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Okay...i went out with this guy (lets call him fred)we went out for about 3 months.. he broke up with me with the excuse "i deont want a girlfriend" but i kept in touch with him i called him every night. he ended up dating one of my best friends and he told me he was still interested in me but he dont want a girlfriend we still go on "dates" but im not interested in just being friends. im in love head over heels with this guy. hes all i ever talk about and hes the only guy im interested in i still cry over him about every night and i have dreams about him ALL the time! I wanna be dating people but when i try to it makes him sooo mad so i stop but it seems that im only there for him to fall back on like he uses me..what should i do i dont wanna keep waiting on him and i dont wanna b used but im sooo in love with him and ive tried letting go of him but i cant help myself hes just so amazing. should i keep waiting untill he wants a g/f or should i move on? PLEASE HELP! (link)
it sounds like freds parents dont want him to have a girlfreind.


There is a guy that I like and I’ve never kissed before and I was thinking of going for a French kiss if I get to kiss him, but then I though about it and I started wondering if it’s a turn off for guys if you French kiss them on the first kiss. Can you, please, give me your opinion? And my second question is, do guys judge you on the way you kiss, is it very important to them if you are a good kisser or not? (link)
(this might only be for 13 yr old boys, im not sure.) my first kiss, this year, was regular. i wanted to take a risk, so i relaxed my lips to see what he would do. i saw the suprised expresion on his face, but he didn't go for the french. he was too shy. it took a little more than a month to work up to a french. you shpuld give this guy time. if the guy likes you as a really close freind, than they dont care if you are a good kisser. they will just let you practice on them.
-xoxo olga
-hope i helped


I am going to the beach in 2 weeks. Its about an 8 1/2- 9 hour drive which means we will get there about 10 1/2 - 11 hours after we leave (were leaving at 6 in the morning) What are some fun games or things to do in a car? Acualy a Mini Van. My two sister and going to be in the backa nd my parents in the fornt and i have both middle seats to my self. So What are some intersting things to do? I am going to write notes to my boyfriend and i am going to lissen to music and maybe write poems. I may buy a magazine too. What are someother fun things to do in the long car trip?

Thanks,
Lotz of Love
&Hearts; Meg &Hearts;
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you could play sweet and sour
do mini punch buggie
wave at random people and see their responses
call your freinds/bf
listen to z100
use a laptop
count passing cars
annoying yr sisters is allways fun
-hope i helped


i owe my mom a LOT of money. does anyone have any GOOD ideas on how to get some extra money. and please dont say stuff like walking dogs and cheap stuff like that. *i rate high*
love,
~need money~ (link)
if you are artistic, you might set up a facefainting booth, like $5 a face. you also can have a garage sale for your old stuff.
-hope i helped


hey everyone....my birthday is coming up and i don't know what i want to do for a birthday party. Anyone have any ideas? Try not to say anything TOO expensive....but don't just say "have a party at your house" .... like be specific... please help! (link)
you could have it at a amusment park, a fancy hotel with a pool, or a restarant...


Hey there! Im 13 and i kno i have a HUGE weight problem and i admit it!!! I live in such a small town with nothing to do!!! I skate to skool and bak (And becuz my house is out of my skool boundarie it is pretty far, i skate pretty far) but im still over weight and i try to watch what i eat and only drink diet soda and water but i sit on the computer alot and i need help!!!
Thanx in advance!!! (link)
if you go to MyPyramid.com and type in yr age and weight and weight you want to be, it will give you a menu of what you should eat each day.
-hope i helped


Does anybody know if the movie 'Robots' Is a kids movie? like 4 and 8 year old movie? (link)
It is a kids movie, but i still liked it...


what are some cute baby girl names? (link)
these are some names that i like:
olga --> my name...so random
lillian --> my baby sisters name
lily
cori
paige
jamie
layla
christie
ariel
ally
samantha
hope
melody
roxanne
angela
angie
cloe
julie
kristine
laura
katie
fiona
harmony
alexa
alexis
carolina
sara
tiffany
marilin
halley
lola
monica
stephanie
these are some cute names which i personally liked. hope i helped! o_O


HOw long it takes girls to squirt?
coz it only takes me 5 minutes to cum and is it too fast? (link)
depends on how much u drink, and how long you held it in for.....um did u actually time urself?


Anyone know how to french kiss? Im a fourteen year old girl whos frenching someone for the first time today please help!!!I rate high :c) (link)
start the kiss regular, and relax your lips, until they are slightly open. your boyfreind will go in. do not stick your entire tongue in, cuz it will get tired after a while. use the tip, and explore his mouth, or trace hearts on his tounge. u could also nibble on his blottom lip a little. -good luck


I need someone who is a vet/and or can help me.
I have 3 sick kittens coming to my house that need treatment for these problems -
Upper respitory infection
fleas *
eye infection *
possible earmites

My mother can treat ones with * next to them since she is a vet tec. No animal hospitals are open at this time and the SPCA wont take them in since they are too much to handle/care for. I dont need sarcastic remarks this seoncd and if your any help at all, I will give you a 5. Thank you, meg (link)
Earmites:

Flea control products that kill adult fleas will kill mites.

i found a site about it:
http://www.vetinfo.com/cearmites.html

Upper Respitory Infection 'cat flu':

there is no treatment.

Unfortunately there are currently no drugs available to kill these viruses so treatment is aimed at supporting the cat through its illness. This treatment includes antibiotics, to treat any secondary bacterial infections as these can be life-threatening, and drugs to help loosen the nasal discharge and make breathing less of a struggle. As cats with 'flue are often reluctant to eat, they may need to be tempted by offering gently warmed, smelly and palatable food. Syringe feeding of liquid food can be tried if necessary, although caution is advised.

-i hopi i helped.
-olga


how do i get rid of stress. like a stress reliever. if it matters it is over boy troubles. Thx!!!! plz answer. (link)
have a pillow fight,
play a sport,
scream into yr pillow,
take a bubblebath,
annoy yr bother (if u have 1),
yell about it w/ yr freinds,
-hope i helped


Can you be in love with someone, and not be physically attracted to them? (link)
yeah....
horomones can force anything on you. love is a very complex issue.
-hope i helped


How do I ask a guy for his number (and/or give him my number) without it sounding like I like him? I want it to sound like I want his number just cuz hes my friend. (But I really do like him.) Sorry if that was confusing! :) (link)
buy a notebook for people to sighn personel info on. ask all yr freinds to sighn it as well as him. -hope i helped


i have this reallllly good guy friend and he likes me a lot. i feel bad denying him everytime he asks me to go on a date or anything but it just would feel wierd for me. he says im leading him on because i flirt too much but thats the way i am with all guys. i kinda cant help it. do i give him a chance or stick with the no? how can i stop flirting with him when i dont want him? (link)
go out w/ him, but as freinds. see how it goes.


I need web sites names of places you can create your own web page. Plz. give me some feedback thanks!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
xanga.com its free and you can make it look like anything you want.
myspace.com only if u are 16 or older


Can someone tell me a site that has music codes and can be used for myspace? (link)
starlightmks.com has everything for your website.


I don't have a lot of friends so I don't think I should have a DJ party for my Bat Mitzvah. My parents really want my day to be special and don't care about how expensive it is (as long as it's not outrageous). I was thinking of having a nice dinner thing at A hotel for like 15 friends and we can rent a suite and use the pool. Does anyone have any other unique ideas for around 15-20 people that will be special!!

THanks in advance! (link)
i think your idea is great, and i have annover suggestion. for my last b-day, i grabbed a bunch of freinds(21), went windowshopping, walking on broadawy...ect. we had ice cream for dinner. the best part was the long car ride..we had sooo many things to talk about and do, u cannot beleive...:) i think your idea is really great. happy early bat mitzvah!
-hope i helped
-olga


Cn anyone help me by giving any websites that have layouts I could use for advicenator? And where exactly do you put the codes?.. if there are any. Thanks (link)
starlightmks.com has really good backgrounds, as well as extras like music and cursers!


When I was little I loved reading. Now, because all my friends read stuff that doesn't interest me, all I want to do when I pick up a book is finish it. I hate it. I know I should be reading more to be educated and all, I just don't know exactly what to read.

My friend and I have come to the conclusion that I like Steinbeck/Orwell kind of stuff, not fiction or fantasy, but told in a surrealistic way. I also like government conspiracies, and philosophy. My parents won't let me even read the book A Clockwork Orange..ugh..so my question is, what are some really good books/authors I might enjoy to expand my brainn? (link)
the clan of the cave bear
ttyl
the supernbaturalists
the golden compass
running out of time
the subtle knife
amoung the hidden
turnabout
a wrinkle in time
just ella
...hope i helped
...olga




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