? (link)
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Be blunt(straight out if you dont know) but tel her youre not doing it to mess up their relationship but you feel sucky when you see them together(i know you do, dont lie)
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OK, this is THE MOST EMBARRASSING QUESTION I HAVE EVER ASKED on Advicenators, but I need to ask it, sooooo... here goes...
I'm 14 and my breasts aren't really small, but they're pointy! It's so embarassing - even when I wear bras they still stick out all pointy, and I wondered if it was normal? Please help!! (link)
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Me being 18..i can't say much, but if it bothers you that much give a thinly padded bra so no one can see the pointyness(heh)
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